Subject:     Ethical Dilemmas
Story Codes: MF, Mf, oral, inc
Date:        April 25, 2012
Author:      Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>

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Summary:

Over the years that I published my web site, I received tons of letters and 
chatted with literally thousands of people.  Often it was fun and at times 
even quite erotic but then there was a small number of people that disturbed 
me.  In the vast majority of the cases, I just wrote them off as being 
someone's fantasy, although it made me wonder sometimes what kind of people 
are out there that can even THINK about some of these things!

There is a basic principle of mine is that fantasies should have no limits so 
long as they STAY fantasies.  While I may disagree with someone's fantasies, 
I don't condemn people for their beliefs or thoughts, no matter how “out 
there”, disgusting, maybe even illegal they may be IF they were true.  
Basically, so long as there was no proof that they are anything but someone's 
flight of the imagination, I didn't worry about them.

The situations presented are a different story.  In each case there was 
enough information via webcams, photos, phone numbers and such that I was 
pretty convinced that these were not just lonely, horny guys getting off by 
telling me their fantasies, trying to make me believe they really do these 
things.  It's this small minority of people who made me wonder about the 
state of the world, not to mention whether I was doing the right thing by 
enabling them and in some cases, providing them with a public forum.

All of these situations actually happened although I have changed details as 
needed to maintain everyone's privacy.  My intent is not to make each a novel 
out of each situation so I've shortened the details and such but I didn't 
dream up any of this stuff.  As I once heard a comedian say, I couldn't make 
this stuff up!

I'd love to hear back from people as to what they think about how I handled 
the situation as well as what they would have done had they been me.

Table of Contents:  
   Chapter 1 - Dad and His 3 year-old Daughter  
   Chapter 2 - Dad and 11 year-old Daughter  
   Chapter 3 - Dad and 3 year-old Son  
   Chapter 4 - Cheating Fiance and School Teacher  
   Chapter 5 - Naughty Cross-Dressing Husband  
   Chapter 6 - Horny Husband  
   Chapter 7 - Naughty Dad  
   Chapter 8 - Incest Family  
   Chapter 9 - Horny Wife and Mother  
   Chapter 10 - Husband's Tributes  
   Chapter 11 - Unfaithful Husband  
   Chapter 12 - How Far to Go For a Job?  
   Chapter 13 - Dad Wants His Daughter & Her Friends  
   Chapter 14 - Postlude


Chapter 1 - Dad and His 3 year-old Daughter
===========================================

This guy was chatting with me from the UK, claiming to be married with a 
sixteen year-old daughter.  Thankfully he didn't try to tell me he was 
molesting her but he claimed to be considering it for someday in the future.

OK, so lots of guys tell me crazy stuff like that about their daughters, 
nieces, friend's daughters, etc. so I took it with my usual grain of salt.  
Then he said he was jerking off on the couch while she was watching TV in the 
same room.   Again, not something I haven't heard in one form or another many 
times before so no big deal.  Then he said he had her up on the couch next to 
him with his dick out while he masturbated during our chat.  I had to hand it 
to him for his vivid imagination but I wasn't buying it as being real.

Next thing I knew my email sounded off and I saw he had sent me a pic.  Sure 
enough, there he was with his cock standing upright and in the background was 
a girl who looked to be watching TV or something.  The only thing was instead 
of being sixteen, this girl looked to be more like she was around three years 
old!  My first reaction was that he had stolen it some web site as that is 
what most guys do who send me this type of crap.

As I do with most guys who try to get me to believe their fake pics, I teased 
him that he should bring her closer and put his dick up against her bottom.  
I figured that since he wasn't taking the photos his response would be he 
couldn't do it for some reason or another, probably making up some issue with 
his camera.  I get that kind of excuse all the time - “my hard drive crashed 
and all my photos are gone”, “they're on my other computer”, I can't find the 
CD with our photos” and so forth.  When I hear these types of lame excuses it 
just confirms that they are fake and he has just ran out of whatever he stole 
from some web site.

Well, to my surprise a new photo appeared and sure enough, there was that 
same hard cock but now it was pressed against the backside of the little 
girl.  She still her cotton pajamas on but now her top had been pulled up 
enough in back such that his cock was rubbing up against her bare skin.

