Techniques
26-Dec-98 21:41:48

Interesting thread!

With me, only certain types of women's feet turn me on. I've had women with ugly feet, after I revealed my fetish to them, repeatedly try to entice me to suck on their toes. Unfortunately, I did not get a good look at their feet before I opened my mouth (so to speak).

Basically, when I do find a woman with attractive feet, I classify them as "relationship material" or "fun and games material"... The ones am not really interested in having a committed relationship with, I take more chances in exposing/exploring my fetish with - at the outset.

I've found the best way, for me, to reveal my fetish is to take the "we" approach. For instance, I told two female friends of mine, who are roomates, about these (crush) web sites I just happened upon <grin>, while trying to look up something else. One immediately expressed disgust, and the other was VERY curious about it. Come to find out, she crushed mice ALL THE TIME on her Dad's farm back in Montana, when cleaning out the grain silos, while wearing boots. She didn't think it was a big deal at all. Lately, she brings it up all the time, as a joke (so she says), and keeps asking me to produce some mice for her to crush.

Alternatively, I've also found what works well is, when joking around with a woman you just happen to mention some "kinky" act you've performed in the past, and then quickly change the subject or drop it. If you explain or discuss it, you come off sounding like a pervert. So drop it, and change the subject to something mundane.

Nine times out of ten, she will bring it up again, and try to inquire as to what it was. Then I simply say to her, "well, its probably beyond what you could handle. Even beyond REGULAR EVERYDAY FETISHES, like foot fetishes, bondage, stuff like that, you've probably never experienced any of those, have you? I doubt you even have a fetish, and yet you expect me to fess up. Ever been dominated, or dom someone? Ever had your toes sucked? Ever used food during sex?"

Of course, all you want to know to, is the middle question - whether it be crush related, toes sucked, or whatever. And if shes ever done anything like this, shes bound to fess up, now that you've diffused and normalized it, compared to the made up EXTREMES she thinks your going to tell her afterwards.

I've heard everything from "lets change the subject" to "no, I've never had that done and I think feet are gross" to "yes, some guy sucked on my toes once, but it did nothing for me" to "yes, I've had my toes sucked, it WAS a turn on, but I don't know why anyone would like doing that" to (recently) "I think my g-spot is located between my big and second toe. Am I grossing you out?"
(hehe, if she only knew!!).