Why Men Share Their Wives - The Extra Guy's View

A Single Male's View of Wife-Sharing

I have played with three couples over the last few years.  Through those experiences I have learned that there are a lot of reasons why men love to share their wives, and why the wives enjoy being shared.  

A lot of men were raised to believe that their are two entirely different kinds of women... the "Nice Girls" that you marry and have kids with, and the "Bad Girls."  Men learn that they can fuck the bad girls, but it is the good girls that you love.

Through the wife-sharing lifestyle couples have learned the special pleasures of the husband getting to see his nice good girl wife and mother become "a bad girl" who shows how much she enjoys sex and sexual variety.  As a single guy who has been invited to share three different wives, I can tell you it is very hot seeing such wives enjoy sex and aggressively fucking their brains out!  

I have observed that if you are in a long-term relationship, and you have been married for 15, 20, or 25 years, at some point the sex will start to get boring.  You are going to have to do something to spice up your shared sex life.  If you are in a good relationship, then by opening it up to additional sexual playmates, you will have even stronger bonds, because of your trust and love one another.  

It sounds odd, but many couples that are into the wife-sharing lifestyle have been together for 20, 25, 30, or 35+ years!  They have a special bond because first and foremost they deeply love and trust one another.  

Wife-sharing is a very "modern" concept.  It empowers women.  There are some women who want it all.  They want to make it in a man's world, and they want to be treated like equals, but they also want to be wives and mothers.  Wife-sharing empowers her because she gets to decide if she wants to fool around (explore sexual variety) without jeopardizing her marriage.  

Last but not least, there are lots of single men who have a thing for married ladies.  For the single male (like me) what makes wife-sharing so hot is the fact that you are fucking a wife/mother/good girl!  It also has the taboo element, because husbands are not supposed to want to see their wife fuck another man, and yet there you are (often right beside him), giving pleasure to his wife, with his encouragement.  

Some single males also enjoy pampering and spoiling another man's wife... seeing that she gets the most pleasure possible.  There is just something so hot about fucking a hot sexy married lady.
