One Man's Philosophy on Sharing His Girl with Other Guys

I was chatting to someone recently who was asking me for advice on how to get his girlfriend to start fucking other guys.  Based on my years of experience, there is never a simple answer to this.  

But something else came of the conversation that really made me think that everyone in this lifestyle plays the game, and thinks a little differently.  I'm always asking myself why we are wired in a certain way... why does this do it for us, but not that?

The guy told me he'd discussed the idea with his girlfriend, but hadn't brought it up with his friends as yet.  Then I thought about my own feelings about other people knowing about my fantasies.  I've always thought I have a "hard ass, don't give a crap" attitude when it comes to what people say or think about me.  But then I thought that's not strictly true.  

I don't really tell my friends about my desires to see Gloria with other guys.  In fact I prefer we play with strangers when we do play, and even then I prefer them not to know she's my girl.  

I either tell guys she and I are friends, roommate's, or just "not involved."  And we have had such great fun playing it that way.  It is really great watching Gloria from afar in a club as she chats up guys.  And then the excitement builds as she invites some guy back to our table.  She'll introduce me as her friend or roommate, and when we get back I eventually make my excuses and head to bed in our guest room.  

This usually leads to the other guy feeling more comfortable... if he thinks I'm not Gloria's partner, and Gloria ends up having some great sex.  I love listening to her being fucked from another room, having the glorious knowledge that I will be having her used body at some point later in the evening.  

The same is true when she goes out on a date on her own.  I love the feeling of sexual tension as I wait at home.  The other guy doesn't even know I exist.  It's my game with Gloria, and I don't want them to play our game.  So I'm thinking there must be a part of me that's somehow embarrassed or self-conscious... that I don't want the other guy to know what turns me on sexually.

I don't know what it is, but I really don't like other guys knowing how I really feel about my Gloria fucking other guys.  Gloria knows never to say to another guy, "He likes me fucking other guys."  She knows it makes me feel uncomfortable.  

Maybe one reason is that I want the guy to feel comfortable, and not intimidated by knowing he has Gloria's partner watching his every move.  I guess the other reason has to be my own embarrassment for having this kink.  

So the few times I have been asked, "How can you let your women fuck other guys?"... I generally reply in a manly voice, "Because I get to fuck lots of gorgeous girls in return!"  The truth is, I do!

I grew up as a shy boy, not on the outside of social circles, but just tucked in the doorway I'd say.  I was never very popular with girls until I reached my late teens.  I had a conventional relationship for many years, but have always been fascinated with sex, and frustrated at missing out on a lot of things I would have loved to have done.  

It's only the last few years with Gloria that I really have had the chance to experiment on a grand scale, check some boxes off, and work out what I do want as a man... sexually.  I think I have found the perfect partner for my lifestyle.

I love knowing that Gloria is getting lots of sex, with a variety of guys.  And, I love hearing from the other room, or hearing her report later.  Then the two of us fuck like rabbits! 

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