ASK DAN & LAURA

QUESTION 25

H i! Ummm, can you cum if you still have your cherry?

Anonymous, 19 F

LAURA SAYS...

Honey, of course you can still cum if you have your cherry. I'm sure Dan will give his usual boring lecture (just kidding), but there should be no reason at all why you should not be able to cum. To cum, you need to have enough stimulation and there is enough stimulation possible without having to have actual penetration. Now, if at 19, you haven't cum yet, I think you should start making up for lost time - haven't you ever touched yourself as a kid? Trust me, you can cum all you want with your cherry intact (and if you can't, ask a doctor) and as I said, go out and make up for lost time (and if you don't know how, I'm sure we can help guide you through that as well, lol)

DAN SAYS...

There is no reason why you shouldn't be able to orgasm if your hymen is intact. The hymen has no bearing on sexual arousal. At age 19 are you sure you have never reached a climax? Try rubbing your clit girl, or better still, get a partner to do it for you! Just do it safely ok.

(By the way Laura, my 'lectures' are not boring!)