Subject:     Comparing Sex With Boys and Girls
Story Codes: MF mF Mf fm oral incest father mother daughter
Date:        April 25, 2012
Author:      Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>

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Summary:

Who do I enjoy having sex with more – boys or girls? I get asked this 
question a lot so, like I’ve done before when the same question keeps popping 
up, I decided to write up this article to answer it once and for all!

Table of Contents:  Foreword   
   Chapter 1 – Quantity (do the numbers tell the real story?)   
   Chapter 2 - What Gets Me Off   
   Chapter 3 – Physical Considerations   
   Chapter 4 – Emotional Considerations   
   Chapter 5 – Conclusion

Foreword
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Wow, having to choose between sex with a man or a woman is like being asked 
to choose between chocolate and strawberry ice cream! They are both 
delicious, each with its own unique taste, and both can satisfy me. So how do 
you choose? Well, I decided to look at several different aspects and then try 
to come to a conclusion that makes sense – if that’s even possible.

Apologies ahead of time if this seems to ramble on, be confusing, or even a 
bit contradictory. This isn’t an easy topic and definitely one where 
generalizations ALL have exceptions so I just have to go with the most 
typical, if not the most accurate, statements at times.


Chapter 1 – Quantity (do the numbers tell the real story?)
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It would seem that the most simple and direct method, at least at first 
glance, would be to just look at how many men I have had sex with compared o 
the number of women. Simple... right? WRONG!

If you simply look at my “career” track record, it would seem the obvious 
“winners” are the boys. My first sexual encounter was with a boy a couple of 
years older than me (masturbating with my friends is not what I would call a 
“sexual encounter” so I don't count that as a “first”). Then for a couple of 
years afterwards I only had sex with boys. Overall, in the ten years or so 
that I’ve been “sexually active”, I’ve had sex with at least ten times as 
many goys as girls. So using simple math, does that mean I prefer guys?

Well, before jumping to any conclusions, consider whether or not “quantity” 
really tells the whole story. Like most “statistics” people love to throw out 
to rationalize their position, there are other factors that come into play as 
well that have to be considered.

First, remember that I was raised in heterosexual family and social 
environments. Don’t get me wrong - homosexuality wasn’t portrayed negatively, 
it just wasn't part of my upbringing. In fact, other than perhaps a comment 
on a political situation, I don't ever really recall discussing the topic in 
any earnest while growing up. My parents never expressed any interest in it 
themselves, so I never “learned” that sort of thing from them. My friends 
were all straight (setting aside Nancy and her dog) so it’s not like I was 
exposed to rampant lesbianism.

Next, there is always the “availability factor”. Face it, since I was 
fourteen I could get laid within thirty minutes of any situation, day or 
night. I’m not being egotistical or bragging. Heck, ANY girl, no matter what 
she looks like or where she lives, can do the same if she REALLY wants to get 
fucked bad enough and doesn’t put any restrictions on who she does it with. 
In comparison, finding a female partner is not nearly so easy. As I mentioned 
earlier, in my teen years my friends were straight and I didn’t hang around 
the lesbian scene so it is no mystery that with a LOT more guys available 
than girls, I had sex with more guys.

Conclusion? I wouldn’t want to draw any conclusions based solely on 
“quantity”, at least with regards to me. Now say I’d NEVER had sex with a 
girl, then it would have been a much easier call. As it stands, call it a 
draw at this point.


Chapter 2 - What Gets Me Off
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This is another question I get asked a lot and since it has a direct 
relationship with the main question at hand, I think it bears addressing. 
When it comes to having an orgasm, there are a LOT of variables and it would 
be impossible to make any general statements that hold true ALL the time so 
for anything I say, remember that there may be an exception to the “rule”. So 
bearing that in mind...

I’ve often said that so far as I am concerned (and most girls I know), 
getting off while having sex with a guy is at LEAST 80% emotional and 20% 
physical. The “problem” is that for guys, the numbers are probably reversed 
which is why it’s so difficult for some guys to understand what really gets a 
girl off, No wonder so many girls have to fake her orgasm and wait to 
masturbate later to finish themselves when the guy thinks it’s the best fuck 
he’s had in ages. 

In terms of the classic, WHO, WHEN, WHERE , WHY and WHAT (HOW), four of those 
affect emotions and only one is based on the pure physical act. Is it any 
mystery that emotions play such a large role for women? When I say 
“emotions”, I mean the mixture of:

WHO... is fucking me (age, marital status, relationship, looks, etc.) WHEN.. 
I’m getting laid (time of day, time of year, relevance to the people, e.g. 
during a church service, etc.) WHERE..he is doing me (location, relevance to 
the people involved – e.g. a husband’s bedroom, a public place, a church, 
etc.) WHY...is he is fucking me (just a casual fuck, adultery, incest, sex 
party, etc.) 

