JANIE'S ADVICE TO WOMEN / COUPLES 
Based On Her Enjoyable MFM Experiences

March, 1998

To Joan,

It was good to "meet" you on the Internet.  There are not a 
lot of opportunities for those of us who enjoy the unique 
pleasures of MFM threesomes to talk with others about our 
lifestyle... particularly others who regularly share our 
lifestyle.

As you have requested, I am going to attempt to put into 
writing how I started enjoying this special sexual treat... 
and some of my specific experiences.  You are welcome to 
share this letter with other women who may be interested in 
opening their sex lives to the sensual joys we know.

It started when I was 22.  I was dating a guy (Pete) in 
Minneapolis.  We really enjoyed ourselves together 
socially... and eventually sexually.  We never referred to 
it as a "love" relationship... rather, we were very special 
friends.  We both dated others, and after a few years we 
found ourselves going different directions.

While Pete and I were dating, we found that we both enjoyed 
doing "different" things.  We both enjoyed beer and wine... 
but didn't drink to excess.  We both smoked... but didn't 
get into other drugs.  We enjoyed eating out and going to 
plays.  Sometimes he would spend the night at my place... 
other times we would spend the night at his place.  

We found that our desire to explore "new frontiers" 
extended to our bedroom fun too.  Pete would start necking 
and petting with me in unusual places (like fingering my 
pussy under my dress at a play, playing with my breasts on 
the roller coaster, feeling each other up in broad daylight 
at the park, etc.).  

One night after we had attended a banquet followed by a 
business meeting, Pete led me back into the empty banquet 
hall.  The lights were all on, many dishes were still on 
the tables, and someone could have walked in at any time.

Pete pressed me against one of the banquet tables and gave 
me a deep kiss as his hands began to roam all over my body.  
I followed his lead, unzipped his pants, put my hand inside 
and started toying with his hard cock.  He bent down, 
lifted my dress and promptly yanked my panties down.  He 
knew I was wearing crotchless pantyhose.

With a grin on his face, he threw my panties into the 
corner, lifted me onto the banquet table (after pushing the 
dishes aside), raised my skirt, stuck his face against my 
crotch and started to give me some great oral sex.  There I 
was in a large brightly lit room, being eaten with gusto... 
waiting for someone to walk in on us.  I had an orgasm in 
just minutes.  Then he pulled me from the table, bent me 
back over it, raised my skirt, and rammed his cock into my 
pulsing pussy from behind.

I rested my arms on the table and he hung on to my waist as 
he continued to plow in and out of my hot cunt.  It sure 
felt good... and the potential for being caught heightened 
our shared pleasure.  He shot a sizable load into me and 
then hung on while he recovered.  I grabbed a cloth dinner 
napkin and shoved it up between my legs to catch and absorb 
his juices as they flowed back out of me.

I had just stood back up and kissed him when a waiter 
entered the room to start clearing the tables.  Pete 
grabbed my panties and we quickly walked out... with the 
pilfered napkin still between my legs.  It fell out in the 
hall as I walked... and we just laughed and left it there.

There were times we screwed on beaches, on his car hood and 
in a back area of the local library.  On a few occasions, 
we screwed in the front seat of his car while his buddy and 
the buddy's girl (with whom we were double dating) were 
screwing in the back seat.  The same thing happened a few 
times back at Pete's apartment that he shared with his 
buddy Dan.

Then, one night Pete and I were at his place, playing on 
the living room floor when we thought Dan would be out for 
the night.  We were both naked, Pete was laying on his 
back, and I was riding his cock when the living room door 
opened.  Dan walked in... alone.  Pete just smiled, said 
"Hi Dan... want to join us?" and in a few seconds Dan had 
shed his clothes and started playing with my tits while I 
continued to ride Pete's cock.

I was hesitant at first... but very quickly found the scene 
to be highly erotic.  Before that night was over, I had 
sucked and screwed both guys just about every way we could 
think of.  I saw them both often after that.  Whenever Dan 
did not have a date and Pete and I were together, we would 
invite Dan to join us.  

Sometimes we went dancing together, or bowling, or to a 
movie... other times we just went back to Pete's and all 
three of us would screw our brains out.  After that first 
night, we were all quite at ease with our shared sexual 
pleasures.  We all got lots of pleasure... and we all GAVE 
lots of pleasure.  I was always the center of attention.  
The guys did not share any overt sexual contact between 
themselves.

During the three years that Pete and I dated (these were 
college years), Pete would occasionally seek (and get) my 
permission to invite some other guy to join in our love 
fests.  It was during this time that I became quite 
comfortable with having sex with two guys at the same time.  
I found that if one of the guys wore out while I was still 
needing (or at least WANTING) more attention... the other 
guy could keep me sexually high until the first guy 
"recovered."  We often had continuous sex play for two 
hours straight!

Then, I also discovered the unique pleasure of having two 
guys simultaneously stimulating various parts of my body... 
and having two guys "in me" at the same time.  Often I 
would suck Pete to heaven while the other guy would screw 
my pussy.  It was not until some time later that I tried 
taking two guys into my pussy at the same time.  I hadn't 
thought that would be possible.  

