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You must sit heavy using your full weight, like you're sitting on a chair. No kneeling or squatting. Don't lean forward either, as that just takes some of your weight off his face. Sit upright. A mat on the floor is bad because you can't really sit on him with your full weight unless you stick your legs out in front of you. The edge of a bed is okay as long as the bed is low enough that you can actually sit with your feet flat on the floor. A narrow padded exercise bench is best. So-called facesitting chairs aren't really so good because some of your weight is supported by the chair seat and not entirely on his face, or his head is on the chair seat and you're sitting too high for you to be comfortable.
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You don't need to be fully nude, but your bottom must be bare in at least 50% of the video. You may start out fully dressed, in fact it's good when you do, because that sets the scene. In fact, you being partially dressed while he's completely naked suggests that you're in control and he's at your mercy.
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He must be tied down by his wrists so that he can't grope you or push you off him. He must also be tied at the ankles so that he can't kick at you. And he must also be tied down firmly to the bedframe or bench so that he can't roll or slide out from under you and take a breath. You're doing this for YOUR pleasure, not his.
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You must actually make him hold his breath under your ass for at least 30 seconds at a time (preferably longer). If he can roll his head and take a breath, you're not sitting heavy and/or you don't have him tied up tight enough.
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Your bottom should completely cover his nose and mouth. Don't bounce and squirm and gyrate and mash your ass into his face. That just takes your weight off his face and lets him breathe. Just sit. You can listen to music and bob your head and body on him. That's nice.
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Have a reason to be sitting on his face. Eat an apple. Smoke a cigarette. Chat on the phone with your BFF. Watch TV. Or just gaze out the window. He's just a piece of furniture to you.
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Don't sit with your legs too wide apart. I know why they do that in facesitting videos, but it just screams STAGED! and FAKE! Instead, show brief periodic glimpses of your crotch as you adjust yourself while being careful not to let him catch a breath. That's more tantalizing and more realistic.
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Also remember safety! It varies, but a person will likely pass out after about 3 minutes of continuous asphyxiation. Merely passing out won't cause permanent damage, he'll regain consciousness on his own when allowed to breathe again. Brain damage (much like a stroke) will begin to occur after about 5 minutes of continuous asphyxiation. Death will occur after about 10 minutes. These are rough estimates which will vary by person, so be careful when you make that perfect facesitting video...
Here are some examples of some of the best facesitting videos on the web, but even these are far from perfect:
Beautiful cruel girl sits on boyfriend's face and makes him hold his breath for two and a half minutes (That's right! She pushes the limit of safety!) while announcing the passing seconds while he struggles to breathe.
What's so great about it? He's bound and helpless. She doesn't care that he's in pain holding his breath so long and begs her not to do it to him again. She's just doing it for her own fun.
What's wrong with it? She's just squatting over him. She's not actually sitting heavy with her feet flat on the floor. Also, his legs aren't tied, so he's able to thrash about and eventually throw her off him each time. And she's wearing panties the whole time. The panties should come off for the second round.
How to make it perfect? She should tie two ropes to his wrist shackles and tie each end to each site of the bed-frame so that he can't roll around and throw her off him. She should tie two ropes to his ankles and tie those two ends to the bedreame so that he can't kict at her. She should put her feet on the floor and sit heavy on him. She should taker her panties off between sittings and be bottomless for the second sitting.
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Japanese women take turns facesitting helpless bound man and make him hold breath for several minutes (again, pushing the limit of safety) each while he struggles to breathe.
What's so great about it? He's bound and helpless. The women don't care that he's struggling to breathe. They're just out for their own fun.
What's wrong with it? Fake sound effects. We can hear him gasping as they sit on him. If he can make sound, he can breathe. So either he's breathing and his struggling is an act, or the sound effects are fake. Either way, that spoils the believability that this really happened.
How to make it perfect? Modify the chair so that there's no box around his head and his head is supporting their full weight. Get rid of the fake sound effects. or sit heavy so that he can't breathe. Show all the women sitting on him in turn, not just the first one.
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Cruel girl sits on boyfrien's face with her full weight at dining table while he's bound helplessly, and makes him hold his breath while he struggles to breathe.
