50 SHADES OF PAEDOPHILIA - INDEX. The following is an attempt to list 50 specific acts of paedophilia in order of moral seriousness, from least serious to most serious. Therefore, they do not necessarily reflect a legal outlook on these acts, although often it will closely correspond. The list begins with acts which can very often be completely moral and innocent, but an unintentional arousal on the part of the adult may be present, or worse still an ulterior motive. As we go down the list, things become more ostensibly paedophilic, thus `immoral' according to most civilized societies. Many of the nuances are subtle, and the rankings could be fluid, depending on such factors as age of the child or specific context of the event. The list does not include such things as the viewing of pornography or adult-certificate movies, but focuses only on actual interaction between child and adult, although this might be `verbal only' in the lesser acts. Usually, however, it involves physical contact of some description. This becomes increasingly sexual in nature as we go down the list. The ordering is very much open to debate, and I invite feedback for agreement or differences of opinion. My main criteria for judging what is the most immoral is to imagine the psychological impact on the child. Physical injury, snuff or kidnap is not included in consideration, but only intimacy itself. For the purposes of this exercise, we will focus on paedophilia towards girls, but much could equally apply to boys. Detailed essays on the items on the list will follow in due course, and I will provide the links here. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * 1) Man sleeping with little daughter, the man not naked: She is below the age when she sees it as improper. 2) Grooming her hair for her: Combing it affectionately with either comb or fingers. Borderline innocent. 3) Face kissing/nuzzling her over-affectionately: A few too many kisses, maybe a lick of face included, or nuzzles of her ear. 4) Tickling and cuddles which are a little too intense: The squeezes overly hard, or the tickles a little low, becoming more like `caresses'. 5) Adult is nude and sleeps with child, but no improper touching: Often a completely innocent thing, but should he really be nude?? 6) Bathing the child when she is a little too old for it: She may very well agree to it or even request it, but the adult knows it is improper. 7) Feeling the child all over (except inside bottoms), when applying sun cream: The cream is an `excuse' to feel her, and she is only dimly aware of its wrongness. 8) She notices a man (stranger) is seeing her naked by accident: She may be changing on a beach, and he sees it, and she sees him seeing it. 9) Patting of her bottom through clothing: A very nonchalant act, which may or may not be sexually driven. 10) A stranger overly-smiling at a young girl: He is certainly doing it out of paedophilic feelings, but she does not understand. 11) Holding girl by her belly or bottom during swimming lesson: There is an innocent `excuse', but the adult is maybe enjoying it. 12) She sees a naked man (a stranger) at close quarters: Changing at a sport's event or on a beach, she gets a good look. 13) Spanking of her bottom through clothing: The excuse may be punitive, but secret sexual desire may be present. 14) Allowing the child to hear the sounds of adult sex in next room: Things such as moans, groans, bedsprings and a build to climax. 15) Sitting on man's lap, she senses his erection: The lump can't be ignored, and she is certain to wonder what it is. 16) She witnesses adults making love (without detail): They are `doing it all', but under the covers or at a distance. 17) Explaining a little too early and detailed how babies are made: Telling a 7yo details of erection, penetration and ejaculation 18) Spanking of her bare bottom (in guise of punishment): This is almost certain to feel humiliating no matter how explained away. 19) Child is made to undress, and her nudity is admired: She is learning her naked body `pleases' the adult in some way. 20) She sees an erect penis, accidentally: Perhaps chancing upon dad in the morning, she would be curious. 21) Kissing/licking her chest (prior to development): Undeniably too sensual, and child would certainly sense something `odd'. 22) A stranger makes strong sexual comments to a child: Such as `I love your little arse', or `I wish I could fuck you.' 23) Groping of her bottom through clothing: Can almost be seen as playful, less so the older she is. 24) Groping of almost-pubescent breasts through clothing: Many have breasts before pubescence proper, and they'd be conscious of it. 25) Child is shown semen without being told what it is or where from: She'd notice the strange smell. 26) Groping of vulva outside clothing: From a quite early age she'll sense the rudeness of this. 27) She is shown an erect penis deliberately: It would require an explanation, and she'll always remember the sight. 28) Man lap-grinds her to his orgasm, both clothed: The child feels his movements underneath her and witnesses his sighs. 29) Groping of her bottom inside clothing: Such as slipping his hand inside her swimwear, it is clearly intrusive. 30) Having the child touch the man's genitals: A significant moment of corruption for her. Improper intimacy. 31) She is given semen to drink without being truthfully told where it came from: This seems worse that it is? One day she may remember and know what it was. 32) Groping of bare almost-pubescent breasts (or inside clothing): Very intrusive, self-conscious event for a girl-child. 33) She sees man masturbate and ejaculate: A very graphic lesson in sexual function, never forgotten. 34) Sucking/kissing/licking of almost-pubescent breasts: Clearly extremely sensual and intimate. 35) She witnesses adults having sex in full nudity and detail: She sees the naked bodies, the kissing, penetrations and climax. 36) Groping of vulva inside clothing: This is absolutely an encroachment into her privates. 37) Adult gives child clitoral masturbation: Even though she may enjoy it, she's fundamentally corrupted by this. 38) Adult kisses, licks or sucks child's vagina: Again, she may like the feeling, but it's extremely intimate for her. 39) Finger penetration of child's anus (with care): She'll perceive it as dirty and uncomfortable. 40) Finger penetration of child's vagina (with care). Even if no injury done, a disturbing invasion for her, central to sexing. 41) Child masturbates man to ejaculation: She `participates', so the impact is greater? Huge sensual intimacy. 42) Adult performing anilingus on child. She is likely more disturbed by this than having vagina licked. 43) Child sucks penis (without ejaculation): Scary at first, massively intimate, never forgotten. 44) Naked `thighing' to orgasm. In effect, a fuck between her thighs, and she sees and feels everything. 45) Naked grinding of child's bottom to orgasm: She can't see it, but feels and hears all the strange crudeness of it. 46) Sustained sexual mouth-kissing of the child: More overwhelming and foreign to her than many genital events. 47) Ejaculation on the child's face. Scary at first in all the sounds and feel, and deeply humiliating. 48) Full vaginal rape of the child: Penetration is made sufficient to ejaculate inside her. 49) Full anal rape of the child: Similar to above, but this may be perceived as more shocking by her. 50) Full rape of the child's mouth. For a small child, perhaps a worse experience than lower penetration. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Did I get the order right? Email ep1968@hotmail.co.uk50 Shades of Paedophilia