Subject:     Married Guy FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
Story Codes: nosex
Date:        April 25, 2012
Author:      Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>

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Summary:

A lot of people have asked me about why I love having sex with married men so 
I decided to write a special FAQ about it.  Please note that these are my 
personal views and not intended to judge other people's lifestyle or conduct.  
What people do in their marriages is their choice and if they feel 
differently than I do about these issues and their marriage is working, more 
power to them!

I also want to be sure that nothing in this article has anything to do with 
my father.  I do NOT view him as a "married man" in the context of this 
discussion.   He is my father which means what we do is incest which is 
entirely different that what I am discussing in this article.  How I feel 
about sex with my dad is covered in other articles I have posted.

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Before discussing this topic any further, a few definitions are in order:

Sex: The penetration, however slight, of a female vagina by a male penis.  
Even if the hymen remains intact or not all of the dick gets in the  pussy, 
it's still sex.  Once ANY part of a dick is in her, even if  it's just the 
very tip, it's as good as ALL in.  Thus a girl can have an intact hymen but 
NOT be a virgin.

Family: The members of your immediate family out to and including first 
cousins, whether by blood OR marriage.

Adultery: When a married person has sex with someone not in their family (as 
defined above) with the intent of cheating on their spouse.  Thus it is the 
INTENT that defines adultery, not the act of having sex.  It’s important to 
note that you can't commit adultery unless you're married.  If you're single 
and have sex with a married partner, THEY are the ones potentially committing 
adultery, not you.

Incest: The act of sex between members of the same family.  Thus by this 
definition, whether or not an act of sex constitutes "incest" is determined 
by the family relationship between the partners, not just their DNA.  For 
example, sex between a girl and her brother-in-law is still incest, even 
though we come from different blood.  Sex that qualifies as "incest" is 
between family members and thus is NOT adultery, regardless of the intent.  

Oral "Sex": At its core, sex is fundamentally a reproductive act (even though 
most of the time that isn't the intended purpose).  Thus by definition, oral 
"sex" is NOT sex.  Because it’s NOT sex, engaging in oral "sex" cannot ever 
be considered adultery or incest.  Note that by using the same logic, anal 
"sex" is not sex either. 

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QUESTION: What is your view on marriage and adultery?

ANSWER: I firmly believe that marriage is a sacred institution blessed by 
God.  A man and woman pledge their lives to one another "until death do you 
part" (don't even get me started on some of the new wedding vows that omit 
this!).  I believe that this vow includes a promise to be faithful to your 
spouse for the rest of your life.

The key here is to define precisely what is meant by marriage and adultery.  
Referring to the definitions above, I believe that when you marry someone you 
also “marry” their family.  Family is EXTREMELY important to me and this is 
reflected in this definition.  Also, adultery is an act against marriage.  
Substitute the word “cheating” for “adultery” and it makes it much easier to 
understand.

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QUESTION: What do you mean by "someone outside your family"?

ANSWER: Marriage is more than just a relationship between a man and a woman.  
Just as a husband and wife vow to be faithful to one another their entire 
lives, in a healthy family the members support and love one another in the 
same way.  Admittedly this may be unfair in some people's eyes as they had no 
choice about the matter (e.g. "I didn't marry my brother-in-law"), but that's 
the way I believe God intended it to work.  Unfortunately, because of the 
self-will granted to us by God not everyone follows God's plans for us and so 
in many families this closeness and fidelity is missing.

When a family unit is truly in sync with God's plan the result is not only an 
emotional bonding but a physical one as well.  By this I mean not just 
hugging and such but sexual.  Most families have deviated from the path set 
for them and in some cases taken a 180 degree turn.  Because of man's 
perversions this has resulted in cases where sexual relationships are 
maintained yet the love and intimacy necessary to maintain the respect and 
discipline needed are missing.  Thus an imbalance is created which is why the 
word "incest" has come to describe these perverted families where children 
are abused and lives destroyed.

There are families where belief in God, love, respect and discipline combine 
to form a balanced union where sexual relationships are just one aspect of 
the family dynamic.  I'm fortunate to be in such a family.

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QUESTION: Why do you like to have sex with married men?

ANSWER: Marriage is a special relationship where love and respect by both 
partners is vital.  Personally, I do NOT condone cheating.