What's so great about it? He's bound and helpless. She doesn't care that he's in pain holding his breath and struggling to breathe.
What's wrong with it? He's not tied down securely. His kicking and thrashing is actually dragging the chair around the room. That's a big problem of using an ordinary chair. How can she enjoy her lunch sitting at the dining table if the chair keeps moving around?
How to make it perfect? Use something other than that chair, like a exercise bench or divian. Shackle his ankles down to, so that he can't throw his legs around. She should eat a meal at the table while sitting on him, letting him take a breath every two minutes or so.
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Young girl sits on boyfriend's face in the woods while she smokes a cigarette.
What's so great about it? He's just a seat for her. She's not paying any attention to him at all except that he's providing a place for her to sit off the ground. She just enjoys her cigarertte and watching nature.
What's wrong with it? He's not bound, so he could get out from under her easily if he wanted to. She's not making him hold his breath while she sits on him. She lifts up every few seconds to let him take a breath. He's just lying there enjoying himself. He should be struggling because he can't breathe. She's also fully dressed, but I'll cut her some slack for that because it's obviously chilly outside.
How to make it perfect? Shackle his wrists and ankles together. She should stretch her legs out in front of him so that her full weight is resting on his face. Don't keep changing positions. Make him hold his breath continuously while she smokes that cigarette (I'm not a smoker; how long does it take to smoke a cigarette?).
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Woman sits on man with her full weight with his wrists shackled while she reads a magazine.
What's so great about it? He's bound, and her whole weight is being supported on his face. He's just a place for her to sit while she reads a magazine.
What's wrong with it? She doesn't really sit for long in one position. She keeps changing positions every few seconds. The magazine moment just lasted for a few seconds.
How to make it perfect? Don't keep changing positions every two seconds. Tie his wrists and ankles to the sofa so that he can't throw her off him as he fights to breathe. Just sit still and read that magazine. Mahe him hold his breath for two minutes at a time.
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Girl sits on a man's face with her full weight while his hands are bound.
What's so great about it? He's bound very well. That stool she has him bound to is a perfect facesitting object. She could easily sit on him and make him hold his breath for a long time, and he'd have no way to get out from under her.
What's wrong with it? She keeps changing positions and never makes him hold his breath for very long. Thus, he never struggles to breathe. If she would just sit and make him hold his breath for a minute or two at a time while she occupies herself some way, this would be perfect.
How to make it perfect? Don't keep changing positions every two seconds. Just sit and make him hold his breath for two minutes at a time.
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Naked woman sits on a man's face under her full weight while his wrists are shackled.
What's so great about it? She's actually sitting on his face with her feet flat on the floor. That means her full weight is on his face. She does keep him under for a while, and he does start to struggle to breathe. And she's completely naked.
What's wrong with it? She still changes positions too often, and he's not tied tightly to the bed. She doesn't make him hold his breath long enough.
How to make it perfect? Don't keep changing positions every few seconds. Just sit and eat an apple or read a magazine orsomething. Make him hold his breath for two minutes at a time.
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Bottomless woman sits on a man's face while he's totally bound, immobile, and helpless.
What's so great about it? He's bound perfectly. He can't possibly throw her off him or roll out from under her. She makes him hold his breath for a long time, and we can tell he's struggling, but he's bound so well that he's helpless to do anything about it.
What's wrong with it? His mouth is covered with tape. The only thing preventing him from breathing should be the flesh of her bottom. The image fades in and out periodically, so we know that they're pausing the video to let him breathe during these moments. And she's kneeling over his head, not sitting.
How to make it perfect? Remove the tape from his mouth. She should sit heavey with her feet flat on the floor. Sit on him heavy for a minute or two, and make him hold his breath continuously for a minute or two.
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Well, none of them are perfect. So while none of the videos have all these items below in common, they all generally have most of them.
And finally, most facesitting videos are Female-on-Male, some are Female-on-Female, and one or two are Male-on-Male. But I've never ever seen a Male-on-Female facesitting video. I might make one... Any female volunteers???
Here are some scripts that I've written for a few facesitting videos. Being an equal opportunity erotic writer, I've written both Femdom and Maledom versions.