January 12, 2010

Dear Joan...

This is to thank you for your web site and all the reports it contains about couples that have opened themselves to threesome and extra guy experiences.  A male friend of ours brought your site to our attention.

It was about five years ago that my dear husband (we'll call him Lenny) finally convinced me to allow him to bring another man into our marital bed.  As you can no doubt guess, I resisted his idea for a long time before finally agreeing to give it a try.

Now that I have experienced more than two dozen new men, I have to say that I love the variety it has provided, and the unexpected ways it has enhanced the love life I share with my dear husband.  During most of those MFM experiences, Lenny has held, cuddled and necked with me while the extra guy has nibbled on my clit and pussy... and then filled me with his cock.  It is that being held and cuddled by my husband that has made the extra guy experiences so pleasureful to both Lenny and me!

I must say that there is nothing like having my husband whisper his love in my ear, nibble on it and kiss me while I feel another man stimulating me below the waist.  Then, typically as my husband and I both look across my tummy, we both get turned-on as we watch another guy's hard cock separate my pussy lips and glide all the way inside me.  Invariably, that has led to Lenny and I embracing in passionate kisses as we both feel the new guy begin to pump in and out of me.

I have learned to whisper into Lenny's ear details about how the other cock feels within me, and share with him the sensations that are pushing me toward one orgasm after another.  As my body moves toward orgasm, Lenny typically looks toward my pelvis to watch me suck every inch of that other cock into my body... or he watches my bodily reactions through the fluttering of my eyes.  He says he can actually "see" the phases of my orgasms as they pass through my brain just by studying my eyes.

Lenny tells me that having another guy treat me to orgasms allows him to appreciate how my body reacts, more than when he is personally caught up in screwing me.  He tells me that in those situations he can enjoy my enjoyment and fulfillment at a new level. 

In a few of your reports (and advice) you have said that MFM sex allows a woman to enjoy her "feminine pleasure potential" at a whole new level.  I can testify that you are absolutely right!

For years before we finally tried an MFM experience, Lenny and I would make love, and I would have a few enjoyable orgasms; but when Lenny would finally unload inside me, he was worn out and wanted to stop.  I was often still ready to keep going... hoping for even more intense orgasms.  I had to settle for enjoyment of what I had already experienced as we cuddled and fell asleep.

Things are different now.  Much different!  After being made love to by both Lenny and a second guy... and the second guy has worked me through several orgasms and reached his own climax... Lenny is typically very hard and anxious to enter me.  That tends to keep my stream of orgasms going.  Wow... I enjoy that. Sometimes, when Lenny is done, the second guy is ready to get back in my saddle again... keeping my highly aroused body at a peak, and taking me to new peaks.  What honest woman would not like that?

You seem to like background from the women who write you.  I was 33 when Lenny convinced me to try our first MFM threesome (38 now).  For those who care about such things, I stand about 5' 4", have C-cup boobs, and usually weigh about 140.  We had two toddlers at the time of our firts MFM, so we were able to put them to bed and lock our bedroom door whenever we had a male guest.  These days we tend to get a babysitter for the kids and meet extra guys at motels.

That first time Lenny selected the extra guy.  He found him through an on-line ad, then met and "interviewed" him at a bar.  The guy was a couple years older than us and married.  He had already been the extra guy for a few other couples.  That was what we were looking for... someone who was married (so there was less concern about health issues or follow-up entanglements)... and someone who was already experienced at being the second guy.  His name was Alan.

Alan also proved to be an attractive guy who was a true gentleman.  That first night, after the kids were safely tucked into bed, Alan arrived.  Lenny had persuaded me to shower and meet Alan at the door wearing just a lacy negligee he had purchased for the occasion.  Lenny introduced us, and we sat for a while in the living room... having drinks.  I think that helpped calm my jitters.

Once the three of us were at ease with one another, Lenny suggested that we retire to our bedroom.  Once in the room, Lenny locked the door (in case either of the kids got up), and gave me a big kiss while running one hand through the opening of my negligee to fondle one of my breasts.  We were all still standing.  I remember that Lenny motioned for Alan to join him in playing with my other breast.

Alan did so, and soon was bent over and sucking my nipple.  I remember almost going limp in Lenny's arms as I felt Alan's lips clamp onto my nipple, and his tongue flick it back and forth.  Lenny noted my reaction, tapped Alan on the shoulder, and invited him to help remove my negligee.  Once I was nude, they lay me back on the middle of our king-size bed and began to remove their own clothes.

