REFLECTIONS OF TEN WIVES ABOUT BEING SHARED


Me, Hubby, and Another Guy - My Favorite Way to Play

I have had a few threesomes now.  The best, by far, is when they are with my husband and another guy.  

Before my change into becoming a hot wife, my husband would occasionally fuck me with his dick and a dildo at the same time.  I was a little freaked out at first when my husband confessed that he wanted to feel another dick beside his inside my pussy.  

We played out the fantasy many times before we did it for real.  I am glad we practiced though, as it is not an easy position to have two throbbing dicks inside your pussy at the same time.  

The way we usually end up doing it is my husband lays on the bed, with his legs slightly spread.  I climb on top, facing toward his feet.  Then the other guy will kneel between my husband's legs and slid his dick inside me, on top of my husband's dick.  

I usually just sit there and let them do the work.  I will admit it does hurt a bit, but it is well worth it especially if they both cum at the same time.



We Both Enjoy It When My Hubby Shares Me

I am a very happily married 41-year-old wife who is fortunate enough to have a husband who loves me enough that he is comfortable sharing me sexually with other men as a part of our relationship.  

While we are deeply in love and in a very committed relationship, we also have enjoyed the company of other men during our 20+ years of marriage. 
 
While we initially began together in the swinger community, the inclusion of couples was not where our true interest lay.  We found over the first 5 or 6 years that we were drawn more to the hot wife lifestyle, where my husband will set up or arrange for me to be with other men while he is present.  This action normally leads to some very intense sex between us once the other guy is gone.  

I firmly believe that our involvement in the hot wife lifestyle and the open sharing of our relationship has served to build and enhance our marriage and our relationship together.  While I cannot speak to what my husband feels or derives from seeing me with other men, I can offer that when he sets up a date for me and offers me to another man, that while the sex is good, the biggest turn-on for me is knowing that my husband is also deriving much pleasure from watching me experience the pleasure of the sexual episode.  Over the years we have met some really great guys with whom we have shared our sex life.
  



Being Done By Two Guys Has Proven to Be Fun, Fulfilling

I am a new hot wife.  My husband and I have discussed the fantasy for years, but I only took the leap in September 2010.  

Now I have a boyfriend who I have sex with about once a month, and am having a great time.  We started out with me playing alone first, to be able to get comfortable with the situation.  Having sex with someone else was enough to get used to without making it a threesome right away.  

But now my husband regularly joins in.  I am now comfortable with him watching and participating.  The first time my boyfriend came over while my husband was there, I was a little nervous about it.  But I was also turned-on by the idea of my husband watching my boyfriend doing me.  

As it has worked out, I find our shared sex play sessions much more intense and fulfilling now that I have two men doing me at once.



We Both Enjoy MFM Play

I can honestly say that most of our MFM experiences have been very positive, and so far we have no regrets.  I have also spent time discussing this experience with other couples that have been contemplating sharing each other.  This level of commitment in a relationship can be dangerous, but it has also improved many relationships.  It's not for everyone, but is sure is for my husband and me!



I Like My Husband to Watch... But Sometimes... 

I don't see any one guy for long periods of time, with one exception, a young guy who is a student, but is now attending an out of state school.  We see each other now only when he's home on breaks, so that doesn't cause the typical ("love" or dependency) problems that come about with some long-term extra guy relationships.

The problem is that many men don't like husbands watching, and a few have such personalities that it's obvious they don't want to know the husband is aware of the relationship.  

We occasionally advertise in personals ads to avoid the latter problem, but I have met some men socially who aren't told that my husband knows.

My husband encourages me to date while he waits anyway, so that's okay with him.  My husband is definitely monogamous.




How I Told My Husband I Wanted Other Men

As of this writing I've actually enjoyed the intimate company of other men for several years, but this is the story of that first time, and how I told my husband I wanted (needed) other men

It was actually 5 years ago on a business trip I had my first extra marital experience with a guy I was working with.  He was quite a bit younger than me.  I was 31, and at some point after turning 30 men (all men) started looking like candy to me.  

On that particular trip I ended up going out with a group from work, including the younger man in question.  We were a mixed group (some married, some single) and the married ones went to their rooms after dinner.  The single ones went to the clubs.  That left this guy and me to fend for ourselves.  

I had no intention of messing around with him.  I was almost old enough to be his mother, but he was a doll baby and fun to be with.  We ended up at the pool with a bottle of wine he had snuck out of the restaurant.  

Somehow we managed to end up in the hot tub, which somehow led to serious flirting, which led to a back rub, which led to making out, which led to....  I didn't do him, but we did pretty much everything else.  

Once I sort of came off the euphoria of the wine, the hot tub and a yummy guy getting me off, it occurred to me I'd cheated on my husband.  I called it a night, went to my room, and cried for an hour.  At some point it seemed like a good idea to confess what I had done, so at 2:30 AM I made the call.  

I told hubby the story, and he seemed really ok about it.  I thought my marriage was over, but he was reassuring me, telling me how he was pleased I'd not really cheated, that he knew I'd been having a hard time lately being satisfied, and that I had his blessing to make the most of my trip.  

I did just that the next morning, showing up at my new friend's room in time to start the day off right.  



Hubby Loves To Watch

My husband loves watching me have sex with other men.  I really love the black guys especially Jamaican men.  (BTW they're not all big.  :-) ).  I love watching him watch me.  That really turns me on.  It's the best sex ever!  After they go home he and I have fantastic sex!!!



Cuddling With Hubby While A Lover Takes Me From Behind

I love kissing and cuddling with my husband while my lover makes love to me from behind.  It's a special loving feeling.



I Feel Comfortably Secure

I just feel comfortably secure when my hubby holds my hand or hugs me while an unfamiliar shape or size cock penetrates me.



My Husband Enjoys Sharing Me

It is my belief that most husbands enjoy sharing their wife with other appreciative men.

My husband is fantastic.  He gets so turned-on by me having sex with other guys that he buys me sexy clothes, dresses me for an evening out, helps select my "cock for the night," and then leaves me to it.  He then picks me up, pampers me and then ravages me.  I swear he insists on making love to me until he has replaced all my latest man's cum with his own!

The only downside is that sometimes I need a rest.  If it were up to my husband I would have three or four different cocks a week!  But I'm not complaining.