One night I was riding on top of Pete's cock when Dan came 
up behind me with a particularly hard cock in hand.  As I 
rode up and down on Pete's cock, Dan used his saliva to 
lube his dick, and he pressed the head of his cock against 
the lower edge of my pussy lips.  It made me feel extra 
good as I wiggled my ass against it.  On one up-stroke, I 
came off Pete's cock, and Dan seized the opportunity by 
driving his cock into me.  Pete felt what had happened and 
started pushing his cock back up against my pussy.  My legs 
were spread wide apart.  As I pressed back down, I suddenly 
felt that both cocks... side-by-side... had entered me.'

For a moment, I stayed that way, pressing back and down... 
with both cocks impaling my stretched pussy.  I grinned 
back at both of them as I felt a huge orgasm begin to build 
within me.  Dan pulled back a bit and then thrust in to the 
hilt again.  Then Pete began to pull back and start a mini-
stroking session.  They alternated their strokes like that 
for about a minute... until my body began to shake.  

As the peak of my orgasm hit, my pussy clenched their cocks 
so tightly, they told me later they couldn't even move 
them.  As my muscles began to relax, both of their cocks 
began to engorge... evidence that their climaxes were about 
to arrive.  Their cocks strained against each other as they 
painted my inner walls with a double load of cum.  That 
sent me into another super orgasm.  We collapsed in a 
tangle.

Shortly thereafter, Pete moved to another city to pursue 
grad school.  We have always stayed in contact, but our 
lives clearly headed different directions.  Without Pete as 
my primary partner, I tended to stick with one-on-one sex 
for the next couple of years.



Then I met Ron.  He is an athletically-built guy with a 
thick,  but average length cock.  He loves to give me the 
best oral sex a gal could ever want... and his cock keeps 
my pussy well-pleased.

We married a year after we met.  Some three years later, 
Ron started bringing home some Forum magazines... and we 
started reading them together.  I noticed that we both got 
turned-on whenever we read stories about husbands sharing 
their wives with other men.  I hadn't told him about my 
earlier experiences... and he did not ask.  

Finally, one night while he was buried inside me, he asked 
if I would let him hold me in his arms while another guy 
screwed me.  I hesitated.  "Would you want me to do that?" 
I asked.  "Yes," he replied, "I have been fantasizing about 
that for a long time.  I have watched as the eyes of other 
guys feast on your body at dances and at the beach... and 
have pictured them pleasuring you while I watch."

"If you are serious," I offered, "I could enjoy that too... 
but ONLY if I am sure you are totally at ease with the idea 
of another guy screwing me."  There was a short silence.  
"Honey, I love you very much.  I don't ever want to lose 
you.  But, I believe that sexual fun and love don't have to 
be tied together.  I believe we could try new sexual things 
together, and keep that activity totally separate from our 
love and our lovemaking," Ron said seriously.

"I think this is the time for me to tell you something 
about me, Ron," I said, as I helped him roll onto his back 
next to me.  "I need to tell you that several years ago I 
had several experiences with two guys at the same time.  In 
each case, they were friends with whom I shared sexual 
pleasure... none of them were truly 'lovers.'  But now we 
are considering inviting an additional guy into our bed 
while the two of us are 'lovers.'  I know I can keep the 
sex-fun and the loving separated... but are you sure such a 
set-up won't hurt your love for me?"

Ron grinned, gave me a kiss... and said, "I'm sure.  But if 
I ever have any problems with anything we try... I'll let 
you know.  In the meantime, lets schedule an evaluation for 
right after our 500th threesome!"  We both laughed... and 
cuddled before falling asleep.



Well... that was how Ron and I got started on the renewal 
of my MFM pleasures.  We have tried a few FMF threesomes, 
an orgy once, and frequent visits to nudist clubs... but 
our main non-one-on-one sex-fun comes from MFM threesomes 
with me as the happy center of attention.  

We still haven't had our 500th threesome yet... so we 
haven't had occasion to sit down for a formal "evaluation."  
Clearly, the fun we share, the after-threesome stimulation 
our sex life gets, and the sexual openness we share are 
sufficient evidence that our lifestyle works for us.

Couples who want to consider the shared fun of MFM 
threesomes will wonder how to get started.  

May I suggest that you start by having a serious discussion 
about her willingness to try a half-dozen MFM experiences 
before either of you commit to doing this sort of thing on 
a long-term basis.  That will also give him a chance to be 
sure some jealousy bug is not lurking in the dark reassess 
of his personality.  

Simply decide to give it a try six times... preferably with 
six different guys... over a period of time.  Be sure it is 
NEVER at a time when either of you are upset with the 
other... or a time when either of you are saying a firm 
"No" to the idea at that time.

Where will you meet a willing extra guy.  Almost any place!  
The truth is that a very high percent of all the red-
blooded American men out there would jump at the chance to 
be the extra guy in a female-centered threesome.  Some guys 
may find it a bit "kinky" at first... only to be overjoyed 
with their experience when it is over.  Remember lady, he 
is there to enhance YOUR pleasure... but you must remember 
to see that both men's needs are satisfied too!