Well, it was undoubtedly just a coincidence that he had one like that 
available as it wasn't exactly a unique photo.  So I made another suggestion 
which was soon followed by a pic of her on his lap, facing away, with his 
erect cock pushing against her now bare bottom, just as I had suggested.  Her 
bottoms were still on but had been pulled down enough so he could line up his 
erection along the crack of her butt.

One thing led to another... Next he set her on the floor between his legs and 
took a pic of her with his erect cock rubbing against the side of her head, 
her hair falling over it.  In the next one he was his dick poking into her 
ear and in the last one he was pressing his incestuous cock against the side 
of her face from behind, causing a distinct indentation in her cheek under 
the head of his cock.

In all fairness, at no time did his daughter seem the least bit aware of what 
her dad was doing and so far as I know he never went any further than 
touching her from behind with his dick.  Still, it was shocking to say the 
least that anyone would do that to a girl that age AND take photos of it AND 
send them to someone on the Internet! I felt a twinge of guilt as each was 
posed just I had suggested.  Of course, when I did so I was assuming it would 
result in the exposure of how he was faking what he was doing with his so-
called “daughter”.  I never believed for a moment that he would actually DO 
it when I made those suggestions!

Seeing his dick against her face was enough for me.  Suddenly I felt a chill 
down my spine and I wanted nothing more to do with him.  Either he was for 
real and a very sick man or he had a collection of child porn that was pretty 
extensive.  In either case I wanted nothing to do with it so I closed the 
chat window and immediately added him to my Ignore list.  Needless to say, I 
also deleted everything he sent me immediately - including the pics.

So what would you have done if you had been me? Would you have answered him 
in the first place when he admitted his incestual interests in his daughter? 
How would you have felt upon learning she wasn't sixteen as he first 
described but only three years old? How would you have responded when he 
asked what sort of naughty pic he should take next? What if he had gone 
further than just some innocent poses - THEN what you have done?


Chapter 2 - Dad and 11 year-old Daughter
========================================

This started out as yet another guy telling me about his incestual fantasies 
about his eleven year-old daughter.  What made it unique was apparently he 
had legal issues in the past with that had something to do with Internet 
child pornography.  His lawyer was able to get him off on a technicality but 
as you might imagine, he claimed that his wife was still pretty upset about 
everything.

You would think a close call like that would keep a guy on the straight and 
narrow but all he wanted to talk about was his lust for his preteen daughter 
and her friends.  He sent me tons of family pics, enough to where I was able 
to identify who he really was and where they lived.  For instance, he took 
pics of her at a Girl Scout picnic and outside a store selling Girl Scout 
cookies where the troop number was visible as well as their name tags.  He 
didn't really believe I knew all that much until I sent him a Google map 
photo of his house!

Once he got started, he sent more “private” ones that he'd taken of his 
daughter in the shower and while she was asleep.  She was never nude, or at 
least nothing private showed in the pics, but they were highly suggestive.  
In a few of the later ones he had his dick out in the foreground of the pic 
with her in the background, sleeping or otherwise oblivious to what her dad 
was secretly doing. 

Things continued to escalate when he sent me a couple where she was sound 
asleep and he was pulling down her bottoms so he could touch her bare butt 
with his hard cock.  That went to him holding his cock up to her sleeping 
face, all but touching it to her cheek and lips.

Then came pics of him laying naked on her bed, playing with her stuffed toys 
and underwear, rubbing them against his erection and finally covering them 
with cum as he masturbated about having sex with her.  He was pretty creative 
took more of him cumming on her Winnie-the-Pooh panties, her toothbrush, and 
even into her mouthwash bottle which supposedly he left for her to rinse with 
later.

Thankfully he never sent me nudes of her and as best as I could tell, he was 
just fantasizing about doing anything for real with her.  Otherwise I would 
have had to cut him off like I did with other guys who crossed the line.  
Over time he sent me literally hundreds of pics of her taken at family 
gatherings, soccer games, girl scout activities, etc.  Some of them were 
obviously taken without his wife's knowledge based on what part of her 
anatomy was the center of attention of the photo! A lot of them included his 
wife as well so you can imagine what she would have said had she known what 
he was doing.  I have to admit that it was sort of fun to see what he would 
do next.

