Jan's Advice to Other Women and Their Mates
(Received on 7-11-08)

Joan

Eric and I just looked at the two stories we sent you and that you posted on your website as file #3-007.  Wow!  They seem a lot different when you read about yourself on line.  

You asked me to share some additional thoughts about my MFM experiences... why I enjoy them... and to share some of my thoughts for other women who are considering this lifestyle.  As you can tell when you read this, I tend to ramble on a lot, and am not real good with words.  Please feel free to edit it.  Also, I give you my permission to add this to your website.   

First, let me say that it was not an easy transition from being in a monogamous relationship to being with partners other than my husband.  I went through all of the emotions, anger at first, acceptance, titillation and then absolute thrill.  

I am sure I am not alone in having made that transition, and I want to assure your readers that it is pretty normal, at least from the other women we know who are in multiple relationships.  

I'm really glad that I found out how wonderful it can be to have the attention of two males.  Especially having one deep inside me while I am sucking or playing with the other.  

Two cocks to enjoy is really something.  Being kissed, caressed, and totally made love to by two men at the same time is an experience that (to my mind at least) is one of the most wonderful things I have done.  

In addition to the sexual aspect of things, I think the best thing is that now I am free to discuss my most erotic thoughts with my husband, and know that I am safe in revealing such intimate details with him.  I especially like to see him get as turned-on as he does when we share our intimate fantasies.  

For instance, I shared one of my deepest desires with Eric a few years ago... and with his help I was actually able to make it a reality.  I have always wanted to be ridden by a "real" cowboy... and I mean a roping, bull riding, and bronco busting cowboy... and not the dime store imitations.   

Well, we were at a rodeo and one of the cowboys really turned me on.  I shared that fact with Eric, and he encouraged me to "go for it."  The beer wagon was near where the cowboys hung out during their performances, so I went to get us a beer.  On the way I went to the restroom and removed my bra and undid a couple of the buttons on my blouse.  

When I approached the beer wagon my cowboy was standing there sipping on a beer.  His eyes immediately focused on my breasts... which by the way are well-formed, natural and fill a 36 D cup.  Seeing him stare at me gave me the courage to ask if he liked what he saw.  After choking on his beer he mumbled, "Oh Yeah!"  

We spent the next several minutes talking about his performance... with innuendos flying back and forth.  I ended up giving him my phone number and suggested he call me before leaving town.   

He called the next afternoon wanting to get together.  When I told him that it would be a 3-some with my husband, he actually dropped the phone.  We made a date for the next night at a local hotel, and after a drink or two in the bar I got to fully live out my wildest fantasy.  I made him leave his hat and boots on, and he rode me like I was a bucking bronco.  It was one of the wildest, most satisfying, 2-somes I think I have ever had.  

Another of my favorite times was when Eric and I were camping at Morro Bay.  We had just pulled into our camping site in a large RV park and were in the process of hooking up our trailer when a good looking guy in a Sundowner pulled in to the space next to us.  He was alone, and when I saw how good looking he was, I decided that it might be fun to seduce him.  

As I continued my chores around the outside of our trailer, I would bend over to show him my ass, or to show him my tits, which almost ell out of my top when I bent down.  I made sure that I was facing in just the right direction each time, and gave him a great show.  

After we had our rig set up, I went inside and brought out some beer, and invited him to join us for a cold one.  We spent an hour just kicking back and talking, with my bringing out a couple more beers and bending over to hand him his.  I could see the bulge in his shorts and knew he was getting turned-on.  

Eric caught on to the game I was playing and found made up an excuse that he was going to go and take some photos of Morro Rock while the sun was in the right position.  Eric took his camera and left.  I told our new found friend that I was going to change into a bathing suit and lay in the sun.  

Excusing myself, I went in and changed.  When I came back our new found friend had changed into his swim suit, had placed two lounge chairs close to each other, and was reclining on one of them with a beer in his hand.  He had opened a second one for me, and handed it to me as I made myself comfortable on the second lounger.  

After a few minutes I had him rub oil on my back, which led to his exploring just how far he could go.  When I turned over and had him do my front, he was confident enough to move my top out of the way and rub oil on my tits as well as on my legs and thighs.  

He worked his way under the bathing suit bottom and fingered me until a came in an explosive climax.  Deciding to reciprocate I took his cock out of his trunks and sucked him off until he came in my mouth.  

A few minutes after our little session, Eric returned camera in hand.  Little did I know at the time but he had watched the entire thing and had taken photos of my licking that big cock.   

After Eric returned, I went inside to change and put on a green sleep shirt.  I went to the door and stood there with the light shining in such a way that my body was almost visible under the material.   I suggested that they come in out of the hot sun.  The words were hardly out of my mouth before both guys were in the trailer with me.  

I immediately went to Eric and wrapped my arms around his neck and planted a passionate kiss on his lips.  Our neighbor quickly decided to join the fun... and before long I was being kissed, caressed and fondled by both guys.  Eric sat on the couch and I knelt down to suck on him with our neighbor kneeling behind me, pushing his cock into my well-lubricated body.  

We spent the next two days in Morro Bay, and our neighbor joined us on our daily excursions and to dinner... and then to bed.     

I am sharing these events with you so that your readers can see how much I have grown to truly enjoy our MFM encounters.  



I guess my advice to any couple considering an MFM, or any other type of experience with a 3rd partner, is to really talk about it.  Develop the level of trust where you can share your intimate thoughts with each other.  The sharing of the experience is what makes it so great for me.  Knowing I can tell Eric my most intimate fantasy, and know that he will be turned-on by it.   

Eric and I talk and share every experience to the fullest.  Since the first time (Jan's revelation Part 1), Eric and I have had an MFM experience with more than 10 different partners, some several times... others only once.  But we have enjoyed them all.  

Right now we have found a person whom we both like, and with whom we can be as open and sharing as we are with each other.  For the past two years we have confined ourselves to having MFM fun only with this person, and have found the relationship extremely satisfying for all.   
 
I'm going to end this little dissertation by encouraging couples who are thinking about an MFM experience to really talk it out, share your thoughts completely, and continually reassure each other that you truly love and care about each other.  

Next, carefully select your partner.  Having the right partner will make an incredible difference.  Take your time so you can increase the odds of having a good experience.  And don't be afraid to kiss and cuddle a little with each prospect.  Even if you don't "connect", you can still enjoy some sexy fun... and it's a great way to see what the guy is really like.  When you find a good one, relax, lay back and enjoy it to its fullest.  

Love 
Jan