I was in a bit of a trance as I watched my husband and this new friend strip away their clothes.  It had been a long time since I had seen any man other than Lenny without clothes.  I could not help but notice that Alan had a good build... and an already-hard cock.

Lenny lay next to me and began to neck with me.  I felt Alan begin to kiss his way up one of my legs.  He soon had my legs well separated and was kissing his way up the inside of my other leg.  I felt the bed move, and I knew that Alan was laying between my legs, with my bare pussy staring him in the face.

Lenny and I broke our kiss long enough to look across my tummy and see Alan's tongue reach out to play with my clit.  In spite of my earlier hesitations, I found myself enjoying Alan's oral ministrations at my crotch as I closed my eyes and relaxed.  Lenny grinned at me just before I closed my eyes, and began kissing my ears while fondling one of my breasts.  It was actually happening.  I was in bed, nude, while my husband and an entirely new guy were stimulating my body.  My mind finally set aside my earlier inhibitions, and I allowed myself to enjoy what was happening.

Alan spent a lot of time that evening licking and sucking my clit and pussy.  I remember experiencing a few mini-orgasms from his oral attentions while my husband hugged and kissed me.  I am sure my pussy was revealing its excitement by producing a flow of vaginal juice.

Then both Lenny and I felt the bed move again.  Alan was on his knees near the end of the bed.  He had a big smile on his face and was gently stroking his cock as his other hand played with my pussy.  "What do you think?" he asked.  Lenny looked at me and asked, "Ready babe?"  I just shook my head in the affirmative, and Alan leaned toward me and placed his cock against my pussy opening.

It had been several years since any cock other than Lenny's had entered me.  Admittedly, I was a bit anxious.  Then Alan began to press himself inside me.  I was pretty wet already, so he went in easily.  As he slowly did so, he seemed to be watching my face for reactions.  Meanwhile, Lenny and I just watched Alan's cock disappear inside me.  I admit it... it felt good.  Actually... very good!

Lenny cuddled me tighter against him as Alan began to pump me.  It felt so good being cuddled against my husband's chest as I felt that new cock begin to awaken the sensations within my body.  I closed my eyes and just savored the sensations flowing through me.  I am sure I began to thrust my hips up to meet Alan's stokes.  Then it hit... my first serious orgasm since being married... while another man's cock worked within me.  Wow!

Lenny told me later that my body just shook and quivered in his arms as the orgasm washed through me.  As that was happening, Lenny was showering my face and eyelids with gentle kisses.  Alan paused a few moments to let me regain my composure... and then began pumping me again.

That night I had a truly enjoyable series of orgasms before Alan announced that he was about to cum.  "Should I?" he asked.  Almost in unison, Lenny and I said, "Sure... do it."  A few more pumps later Alan pressed himself deep inside me, and I felt his juices spray my insides.  That took me over the top again.

After holding himself inside me as we both came down from our sexual highs, Alan pulled out and stepped away from me.  I remember Lenny saying, "That was really cool."  He immediately got up, went to the end of the bed, and pressed his very hard cock into my well-lubed pussy.  Alan went to the bathroom to wash his privates, and Lenny began to pump inside of me.  I remember he said, "You're really slippery, babe.  I love that velvety feeling."

As Lenny was screwing me, Alan came back to lay next to me.  He took my nearest breast into his mouth and toyed with my nipple as Lenny keep pounding in and out of me.  That was a memorable sensation too... having my husband screwing me with such vigor while another guy was sucking my nipple and running his hand down across my tummy to play with my clit.  I went over the top again.  I am sure I was rather verbal that time... expressing how good I felt.

After Lenny finally unloaded inside me he came back and lay next to me on the side opposite Alan.  I remember that the two guys cuddled with me for quite a while as we talked in hushed tones.  I remember reaching out and wrapping one of my hands around each of their cocks as we lay there.  It felt strange... but good... to have two virile men snuggled next to me as I gently stroked their cocks.

The next thing that happened was very unexpected.  Alan worked his way down my body, kissing as he went, and soon engulfed my pussy in his mouth.  I started to resist... knowing how much of my juices and their sperm must be lurking there.  Alan simply said, "Please... let me do this."

I relaxed, and Alan went to work lavishing my pussy and clit with kisses, flicks of his tongue, and sucking.  Lenny turned my upper body toward his and we necked as Alan worked between my legs.  It wasn't long before Alan brought me to a really intense orgasm as I shuttered, moaned, and wrapped my legs around his head.