If there's one thing I've learned chatting with guys it's that if they do it 
long enough then eventually the wife or girlfriend always finds out.  Did his 
wife became suspicious of his on-line activities? All I know is that one day 
he suddenly disappeared and never contacted me again so I have no idea what 
happened to him.

What would you have done? Would you have encouraged a known pedophile to 
fantasize about having sex with his pre-teen daughter? What would you have 
done knowing he was tainting her toothbrush and mouthwash with his cum? How 
would you feel about a father who plays on his daughter's bed naked, 
masturbating with her stuffed toys and panties and using them to soak up his 
cum? What do you think happened to him at the end?


Chapter 3 - Dad and 3 year-old Son
==================================

This guy was one of the most disturbing characters I've ever encountered.  He 
was yet another one of those guys who enjoyed masturbated on cam for me and 
he was doing a pretty good job of stroking himself one day when to my 
complete surprise his three year-old son came into view.  The fact that the 
dad kept his erect dick out and didn't stop stroking it while his son watched 
was disturbing enough but then he took his son's hand and had HIM hold his 
dad's hard dick.  I'm sure at that age the boy had no real idea of what was 
going on but still, what kind of father let's a boy that young play with ANY 
adult hard cock, even if it's his dad's?

Just when I was about to close the cam window and add him to my “Ignore” 
list, he moved the boy between his legs and pulled his head down to his lap.  
The cam was too grainy and dark for me to be able to tell exactly what was 
happening so I will never know whether or not he actually had his son suck 
his dick.  However, he said that was what was happening and he claimed that 
he loved having his son suck his cock.  He also said that he liked to suck 
his son's dick but he didn't do anything like that on cam. 

It was at this point that I closed the cam window and I never talked to him 
ever again.  This was going WAY too far for me and I didn't want to be 
involved with it in any way, shape or form.  It made me shudder to think that 
he might actually have his son suck his dick at such a young age.  That was 
horrible enough but then to do it on cam for a total stranger????

SO what would you have done had this happened to you? Would you have waited 
to close the cam window until you were sure what was going on, one way or the 
other?  Sometimes I wish I had just to be sure if he was scamming me or not.


Chapter 4 - Cheating Fiance and School Teacher
==============================================

This was one of those many guys who seem utterly clueless when it comes to 
the Internet.  Why do people assume that just because they chat and e-mail at 
home in private that what they do is going to remain private? This guy was a 
elementary school teacher - a fact I was able to confirm on the school's web 
site, but his dream was to be an entertainer.  He even worked at Disney World 
as did his fiancé, something else I was able to confirm looking at photos on 
the Disney web site.

Like many men, this guy wasn't happy with having a nice girl who loved him - 
a hot looking one at that.  He loved to chat and cam for me, masturbating a 
little at first and then adding in her panties (they lived together).  Things 
escalated over time as he started to bring out her lingerie and bikinis, 
using them to jerk of with and then cumming on them.  It was sort of wild 
that he was doing all this even BEFORE he got married as most guys wait to 
start fantasizing about women outside of marriage AFTER they were married for 
a while.

Even with all this, so far it wasn't anything all that different from what a 
number of guys have done for me but then he upped the ante by actually 
wearing her panties and bra.  Then he would jerk off while wearing them and 
shoot his cum on a pile of her underwear he laid out on the bed.  I can't say 
he looked very sexy in girl's underwear but I doubt his fiance would have 
been pleased and that's what made it fun to watch, imagining what she would 
say if she could only see him now! Then one day he surprised me when he wore 
her bikini and jerked off, but this time cumming INSIDE the bottoms by 
pulling them out and shooting his cum into the crotch while still wearing the 
bikini bottom!

Well, as happens with so many guys that do stupid things on the Internet, 
somehow along the way he slipped up and his fiance found out what he was 
doing.  She actually contacted me and at first things were a little tense but 
she kept her emotions in check so she could find out more about what her 
fiancé had been doing with me - not to mention what my intentions were 
regarding him.

