Why Men Share Their Wives - Views of Husbands

I Share My Wife Because It Enhances Our Life

Most adults who cleave exclusively to their spouses/significant others will quickly proclaim they are the ones with the strong moral values.  However, those values are based almost entirely on pre-determined, and mentally-ingrained, ideals and social mores... set down by others.  

Actually, those "moral values" have little to do with how the human mind perceives happiness and/or pleasure, either for one's self, or one's partner(s).  In fact, most people find that it is simply easier to follow the norm as dictated by centuries of self-doubt, instilled both by society as a whole, and by family social units.  

In short, society tends to be the dictator of our lives.  We, as individuals with our own brains and freedom of choice, can determine whether we will abide by the ruling class's rules, or step away and build our own, new, strong, safe and sturdy foundations... based upon our own true self-awareness and understanding of our world, and how we are a part of it.

My wife and I recognize that stepping outside the social norms is a scary thing for most everyone who is pre-conditioned to believe sex outside of marriage is either evil, wrong, or bad.  But, we owe society nothing.  That is, nothing but the best of us, if we expect the best to be offered in return.  

If the best is what THEY tell you it is, then that's going to be your benchmark.  It isn't really even a high one, just the average one.  In deed, such as in the case with "sharing" one's significant other, one's proclaimed life partner... actually allowing that to happen takes both a personal as well as relational fortitude that few find within themselves.

We have found that to be most fulfilled in life, we need to be capable of inviting exploration into the strength and bond with each other, and in living with ourselves.


I Share My Wife Because She Is So Beautiful and Sexy

I love seeing my wife get sexual pleasure from other men, and give sexual pleasure in return.  When she fucking another man, he is simply like a sex toy to her, to be used for her sexual pleasure.  

I get to fuck her any time I want.  But the other guy can only fuck my wife when we allow him to.  Watching my wife go from innocent housewife to `bitch in heat,' is such a lust-filled, passionate event.  It is a verry erotic experience for both of us.


I Share My Wife Because We Both Enjoy It

We (wife and I) like to share each other with others... usually in the same room, at the same place, because (in no particular order)...

1.  I love to see her pleased.
2.  She loves to see me pleased.
3.  I enjoy sharing the wives of others.
4.  We can do so without jealousy.
5.  We know the difference between sex and love.  
(We can have sex with others, and still love ONLY each-other.)
6.  It's fun for us both.
7.  Even though I could live with having sex with only my wife for the rest of my life, if we're both happy and enjoying, why limit ourselves?


I Share My Wife Because We Believe It Helps Our Marriage

I can only talk about our lives.  Sharing my wife with other men helps satisfy sexual needs on both sides.  We feel it improves the relationship between us.  It makes our sex better, both with and without each other, and it makes our marriage stronger because there is no jealousy involved.


Sex With Other Guys Is My Gift To Her

Oh my god!  Why would a man NOT get off on watching other men fuck his wife or girlfriend?  It's just like watching a real live porn video! 

In the first place, she loves it.  Sex can get boring, doing it with the same person all the time.  So, each man who fucks her brings something entirely different to the experience.  And, after a guy fucks her and leaves, and I get my turn, I'm so worked up that the sex is indescribably hot for both of us.


I Love To Make Video Records of My Gal Enjoying Other Guys

My gal and I use the video on my phone to film her with other men.  Last month, while another man was stroking her in the missionary position, I was videoing from different angles.  

From behind, I was able to video his cock plunging into her pussy, the head of his cock emerging, showing her pussy wet and wide open, awaiting another stroke.  From the side, I videoed him with her legs on his shoulders, focusing on his cock stroking her pussy in rapid plunges.  

But my most favorite part of such videoing is when I am videoing from behind.  Recently I got a shot of his ass (tan lines) visible, and his hard cock stroking her rapidly up high in her pussy.  I was able to hear her exclaim "Oh that's good!"  I just loved that verbal expression of sexual pleasure, and we watch it over and over.  

As she stated it, she was losing her breath in pleasure at that point.  There is nothing like watching another man having sex with your gal.  When he was done, her pussy was dripping with his cum.  

I mounted her, and before I entered her pussy, I rubbed my cock in his cum, and then started stroking her.  There is nothing on earth like it!


I Share My Wife For Many Reasons

My wife and I have been together now for 12 years, and are very happily married.  Neither of us had been married before.  We were in our 30's when we started dating, so we were neither young (and impulsive!) nor sexually inexperienced before embarking on this journey.  

We spent about ten years as a couple before our first MFM.  It was her fantasy first, and then slowly became mine too.  Several years elapsed after it first became fantasy fodder, so we had lots of opportunity to discuss what it might be like, and what ramifications it might hold for our relationship.  

We communicated about that a lot, in and out of our bedroom.  We agreed upon the same basic precepts: another man would be there to satisfy her sexual needs, and for my pleasure in watching them as well as me participating.  

