ASK DOCTOR DAN

QUESTION 12

I am 55 and have been going to Thailand and Cambodia for about 10 years. Always looking for a young, cute, petite girls. Of course I found many that qualified there. The last 3-4 years I have become interested in 'ladyboys'. I took a couple home for a BJ, had them leave their dress on. They really give a good BJ and I pick ones who have great tits. Two years ago I started lifting their dress up and sucking their cocks, swallowing all they had. I had been reading asstr stories for years, and the girls always love to swallow cum. I tried it and find I like to swallow as well. Now when I jerk off, I fantasize I am a young girl who has to suck and fuck dozen of men. Much like the asstr story, "Vicky, Lessons of Life."
My question is this; What the hell happened? I went from a 'normal' male who looked for big titted young girls, to now looking for ladyboys
with big tits and a big cock. I had no interest in men, but I do like a lady with a nice cock. I have never cum with a partner, female or ladyboy.
I can cum thru masturbation, but now I put myself in the female role. I fantasize I have been age regressed to about 6 years old and like Vicky,
suck and fuck every guy she can. Is there a name for this syndrome? Am I bisexual? I don't have enough money for therapy, but would like to hear your opinion.

Mike, 55 M

LAURA SAYS...

Mike - I don't think that is is anything really more than a curious side coming out of you. Fine, you like big titted women - who doesn't. But when you began "experimenting" with ladyboys as you call them, that's nothing more than something curious that peaked your interest. Then what you explained that happened next is merely persuing that interest that you had, continuing to enjoy the company of these ladyboys and going further with them. This may not mean that you are bi-sexual (or maybe it does and you just are denying it to yourself - forcing yourself to be "straight") and that you still like women - even if they are really men in those ways. As for your fantasies, I don't know much about what to say regarding that. If you like to fantasize that you are a female with those guys, I bet you can say that's not being bisexual or anything, but you are going to tell youself that you aren't bisexual, then maybe it is just one fantasy that you like best. I think the first thing you need to do is decide whether or not you are in fact bisexual, and then I think you can handle it on your own (a professional would be best in helping you through this no doubtedly).

DAN SAYS...

I agree with Laura, I think it's a curiosity thing. But then again, you may be bisexual! It's hard to know, especially when I can't really relate to your position. But if you are, is that such a bad thing? There are plenty of bisexual people in the world who live very happy sexual lives. It's all a matter of how YOU feel about it - if it's upsetting you then talk to a counsellor who will be able to help you decide what's best for you.

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