Needless to say, I assured her I had NO intentions whatsoever of ever 
actually meeting him and I even shared some of the web cams that he had done 
for me while wearing her bikini and lingerie.  When I finally got to the one 
of him cumming while still wearing them, I think that was the last straw for 
her.  I got the idea that up to that point she wasn't all that upset with him 
chatting and masturbating, but when she realized what else he was doing that 
was end of everything and I never heard from either of them again.

What would you have done? Knowing his school e-mail address and the address 
of the principal, would you have shared his e-mails and webcams with the 
school?  Would you want a guy like that teaching your kids? Was I right to 
share everything with his fiancé, things he had done with the assumption they 
would remain private? Was I wrong to encourage him along the way?


Chapter 5 - Naughty Cross-Dressing Husband
==========================================

This started out as yet another guy unhappy with his marriage, especially his 
wife's lack of sexual interest.  This may have been due to her gaining a lot 
of weight but then I learned of another reason that was probably creating 
issues between them - he loved to dress as a woman! He had even gone so far 
as to buy fake breasts which he would wear under dresses.  He didn't use his 
wife's clothing - they would have been far too large for him anyway, and he 
had quite a collections of dresses, skirts and bikinis.  I had to wonder how 
his wife felt about his “alternative wardrobe”!

In addition to the usual family photo album stuff, he had taken a number of 
pics of her recently while they were having sex plus nudes of her in the 
shower and bathtub.  It was one thing for him to share them with me but it 
seemed he was so turned on in doing it that he went another step and started 
to post them to a website where amateurs could post pictures of their wives 
and girlfriends.

Meanwhile, he'd given me enough personal information that I was able to track 
down his wife's e-mail address and even found a websites where she posted 
comments about dieting and one where she was a member of an arts and crafts 
group.  I joined both groups and traded e-mails and comments with her.  It 
was rather funny to me to talk to her like just another girl when she had no 
idea about my on-line relationship was with her husband.

As happens so often, the wife found out what her husband was doing.  She even 
learned about the site where he'd posted her nude photos.  Boy, talk about 
some scathing e-mails after that! Even worse for him, he was in the military 
and she said she would be turning him in to his superiors.  After that, I 
never heard from either of them again.

What would you have done? Was I right to encourage him to share their 
personal photos? Was I somewhat responsible for his posting nudes of his wife 
on another website? Sure he was the one who did it but would he have even 
gotten the idea without me? Was it wrong of me to contact her privately and 
pretend to be her friend, not telling her who I really was?


Chapter 6 - Horny Husband
=========================

What can I say, I get a lot of husbands contacting me! This guy had a wife 
and young son and was basically nothing all that unusual or special except 
his complaint was that his wife didn't do ENOUGH for him.  They had good sex 
and she even sucked his dick (sparingly) but he wanted it more often than she 
did.  It's funny how here was a married guy who was actually GETTING laid by 
his wife and STILL, he wasn't satisfied.

After sharing tons of family pics, he started sending me ones she had 
knowingly posed for in lingerie, some of it quite sheer.  Eventually he sent 
the “good ones” where she removed the lingerie as well.  He even sent some 
nudes she had him take when she was pregnant! He claimed that when he took 
the more recent ones that he was thinking of me while he shot the nude pics 
of his wife.

Actually, compared to many husbands he was quite tame and overall was a 
really nice guy to chat and e-mail with.  He never went crazy with talk about 
anything perverted. 

In this case he quit before his wife ever found out what he shared with me 
about her, at least so far as I know.  Instead, it seemed to be a case of a 
guilty conscious that ended our “relationship”.  He asked me to delete 
everything he sent me and was very nice about our break-up, it was just he 
felt he was not being fair to his wife.

What would you have done? Was it right to encourage a man who obviously loved 
his wife and had a good sex life with her to share the private photos she had 
assumed were just for her husband's pleasure? Would you have deleted the sexy 
photos of her that he sent?


