I just got involved with this wonderful woman... She loves sex, the problem is she does not like to be eaten or petted or fingerfucked. She says it grosses her out. I really enjoy eating pussy and would love to do that for her, but she won't let me. Part of me thinks that if I take the right approach, she will find she enjoys it and then want it all the time, but I do not want to risk losing her by taking the wrong approach.

Steve, 34 Male

Hi Steve, all I can really say is that all women are different. If she doesn't like oral sex then she doesn't like it, and that's that! I can't really give you any advice that won't damage your relationship.

I suggest you don't pressure her, and maybe try to introduce her to the pleasures of oral sex slowly, and seductively, if you can!

Doctor Dan