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Subject: {ASS} {RP} Entry for March 14, 2008 - 
Benefits of Family nudism, open lifestyles 
{Julie_Love} {M+ F+ m f g+ b+ inc ped bi cons}  
2009/09/23



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   The material herein is fictional and is intended as
ADULT entertainment. It contains material of an
adult, explicit, SEXUAL nature. It contains themes of
incest and underage sexual activities. If you are
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   (The original source for this story was from the 
original Yahoo Blog written by Julie. It has been 
updated with comments throughout to provide the 
reader with added information which was not allowed 
in the Yahoo environment.  Please enjoy the story.)   
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As parents we have a golden opportunity to provide a 
healthy environment for nakedness in our own home.  We 
encourage family nudity and the closeness that brings 
to each person with other family members.  Young 
children do not have any sense of modesty, and really 
don't care who sees them naked.  This is the time when 
the parent can mold their conscience without making 
them self-conscious of nakedness.  

   We start family nudity with our children from 
birth.  After a diaper change we let our young ones 
lie on a cover on the floor fully naked and enjoying 
the freedom.  We have a sun room where we usually are 
in during the day.  The warm tile floor and sunbeams 
are wonderful on your body.  Our kids love to play in 
the room without any clothes on.  One benefit of the 
tile floor is when they get to potty training.  You'd 
be surprised how quickly potty training happens when 
your toddler/preschooler is allowed to go bare at 
home.  Of course we have some "accidents" but they 
actually are infrequent and the tile floor makes for 
quick cleaning too!  As a result being naked with each 
other is not viewed as being abnormal.  

   Going nude during the summer is a lot more 
comfortable and natural for us all.  Our children 
immediately strip off their clothes as the get inside 
the house.  (Leaving me to pick them up sometimes, but 
that's ok.) During the winter months we keep the main 
living area warm & comfortable during cold weather.  
Our sun room is very popular at this time of the year 
during the day.  

   One benefit of our family nudism is that we're also 
teaching our kids that we have to be physically clean.  
They shower after coming home from school, they have 
towels that they use on chairs and couches to sit on.  
As a result I think we have fewer colds in our family.  
That's a natural result of our children's efforts at 
being clean.  

   In our family we also have a focal point for family 
nudity that enables the whole family to participate 
together.  We have an outdoor hot tub and a large 
shower room which is large enough for 6 adults. Our 
little ones see this as a heated kiddie swimming pool 
they can use water toys in too.  Our huge shower is 
lots of fun and having showers together leads to many 
enjoyable moments especially if the guys are helping.  

   We also allow our children - from birth - to see us 
in ordinary nude situations (e.g.- dressing, bathing 
or showering, using the toilet) or any activity where 
nudity is a natural part of the activity.  We 
definitely are teaching them when nudism is acceptable 
and when it isn't.  They know that others don't 
appreciate being nude like we do.  

   We believe that by being comfortable with our own 
bodies we will naturally convey the message to our 
children that nudity really is  okay and not something 
to fear.  Very quickly they are so used to it and 
begin to explore their own feelings about being nude 
themselves.  

   We do teach then that there are times in life when 
clothes must be worn for protection, for comfort, and 
to adhere to what is expected outside of our home.  We 
have been able to show our children that we have to 
respect other peoples standards.  They all know that 
other people are not accustomed to nudity, and it's 
kind to respect their wishes.  This may mean keeping 
the curtains drawn, or willingly closing the bathroom 
door when guests are present, for example -- a 
practice that encourages courtesy.  

   As the kids grow older they begin to explore their 
world around them.  Their natural curiosity is 
amazing.  With my last pregnancy my son was always 
asking a lot of questions about what he saw happening.  
He was very curious about my tummy changes, the 
changes in my breasts and many other parts of my body.  
I'd explain to him in simple words what was happening 
and give him the opportunity to ask more questions or 
to even hands-on explore what the changes were like 
from his point of view.  Seeing him listen to my tummy 
for the heartbeat was so endearing.  Once he put his 
ear to my vulva under the impression that he would 
hear it better because the opening lead directly into 
the baby.  He found it wasn't anywhere near as clear 
as listening to my tummy.  

   Robbie has more of a sense of human reproduction 
then other children his age.  He is not embarrassed 
when discussing human anatomy.  He'll be very 
comfortable as he grows to his teen years.  I know 
from how my oldest girl has been that our natural 
sharing of sexuality will keep the communication lines 
open during adolescence.  Jen was always very open to 
asking me questions about all topics.  Our 
relationship has grown as a result.  Our natural open 
approach to family life has also provided our children 
with the opportunity to explore on their own level 
various degrees of sexuality and sensuality.  They 
know the joy in feeling the sun on their bodies, the 
touch of a hand as they are massaged, how others react 
to their touches, the joy of giving pleasure.  We 
believe that as parents we need to be responsible for 
providing them the opportunities for a healthy 
enjoyable and safe environment for them to learn with 
us, their siblings and themselves.  I believe that 
children raised in this environment are more tolerant 
of different cultures, attitudes, people and beliefs.  
They will be natural citizens of the world.  
 
(,)-(,) >>>>> commentary by Julie on September 23, 2009

Rob is now in Grade 3 and getting into spelling.  One 
of our family learning exercises is to have the kids 
tell us what the various parts of their bodies are and 
to point to them.  When they get old enough we include 
the correct spelling of those words.  Rob will point 
to a part, say what it is and is slowly starting to be 
able to spell the word out for us.  I love it when he 
is pointing out parts of the body such as penis, 
scrotum, testicles, vulva, clitoris, anus, labia, 
vagina.  Those touches are very special to me.  I can 
see Kathy watching us as he does his spelling lessons 
and I know she'll be doing that earlier than he has.  
I think perhaps I have discovered a new way for young 
children to learn to spell.  

   As an aside, we do talk to our children using the 
proper terms for the parts of our bodies.  I do this 
so that they can be confident when they talk with the 
doctor about how they are feeling and show and 
describe what is hurting them.  In time I know they 
will know the other normally used words such as cock, 
cunt, pussy etc but for now we are actually quite 
formal in our discussions.    
Back to the original blog entry...  (,)-(,)

Julie (horny mom)
www.asstr.org/~julie_love/

dated created 2008/03/14 -  last updated 2009/09/23 

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