ASK DAN & LAURA

QUESTION 32

Hi Doctor Dan and Laura, I'm hoping Laura can help me being a girl like me. I have these intense fantasies about getting pregnant, getting knocked up when I fuck. I know I could never be a good mother and I don't REALLY want kids, but the fantasy is so overpowering! I love feeling cum in my
pussy too, in fact I don't let my guys cum anywhere else. I'm on the pill, but I wanted to know if these kind of fantasies are common, or am I insane? Some guys I've fucked have been freaked out when I play fantasy with them, telling them to cum in me and knock me up.

Jacinta, 21 F

LAURA SAYS...

Let's see, well these fantasies are not uncommon. I know that many guys do have these fantasies, and there should be no reason why you can't have this as a healthy fantasy. Even though you are on the pill, you need to realise that you are taking a chance every time you let a guy cum in you. Personally, I don't have these kinds of fantasies. I don't mind it and will participate if the guy i'm "with" considers this a turn on, but I DO see the appeal of it and everything and see no problem with it. Maybe you should tell your guys beforehand that you have this fantasy so they don't freak and possibly NOT cum at all, which would be a bad thing now, wouldn't it. So, fear not, there's nothing wrong with you as you said that it is a stict fantasy only. Just give the guys a little warning and BE CAREFUL!!! Remember, you are taking a risk. The only problem I would have is if you are having sex with several partners as opposed to a single one - the risks for other dangers are increased dramatically. And one more thing, I don't believe that you seriously think you wouldn't make a good mother - you're young (I'm but one year older) and still have plenty of time until you will want children (eventually) and I'm sure you'll be a great mother - but all that's on a side note to your question. Hehe.

DAN SAYS...

Hi Jacinta! What makes you think you'd be a bad mother? I'm sure it's not true. And rest assured many girls and women fantasise about being impregnated when they're being fucked, just like a lot of guys fantasise about impregnating girls. There's nothing wrong with this fantasy, so long as you use protection and let the guy know before you start screaming out 'knock me up baby!' - that way he's less likely to freak out. Remember, no method of birth control is 100% foolproof, so one day this could become reality for you, which you need to be prepared for.