I am Happy to be a Hot Wife

I am a very happily married 41-year-old wife who is fortunate enough to have a husband who loves me enough that he is comfortable sharing me sexually with other men... as a part of our relationship.  

While we are deeply in love, and in a very committed relationship, we also have enjoyed the company of a number of other men during our 20+ years of marriage.  

Early on my husband and I briefly participated in a swinger community.  We soon found that the inclusion of couples was not where our true interest lay.  We found over the first 3 or 4 years that we were drawn more to the "hot wife" lifestyle, where my husband would set up or arrange for me to be with other men while he is present.  This action normally leads to some very intense sex between the two of us once the other guy is gone.  

I firmly believe that our involvement in the hot wife lifestyle, and the open sharing of our relationship, has served to build and enhance our marriage and our relationship together.  

While I cannot speak to what my husband feels or derives from seeing me with other men, I can tell you that when he sets up a date for me, and offers me to another man... that while the sex is good... the biggest turn-on for me is knowing that my husband is also deriving much pleasure from watching me experience the pleasure of the my sexual play.  

Over the years we have met some really great guys, and other couples who are involved in the hot wife lifestyle.  Ladies, if your husband encourages you to be his "hot wife," don't turn away.  It could be the opening to some really great sexual experiences for both you and your husband.    