Subject:     Common Myths and Misconceptions
Story Codes: nosex
Date:        April 24, 2012
Author:      Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>

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Summary:

Since I started talking to people on-line and doing my web site, I’ve e-
mailed, chatted and communicated with thousands of people.  Over time certain 
trends appear.  When I find I am getting asked the same question over and 
over, I add it to my Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ).  I also find a number 
of misconceptions and myths seem to come up time after time.  I decided to 
add this article to address some of the ones I hear the most.

Did I miss anything? Please write me if you have any suggestions for myths to 
be added here.  

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MYTH: All girls love to suck cock.

TRUTH: Key word...  “all”.  I think most guys actually realize that outside 
of porn movies and stories, a lot of girls simply don't like to suck a guy’s 
dick.  Even many that do suck cock aren’t really into it so much as they do 
it to please their guy.  Hence all the jokes about how blowjobs stop after 
marriage.  

Personally, I don’t get why anyone (and that includes women AND men) would 
NOT want to suck cock, at least in general.  Sure there are guys whose 
hygiene sucks and such but then that’s no different than deciding to have sex 
with them and really nothing to do with sucking dick.  My only comment is 
that guys should find out the truth about their girl’s REAL preference and 
decide to either live with it or not – and NOT think they are going to change 
her mind later.

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MYTH: I know my flirty teen daughter wants me to fuck her but she’s
      too shy to say so.

TRUTH: I’ve discussed incest in a number of articles so without repeating it 
all here again, I'll just summarize it by saying almost every girl I know 
wants to have a close personal relationship with her father – whether she 
acts like it or not.  But by “close personal relationship”, I do NOT mean 
SEX.  A daughter who flirts with her dad and teases him is almost always 
doing it because she trusts him NOT to react like her boyfriends or the 
pervert neighbor next door.  

While I believe that incest can create a wonderful and fulfilling bond 
between a father and daughter, in 99.99% of families the infrastructure and 
support system necessary for incest to be successful simply isn’t there.  My 
general rule is, “If you don't already know that your daughter wants sex with 
you, she doesn’t.”

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MYTH: Guys are as good or better than girls when it comes to eating 
      pussy.

TRUTH: Sorry, as a rule guys come in second every time.  Granted there are 
some pretty damn good guys out there that would beat most girls, but even 
they don't get first prize.  Since sex is 80% emotional, there HAVE been 
times when I’ve truly enjoyed a guy eating me out but it wasn't because of 
his physical expertise.  

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE a guy to lick my pussy.  I’m just referring as to 
who physically does it best and there’s nothing that beats another girl when 
it comes to eating my pussy.

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MYTH: Size doesn’t matter

TRUTH: Duh!  Of course it does! Just not the way people usually mean it when 
they refer to the implications of a the size of a guy’s dick.

First, there’s nothing good about an extremely little dick, sorry for you 3-4 
inchers out there.  Heck, those are barely long enough to get in me and 
they’re constantly slipping out as soon as things get going.  Even oral sex 
isn’t all that thrilling when the whole thing fits in so easily that you 
barely feel like you have a mouthful.

At the other end of the spectrum are the so called “wonder cocks”, those I 
would generally classify as longer than 7-8 inches.  A girl’s pussy is NOT an 
unending road.  While some girls may get off feeling a dick pressing against 
her cervix, most that I know find it uncomfortable to say the least.  When it 
comes to sucking, deep-throating is fun but not when it feels like he’s down 
to your stomach.  Worst of all, I find most extra-long cocks just don't get 
as hard, more like sausages than pipes.  Personally, I like dicks to be HARD 
when they are in me.

Overall, give me a 5-7 inch dick any day and I’m happy.  Make it a FAT one at 
the same time and I’m in heaven.  So yes, size matters but not in the way 
most guys think.

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MYTH: Girls eventually come to like it when they are being raped.

TRUTH: OMG, if there is one thing that infuriates me more than anything, it’s 
the idea that somehow a girl WANTS to be raped.  OK, I'll admit that there 
are times I can enjoy a well-written “non-consensual” story, but I know the 
difference between fantasy and reality.  I’ve known women that have been 
reaped and not a single one told me they were the least bit sexually excited 
at any time during their ordeal.  If anything, it was just the opposite and 
many women suffer long- term effects to where they can’t even enjoy normal 
sex afterwards due to the lingering memories of their rape.