My wife loves cock.  She loves giving head, and she REALLY LOVES getting fucked, often for hours at a time.  All this is for her pleasure.  While it usually turns me on to watch another man fucking her, or see her taking two cocks at once, we would never be doing it unless she wanted to.  

Even when she wants to be handcuffed to the bed and fucked by me or another guy (or both of us), we are still doing it because it is her heart's desire.  I consider my wife to be my intellectual equal, so any suggestions that I have "brainwashed" her into being a nympho, are simply not true.

Within the general community of "wife-sharing" there seems to be a great deal of variety and permutations.  While my wife and I are not into all of these facets, I think it is helpful to bring them up for the purpose of discussion whether you have entered this lifestyle or are merely contemplating it.  

So far, all our fantasies have centered around her and (multiple) male partners.  While I would find it erotic to have sex with more than one woman, or see her with a woman, that's not really her cup of tea, at this point anyway.

I also don't have any bi tendencies.  I am no against that kind of play of course, but it doesn't hold any appeal for me personally.  I also know it wouldn't turn on my wife to see me with another guy.  So there is another thing we agree on.  

One could argue that men who like to eat their wife's pussy after another dude has come into it borders vaguely on bisexual territory, and they might not be wrong.  Whatever floats your boat.  I don't mind fucking my wife after another lover has cum inside her sweet little cunt, but I just can't bring myself to go down on her then (although I do love eating pussy).  

I will add that if you want to have an MFM with your girlfriend or wife, you probably shouldn't be SO homophobic or reactive that you will freak out if you and the other guy(s) touch each other... because it will probably be inevitable to some degree, especially if you want to DP her.  

I have DP'ed my wife a few times, and I challenge anyone to try a DP without the men touching.  It's sort of impossible.  By the way, DP's are beyond awesome.  Your woman will not stop thanking you for a LONG, LONG time.  Just follow all the protocols you normally use with anal sex.  Start slowly, and use lots of lube.  

I remember the first woman who told me about her experiences with two guys inside her at once.  She said it made her feel "like a princess."  After hearing such an enthusiastic recommendation, another female friend of mine tried it and was equally effusive.  A cult was born.  

On to the next distinction of "wife-sharing."  There seem to be almost equal numbers of men out there who (a) get off on their wife having sex with another man (without the husband present or merely watching) as there are couples like us (b) where they prefer having the husband fuck her at the same time as her lover does.  

Personally, I find it so exciting to be there at the moment of my wife's special pleasures, watching her getting the fucking she deserves and loves so much.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  In fact, it is one of the ground rules we set out for ourselves... to ensure that everything is open and based on mutual trust, she is not to fuck other guys without me there.  This serves to demonstrate that she always has my consent, and also so she can "let herself go" with another lover, and be as aggressive or submissive with his cock as she chooses to be.  

That gives her the liberty to do whatever turns her on.  I know she might not have let another man fuck her in the ass, if I wasn't there to provide moral support and emancipate her from any fears.  

As far as the benefits of wife-sharing or MFMing go, we believe they speak for themselves.  My wife is now a happy (actually ecstatic) participant in wife-sharing.  Watching another man penetrating her tight little cunt, and making her big tits bounce like crazy, sends me over the top.  I don't even have to ask her anymore about if she is enjoying it.  Her face and her body speak volumes!

I enjoy watching another guy put her legs over his shoulders (which she adores), and fuck her into our couch so hard her face turns beet red from intense orgasms.  I also like to watch her dig her nails deep into his back while he is on top of her, and she just keeps shouting, "Thank You.  Thank You!!"  

Recently when my wife was treated to two cocks, I was fucking her pussy while she sucked on the other man's cock.  She took him all the way into her mouth!  She sometimes does that with me, but I am only 6½", and he was at least 7½".  I was in total awe.  

Then she asked us to DP her.  Could I love my woman any more?  NO!  

In conclusion, I just want to stress that our sex life has only gotten hotter since we started the wife-sharing lifestyle... both when it's just the two of us, and when she has another cock to enjoy.  She is hornier than ever, and so am I.  

We love each other more than ever too.  I heartily recommend that any loving couple give it a try, as long as you have communicated what you want out of the experience first.  Good luck, and I hope I offered some words of wisdom to interested couples.


I Share My Wife Because I Love Her

I feel that giving my wife full permission to act on her desires is a true sign of my love and appreciation of her.  She is a beautiful creature. 

This lifestyle has strengthened and confirmed our love for each other.  She is still "with me," even when another man is inside her.  We have great sex, but can freely admit to each other that the 'desire' for new experiences is often unattainable due to familiarity between us.  

She still claims 'honestly' that I am the best lover she has ever had.  Sometimes she'll recap her adventures, and I can learn new tips and more about what she really enjoys! 

It's not frequent that she has sex outside our marriage, but the option is hers!  It helps keep us in check, still making the efforts to try and woo each other.  It is like a diet.  If your body craves something, it searches until it quenches that appetite! 

I don't want a lover who would rather be with someone else, but is only with me because she has to be.  I want her to be with me because she wants to be with me.