Chapter 7 - Naughty Dad
=======================

This one goes way back to when I was a freshman in college and first started 
chatting with guys on-line about sex.  I was pretty naive back then and so 
when he started telling me about his incestual lust for his thirteen year-old 
daughter I was shocked.  It was the first time a guy had told me something 
like that on-line and then I was even more surprised when he started sharing 
pics of him and her.

In retrospect, I think that what he REALLY wanted was to meet me and that 
somehow he thought that telling me about his daughter and doing naughty 
things regarding her might somehow turn me on enough to want to meet him.  He 
even gave me his phone number and address which turned out to be in the same 
town where I was going to school.  Out of curiosity, one day I drove by the 
house day and sure enough, it was the same one in the photos he'd sent..  
Once there was a parade in town and he told me that his daughter was going to 
be in it so I watched the parade and sure enough, there she was! It seemed 
rather surreal to actual see her after everything her dad had said about her.

When I balked at meeting him, he tried using his daughter even more for bait, 
sending me pics of him masturbating using her bikini top (the same one she 
was wearing in earlier pics he had sent me).  Then it was pics of him cumming 
on her training bra laid out on her bed.  Imagine how I felt when he sent 
pics of him shooting cum on her photos! (BTW - that was the first time anyone 
sent me a “tribute”) The final set was of her sleeping in bed topless.

When that didn't entice me to meet him, he told me about this swinger group 
that he was involved in, supposedly without his wife knowing.  He sent me 
pics of him having group sex and indeed, it was the same guy in the father-
daughter pics he was sending me from the start so they were obviously him.  
They weren't exactly the sexiest looking people but it was the idea that he 
would share such things with me that made them interesting.

Things eventually ended when he realized I was never going to meet him (even 
though I had told him that from the beginning).  Then I found his daughter's 
MySpace page and became her “friend”.  She was a little surprised at some of 
the things I knew about her.  I never told her about her father's thoughts 
and actions but I did hint just a bit that she might want to talk to him 
sometime.  When he found out what I was doing, I think it scared him silly 
and we never made contact again.  Oh, his daughter's MySpace page was deleted 
as well!

What would you have done? Would you have driven by his house to confirm who 
he was? Would you have watched his daughter in the parade? Would you have 
become her friend on MySpace? Would you have met him being he was only a few 
miles away from where I was going to school at the time?


Chapter 8 - Incest Family
=========================

This one is a bit different from the rest so far since I don't think the 
person was real but it still brings up an interesting ethical dilemma. You 
can read more about this in the Friends section of my website under the 
Robertson Family.  Here is what you might say is the story behind the story.

I was contacted by a person claiming to be a mother interested in having sex 
with her teenage son and daughter.  We never did anything but trade e-mails - 
no pics, cams, or anything personal.  Over time, her “daughter” e-mailed me.  
I won't repeat everything that is already posted so to make a long story 
short, over time the father got involved and the parents and kids had sex.

From the very beginning I had my doubts.  The daughter was suppose to be 
fourteen but wrote with the same style and syntax as her mother - even the 
same common spelling and grammar errors.  Over time she supposedly had sex 
with her brother at school after talking about it with me and was caught.  
That ended my so-called relationship with the family.

So what was the ethical dilemma? Well, I have a firm rule against chatting 
with underage kids.  It's not that I don't like kids - I AM an elementary 
school teacher after all.  It's just that there's a HUGE difference between a 
teacher- student relationship and discussing incestual sex.  I simply have no 
interest in talk with kids about sexual subjects and in any case, it's a huge 
legal liability.  

So why was I chatting with fourteen year-old “Lisa”?  Simply put, I never 
believed she was real at the time and to this day, I am convinced all of the 
character who wrote me from that “family” were from one person - probably 
some guy judging from the nature of the discussions.  I don't believe for an 
instant anything happened in school but rather that it was a way for whoever 
was writing me to extricate themselves from the conversation without having 
to admit who he really was.

So what would you have done? Even if you didn't believe the person was an 
underage kid, would you have ended the conversation when they claimed they 
were?  How do you feel about discussing incest with someone who is pretending 
to be a mother of two teens?