PLEASE remember when you read such stories or watch porn that in real life, 
this NEVER happens and rapists should have the book thrown at them.

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MYTH: Girls who dress slutty are asking for it.

TRUTH: Why can’t guys just enjoy the view and get over it?  Would you rather 
a hot chick dress up in Amish clothes and hide everything from you?  Instead, 
why not thank her for at least letting you get a good view of what Mother 
nature and her plastic surgeon gave her?

Girls dress slutty because they look good and they know it (at least in most 
cases they look good) and they like to show off.  It’s no different than a 
guy who spends his life working out in a gym and then shows off his body 
wearing muscle shirts.  Nobody says these guys are out asking for sex (at 
least no more than every other guy) so why say such things about girls who 
dress provocatively.  If only men knew how much work went into some of those 
bodies they might appreciate them more!

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MYTH: Masturbation is only for people who don't get enough sex.

TRUTH: Anyone who knows me at all knows I LOVE to masturbate and there is 
absolutely no correlation between how often I have sex versus how much I 
masturbate other than perhaps scheduling interferences.  One activity has 
nothing to do with the other!  I do both because I love to do both, not 
because I prefer one over the other.  Maybe it’s different for guys since 
they can’t have sex and then masturbate right away, I don't know.  

As for me, it’s not uncommon at all for me to masturbate after sex, 
especially if it’s been with one of those guys who conk out after cumming.  
Guys, stop worrying about how much a girl masturbates as if it’s some 
reflection on your masculinity.  It has nothing to do with you!

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MYTH: All girls like to have sex with other girls.

TRUTH: Another male fantasy.  Do I really have to even address this one? A 
lot of girls simply are more than happy with being with men and having sex 
with another woman is not for them, and may even repulse them.  Don’t think 
because most girls like to dance together or have sleepovers and play silly 
games that it means they want to have sex with each other – quite the 
opposite in my experience.  Of course, when you hang around with some of the 
crowds I do a lot of the girls to be bi or even lesbian, but that’s not 
exactly a fair sample of the female population.

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MYTH: Girls in bars are the easiest to pick up.

TRUTH: Unless you’re talking about the single girl at the bar whose more than 
likely either a prostitute or a policewoman stakeout, I would disagree 
strongly with this premise.  In fact, I would go so far as to claim just the 
opposite was true.  When I go to a bar with some friends, it’s usually to 
have a good time with THEM, not to get picked up by some horny guy.  And yes, 
having a good time usually means teasing men.  OK, so maybe you’ll get lucky 
now and then but think about it from a girl’s perspective – would YOU date 
most of the guys who hang out in bars molesting the women? 

Personally, I recommend that guys get involved in their church if they want 
to meet women.  It’s also one of the best places to meet guys as well if 
that’s your goal – especially married ones!

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MYTH: Hot guys attract all the hot girls.

TRUTH: First, forget all about high school with the jocks and cheerleaders.  
Also, let’s not consider the Hollywood crowd or supermodels.  In all of these 
cases ego was the driving force more than anything else.  For these type of 
people, it’s more about who sees them with someone else than who they are 
with.  As for the rest of the world, it’s just common sense if you think 
about it.  Ever see a good looking girl with some old guy or nerd and wonder 
what in the world she see in him? And don't say it’s because he has a huge 
dick either.  

All I can say it treat a girl nice if you want to fuck her.  Once your naked, 
a dick’s pretty much a dick 90% of the time so it’s the guy wielding it that 
matters – and I’m not talking about his pecs or six pack.  Make her feel 
pretty, loved, and secure.  Remember that 80% of sex is in the mind.  If 
you’re only a 5 out of ten in looks, you’re still way ahead of the self-
absorbed guy who ranks low on the motional scale!

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MYTH: If she says no, it just means she wants you to work harder for it.

