Slut Psychology

There's more than one type of slut. Learning to recognize the difference will help in knowing which buttons to push.

Fun With Safewords

Half the fun of playing can be found in thinking up creative games to invent safewords for your partners. This is the story of how I came to discover a safeword that was just right for me.

Who Am I?

I've written this little autobiography in one form or another quite a few times over the past couple of years. Each time I write it I'm attempting to clarify my own motivations for the things I do just as much for me as for you, the reader. You'll find variations and embellishments of this same story over and over in my stories elsewhere on this site. It should be considered as required reading for anybody wanting to email me.

A Different Approach To BDSM Limits Checklists

The standard form of a BDSM Checklist is quite dry and academic. It also tends to be filled with activities that fall right outside the bounds of may people. In the following essay I'd like to share a variation of an old concept and how it was adapted for me.

In nineteenth century England there was a law called the rule of thumb . It proclaimed a man was not allowed to beat his wife with anything thicker than his thumb.