Part D
Our Third Encounter... 
And Reactions to Our First Two Encounters
6/17/00 

Dear Joan,

I have shared with you, our account of what happened physically, during our 
two visits to the Amsterdam club.  I would now like to share with you, the account of our third encounter... and our feelings after we had our first two experiences.

Let me tell you my (Raj's) feelings first... the negative side of it... as it seems I had more unpleasant reactions than my wife India did.

Considering that I was the "initiator" of our expanded sex play (involving others), I thought I would be the brave one.  No, I wasn't!  I was very nervous too... though it was my wife India, who had suggested, that we take it step-by-step, and not have penetrative encounters during that trip. 

I felt that she would have fucked both of those men, if only she had my encouragement. A part of me did not want her to fuck another guy... while a part of  me wanted her to.  I goofed up quite a bit and kept interrupting the flow of events, not letting nature take its own course.  Here are my feelings, in detail.


On Day 1, when India was sucking this man Don's penis (when he had taken us upstairs to the orgy room), he whispered something to her.  India turned around to me and said, "he wants to fuck, shall I do it?"  I was a bit stunned, not ready for this sort of a readiness from my wife. 

Instead of encouraging her, I sort of reminded her, that it was she, who wanted to start with non-penetrative sex.  In short, I feel I dissuaded her.  I somehow could not believe that my wife was asking for my permission to fuck another guy in my presence.  Later on, when we talked briefly (in the lounge), the moment of passion was gone.  She re-confirmed that she wanted to stick to non-fucking encounters for the time being.

Later that night, she said that she was extremely aroused and had gotten carried away with Don.  She said that she was not used to sex with another man, so the physical sensations were new, and hence very intense.  When he had whispered, "I want to fuck you," she went absolutely crazy.  India says `swinging' is great for a woman's ego.

What shocked me most about myself was that I was not 'ready' to face reality.  When India got into the swing of things, and her body started to respond to both of those men, I was unprepared to see her showing as much enthusiasm as she did, though I wanted to see her getting fucked.  I did not bargain on her enjoying herself as much as she did.

On the first night, I discouraged her from screwing Don when she was sucking his cock. Later on when his wife Martina joined us, and we four went to a room, Don again asked me, "Fucking?"  I replied, "No fucking." 

I should have told him, "It depends on what India wants."  Instead of letting India's mood decide how far she wanted to go (especially after she had wanted him to her to fuck her upstairs), I kept on trying to protect her too much.  Perhaps I was trying to make sure that she did not do anything that she might regret the next morning... anything she may do which might put her off swinging.

Perhaps I wanted things to proceed at too slow a pace.  Perhaps I wanted to be the director, wanting to make things happen as per my mental scenario.  Whatever it was, it spoiled a lot of fun for both of us.  I feel that if I had not 'interfered,' India would have let Don fuck her.

I also had a problem getting a real solid erection, on both days, without help from India, Martina and Dave.  I also leaked a lot of pre-cum, almost like I had already ejaculated. This happened on both days.  When my wife and I were in our hotel room, I would get rock-hard by just talking about, or thinking about, what my wife had done.

On India's side, there were no adverse reactions.  India's feelings were very positive. 

Physically, she responded well and had no misgivings. Earlier, I thought only men wanted to watch their wife.  Now I knew that women too like to watch their husbands.  India said that she was very turned-on watching me with Martina. 

Though she was wrapped up in Don's arms and he was her first `extra man' ever, she admitted that she would often glance at what Martina and I were up to.  She used to believe that sex and love had to be one and the same thing.  This was a myth that she got over during that trip and following trips.

For me (Raj), it was fun to really fondle and suck a man for the first time. I have no qualms about holding or sucking a cock. In any case, we are having these swaps and MFM threesomes for kicks and sexual variation. So why not try a bit of bi-play!!!!

I think men are inhibited by the norms that 'society' has laid down for human beings.  I don't know what percent of married men are bI- or bi-curious, but in the course of my Internet chats, all of the men I chatted with were willing to touch/suck (be touched and be sucked by) another man, under the right circumstances.

