A Special Way for Single Ladies 
To Get More Enjoyment Out of Travel


Joan... I thought you might like to share my story with your readers.  I am not married, and most of my experiences have been one-on-one (rather than the threesomes which dominate your files), but I think my way of finding and enjoying new lovers is a bit unique.

By the way, I have enjoyed some threesomes and group stuff, and when the situation is right, I have found them to be quite enjoyable.

By way of background, I am 34, 5' 3", typically about 125 lbs, keep myself in good shape, and have been told many times that I am attractive and sexy.  In the bust department I wear size C.  My hips are proportional.

I love sex (I mean I love it a lot).  I was briefly married once, but after 18 months I decided that married life is not for me.  I also have no desire to experience childbirth.  After my divorce I had my tubes tied so that pregnancy would no longer be an issue.

After my divorce I met and briefly lived with a variety of guys.  It was always just for the sex, but I felt that most of the guys I met tended to want to control me.  Even though we usually had agreements that we could each date others, the guys I lived with usually were quite judgmental and moody when I came home and they learned I had been to bed with another guy.

I never really had to work, although I periodically did.  You see, my grandfather left me a very sizable trust fund that gives me comfortable monthly living money... and allows me to travel to my heart's content.  I love to travel.

I eventually met Alvin, a man 12 years my senior.  We dated, and he seemed oblivious to my other dating life.  He had asked me several times if I would like to move in with him.  Finally one day I told him that I would like to, but with the understanding that I would still be dating other guys.  He told me that was OK, but that he didn't want to know the details.

I moved in with Alvin almost five years ago.  To my surprise, Alvin didn't want to travel with me.  It seems that his prior professional life had required him to travel a lot, and had soured him on the subject.  I told him I planned to do a lot of traveling.  He said, "Go for it."

That's where my story really begins.

While I occasionally enjoy traveling alone, I often want to sign up for organized tours (Europe, South America, Far East, down under, etc.).  Tours are generally set up to accommodate couples.  Their "single supplement" pricing for singles can be quite punitive.  Observing that, I decided to locate some regular traveling companions... men preferably... in the hopes of some enjoyable sex along the way.  Besides, I always enjoy the companionship of having someone to travel with.

I got myself a PO Box and started doing some advertising.  I found that there are lots of Internet sites and newspaper classified columns that cater to people seeking traveling companions or travel mates.

I ran ads like "30 year old female seeks male travel mate for trip to Russia, I pay my own way, you pay yours."  I could not believe the number of replies I got.  My ads have varied over the years, but they follow the same theme.

I narrowed down the replies and wrote to the guys who most interested me.  I told them that I wanted to sign up for a certain tour (Globus, Grand Circle, TANR International, Vantage, Tauck, TransGlobe, etc.) over a particular itinerary, leaving on a particular date.  Then I told them I wanted to travel with someone, be roommates with them, so neither of us had to pay that "single supplement."

Finally, I told them that I had a fairly high sex drive, and that as roommates, there was a good chance we would be sharing some sexual fun too.  Then, with that in mind, I asked each of them to send me a nude photo, and I enclosed one of me.

Almost every guy I wrote to responded quickly, each with rather explicit photos that displayed their "equipment."  I picked two, and began corresponding in earnest, and having phone conversations with them.  Many of the replies came from other parts of the country.  I have my own cell phone, so I was able to communicate discretely without upsetting Alvin.

One of the two guys I had chosen had scheduling problems for the weeks that I wanted to go, so I told him I would contact him about future trips (I later went with him to New Zealand... and had a blast).  The second guy was flexible in his scheduling, and agreed to go when I wanted to go.

Even though I was making arrangements to spend a week or two with new, previously unknown guys, I felt I was safe because (1) the guy had to put up sizable sums of money for his part of the trip, and do so months before we would be traveling, and (2) I would be spending the entire time with him in a tour setting where 20 to 40 other people would be around us every day (including the tour guides).  Personally, I consider this approach to hooking up with new sex mates a lot safer than simply hitting "meat market" bars and going home with a guy.  I have done that, but I do it a lot less now that I have discovered a fun way to travel and have new sex partners at the same time.

My first travel mate was Travis, an Asian guy who was two years my junior.  From his photos, I knew he had a great looking body.  From phone conversations with him, I knew he had a light-hearted personality.

I told Alvin I was going to be gone on a trip to Russia for two weeks, and he simply said, "Have a good time."  I smiled to myself, knowing that I planned to do just that.

Since Travis lived in Chicago, and I lived in southern California, we had different flights to London.  We met in person for the first time at the bar in the hotel where the tour company had made arrangements for the group to meet.  We talked through some basic (made up) details about our "relationship," so that if asked, we would be telling fellow travelers the same story.

We hit it off well, put all our travel stuff in our designated hotel room, and presented ourselves at the tour desk for our travel credentials.  We did not represent ourselves as being married, but we left the impression that we had known each other for years. 

Travis and I had dinner, and then retired to our room to rest up and sleep for our early morning tour bus departure.  Yes, that night Travis and I got better acquainted.  He treated me to some enjoyable oral sex, I gave him a blowjob, and then he screwed me like there was no tomorrow.  I knew I had made a good choice in travel mates.

That particular trip took us through Holland, Germany, Poland, Belarus, Russia, and then back through several Scandinavian countries before heading back to London.  On the bus Travis and I usually sat together.  During the daily walking tours, Travis and I sometimes walked together, and sometimes went our own way with other sub-groups from our tour group.

One day while I was walking with a middle-aged couple, somewhat separated from the rest of the group, the lady took me aside and asked what Asian guys were like in bed (she noted that I was not Asian).  I smiled and told her that Travis was very good in bed.  That's when she confided that back home she and her husband were "swingers."

That night I told Travis about my conversation with the lady.  He said, "Get her to come to our room, and I will give her a demonstration."  I thought, "hmmm, I wouldn't be losing anything, and maybe I could bed her husband."

The next day I took her aside and asked her if she would like to try "some Asian cock."  She immediately smiled and said, "How about tonight?  You could spend the night in our room, with my husband, and I could spend the night with Travis."

Very discretely, she and I switched rooms that night.  Her husband proved to be a cuddly guy with a long, curved dick that gave me lots of pleasure.  Travis later told me that after his first round of fucking with the lady, she wanted him to screw her ass.  He happily obliged.  That's a form of sex play that I don't care for, so I was  happy he was able to use her ass instead of mine.  They did it another afternoon too.

During some of my trips, I have spotted a sexy male tour guide, a single male fellow traveler, or an interesting waiter (etc.) along the way.  I always tell my roommate that he is welcome to use our room as a playpen with another woman (if he just lets me know in advance), and that I expect the same courtesy.  So, I have broadened my experiences with other additional guys along the way.  Yes, travel can be broadening!

I have had MANY trips since, with a variety of male travel mates.  Sometimes we take repeat trips together, but I enjoy the opportunity to spend my one or two week trips with new guys whenever I can.  And, Alvin never knows about my extra travel pleasures... just as he wishes.


Joan, I write you about this because I think there are lots of women out there who settle for paying that "single supplement," or foolishly settle for frumpy female roommates... when they could be doing as I do, and enjoying their travels a whole lot more!

I have also taken cruises this way, and spent weeks on sun-baked islands with new male travel mates.  Believe me, ALL of my experiences have been thoroughly satisfying.

I assure you (and them) that having a new male roommate on each trip is fun.  I get to see the world, and have new lovers along the way.  When I am home, I spend most of my time with my main at-home man, Alvin.  He seems happy with our arrangement, and I sure am too.

Eve