I enjoy my sex toy (a vibrator).I was wondering, do you think that my partner will to? does that arouse guys? I was thinking of having a very erotic night w/ my lover, what exactly are edible underwear like? are they uncomfortable or take awhile to eat? i dont really know too much about them but i thought that would be a lovely thing.And i have never given a blow job to him but i was wondering id you think puting a fruit roll up on his penis would be ok. Because i have heard putting sugars on the vagina leads to a yeast
infection...but if it is ok do you believe this would be pleasureful?I also am thinking he might not wanna give me a blow job because he wouldnt like the taste of my vagina or "cum".what are somethings i could do to resolve that? put flavored lube all over my vagina? of course ill have to shave there too...very not funn..but i am probably boring you so please answer my questions. thank you

Lindsey, Female

Hi Lindsey. Sounds like you are very sexually adventurous! And there's nothing wrong with that. To answer your queries:-

* It's very likely that your partner will enjoy your vibrator too - anal stimulation is very intense for males because it stimulates the prostate gland which can lead to very intense orgasms. Ask him about it - the worst he can do is say no.

* Edible underwear is something I've never tried either. Perhaps some other readers can give advice here?

* Putting a fruit rollup on a mans penis should not cause any problems. The vagina is much more sensitive than the penis in terms of dermatology and infections, and unless he has a serious skin allergy there is no harm in rolling a rollup on his rod. It can be fun, just be careful you don't bite it off!

* In regard to him giving you oral sex, this is something you need to discuss with your lover. A lot of men are sceptical about it, and yes you do need to make sure you are clean and fresh before he does it. Your natural body fluid and odors are generally arousing to males, so don't go overboard trying to make your vagina squeaky clean. And DON'T use deodorant on your vagina, it will cause you irritation, and tastes absolutely ghastly.

* Shaving your pubic hair can be fun, but the decision should be yours, as you will be the one dealing with the prickly regrowth of it. Pubic hair shouldn't detract a man from wanting to perform oral sex on you, but then again everyone is different.

I think you need to have a bit of a talk with your man and find out what he's willing to try. You may be surprised!

Love Doctor Dan