So as you can see, there are a tremendous number of combinations and 
permutations when it comes addressing the emotional aspect when compared to 
just the physical. Is it any wonder that it’s so complicated to determine 
what gets me off the best?

The WHAT (HOW) side of it is all about the physical which makes it pretty 
self- explanatory I would think. I mean, the PHYSICAL act of sex isn’t all 
that complicated and I would assume that anyone reading this has experienced 
it. Even if you’re a virgin you’ve masturbated – admit it!

So what gets me off...?

Assume for the moment the only consideration is to orgasm. Forget “quality”, 
number of times, etc., just consider what does it take to get me off. Despite 
all the talk of emotions versus physical, in the end sex is a physical act 
and thus it comes down to what is it that makes my body react in such as way 
as to allow me to experience the best feeling in the world – my orgasm?

So... If I was forced to narrow it all down to the ONE thing that stands out 
above all others when it comes to driving to me to a climax, it would be 
having a man fucking me in my pussy, feeling his hard dick filling my pussy 
while I play with my pussy. This is usually easiest to do either in standard 
missionary or spooning positions. A “bonus” would be to have him cumming 
inside of me at the same time my orgasm erupts. It may not be the “best” 
orgasm or the most memorable, but in terms of just having one, this is 
practically a guarantee and works every time.

So does the fact I can just about always reach an orgasm when a guy is 
fucking me while I play with myself mean that I prefer guys? Don't confuse 
physical reactions that I can’t fully control with preference...

Getting myself off is just one aspect of sex and face it, I can get myself 
off without a man OR a woman – as in masturbating. It’s HOW I get off, the 
intensity of my orgasm, the overall experience that counts in the end. Thus 
if you want to know who I prefer, I need to talk more about the two sides of 
the equation – physical versus emotional, and not just who gives me an orgasm 
the easiest and most guaranteed


Chapter 3 – Physical Considerations
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Is having sex with a girl more emotional than being with a guy or more 
physical? This may surprise some people, but when comparing sex with a guy 
and a girl, I find that sex with girls is more dominated by the physical side 
of things. I guess in part that’s because I don't really see how two girls 
can have “sex” in the first place. My definition of sex is pretty 
straightforward – it’s the physical penetration of a woman’s vagina by a male 
penis. Thus while I may talk about “oral sex’ and “sex with girls”, that is 
more me using phrases that people are accustomed to and understand than being 
worried about using technically accurate terms. If you really think about it, 
sucking a guy’s dick is no more “sex” than sucking on his finger – it’s just 
a different part of his anatomy. Licking a girl’s pussy is no different than 
kissing her – just a different set of lips is involved. When two girls play 
together, it can be a wonderful – a physically and mentally enthralling 
experience, but it’s not really “sex”.

All that said, in the end guys have one thing that overrides every other 
consideration – a dick. What more can I say? I LOVE DICKS! I love to look at 
them. I love to touch them. I love to suck on them. I love to feel them 
inside of me. I love watching them grow as he gets turned on by me. I love 
feeling them get so stiff and hard as I suck on them and he fucks me. I 
especially love it when they erupt and shoot their wonderful cum into my 
mouth and pussy. 

Did I mention I love dicks?

I love ALL dicks, no matter what size or type. Circumcised or not, what’s the 
big deal? Fat or thin, long or short, they each have their own “personality” 
and best of all, dicks never lie. A girl can fake her orgasm pretty easily 
but a man can’t fake his. When a guy cums, I know it’s because he is turned 
on by me. It’s like a validation of my sensuality, of my sexiness. When a man 
looks at me and gets an erection, I KNOW what he’s thinking about me and that 
makes me feel good inside. Nothing boosts my self-confidence and ego than 
seeing a hard dick and knowing it’s that way because of ME.

A lot of creative people have working diligently to develop dildos other toys 
to try and substitute for a real dick. While I must applaud their efforts, no 
artificial device can truly replace the real thing – a fleshy warm dick. Sure 
a dildo can get me off, that’s not the point. A dildo isn’t turned on by ME, 
a dildo doesn’t respond to me because I’m sexy, a dildo doesn’t grow in my 
mouth, a dildo can’t fill me with warm cum like a man’s dick.

The only problem with a man’s dick being so dominating is that if you take 
the guy’s dick out of the picture, then what’s the point of being with a man, 
at least physically? Putting aside the guy’s dick, being with a girl is a 
thousand times better than a guy, at least in terms of the physical side of 
the relationship. Like, how can you even compare the feel of a silky smooth, 
warm, soft female body with the hairy, often smelly, bulky male? OK, that may 
be taking it to the extreme, but you get the essence of what I’m trying to 
say. 