When my  orgasm subsided, Alan moved back up on the bed and gave me one last kiss.  I could taste our combined juices on his lips and cheeks.  Then Alan told us he had to go.  After Alan dressed and Lenny let him out, my husband returned and crawled into bed next to me.  We talked about what had just happened.  I giggled a lot.  We cuddled, kissed for a while, and then fell asleep.

We invited Alan to join us three more times over the coming month.  Then Lenny told me he thought that for reasons of variety, I should experience another guy.  This time we both reviewed the on-line ads, and Lenny let me choose a couple of prospects.

Again, Lenny met the guys (individually) away from our home and "interviewed" them.  He came back telling me he liked both of them.  We picked one, and Lenny arranged an evening for he and I to meet the guy at a bar.  The guy was attractive, and the same age as me.  The meeting went well, and the three of us ended up at a motel.   Once again, I found myself luxuriating in the erotic attentions of my husband and another man.  Once again, I got to enjoy a prolonged series of most enjoyable orgasms.

A week later we went through the same process with the second guy... a guy who was in his mid-20s and very well built.  Once again... well, you have the picture.  By then I was feeling quite comfortable in my role as "Queen" between to tender guys.

Lenny and I have found that we particularly enjoy playing our MFM games while traveling.  Being away from home, we have discovered that we can be more spontaneous, and I get to flirt with my choice of prospective extra guys until we all end up in bed together.  Fortunately, we are at an economic level that lets us travel four or five times a year.  We take our kids with us on just one of those trips (and do not play then).  Sometimes these are just weekend trips, other times it is a week at a beach resort.

During a couple of week-long trips we have chosen to have two or three "play nights"... with different guys.  I have noticed that every new "extra guy" is different in some way.  Some have been hesitant to have sex with me while Lenny is present.  In one case the guy wanted to suck Lenny to hardness before Lenny entered me.  Lenny let him, as we necked.  In another, the guy lay on his back and invited me to a 69 position above him, and then invited Lenny to screw me while the guy sucked my clit and licked Lenny's cock on his every outstroke.

One time we encountered a goodlooking younger waiter in our hotel restaurant.  We met him for a drink after he got off work, and Lenny asked him if he would like to join him in making love to me.  The guy suddenly got quiet.  Finally he said, "I sure would enjoy spending some time in bed with this lovely lady... but I don't think I would feel comfortable doing anything if you were present too," he told Lenny.  Since I was obviously attracted to the young man (I learned later that he had just turned 20), Lenny handed our room key to him and said, "OK, you two have fun.  I will be knocking on the door in two hours."

The guy was a surprisingly good lover.  He was still playing inside me when we heard a knock at the door.  Two hours had passed.  I got up to let Lenny in, and then went back to the bed where my young lover was laying on his back and again sporting a solid erection.  I spread my legs around his body and slid right down on his pole.  Although it had not been his expressed preference, there he was, screwing me in front of my husband.  The guy held me by my hips and helped me ride up and down on him until we both came again.  Then he left... a bit sheepish about having been watched by Lenny.

There was one other time that I experienced a new lover without Lenny being present.  He and I decided to play a little game.  We found a hotel with a lounge that had a dance floor... on the opposite side of the city where we live.  Lenny had me dress up in a shirt skirt and low-cut blouse.  We rented a room for the night, and then Lenny had me go to the lounge without him.  He told me he would follow, and observe from a distance.

The idea was that I could flirt with any guy I wanted... and if I "hooked up" with a guy I wanted to try out in bed, Lenny encouraged me to take him back to our room.  The deal was that Lenny would stay at the bar... or otherwise keep himself occupied... until I called him on his cell phone.

I found myself a seat at the bar.  It wasn't long before I had a few requests to dance with various guys.  I found I was enjoying the little game.  I noticed Lenny come in and sit at the other end of the bar.  We did not acknowledge each other that night.  My various dance partners held me tight against them during the slow songs, and I felt a few stiff cocks press against my belly as we danced.  A couple of the guys played handsy with my ass, and one managed to cop a feel of my breasts.

Finally a very attractive older businessman asked me to dance.  Halfway through our second dance he looked me in the eye and asked, "Are you here alone?"  I replied that I was.  Hearing that he held me tighter and I could feel his raging hard-on.  He said, "I'm married, but here alone.  I sure would like to spend some time in bed with you.  Interested?"  His directness inspired me.  I said, "Yes."

Moments later we were on our way up the elevator to HIS room.  I had glanced toward Lenny with a smile, and he gave me the thumbs up signal.  He told me later that he noticed the elevator had gone up several floors above our room, so he was sure I had gone to the guy's room.

