"I've always had a fantasy of seeing my wife have sex with another man."

SEX 102 - Male Fetishes, as they apply to Female reproductive organs. (Real technical, huh?)

This is my explanation of why there are so many stories written about wife/girlfriend swapping and sharing. I do not have any formal training in the workings of the human brain, or its desires and fetishes. Though, I do have a brain, containing several of each.

There are a lot of sharing/swapping stories in sex magazines, because men like to READ them!

Any man that thought through the act, would immediately see that it wasn't a good idea. Men are vain. They want to have the biggest dick, the fastest car, and the prettiest woman. But, how do they prove these things? I have never actually witnessed a dick comparison being held, although I've also never seen a ten inch dick, that everybody else seems to write about, either!

I have seen several drag races, where men have all but exploded their only means of transportation, to prove it is faster! And, I have watched men quietly gloat, as other men lusted after the hot piece of tail across the room, that was their wife!

We enjoy the envy of others, and that is the basis of the desire to see another man with your wife. To know someone wants her sexually, knowing you have her sexually! This excites men, to have something somebody else desires.

Taken to the next level, you might think the man will be eternally grateful to indulge his desire. You're wrong, men are very fickle. Once a man has something, he looks toward the next challenge (woman). Remember how excited you used to get, with just the chance of seeing your wife/girl naked?

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Let's go through the act of getting your significant other screwed by another man:

1. Selecting the person to preform the sexual act. This assumes you have convinced the wife that you really, truly, honestly, want this to happen, and she is foolish enough to go along with it.

1. Friend or Foe?

1. Friend

1. What happens when you see him later? More importantly, when your wife sees him!

1. In what way will it effect the friendship?

2. Will you select him on basis of best for your woman, or to make you look good?

1. Will you check out his equipment?
2. Give him pointers, on what she likes?

2. Foe

1. How will the selection be made?

1. Magazines, newspaper ads, swinger publications?

1. AIDS (enough said)

3. Aftermath:

1. What if he excites your wife more than you have (lately or otherwise)?
2. What if she decides she likes having other sex partners?

1. Will she exclude you from the audience, at her next performance?

2. Contacting the person.

1. What if he isn't interested? He might refuse for various reasons.

1. He might not be attracted to your wife. Severe problems here, since you can never take back the offer, and he can never take back his refusal. Your friendship will be forever changed!
2. He might have read this article, and not wish to screw up his, and your lives. Again, the relationships are forever changed!
3. He might be gay, and you never knew he really wanted you!

2. Location, location, location. Where will the act be consummated?

1. At home, in marital bed?

1. Every time you go to bed, you will imagine the time your wife laid open to another man. You will forever smell that slight odor of foreign sperm!
2. Your wife will always compare your technique to his. She will be staring at the same ceiling, the same cracked headboard, and wondering, what is different, what is lacking.

2. Motel?

1. This makes more sense, except for any future traveling plans.
2. Will you spring for the jacuzzi room?

3. Specific acts.

1. Will an itinerary be planed?

1. Begin at 6:00, Get acquainted, Mutual Oral, Missionary Position (Optional Doggie position after three minutes), Tissues issued at 6:20?
2. Remember, this will be a first encounter for both of them. It will seem better than it actually is. And, who knows, maybe he is one of those guys that actually eats pussy until she has an orgasm! Instead of, until she spreads her legs.
3. Nothing impresses a girl more, than a guy who actually cares about her feelings and comfort.

2. Will anal be ruled out?

1. Most women aren't as excited about anal sex as we would like to believe. Could be a deal breaker.

3. Any post coital oral?

1. Most women don't, because they believe respectable women don't.
2. Heaven help you, if he believes in cleaning up after himself!

1. You will either be licking the jar the rest of your life, or finding a new wife! (And never repeating this experiment!)

4. Post game show.

1. Now that it is over ... how do you part gracefully?

1. Should the three of you sit around and discuss the various plays?

1. Two male egos, being critiqued? Bad scene, under ideal conditions.

2. Drinks? A movie?

1. Did you video tape it?

3. I'm horny ... how about if ...

1. Will seconds be served? Wanted?

5. "How about next Saturday ..."

1. Feelings are sure to be hurt, since three people can never agree on everything.

1. Time to think about what happened.
2. He/she wants to do it again, why don't you?

2. Meeting the other man on the street.

1. What do you say? How do you act?
2. What does your wife say and do?

1. Will he think it is acceptable to give her a kiss, cop a feel?

3. Will other people notice the change in your relationship?

In closing, my advice is to continue to read the stories people write. Just imagine it is you in the story, along with your true love. And, if anyone suggests swapping, show him this essay.

If he/she is still convinced it is a good idea, ... contact a divorce lawyer, one of you will be needing one, sooner or later!

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