Feeling myself up against another woman, our firm boobs against one 
another’s, soft legs intertwined, pussy’s pressed up against each other’s, 
the feel of her soft hair in my face, the touch of her full lips, the caress 
of her gentle hands... oh my god, how can a guy possibly compete? Despite 
what they may think, most guys simply don't have a clue how to really touch a 
woman – they grope and fondle, more like explorers seeking out new territory 
whereas a girl is more like a museum curator, treating me like some rare 
artifact that has to be caressed and lovingly touched.

OK, so in the end – sexually that is, physically a man wins hands down 
because he holds the ultimate trump card – his wonderful cock. Forced to 
choose between a man and a woman, I would pick a man EVERY time simply 
because I LOVE that thing between his legs. However, in terms of overall 
enjoyment and physical pleasure a woman would be my choice.


Chapter 4 – Emotional Considerations
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Here the man has the advantage again thanks to the fact that it’s impossible 
for me to have real “sex” with a woman. When a man fucks me, his wonderful 
dick is buried deep inside of me which actually bonds us together for that 
moment, a physical coupling where our two bodies literally become one. It’s 
an act that is simultaneously intimate yet at the same time the ultimate 
demonstration of our most basic lustful instincts and desires. What drives 
the emotional factor is which of those two acts is dominate. BOTH can be 
extremely fulfilling from an emotional perspective - under the right 
circumstances of course.

For instance, pure, raw, uninhibited sex can be extremely emotional as the 
man is literally takes me for his own selfish pleasure and lust, using me as 
a sexual object to satisfy the primeval needs that have evolved in men over 
the eons, needs that reside deep inside EVERY man. It’s much the same as when 
I’m gangbanged at a party. In such cases it’s all about lust with virtually 
zero intimacy, yet by being SO one-sided it becomes emotionally fulfilling as 
I become the ultimate slut, the woman of their most nasty and perverted 
desires. They are using me to realize the most base wants and desires within 
themselves, feelings that they possibly hadn’t dared to express before, let 
alone act out – and may never again.

The other end of the spectrum minimizes the lust factor with intimacy being 
the primary motive. I say “minimizes” because lust can never be completely 
eliminated – it’s just a part of every man no matter who he is. This would be 
like when I have sex with my father. As much as my dad may want to be my 
loving father, to be intimate with his daughter in a way only sex allows, he 
is a man and thus I know that there is still that feeling of lust within him. 
I love to please my father so it excites me that even as he tries to be a 
good father to me, there is still this underlying sexual desire within him to 
fuck me as a woman more than his daughter. 

Before anyone gets the wrong idea, when my dad fucks me I know it’s primarily 
his desire for intimacy with his daughter that is driving him. He would never 
abuse his position as my father solely to take advantage of me for his own 
sexual pleasure. When his dick first enters me I love to hear him moan as I 
know it is the feeling of closeness with me that is making him feel good as 
much as the feel of my warm pussy surrounding his erect dick. When he finally 
cums in me, I get this wonderful feeling inside of me from knowing it’s my 
own father’s sperm that is being spewed inside of me even more than the 
actual feel of his ejaculation. When my dad lays with me after he cums, 
leaving his dick buried inside of me as it throbs with a warm heat, it is the 
bursting of my heart with love for him as my father that makes me feel the 
best, even more so than the actual feel of his dick staying within me.

The WHY factor is perhaps the biggest driver of the emotional part of sex for 
me when I am with a man. Is he betraying his wife to have sex with me, maybe 
a girlfriend if he’s not married? Is it incest - my father, an uncle, or 
maybe a cousin? Is it a younger man having sex with the first experienced 
girl he’s ever been with? Is it an older man trying to recapture the 
exaggerated memories of his youth? You take the exact same person, time, 
location, and actions and have completely different emotional reactions based 
solely on WHY he is fucking me.

With a woman, it is hard to reach that same level of emotional fulfillment as 
I get from a man. Because it is not true sex, a woman cannot cheat on someone 
with me, she cannot betray someone else’s trust in her simply because she 
can’t resist having me. Without a dick, we can’t physically bond together and 
thus our bodies are always separate, always apart. Perhaps if it was her 
first time then that would be different but those girls are few and far 
between, at least in my experience. Indeed, usually it has been ME that was 
the “first timer”.

So in the end, unlike the other considerations this one has a pretty definite 
‘winner”. When it comes to creating an emotionally fulfilling sexual event, a 
man wins hands-down.


Chapter 5 – Conclusion
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Looking at it JUST from the sexual perspective, I would have to say I prefer 
men over women. Physically, NOTHING is better than a man’s dick when it comes 
to sex but even without that in mind (how can I really do that though?), a 
man still has many advantages. Emotionally a guy can drive me to an orgasmic 
peak based simply on WHY he is fucking me, let alone take into consideration 
the other factors of WHEN, WHERE and WHO.

Bottom line – I prefer sex with a man!

Just to be fair, if I was asked who I would rather cuddle with and spend an 
evening of non-sexual togetherness, who I would prefer to sleep with at 
night, then a woman would win out EVERY time!

THE END