TRUTH: I hate to even give this question the respect of a decent answer.  
Guys, “no” means ”NO”.  Period.  End of story.  No excuses.  And it doesn’t 
matter how she dresses or acts.  No means no - got it?

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MYTH: Young girls and boys love sex.

TRUTH: I’m talking about YOUNG kids, like under the age of nine or ten.  Even 
if a young girl is physically stimulated, it doesn't mean she likes SEX, it 
means she likes to be touched.  For a young girl, touching her chest and 
crotch is no different than her back, she probably enjoys the feeling of all 
of those place being touched.  My parents use to scratch my back at night 
when I was little and I loved it, often putting me asleep on those nights 
when I was having problems.  They could probably have fondled my pussy and 
chest with the same results but that wouldn't have been proper.  

A girl needs to learn to respect her body and to expect others to respect it 
as well if she is ever going to be comfortable with herself later in life.  
If there is one crime I place even lower than rape, it would be child 
molestation and nobody can tell me that a young girl or boy consents to have 
sex.  Sex with a preteen is molestation – period.  What teenagers do together 
is a totally different issue which I won’t address here.  However, sex under 
between a minor and an adult is almost always wrong.  The only exception I 
would make would be in situations involving incest and even then, it has to 
be carefully considered.  

I have written a number of other articles about incest and underage sex so 
I'll finish by just saying in general, do NOT have sex with underage kids.

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MYTH: Slut or whore? Doesn’t matter what you call her, it’s the same thing.

TRUTH: This one I take very personally.  I am NOT a whore, never have been, 
never will be.  If you want to offend me and make me furious, call me whore.  
I don’t even care for it in jest or role-playing although I'll put up with it 
if I’m horny enough.  Am I a slut?  Absolutely – and proud of it.  So what’s 
the difference? 

Well, a whore sells her body for money to any man willing to pay up for the 
sole purpose of earning money.  A slut, on the other hand, uses her “assets” 
to get the things she wants from the guys she wants them from under the 
circumstances she dictates.  Another way to look at it more                    
simply is a whore lets men use her body to make money while a slut uses her 
body to make men give her what she wants – which is almost always something 
other than money.  So feel free to call me a slut – I'll take it as a 
compliment, but NEVER call me whore.

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MYTH: Guys like porn more than girls

TRUTH: Semantics comes into play here.  If you mean guys like the most common 
porn more than girls, then this is true and not a myth.  Face it, most porn 
is designed with the male market in line.  No matter what the guy looks like 
or how he acts, the most beautiful babes are there to do his bidding and 
fling themselves at him.  However, if you compare porn that appeals to girls 
with porn that appeals to men, I think girls like their porn just as much as 
the guys do.  If by “like”, you mean “masturbate”, then it’s probably true 
that guys jerk off a LOT more than girls do when they watch porn.  

For girls, it’s more they think about it later when they are in bed alone and 
masturbate.  It’s not so much the porn alone but the ideas and thoughts that 
come from having watched it that turn a girl on.  So maybe this is true 
overall but I just wanted to bring it up to be able to say that girls enjoy 
porn too – it just has to be written for them and give them time to digest it 
afterwards if you want them to be all hot and bothered because of it.

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MYTH: Dildos make good substitutes for dicks.

TRUTH: I suppose if you were starving on a deserted island then you would 
think that a can of Spam floating ashore tasted better than a steak dinner.  
However, seat yourself in an expensive steak house and put Spam on the menu 
next to the surf and turf and do you think anyone would want the Spam?  Well, 
dildos are like Spam – in lieu of the real thing they can be great but given 
the choice between being fucked by a dildo or a hard dick, I can’t see many 
girls opting for the dildo!

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MYTH: Girls love it when men cum on them.

TRUTH: Well, I suppose if the only place you got your information from was 
porn sites, then you would probably be convinced this had to be true.  After 
all, don’t 99% of the whores on the web beg for men to cum on their faces and 
boobs?  Now let’s ask the guys in the real world how many women beg them to 
cum on their face and boobs – I bet hardly any would claim it happens.  Like 
anything else, I’m sure there are a limited number of women who get off from 
it, just as there are women who like to eat shit and who knows what else.  I 
don't mean to compare the two but just to make the point, there are people 
who will say they like about anything but that doesn’t mean it’s 
predominantly that way.