Most of the "extra guys" I have been with have sported average-sized cocks.  I had really never thought much about having a "well-endowed" lover.  When we got to this guy's room he kissed me all over as he stripped away my clothes.  Then he stripped.  O-MY-GOD!  That guy had a rod-like cock that was at least a few inches longer than I had ever had, and it was quite thick!

I told him I was not sure I could accommodate his very large cock without being hurt.  He assured me that he would be very gentle, and that I would enjoy it.  He was right!  He licked and kissed me all over my body before he settled in to some serious licking and sucking of my pussy.  I remember convulsing through a few climaxes before he ever entered me.

When he did, he was slow, gentle, and refrained from pressing full depth inside me.  I felt SOOOO full!

I don't know how many orgasms I had as he worked his huge tool within me, but I remember that I was very well satisfied that night.  When I told him that I was on birth control and that he could cum inside me, he worked me through another highly enjoyable climax... paused a bit (still inside me), and then he really started to pound me.  I was surprised to feel his nut sack slapping at my crotch.  He had worked his entire cock up inside me.  The thought of that, coupled with the amazing feeling of being so full, he brought me to a high peak of pleasure where I just seemed to stay until he finally unloaded deep inside me.  Those sensations, and his extra deep thrusts sent me into an orgasm that literally caused me to black out for a few seconds.

Afterward we rested, and then I told him I had to go.  I dressed and took the elevator down to our floor.  Having figured out that I was not using our room, Lenny was there... waiting for me.  I told him all about my evening.  As always, Lenny cuddled and kissed me as I relayed my report.  Then he made gentle love to me before we went to sleep.

The next morning Lenny and I were having breakfast in the hotel cafe when I spotted the man I had spent the evening with.  I told Lenny.  To my surprise, Lenny got up, introduced himself to the guy, and invited him to have breakfast with us.  At first I was mortified.  I did my best to compose myself as the man walked to the table with Lenny.

I listened as I heard Lenny tell our guest that my evening with him had been with his permission and encouragement... and that he was pleased that this man had treated me to such pleasure.  We all talked some more... and then my mouth dropped a bit when I heard Lenny say, "My wife tells me you and your rather sizable cock treated her to a good time last night.  We still have a few hours before we have to check out.  Would you like to join me in treating my lady to a second round?"

Unexpected as it was... we all three ended up back in our room... in our bed.  Lenny told me later he was amazed to watch me take that guy's entire cock into my body.  As usual, Lenny held and cuddled with me during another hour of me being screwed by that huge cock.  He did tell me that I felt a bit loose when he screwed me after the guy left.  But, by that night he told me my pussy was back to normal.

With the couple of exceptions mentioned above, Lenny has always been with me... and part of the sex play with me... whenever we have welcomed a new guy to our bed.

We still occasionally get together with Alan.  He has also introduced me to "double penetration."  When he first brought up the idea I told him I did not care for anal sex.  It has always been painful to me.  He assured me he was not talking about me taking either cock in my backside.  He had Lenny lay on his back, with me on top facing him, and Lenny's cock in my pussy.

As Lenny gently pumped me, I felt Alan's hard cock begin to play between my pussy lips, right next to Lenny's cock.  Then he said, "Ready?"  Both Lenny and I said yes, and slowly Alan pressed forward until his cock was inside my pussy... right next to Lenny's cock.  I felt really full... but it was not painful.

When the two guys started moving inside me, the extra sensations were too much for Lenny, and he quickly shot his load.  Alan and I continued to screw while I lay on Lenny as we kissed.

The second time we tried that "double penetration," Lenny had already cum once, so he was better able to control himself.  What a feeling to have two cocks in my pussy, moving in alternating strokes.  The wonderful sensations finally sent me over the top.  My orgasm caused my vagina to contract around the two cocks, causing both guys to move quickly toward their own climaxes.  

As Alan's cock expanded just prior to climax, it caused more pressure on Lenny's cock, which caused his cocks to expand too.  Nearly simultaneously they shot lots of sperm up inside me... driving me through yet another orgasm.  We have now repeated that play a number of times.

To my surprise, Lenny has never requested permission to screw another woman... although I think I would be OK with that... if I were present.  Lenny assures me that he gets his pleasure out of seeing me so highly fulfilled while being pleasured by he and another guy.

Sex between Lenny and me has never been better... even when it is just he and I.  We have lots of memories that we play over to each other as the two of us make love.  What a stimulus!

Joan... I just thought I would share our experiences.  Maybe other couples will benefit from reading about us, and what we have learned to enjoy.  Again, thanks for your wonderful web site.

Marg