Take my case. I meet so many men in the course of my daily life, among them quite a few nice looking ones. I may have looked at some of them as prospective lovers for India, but I have personally never had any sexual thoughts about them. 

I have never ever had any contact with another man before the Amsterdam incidents.  I don't intend to have a one-on-one with a male, and I never intend to have penetrative sex with a male.  But in a heated group situation, I have found that fondling and sucking is fun.



Our Third Experience

I had to go to Bangkok on work. We both love Bangkok. Being off (tourist) season, we got one of those buy-one fly-one-free tickets, and India came along. She has done this a few times in the past too.

I had 3 or 4 days of work in Bangkok, and then we thought of spending a weekend in Phuket, a lovely seaside resort that is 45 minutes flight from Bangkok. In fact we both knew that I would be actively looking around for prospective partners for a sexual adventure.

The first day in Bangkok was all work, and in the evening we had a boring dinner with the people I do business with. They wanted us to have dinner with them on the second evening too, but I declined. My wife and I had a few drinks and went to dinner alone that second night.

Over dinner, I suggested that we go back to the hotel and ask an escort/massage agency to send a male masseur to give her a massage. She agreed but said that she preferred a white guy. She did not want to fuck a Thai boy, as they did not turn her on. 

I suggested that she should keep it open, fuck him if she felt like, or just have sex play with him. On reaching back, I called a number of agencies but none could send a 'white guy,' as this time of year it was off-season. India finally agreed on a Thai. 

I asked an agency to send a Thai, specified that he be slim, and should have a big cock. In fact it was hilarious as they thought I wanted a "gay" for me.  The girl giggled when I told her that he was not for me, but for my wife.

The guy arrived at around 10.30 pm. He was nice looking... in a boyish sort of a way. Lin, (his name) was slim and was tall for a Thai.  He spoke quaint broken English. We offered him a drink, which he took reluctantly, saying that liquor affected his sexual performance. 

He said that he had already "cum" that evening, as he was with an English lady, who was here on work. I turned the conversation to sex/sexy topics, asking him about what sort of women he serviced etc... were they good-looking... did he have a problem getting an erection, etc. 

He said that he did have problems with ladies who were not good-looking. But... as he looked at India... he said he never had problems if the woman was as good-looking as India was.  India blushed.  I asked him if he had screwed any ladies while the lady was with her husband?  He informed us that a lot of couples asked for this. In some cases they wanted Lin to fuck the wife... and in some cases, just give her a massage while the husband watched or participated.

I suggested, "let's start," and he asked if she wanted an oil massage or a powder one. India replied "oil."  He opened his bag and took out various bottles, and a sheet of thin plastic, which he spread on the bed, when I indicated that we would prefer the bed to the floor.

I started to get out of my shorts and told him that he was there mainly for India, but I would 'help him'... sort of a threesome. When he motioned to India to undress, she told me (in our language) "tell him to shower." (We are very concerned about cleanliness. We like hot sweaty sex as much as others, but we like to start with fresh bodies... and we also like to shower after sex.)

I told him, "first my wife will shower... and then you and I, as she needs privacy."  I was naked by the time India went in to shower. Lin undressed too, and was naked by the time India returned, with a towel wrapped around her. 

The presence of a naked man with my wife again sent a 'charge' through me, as it had done in Amsterdam. India saw his body and cock, and commented (our language) "he is nice." I led the way to the bathroom, asking Lin to follow. I got in the shower and then moved aside to make place for him while I soaped myself.

Lin was attractive. He was a trim, sinewy guy, had very sparse pubic hair, and a nice thick cock that hung away from his body. I noted with delight that he was circumcised. India had always wanted to feel what a circumcised cock was like. She had briefly touched a man (the Egyptian in the Swing Club in Part II of our story) who was circumcised, but her two other lovers so far had been men who were uncircumcised (like me).

When he was soaping himself, I reached out and took his soapy cock in my hand, stroking the cock as if I was cleaning him. His cock started to grow when I touched him. He was large.  Must have been a bit over 7".  Before he stiffened, I realized that his soft cock had much more 'body' to it than mine... youth I guess, as he was 20 years younger than me. 