Let me say that again in a slightly different way.... I do NOT condone or 
wish to promote adultery - as I define it.

I've had many men write me and ask my opinion on how to cheat on their wives 
and in every case my initial response has been to encourage them NOT to do 
so.  Many men try to rationalize their behavior by claiming their wife isn't 
interested in sex.  Well, all I have to say is, "it takes two".

Although in a perfect world men would not cheat on their wives (or vice 
versa), should a man choose to break the oath he took with his wife before 
God, then that's HIS decision and HIS responsibility.  I feel NO 
responsibility whatsoever for the consequences he may face as the only way 
his wife would know is if he told her.  

I have no desire to hurt anyone or to cause marital problems.  The fact 
someone is cheating demonstrates that the marital problems are already there 
so if anything, maybe getting it out of his system with me will help.  I like 
to think that having sex with me could actually end up HELPING their 
marriage!  I've had a few guys tell me that even just chatting with me, doing 
tributes, etc. has helped renew their sexual interest in their wives.

For me, having sex with a married man is far more an erotic experience than 
simply something that is physically pleasurable.  What I mean is that while 
normally I would claim that sex is typically 80% emotional and 20% physical, 
when doing it with a cheating husband those numbers move to 95% emotional and 
5% or less about the physical side of sex.

The reason for the heavy emphasis on the "emotional" aspects of sex is that 
when a husband is fucking me and I feel his adulterous cock inside of me, I 
know that his wife is sitting at home totally unaware that her husband is 
fucking a girl probably half her age.  It makes me feel really good inside to 
know that her "loving" husband lusts for me so much that he’s willing to 
violate his most sacred vows to her.  He is literally willing to sacrifice 
his marriage and family just for the opportunity to have sex with ME for a 
few hours.  How can anyone blame me for feeling incredibly sexy and desirable 
in this situation?  I'm sure your ego would be boosted if you were in my 
shoes.

It's not just during sex that it turns me on either.  After he leaves I will 
usually masturbate, thinking about him returning home and facing his wife 
with his dick still covered with my pussy cum as he kisses her goodnight and 
slips into bed with her.  When he says he loves her does he think about what 
he did with me?  The next time they make love, is it my pussy he remembers 
when he cums?  When his wife turns up her nose at the thought of oral sex, 
does he wish I was there to suck his cock once again?  Does he feel guilty?  
Will he ever be able to forget what he did with me or will I be a part of his 
life for the rest of his days?  Does he masturbate thinking about how good it 
felt to fuck me? As you can see,  it goes way beyond just the few minutes or 
hours we spend together - for both of us.

One of my most memorable experiences was having sex with a husband while he 
was on his cell phone with his wife.  Just as I felt him start to shoot his 
adulterous sperm inside my pussy, I heard him telling his wife that he loved 
her more than anything and couldn't wait to be back home again with her.  He 
kept repeating over and over how he loved her even as he came in me.  As you 
might imagine, it wasn't his cock ejaculating in me that made me cum so hard.  
It was how I imagined his wife smiling at home, thinking that her supposedly 
loyal husband really loved her when what he was really loving was the feel of 
my tight pussy clamping down on his adulterous erect cock as he pumped me 
with the sperm that SHOULD have in her pussy instead!!

At first I realize that this may all seem a bit contradictory, confusing, and 
maybe even a little hypocritical.  It's difficult to explain and hopefully if 
you think about it more then you'll understand it's not really all that 
complicated.  After all, I honestly encourage every husband to remain 
faithful to his wife.  In a perfect world, there would be no married men 
running around begging to fuck me.  However, we all know that's not the case 
so if a husband chooses to cheat on his wife, then it may as well be me as 
anyone else.  One thing for sure though; I would NEVER want his wife to know 
about it, even if she deserves it.

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QUESTION: Doesn't helping a man commit adultery make you feel guilty?

ANSWER: If a man chooses to cheat on his wife then it is 100% HIS decision 
and HIS responsibility.  I don't put a gun to his head or force him to do 
anything.  In addition, I don't feel any responsibility for whatever 
consequences he may face since the only way his wife would know about 
anything is if he told her as I certainly never would.

I have NO desire to hurt anyone or to cause marital problems.  The fact he's 
cheating shows the problems are already there and if anything, maybe getting 
it out of his system by fucking me will help - who knows?