Chapter 9 - Horny Wife and Mother
=================================

"Shannon" was an interesting case.  Like the "Robertson Family" mentioned 
above, she is also in my Friends section of my website so I won't go into a 
lot of detail here about what we did but instead focus on WHY. 

Shannon was an overweight wife and mother of two preteen kids.  She wasn't 
interested in incest and was actually quite protective of her kids so there 
was never anything untoward about her and them.  She was actually the 
opposite of most people who contact me.  In his case it was the WIFE who was 
unhappy with sex with her husband.

What made Shannon especially different is she wasn't just interested in 
spicing up her sex life with some guy she knew back in high school, but she 
also got involved with a sixteen year-old boy she met on the Internet - Billy 
Cluderay.

First a word about the Cluderay family (also in my Friend's section).  This 
was another case where a mother contacted me about wanting to have sex with 
her kids.  To this day I have no idea if anything she told me was true, or 
even if she was who she claimed to be.  I haven't heard from her now in ages 
so I guess it will just be one of those things that I am left to wonder 
about.

The point is that Shannon started to chat and e-mail the sixteen year-old son 
without knowing for sure he even existed, let alone be who he said he was.  I 
was copied in on most of it by the mother (supposedly) which always seems a 
little strange to me.  It was a bit voyeuristic for me to follow along as 
Shannon and I also communicated at the same time.  While she sent me some 
family photos, I was shocked when she started to send “Billy” more and more 
revealing photos of her, until eventually she was nude and fingering herself 
for him. 

Everything got quite complicated so I'll just sum it up by saying I haven't 
heard from Shannon (or the Cluderay family members) in ages.  I think she got 
a divorce from her husband and ended up losing weight and having a number of 
liaisons with old boyfriends and even a few teenage boys (but never “Billy”).  
As for the Cluderay family, I think they are a series of figures that are 
really all one person.  I DO admit to being curious who it is and why they do 
it.

This was interesting in that I believe Shannon is really the person she 
claimed to be.  I was able to verify a lot about her in ways I won't mention 
here but it was enough to convince me that SHE existed.  The question I will 
always have is was her STORY real? Did any of the things she said happened to 
her really happen?  I know she took those photos for Billy but that didn't 
mean she was doing the things she said she was.  I have to admit I'm curious 
and would love to know what the full story was.

So what would you have done?  Would you have shared your doubts about Billy 
and his family with her before she started sending photos of herself that 
could someday come back to haunt her? Would you have tried to stay in touch 
with her?  Would you have believed her stories? Was it right for me to post 
everything on my website? Initially I had her permission but she has since 
asked for it to be removed.  I keep it up as all the revealing personal 
information was deleted so it may as well be fiction so far as she goes.


Chapter 10 - Husband's Tributes
===============================

It never ceases to amaze me how many men out there are married and gripe 
about their wife's lack of sex drive or otherwise unhappiness with his sex 
life.  In this case, he was interested in the “tributes”: I use to post on my 
web site where guys would take a picture of someone and then masturbate to 
it, covering it with cum and then sending me a photo of the results - 
preferably with their erect dick in the pic as well.  Usually these guys used 
a pic of me or someone in my family but some of them would do it to photos of 
their wives or even their daughters.

This particular husband decided that doing tributes using photos of his wife 
was somehow “revenge” for her gaining weight and not taking care of his 
sexual needs.  Lots of guys actually have done that for me but he went 
another step beyond by cumming on her clothes, jewelry, even her shoes.  
Sometimes he would send me a pic of her wearing an outfit or jewelry and then 
send me another photo of him covering that blouse, dress or necklace in his 
cum!

Had it been once or twice it would have been erotic but nothing all that 
unusual.  However, this guys went on for months, covering her lingerie, 
dresses, photos and just about anything I could think of to suggest to him.

Eventually I think it sank into him what he was doing and he quit and I never 
heard from him again.  Still, was it right for me to encourage him to do 
these things to his wife's personal things?


Chapter 11 - Unfaithful Husband
===============================

I am always worried about my personal privacy and in many cases people get 
upset with me when I don't reveal what they want to know.  What surprises me 
is how many guys are willing to share their most intimate personal secrets 
AND their true identity with me when in reality they know nothing about me.  
In some cases it's by accident but they should have been more careful. 