I asked him if he had a problem with my touching him, and he said, "No, I don't mind," and he asked me how far he was to go with India, saying that he always asked beforehand. I told him that India would guide him... and if she wanted him to fuck, she would say so. But fucking had to be with a condom.

We walked out naked, both of us by then semi-hard. India lay face down on the bed, still wrapped in the towel. Lin straddled her, loosened her towel and dragging it down, until it just covered her bum.  He poured on some oil, and started to massage her.  I lay next to India, watching the action.  I had decided to let India and Lin be on their own as far as possible.

He went through the farce of giving my wife a massage, and touched and felt her all over. When he reached lower, he asked India, "Can I take the towel off?"  She raised her body to help him pull the towel away. Now she lay totally naked as he straddled her, one knee on each side of her legs. 

He poured oil on her bums, and started to spread it and massage it down her thighs and her inner legs, kneading her flesh as he went. Now I observed that Lin was fully hard, and seeing this, I got hard too.  I noticed that several times Lin let his hard cock drag along the backs of India's legs, and the small of her back.  Her body seemed to respond to the touch of his manliness against her skin.  

I stroked myself slowly, enjoying the sensations, but not wanting to cum.  India was breathing heavy.  Gradually he finished her ankles and asked her to turn around, which she did.

India turned over to lay on her back, with her eyes shut. She looked a sight... so beautiful and sexy as she lay, her legs slightly apart, her naked body exposed to this young man.  She later said that she really enjoyed his touch.  It was relaxing, and also sensuous. Lin started at her feet, and when he reached her thighs he told her to open her legs more.  She did as she was told.

When Lin started to massage the insides of her thighs, near her cunt, she opened her eyes. Lin was kneeling near her waist. That was the first time she saw his fully-erect cock, and she said to me (again in our language) "he is large!"  I replied, "Good... you like him!" 

She again remembered our Amsterdam lover (Don) and remarked, "I like big ones... like Don's.  He was very big.  This guy is circumcised, it looks different."  She reached out to touch Lin's cock.  You can't imagine the thrill that sight gave me... seeing my sexy wife, lying naked, with a stranger kneeling near her, stroking her body, and she touching his cock!!!

India took his cock and gave it a thorough examination, visually and feeling it with her fingers, noting the lack of foreskin. She stroked him a bit and asked, "Do you like it?"... to which Lin said "Yes!"

India then tugged on his prick and pulled him closer.  She began to kiss and lick his cock, and then took it in her mouth and sucked it.  Lin had reached her breasts and was squeezing and kneading them, making her moan.  I stroked myself with one hand while I stroked my wife's hair and forehead with my other hand.

After India had sucked his cock for a few minutes, Lin just collapsed on her and started to kiss her all over her face, neck and lips. The massage part was forgotten. What they were doing at that point was having unadulterated sex with each other.  

India and Lin both wanted to enjoy each other's bodies.  He lay on top of my wife, humping his prick against her oil-slicked body.  India's arms went round Lin, and he rubbed his body over her oily body.  Soon I joined them too, pressing my body against her from the back, as she lay on her side facing Lin.  It felt nice to hump my prick against her oil-slicked bum as she had sex with another man.

Then India rose.  Supported by her elbow; she kissed his cock and sucked it.  She showered a lot of loving on his cock, and seemed to enjoy the fact that as it was a circumcised cock, it was different to feel.  She kept commenting on it.  Lin and I were both each fondling one of her breasts. 

India then laid between his legs.  She asked me to move closer to Lin, so that he and I lay next to each other.  She started by sucking Lin's prick and stroking my cock.  Then she would change cocks and suck mine while she fondled his cock.  While my wife would suck his cock, Lin would also reach out and stroke my cock.  Often I had two hands, one each, belonging to India and Lin, on my cock and balls.  It was an indescribable feeling.

A bit later, India wanted to be eaten. She got up from between Lin's legs and lay on her back between us.  She asked Lin to "suck" her.  Lin lay between her legs and put his mouth to her cunt.  Soon, Lin's face on her cunt had India humping her hips and breathing raggedly.  She humped her hips violently when she was on the verge of her orgasm.  When she reached her orgasm, she let out a stifled scream (unusual for her... as she likes to be in control of her faculties when in throes of orgasm).

