PEACHES' SAY

October 10, 2003

THE NATURE OF PERVERSITY


When the idea of this column was first broached someone told me there was a question as to whether or not I was perverse enough to handle such an assignment. Since this question was posed in the chat room not long after I participated in a role play as my nine year old self, it started me to thinking. How perverse do you have to be? Who decides what is perverse?
As with all things there must be a standard to be perverted or deviated from. This led to my trying to think of all the words used to describe "perverts" and "perversions". This was the list I came up with: perverse, pervert, deviant, atypical, aberrant, corrupt, and depraved. I pulled out my trusty dictionary to look up the definitions of these words. The one thing they all have in common is that the behavior is considered to be not normal, not right, not moral, not reasonable, or not accepted.
Now this begs the question: Who gets to decide what is normal, right, moral, reasonable, or accepted? In my mind all of these things differ from individual to individual. What is normal for one may not be normal for another. The same applies to right, moral, reasonable or accepted. It all depends on an individual's choices, lifestyle and code of ethics. That being said, I thought I would just tell you what it means to me.
For me it is normal to fantasize about making love to my father, though I never did. It is acceptable that some men are bi-sexual. For me it is not only acceptable but highly desirable. My only request is that they allow me to play with them. It is normal to want to have sex with two, three, or more men at the same time. It is reasonable that a man will allow me to tie him to the bed and have my way with him. It is right that he would not object to the application of my strap-on.
Is this moral or usual? As long as my partners and I are all consenting, what's the problem.
Oh yeah, I also looked up slut. The definitions were lewd woman, prostitute, saucy girl, and female dog. Well let's face it, I can be a bitch when the situation requires it. But maybe I should charge for my services, hummmm?
Does this make me a pervert, a slut, or just a normal person? I leave that for you to decide.

Peaches