Why Men Share Their Wives - Views from Wives


Mate Sharing Is a Natural Thing for Men, And I Love It

I think men have a primal urge to be part of pack.  They seem to feel that they bring other men closer to them by sharing their mates.  They seem to have an urge to leave their sperm mixed with the sperm of other men inside a receptive woman.  

Actually, we women have the same urge to be accepted as part of groups.  We also have a natural urge to use our bodies to give satisfaction to men.  

My husband and I have several friends, and we all share partners.  I am very happy with this arrangement, as we all trust each other.  Even though sometimes there is a bit of jealousy, it goes away, and the women are all happy to know that our men will take care of us no matter what.  

I feel safe when I am with all of them, and am happy my husband has the chance to enjoy other women.  I know he will not be looking elsewhere behind my back, and finding some other women who he might be tempted to leave me for.  He has it very good with me!  And, I feel like I have it very good too.

I have to admit our sex life has become really great.  Before we started our group, our sex life was becoming boring, and I could tell he was losing interest.  I think men have to have that ego burst of conquering women.  And I have to admit that I enjoy being conquered, to know that I am sexually attractive to other men.  

After a party where we both have sex with other people, we can't keep our hands off each other for weeks!  When that starts to fade, we have another party, and it starts all over again.

Women, please submit to your husbands' wishes when he suggests sharing you with other men.  That is the natural way men build and keep their "manhood".  You will be happier in the long run than if you try to control and own him.



Wife-Sharing Eliminates Female Guilt

Wife-sharing gives so many pleasures to my husband and me.  It gives our marriage a certain pleasure-centered tension.  

It is an experience where, as a women, I don't feel guilty about wanting and having sex with other men.  I feel like I don't need permission from my husband to explore my sexuality.  It is not only pleasure for me as a woman, but also for my husband, by his watching, or by my telling him what happens.

Our love will keep my husband and me together.  Through wife-sharing, I have learned that good sex is possible with many guys.



I Don't Understand Why He Shares Me, But I Love Being Shared

I am married, and I love my hubby very dearly.  In all honesty I am still trying to figure out how his mind works.  

He initiated the idea of sharing me with other men, but I can't imagine sharing him (whom I so love so dearly) with other women.  Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy this lifestyle very much, and I am personally taking full advantage of this while it lasts.  Some may say I have a double standard, but it's just my honest view, or maybe am just being a simple Asian woman (often we think with emotion rather than logic).
  
I will of course stop this lifestyle in a blink of eye, if he asks me to, because of my love to him.  But so far he is very encouraging, and always says that sharing me with other men is what makes him happy.  Of course being a good wife, I will do whatever it takes to continue make him happy as long as he wishes.


It's Good To Know I Am Worth Sharing With My Hubby's Friends

When my husband told me he wanted to share me, intimately, with one of his male friends, I told him I thought he was crazy.  I didn't tell him I wouldn't do it, I just told him I thought it was crazy for him to be willing for me to have sex with someone other than him.

Well, it happened.  I was surprised how happy my hubby was that I let him share me with his friend... and how totally elated he was as he watched his friend enter me, pump me, and bring me to a mind-shattering orgasm.

After that initial intimate coupling with my husband's friend, we relaxed and talked a while.  I admitted that I had enjoyed having sex with someone new, and my husband told me it was a thrill for him to watch his friend enjoy me.  Naturally the other guy was happy to have been chosen to "share" me.

Later that evening both guys cuddled with me... licking, kissing, and caressing me.  Then they took turns pounding me to additional orgasms.  Over the following months we invited my husband's friend to join us numerous times for evenings of three-way play.  Since then, my husband has introduced a few other new guys to our bedroom play.

I have to admit that there is a special happiness in knowing you're found to be worth sharing with your husband's male friends.