She held me... and I held her in a tight embrace.  She was a bit drained, so I asked Lin to move aside and I went down on her, to "re-build" her to a level of excitement. India gets a bit sensitive down there for a while, so we just lay there for a while. I kissed her inner thighs and cunt area leisurely, trying to build her desires up again. 

As I kissed her inner thighs and cunt, I played with Lin's very rigid erection while he lay next to India, holding her in his arms.  When India had recovered, she asked Lin to move up.  As he knelt near her shoulders, she sucked his cock.  India wanted to fuck, and she asked me to fuck her.

I mounted her, and pushed my cock deep into her sopping wet pussy.  What a sight, me fucking India whilst she sucked this man's cock.  I fucked for a while before she started to hump back, and said, "Fuck hard, I'm cumming again."  

I asked her, "don't you want to fuck him?"  She replied, "No... don't talk, just fuck hard."  So I started to pump hard and fast, and I had my orgasm before she started hers.  Then her orgasm hit her.  Her tummy went into spasms, and she humped against me.  It was one of her bigger orgasms, her second of the evening.

I left the bed and washed myself.  Then I came back and lay next to her.  We were both recovering from our orgasms, when she asked Lin, "shall I jerk you off?  I don't feel like fucking,"  He said yes. 

She started to lick, suck and jerk him.  I then took over from India and jerked Lin, as she licked his balls and ran her hands over his balls and thighs.  We both alternated in sucking and jerking Lin's cock.  It felt nice to suck a cock.  He was enjoying this double treat of two pairs of hands and two mouths (sometimes together... sometimes alternately) on his cock and balls as India and I both sucked and jerked his cock alternately. 

I was in fact jerking Lin when he ejaculated all over India, who lay between us. It was a lot of cum.  I washed my hands and lit cigarettes for India and myself.  As we lay smoking and kissing each other... her hand still kept fondling Lin's very wet and sticky soft cock.

Then we all got up to shower.  India and I brushed our teeth too.  As the three of us went under the shower, we all soaped each other.  I asked her if she had enjoyed herself, and she said, "Yes, it was very good.  After Amsterdam I have begun enjoying pure sex."  I asked her why she did not let him fuck her?  To this she replied that she did not want to take a chance, even with a condom, as he (being a masseur) was in the high risk group.

As India soaped us both; we two men soaped her and caressed her, and the young man got erect again.  India sucked him under the shower.  Then she asked him if he wanted release, and should she jerk him off again.  He said he would love to but decided he had to conserve his "energy" as he may have to go on another call later that night.  Lin left after the bath.  I was still semi-erect.

India and I sat (naked), having a drink and chatting about what we had done.  We were also hungry again.  We ordered a snack from room service.  When the room service delivered, I wrapped a towel to open the door, and India just lay in bed, covering herself with the blanket. 

When the waiter left, India remarked that the guy must have known what we were up to, as I had a tent in my towel... and as she lay, her shoulders and top of her breasts were exposed.  We had a good laugh.  

We ate our burgers and then we had another drink. We were both were quite high.  Then we fucked.  It was raw animal sex.  We fucked like crazed people, re-living our experience with Lin.  As I had come once, I could go on for a long time, giving India a big orgasm.

The next evening, as we fucked, before we went for dinner, I realized that India's body was now more responsive than ever.  It was just like she was after we had had our first experiences in Amsterdam.  I suggested that we call another guy for a massage.  She refused, saying that we were going to Phuket, and that we could always call another guy there.  So that is how the Bangkok part of the mini-working-vacation ended.  Her body had come alive.

We had planned to fly to Phuket on Friday evening, but as I finished work in Bangkok on Thursday, we took that evening flight to Phuket.  We had a memorable sexual adventure in Phuket.  There my wife fucked another man for the first time.  This was her first fuck, though it was her fourth time with another man.

Love
Raj and India

You have just read Part D.  The entire story, Story #3-050, Parts A-H are available free at:  
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