So do I feel guilty? Not one bit!

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QUESTION: Do you want their wives to know?

ANSWER: I'm not interested in married three-somes unless there is something 
"special" about it.  Besides, if the wife knows about it and is OK with it, 
then what's the point?  I may as well get laid by a single guy!  If she's NOT 
OK with it then I especially don't want her to know as I don't want to hurt 
her, regardless of whether she "deserves" it or not.  It's her cheating 
husband that deserves to be punished, not her.

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QUESTION: Do you condone adultery?

ANSWER: Absolutely NOT! I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage and I 
sincerely wish that every marriage was strong and faithful.  Unfortunately 
the simple fact is that most aren't.  I have NO desire to do any harm to a 
healthy marriage but when a man makes the decision to betray his wife, then 
obviously there are deep-rooted issues that didn't start with me.  So 
husbands - stay true to your wives!  But if you can't for some reason, look 
me up!

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QUESTION: How do you feel about the husbands you have sex with?

ANSWER: Frankly, I think in most cases any man who cheats on his wife has 
deep character flaws that extend beyond his willingness to break his word.  
While I don't have to respect the man to enjoy being fucked by him, I could 
never have anything to do long-term with a who cheats on his wife with me.  
This is one of the main reasons I never go out with a married man twice (not 
to mention I have no desire to be someone's mistress).  There may be 
excellent reasons for rationalizing his behavior but none that forgive it.

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QUESTION: What would you do someday if your husband had sex with a girl 
          like you behind your back?

ANSWER: Easiest question of them all! I would neuter him, kick him out of the 
house, and divorce him taking every cent he has!  Fortunately I love my 
husband and submit to his sexual needs so I’d like to think there is no 
reason he ever feels the need to cheat on me.

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QUESTION: What do you NOT like about having sex with married men?

ANSWER: I would say that the only negative thing for me is that it's just 
about the sex and nothing else.  There is no feeling of intimacy since I know 
I'll never see him again.  There is also the issue that I can't respect a man 
who is a liar and an adulterer.

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QUESTION: Once a man cheats, is he branded forever in your eyes?

ANSWER: Everyone makes mistakes and just because a man made a wrong decision 
in the past doesn't mean he can't see the error in his ways and be forgiven.  
My goodness, isn't forgiveness the very core of Christianity? I have no 
issues with a man who tells me that he once cheated on his wife (or however 
many times he did) but now he realizes that he was wrong to do so, no matter 
how he may have rationalized it at the time.

Of course, that all goes out the window when he fucks me.  Once a guy has 
fucked me, I really would rather not have anything to do with him again, at 
least from a sexual perspective.

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QUESTION: Is there any scenario where you would be willing to have sex 
          with a married man more than once?

ANSWER: Keep in mind for me the issue is not adultery.  HE is the one 
committing adultery, not me, so it's HIS issue to deal with.  For me, it's 
one of respect.

Thinking it over, the only way I could see this happening would be if two 
conditions were met:

1. He would have to be a friend. I mean more than an on-line chat buddy.  We 
wouldn't necessarily have to date, although that would be best.  Maybe we 
could just know each other in a platonic relationship such as co-workers at 
church or something like that.  The point is that I would have to like being 
with him WITHOUT sex first.

2. His wife would have to consent. I don't mean join in and for goodness 
sakes, the LAST thing I want is a couple looking for a three-some (OK, maybe 
one time but that's all).  When I say consent, I don't mean he tells me she 
is OK with it.  I mean SHE tells me she is and does so face to face so I am 
positive that she understands her husband is going to be fucking me.  In this 
type of situation I'd rather she not be there when we have sex but I want her 
to know what her husband is doing and agree with it.

As I said, both conditions would have to met and I imagine it's the second 
one that would prove to be the major obstacle.  As such, I wouldn't start 
meeting a guy just in HOPES that the second condition might someday 
miraculously happen.   Even if both conditions are met I would still have to 
think it over and feel assured it was something he wanted to do out of 
respect for me, not just to fuck a girl half his age.

Granted, the odds of both conditions being met are pretty astronomical, which 
is why I usually make the general statement that I only fuck married guys 
once.   However who knows what might happen in the future!!

THE END 
