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Random
Thoughts..
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The weather around here changes even more than my mood when I'm on
my period.
I can't possible think too much about
what ground beef is when I'm
cooking or eating it.
The sexiest part of a man is his
forearms. The sexiest part of a woman is the
curve of her back.
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Exhibitionism
I'm a terrible exhibitionist. My wild days really broke
me of almost all human shame. I'm confident in my body.
I know it's good points and its bad points. I understand
modesty and decency, but I don't understand why people are afraid
to, at the right time and in the right place, expose their body to
others. Women are willing to expose the most vulnerable parts
of their heart or the most distasteful parts of their personality,
but they are afraid to let strangers see their boobs. A little
nakedness can be a great icebreaker. I know that sounds
shallow, but it's only shallow if you stop there. There's
nothing wrong with being superficial as long as you pass through the
surface into the depths.
Jack Off Material
One of the things that people sometimes
challenge me, because for some reason people love few things
more than one-upping strangers, is that I talk a lot about love, and
I then I provide jack off material. First of all,
while they are a minority, I do know that there are couples who read
erotica together. Second, while I know they two are a minority, I also know
that there are men and whom who use arousal
from erotica and sexy images and sexy conversations
and use that energy as an
aphrodisiac to help them be charged up
in the bedroom with their loved one. Third, so what? Not everyone
has a loved one right now, and if reading erotica
about about people who do have loved ones and get
to explore sex with them in an exciting way ... if that
helps take the edge of someon's loneliness
by helping them get off, I feel nothing but
happy about that.
And, yes, the same goes for guys who like my
picture. If it helps their arousal to see pictures of the
pretty woman who is writing dirty stores for them, then I'm
glad. Loneliness is terrible, and I am proud of helping people
get through that.
Sex Positions
One secret to great sex is not getting
locked in. If we thought about the way we walk or the way be
play tennis the same way as we think about how we have sex, we'd
never getting anything physical done. No one asks, "What's
your favorite position in tennis?" Sometimes you swing
backhand, sometimes overhand. Sometimes low, something
high. Sometimes with spin. Something lunging. You
adapt the ball and the needs of the situation. It's the same
way with sex. Don't think in terms of a favorite
position. At any given moment, think in terms of getting
your body and your partner's body tgoether in whatever way is
comfortable, effective, and pleasurable at that moment.
Also avoid thinking in terms of, "switching positions." It's
all sex, honey.
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