This guy tried to be secret but he sent me a lot of family pics, not 
realizing that some of them were from situations where people wore name tags 
and so I was able to blow up the pics and get the real names.  It doesn't 
take much when you know a name and general location to find their address and 
phone number and all sorts of other things. 

Along with being upset with his wife's lack of sexual drive, he told me about 
his incestuous desires for his daughter who was living away from home now.  
He often would chat with me and tell me in detail his fantasies of how he 
wanted to fuck his daughter. In doing so he would express even more 
frustration with his wife, claiming she was the obstacle that prevented him 
from realizing his dreams with his daughter when she was younger.

In addition to his incestual desires, he also lusted for a couple of women he 
worked with and went to church with, sending me photos of them together in 
public situations.  Again, he would often chat with me and tell me in graphic 
detail his desires for them.

In another case of “revenge”, he would send me photos of his wife that he 
sneaked where she was nude, one even of her touching herself when she was 
drunk.  Then he started sending me tributes where he would cum on her 
lingerie and bras which he would drape over pics of me while he took pictures 
in the mirror of what he was doing.  In one case he even took a picture of 
her with some flowers she received from a “secret pal” at church, followed 
later by him masturbating and cumming on those same flowers along with a 
photo of one of the women he lusted for behind them.

Besides al the personal information I knew about him and his family, what 
made him unique was that he had a FaceBook page with his daughter as friend.  
I invited her to be my friend and in doing so learned even more about her. 
One of those things I learned was the identity of the neighbor women who 
lived across the street from him.  I added her as a friend and we started to 
have “interesting” conversations.  As it turned out, she was cheating on her 
husband!  The guy I was chatting with lusted for her but never knew the 
details that I shared with him.  I sent some photos of her from her FaceBook 
page which he returned with him cumming all over her, with his wife's bra 
draped around the neighbor's photo!

Was I right to encourage his incestuous and adulterous fantasies? In some 
ways I felt guilty yet in other ways I felt it was his problem, not mine.  
There were times I was tempted to send that tribute of him cumming on his 
neighbor with his wife's bra acting as a “frame”.  What would she have said? 
Of course I never did but the idea was pretty erotic!  What would his 
daughter have said if I e- mailed her the transcript of my chats with her dad 
where he went on in the greatest of detail about what he wanted to do to her?  
What would his wife have said had she opened the mail one day to find photos 
of herself naked and masturbating, along with photos of her husband cumming 
on her clothing and on photos of other women, including a women from their 
church?  Did he “deserve” any of this for being so foolish?


Chapter 12 - How Far to Go For a Job?
=====================================

I would be the first to admit that I have often used sex to manipulate 
people, particularly men, to get the things I want.  Before saying about me 
though, what girl doesn't? From the time her boobs start to grow and her legs 
and hips start to fill out, every girls knows that all it takes is a sly 
smile and an innocent flash to get about anything she wants  Some girls take 
more advantage of this “gift” than others and I've always had a tendency to 
lean towards the far end of the “use what your momma gave you” spectrum.  The 
key thing from my point of view is that it is ME determining what I want and 
how far I'm willing to go to get it.  All this said, there are also those 
times when I like to be able to do something without relying on sex.  It's 
sort of a pride/ego thing to be able to accomplish something without relying 
on sex as a crutch.

When it comes to NOT using sex as an aid, one area that stands out for me is 
my career as a teacher.  I've earned my way thus far based on hard work and 
intelligence, not by showing off my ass.  I graduated from a tough college 
with an outstanding GPA and never once blew a teacher or even flirted with 
one.  OK, so I had a few guys who help me study in exchange for a BJ or 
whatever, but I enjoyed it just as much as they did.  The day I received my 
diploma was one of the proudest days of my life.  My goal is that my teaching 
career will continue to follow this path.  In honor of full-disclosure, here 
was also an element of not wanting to have anything hanging over my head that 
can come back to haunt me years later in my career.

