Life is hard and painful and lonely. And for us Net-citizens, who have enough skills and disposable income not to worry about how we are going to have the food needed carry on existing, we have the burden of worrying what that existence will be.
Now many lucky souls, and I'm one them (I am only a recreational BDSMer) have found happiness and fulfilment in our lives, loves and friendships. But many less jolly people than me don't, and their sexual lives follow the patterns of pain and humiliation that mirror there Real Lives.
Fun?
But hurting or humiliating people can be fun, and erotic. I have been submissive and had my body explored as a pincushion. It hurt like fuck, but it was interesting. More intellectually satisfying, I've dominated a man, attempting to structure a set of practices, punishments and devotions that sexualised a therapeutic regime. One in which pain was used to guide towards self-improvement and self-awareness, and accepted as loving act. Well, that and a bit of a power-trip when someone denies there orgasm for you, after laying face down for an hour chanting you name and drinking there urine in celebration of you.
Stories with hurting and
humiliating people
Puto Diary: Intiial Setup