If you live in a small town, or if either of you work in a 
high-profile profession, you may want to go out of town to 
find the extra guy.  Other times, that extra guy may be 
found in the office next to yours, or at a nearby bar.  
Sometimes the wife will notice a good "prospect" and bring 
him to hubby's attention.  Other times hubby will find 
someone to bring as a surprise to the wife.

We have met good prospects at nudist clubs... some of whom 
have become excellent "extra guys."  We have followed up 
ads in adult magazines and newspapers... and after 
appropriate "screening," have found some men with whom we 
were compatible.  We have even met guys at the beach, 
struck up a conversation... and generated a few good 
prospects this way.  You have got to be ready to be 
sociable at all times if you want to meet some new guy who 
may then become a prospect to join you in shared bedroom 
pleasures.



Probably the best for Ron and me has been a bar and pool 
hall on the other side of our metropolitan city.  We found 
it one night while cruising around with another guy we were 
already occasionally inviting into our bed.  

The place has a bar, a dance floor and a large room that 
houses about six pool tables.  Sometimes I dress up extra 
sexy, and when we get there, Ron will shoot pool while I 
accept dances with various guys.  Other times I will join 
Ron and a few other guys for a hot game of pool... showing 
off my charms in the process.  I always make it clear that 
I enjoy having fun... and that I am married.  

When I meet a guy who starts coming on to me... or a guy I 
think would be an interesting new extra guy, I immediately 
point him out to Ron.  Often that leads to Ron joining the 
guy for a beer while they both "oogle" me.  

On more than one occasion the other guy will voluntarily 
comment, "Wish I could get a piece of that one."  Ron picks 
it up from there.  If I have already indicated my approval, 
Ron will respond by saying something like, "If you are 
serious, that may be possible."  Then he will lead the guy 
aside and tell him about our lifestyle.  

If the guy is not repelled by the idea of being one of two 
guys making it with a woman, Ron will ask the guy more 
questions, get a phone number for a later contact, and tell 
him we will be in touch.  Then, we generally all three meet 
at a neutral place for a drink... just to get better 
acquainted... before we ever actually arrange to meet at a 
motel, etc.

On a few occasions at that bar, I have taken the lead with 
a guy I feel particularly attracted to.  I will invite him 
to dance with me... I will cuddle close on the slow dances, 
and I will press my breasts on his arm or let my hand graze 
his crotch while we are close.  If I get his attention, I 
may ask him if he likes to "fool around."  If that gets a 
favorable response, I may tell him I am married, and that 
my husband occasionally lets me invite another guy to join 
him in making love to me.  

If that does not blow his mind, I will ask him if he has 
ever joined another guy in giving sexual pleasure to a 
woman... does the idea turn him on... is he interested, 
etc.  Then I will tell him I will be right back.  

I will leave him as I hunt down Ron to tell him about my 
"prospect."  If Ron agrees, he will approach the guy 
without me present... tell him about our conversation... 
confirm my feelings about the "worthiness" of this 
prospect... get his phone number for a later contact, and 
tell him we will call later. 

We ALWAYS get a guy's phone number BEFORE we set anything 
up.  We don't care if it is a work phone, a home phone, a 
voice mail or a friend's phone number... but we insist on 
having a way to renew the contact on our terms and timing.  
AND... we are always very discrete when either of us calls.



Both Ron and I HATE condoms.  I love to feel the squirt of 
a man's cum against the inner walls of my pussy or mouth... 
and on my breasts.  Ron loves to drive his cock into my 
pussy while it is lubricated with another man's juices.  
Therefore, I use other methods of birth control... and we 
are selective in who we invite to join us.  

During our first "get-acquainted" contact with a 
prospective new extra guy, we ask lots of questions.  We 
attempt to get a fix on his past lifestyles, whether or not 
he is married (married guys are usually less likely to be 
bringing health risks with them), and where he usually goes 
to get some extra sex.  Through these questions we attempt 
to assess health and discretion risks with this guy.

I would say that for one reason or another, at least half 
the guys we have met for a "get acquainted" drink never end 
up in our bed.  We weed them out.  We want guys who will be 
fun to be with, at ease with their sexuality, straight or 
mostly straight, have a high probability of clean health, 
and are intelligent.  Most of all, we want to avoid 
takers... rip and run artists...  guys who have other than 
giving in mind.  After all, I am openly a bit selfish!

Finally, I don't want to leave you or your readers with the 
impression that we invite a different man into our bed 
every night.  As a matter of fact, we currently have just 
three guys who periodically meet with us.  

Generally, we set up an MFM threesome about once a month 
with one of the guys.  They NEVER meet each other... and I 
have never met any of them when Ron was not with me.  These 
may not be necessary rules... but they are our rules... and 
they work well for us.

In the eight years since Ron and I decided to give MFM 
threesomes a try, I have probably had the opportunity to 
experience the cocks, tongues and hands of 40 or so 
different guys while Ron has simultaneously made love to 
me.  

Gals... variety really is the spice of life!  Give it a 
try.

Janie