If a woman is having unprotected sex, she may ask for him to cum on her more 
to keep from getting pregnant than because that’s what she wants.  Some girls 
hate the taste of cum so they have to “volunteer’ for a facial of avoid the 
guy cumming in their mouth.  Just because a girl has to pick the better of 
two evils doesn't make the act positive.  Assuming it is safe, most women I 
know prefer cum in the place it was meant to be – in their pussies.  After 
that, cumming in their mouths although I know a lot of women who won’t 
swallow it.

I let men cum on my face and body only because I want to please THEM, not 
because that’s what I want for ME.  It’s like wearing heels – who in their 
right mind would wear them if nobody was looking at you? Girls do lots of 
things for men, and letting them cum on their faces and bodies is just one of 
many.  It doesn’t mean they love it though!

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MYTH: A girl can always feel when a man is cumming in her pussy.

TRUTH: The key word was “always”.  In my experience, I would say I know at 
least 90% of the time when man is cumming but maybe half of those times it is 
not because I feel his cum, per se, it’s all the pother signals he’s given 
me.  At the top of the list, of course, is him announcing it.  Then there is 
the rhythm and force of his strokes that almost always changes dramatically 
when he starts to cum, generally they stop stroking and plunge deep into me 
and hold themselves there while they cum.  Sometimes, especially when I am 
sucking cock, I can actually feel the shaft swell a little just as he is 
about to cum but that’s hard to feel in your pussy but it happens now and 
then.  To actually FEEL his cum in me depends on a lot of things – how horny 
I am, how much he cums, where he releases inside of me (near the entrance, 
deep in me, and so forth).  It seems the times when I most enjoy sex are also 
the times when I can feel the subtle warmth of his sperm in me so maybe 
there’s a correlation somewhere there.  Sometimes the most obvious evidence 
is when he pulls out and it spills out of me and drains down to my ass or on 
the bed or on my thighs or even my feet.  Overall, I guess you could say I 
can almost tell when he cums, even if I don't actually FEEL the cum itself in 
me at that moment

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MYTH: Don’t worry, I'll keep your cam/e-mail/pics private.

TRUTH: First of all, NOTHING you do on the Internet is private.  As much as I 
work to maintain my privacy, I am fully aware that if the authorities wanted 
to know who I am, they could track me down to the addresses of the computers 
I use in minutes.  EVERYTHING posted on the Internet is stored somewhere, you 
just have to know where to find it.  I have seen websites where even my old 
web pages from years past when I charged for access are archived – quite a 
shock and one of the reasons I closed that site and now am more careful about 
what I post.

Cams can be copied with a few simple key strokes.  I mentioned this to a guy 
who was masturbating for me on night on his cam.  He didn't believe me until 
I mailed him a copy of his dick as he stroked it.  The cam suddenly turned 
off and I never heard from him again! If I ever cammed for someone, who is to 
say my pics wouldn't be scattered on the Internet that very night – 
permanently! Oh sure, everyone says they would never do such a thing.  Yeah 
right, and this won’t hurt...  maybe 99% of them are honorable but it only 
takes one!

I use to laugh when people complained that I posted their emails.  Not 
because they complained but because they were so naïve.  Like their mail 
wasn’t already being stored on umpteen mail servers around the globe.  Trust 
me, someone somewhere has a copy of every e-mail you’ve ever sent.  Probably 
nobody will ever look at them but still, someone has them “just in case”...

Am I being paranoid? Hell yes! And for good reason.  As I once heard, “I 
wouldn't be paranoid if everyone wasn’t out to get me.”

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MYTH: “I’m sure she’s real.”

TRUTH: Just because someone says they are somebody doesn’t mean they are.  
Even if you talk to them on the phone, exchange photos with personal 
messages, or see them on their web cam, it only confirms they are WHAT they 
are, not WHO.  Anyone who plans to meet someone without doing all three of 
these things as a START is not only naïve, but downright stupid.  My first 
reaction when someone tells me this – “She probably isn’t!”