Last year I was thrilled when I got my first teaching position.  It was a 
low-paying, temporary position at a small Christian school but I was a REAL 
teacher and that's what was important.  Imagine how crushed I was when I was 
forced to resign when someone revealed things about my personal life to the 
school administrator that I would have preferred he never know about.  In 
this case it wasn't sex that GOT me the job, but rather it was sex that LOST 
me the job.  When the administrator had to retire for medical reasons, I was 
thrilled to find out that the new one was willing to hire me back.  Naturally 
I assumed he hadn't been informed as to the real reason I had to resign the 
previous year.

As it turned out, he knew everything but instead of using it to not hire me, 
he used it to satisfy his needs by making sex with him a prerequisite for the 
job.  I could have said no and walked out, but getting another position 
without a good reference from my previous position would be difficult at 
best.  So I agreed to his demands, assuming it would end once the “interview” 
process was over.  Events afterwards have me concerned that I may have been 
wrong in my assumptions.  Now I am worried that he may make this an on-going 
requirement for me to keep my job.  Of course I could easily ruin his career 
and marriage by turning him in, but that would be like mutual assured 
destruction, crippling my career and possibly leading to even more widespread 
problems for my family. 

So what would you have done - and what would you do in the future? Would you 
have let him fuck you if you thought that was all you had to do to get your 
dream job? Would you stand up for yourself now and say no, even if it meant 
you would lose your teaching career? Would you expose him for what he was 
doing, assuring that your own career would be ruined for life as well?


Chapter 13 - Dad Wants His Daughter & Her Friends 
=================================================

Maybe one of the most controversial guys that I posted on my now defunct 
website was Craig.  Once again, I was amazed at how someone could divulge so 
much personal information about themselves and their families to a total 
stranger.  He didn't intend to at the start, but over time he made slips and 
sent me photos that told more than he realized.  For instance, I asked him to 
take photos of his daughter's bedroom and personal things for me.  She had 
just graduated from 8th grade and he claimed to want to have sex with her as 
well as several of her hot friends.  Some of those pics had books and 
personal belongings with her name on them, including the school she went to! 
It didn't take much research to find out their identities and once he 
realized I knew who he was he opened up with everything.

Perhaps what surprised me the most was him giving me access to her FaceBook 
and e-mail accounts.  I had her user names and passwords! I knew it was her 
actual accounts because there was simply too much stuff there to be faked. I 
even had access to her cell phone bills and thus her phone records! I would 
send him e- mails from her account, posing as her and asking him for sex.  It 
turned him on but the idiot once replied to the wrong address! Fortunately 
for him I caught it and deleted it from her inbox before she saw it.  Even 
after that close call he continued though.

Craig was a prolific photo taker and tribute maker.  He would spread out his 
daughter's bras and panties all over her bed and then take photos of them and 
then with him laying her bed masturbating with the underwear.  He took pics 
of her around the house in poses and clothes that I doubt she would have 
appreciated knowing he was sending them to another girl he'd never met.  She 
would have undoubtedly been grossed out of she knew her dad had even shot cum 
all over her computer keyboard while a photo of her and her friends in their 
bikinis was up on the screen.

Over time he sent me dozens of tributes to his daughter and her friends along 
with a number of detailed stories about how her felt about them and what he 
wanted to do with them.  Like most guys, he eventually must have realized how 
stupid he was being and how this could all backfire on him so he went away 
and I never heard from him again.

Was I right to encourage him to do these things with his daughter's personal 
clothing and belongings? With my access to her FaceBook page, what would have 
happened if I had posted her dad's tributes to her and her bras in an album 
for all her friends to see? What if her email had a copy of the stories he 
would write to me telling me his incestuous desires for her? What if I had 
sent an email to one of her friends using her email account, with a copy of 
her dad's dick cumming on her friend's photo attached?


Chapter 14 - Postlude
=====================

So that's it for now.  These are just a few of the many ethical dilemmas I 
have had to face over the years.  So please write me and tell me how you 
would have handled them if you had been me at the time.  Not that it will 
change the past, but I would be interested to know how people feel I have 
handled these situations and perhaps learn better how to deal with them in 
the future.

THE END 
