Hi BigJay, Being that you work with Cindy and are already started to date her I would personally wait a little while before pursuing the crush thing any further for now. If she doesnt exactly share those interests now and the dating doesnt work out she may think you are nuts and you still will have to face her at work.My advice would be to hold of for a while establish a relationship with her,then s l o w l y work into the crushing scene I am sure it will work better that way .Do you work in office max on hempstead tpke I to am from L I in levittown and my ex girlfriend went to HOFSTRA (CLUB USA) KATE AND WILLIES She used to work there and she too used to enjoy my fetish of crushing.I used to visit her at work in Kate and WILLIES and watch her devastating shoes smash the life out of the mice.She used to wear those chunk heeled sneakers with lug soles,she wore cut off denims ,sneakers barefoot,when she would see a mouse sometimes already out of it because of ingesting some poison from the exterminators ,she would get so excited told all f her fellow workers to look on she then with one heel stepped on the tail and with the other heel in one swift slam of her foot would come down full force until,...... splat the mouse would explode,leaving behind stuck in the heel of her shoe the remaining guts .She would always get a round of applause from her coworkers. She would also every night take back a platter of fries or chicken fingers .Put on a pair of her favorite mules,wll worn ,put the food on the floor in a plate ,then smashed the food into a pulp and then had me eat of the plate.At other times she would take a Devil do or Twinkie put it in her loafer shoes again weel worn on the inside ( and being that it was the summer she would wear the shoes barefoot so that there was always a build up of extreme heat and sweat put the cake inside her shoe ,then wear the shoe for about 2-3 hours ,she loved the feeling of the cake being spread throughout her sweaty foot ,No matter when she wanted me to remove her shoe I would have too.It may have been inside the car in ROOSEVELT FIELD Mall , I would have to inspect the shoe ,When We got home I would lay on the floor she would take off her shoe by scraping it against my face or i would remove it for her with my teeth no hands involved.This was always a hard task because it was so sweaty thar=t the shoe always was stuck when i finally got off the shoe i would be force fed the entire contente of the shoe and would have to lick no only her foot but the inside of the shoe as well as the outside no matter how dirty it was .Every week I boought DEBRA A NEWW PAIR OF SHOES LUCKY HER AND FOR ME AS WELL. JOHN MULEMAN