Of all the people I’ve been in contact over the years, I would estimate NONE 
of the ones who claim to be underage are really kids, maybe 10% of the people 
who claim to be women are even female, maybe 20% of the so-called couples are 
actually two people, and none of the people who claim to engage in incest 
actually do.  So if you think that hot girl who claims she wants to meet you 
and fuck you is really who she says she is, you deserve to lose your wallet 
when you meet them!  OK, I’ve heard of a few case where people have met 
through the Internet and CLAIM to have had a good relationship, including 
sex, but I discount a lot of those stories too.

Maybe I’ve become too cynical, but these days I assume by default that anyone 
who contacts me is not telling the truth.  It may be a small fib or a 
complete lie, whatever it is, I don't worry about it.  Who cares? It’s not 
like I am looking for people to meet.  Now if someone wants to get more 
personal with me, then I start looking closer to see whether or not they are 
real.  Of course, I could demand a phone call or other positive means of 
identification but then people would say to me, “But Kelly, YOU don’t do any 
of these things yourself so how do we know YOU are real?” The answer to that 
one is simple, you don’t and you never will know for sure whether or not I am 
who I say I am.  All I can say is look at my record and history and what does 
it tell you? However, given my attitude about my own privacy I can’t expect 
others to treat me any different so for me it becomes a bit of a detective 
game.

Given the limitations I have to work under, my determination of who is real 
versus fake depends more on analyzing everything I can get from them and look 
at the big picture.  Over time you get to recognize patterns.  “Girls” who 
chat and the first words are “Do you have any pics” are almost always guys.  
When I had a bunch of so-called underage girls all writing me e-mails with 
the same typos, the same grammar style, the same punctuation errors, and the 
same overall writing style that was years ahead of their ages, I sort of get 
the idea they were not who they say they were! When people want to exchange 
pics with me and they have maybe two or three photos and all of them are 
nudes, they are fake.  Just one family pic? – fake.  Nothing BUT nude pics? – 
fake.  

You can also tell a lot from the photo that the person may not have intended 
if you look close.  Someone claiming to be from California with an electric 
socket in the background from Europe was an obvious fake.  I had someone 
claim to be from Europe but the pics of her “kids” were from a school in the 
US and the photos of them at school matched some of the buildings on the 
school web site – a dumb fake.  People also forget that many photos have the 
camera and date information stored with them which often conflict with what 
they say they are.

Overall, I would say that there have been less than a dozen people I have met 
since getting on-line over six years ago that I believe have been honest with 
me.  Some of them might be surprised to know how much I really know about 
them!  It’s not that I’m stalking them and I would never expose them to their 
spouses, churches or schools.  What would be the point as it’s just a game 
for me.  I guess you could say I get my satisfaction from the hunt, not from 
killing my “prey” once I’ve identified them.  Besides, I don't need people 
coming back for revenge on me after I’ve ruined their lives!

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MYTH: Girls love sexy clothes

TRUTH: If this had read, “Girls love TO BE SEEN WEARING sexy clothes,” then I 
would agree but as written, it’s a total myth.  In general, the sexier the 
lingerie, the more irritating and annoying it becomes to wear.  Something as 
simple as pantyhose, the bane of almost every woman in America, would be 
banned if it didn't make their legs look better.  Just ask your wife or 
girlfriend if she would wear pantyhose if she knew for 100% certainty that 
nobody would see her.  If she says she would wear them to keep warm, then ask 
why she wouldn’t be wearing pants if nobody was going to see her.

Thongs are like running around with permanent wedgies up our ass yet we all 
wear them because they show off our asses! Push up bras make your boobs hurt 
but we wear them because they make our busts look bigger.  High heels make it 
hard to walk and kill your feet but we love them because they make us taller 
but mostly because they tighten our legs and asses.  Ever try to sit down in 
a tight short skirt? It’s a pain but we put up with it because we want men to 
see our legs.

Next time your girlfriend or wife wears something sexy, don't think you’re 
doing her any favors by making her wear it any longer than necessary.  Trust 
me, odds are she wants it off as badly as you want her to take it off!

THE END 
