Subject: My Thoughts About Underage Sex
Story Codes: Mf Fm mf Mg Fb bg inc oral
Updated: April 27, 2018
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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I've posted a number of fantasies and stories that include references to
sex with underage children. As a result I've received a lot of feedback
about it with most being supportive but some not so - to put it mildly.
Whether positive or negative, I find that most people really don't
understand my true position on the subject so I wrote this article to try
and clear things up a bit.
Those who know me will undoubtedly find that my current views are
significantly different from those I've stated in the past. Keep in mind
that even some of those were different than what I stated even earlier.
I'm no different than anyone else in that as I mature and experience
reality versus fantasy, my perspective changes and I'm not afraid to
admit when I'm wrong.
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - Disclaimer
Chapter 2 - Definitions
Chapter 3 - My Core Principles
Chapter 4 - How My Views of Underage Sex Developed
Chapter 5 - Incestual Sex
Chapter 6 - Guidelines for Ages 1-10, "Sexual Ignorance"
Chapter 7 - Guidelines for Ages 11-13, "Sexual Awareness"
Chapter 8 - Guidelines for Ages 14-17, "Sexually Active"
Chapter 1 - Disclaimer
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Let me make this perfectly clear from the start...
I DO NOT SHARE PHOTOS OF ANYONE UNDER EIGHTEEN!
This is NOT an article intended to promote child pornography or abuse.
I do NOT trade or even want photos of anyone under eighteen - regardless
of how "innocent" they may be. If you DO send me any then they will be
deleted, you will be added to my ignore list and you'll never hear from
me again. I may even turn it over to the FBI if for no other reason than
to protect myself against possible charges of receiving child
pornography. Writing about underage kids isn't illegal. Sharing photos
of underage kids isn't either so long as not "naughty". However, writing
about someone AND sharing photos supposedly of that person IS grounds for
potential legal action and I want no part of that!
That said, I'll readily admit that I encourage people to express their
most intimate and personal FANTASIES regardless of what they may be.
This is predicated on the premise that such discussions are limited to a
person's FANTASIES and not any real actions on their part. I firmly
believe that personal fantasies should be respected, no matter how
perverse or disgusting they may seem to others (including me). While I
may not agree with someone else's fantasies, I strongly believe in their
right to have them.
Chapter 2 - Definitions
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It's difficult to discuss a topic as touchy as underage sex without first
agreeing on some basic definitions. Many terms such as "sex" and
"underage" are tossed about with widely varying meanings. While I'm
quite sure others have their own definitions for these, I'll be using the
following for the purposes of this article. Remember to keep in mind
that these definitions are based on discussing topics regarding sexual
activity, not for legal or other purposes. Remember that these are MY
definitions which dictate how I lead MY life so if yours are different
then while reading this, try to remember what mine are before you make
any judgments.
Sex: At its core, sex is fundamentally a reproductive act even
though most of the time that's not the intended purpose.
Therefore "sex" is the penetration, however slight, of a female
vagina by a male penis. Once ANY part of a penis is in, even if
it's just the very tip, it's as good as ALL in so far as the act
is concerned. Even if the hymen remains intact it's still sex.
Virgin: Someone who has never engaged in sex (as defined above). Thus
for a girl this has nothing to do with the status of her hymen as
many girls break their hymen through sports or other activities
such as masturbation yet they are still virgins until they have
sex. It doesn't matter if the penis doesn't go in far enough to
break the hymen - she's no longer a virgin from the moment the
tip of the penis penetrates her vagina. Thus those men who get
off pushing the tip of their dick into little girls so they can
cum in them are also taking her virginity. In the end, there is
no true "test" for a girl's virginity, no different than for
boys.
Family: The members of your immediate family out to and including aunts,
uncles and first cousins whether by blood OR marriage. DNA
doesn't makes a family - it's the relationships that count. For
instance, if someone is adopted then they become part of the
family. When two people marry, their families are merged into
one based on the marital relationship and all are treated as
members of the same family.
Incest: The act of sex between members of the same family. Based on my
previous definitions of sex and family, sex between in-laws would
thus be considered incest. If two people marry and each has kids
from a former marriage then sex between their step-children would
now become incestual whereas it wasn't before they got married.
Incest is all about the family regardless of how it is created.
Adultery: When a married person has sex with someone not in their family
with the intent of cheating on their spouse. Three important
things to take from that, all of which must be met to commit
adultery...
1) It's the INTENT that determines whether sex becomes adultery.
2) You simply can't commit adultery unless you're married. If
you're single and have sex with a married person without the
consent of their spouse, THEY are the ones committing
adultery, not you.
3) Incestual sex does not constitute adultery as by definition,
sex is already "approved" within the family members.
Oral Sex: Reading the definition of sex above, it should be obvious that
oral sex is NOT "sex". Because it's NOT "sex", engaging in oral
sex cannot be considered adultery OR incest. Note that by using
the same logic, "anal sex" is not sex either.
Underage: A general term for anyone under the age of eighteen. I realize
that "age of consent" varies between states and countries but for
purposes of this article this works for me.
Chapter 3 - My Core Principles
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There are three primary principles that guide my thoughts regarding
underage sex, or really most anything regarding sex for that matter:
1. The needs of the child ALWAYS come first. If there's ANY doubt then
simply DON'T DO IT. It's ALWAYS better to err on the side of caution.
I abhor child abuse, especially sexual molestation and exploitation.
People who abuse children deserve the maximum punishment allowable.
2. Sex between adults and underage kids is illegal in the USA and most
countries. Thus as a general rule I don't condone sex between adults
and minors. This also applies to incest as it rarely can this be kept
a secret. Even in those cases where the opportunity's there, careful
consideration is required beforehand as to the potential
psychological, physical, moral, ethical and legal ramifications.
3. Incestual sex, at least when practiced properly and NOT as a perverted
rationalization for child abuse, is distinctly different from
"regular" sex in that family love and support mechanisms are present.
As a result my "rules" for underage sex in incestual situations are
less restrictive.
Chapter 4 - How My Views of Underage Sex Developed
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Regardless of the morality of an adult having sex with a minor, there was
a time not long ago when my answer to the question of doing so would have
been an unqualified NO. However, that response would have been based on
my feelings regarding adultery, not age. My mother was quite strict
about such things and as I grew up she instilled her beliefs in me. In
her view, sex outside of her marriage with anyone was adultery so the
discussion never even got to the question of age.
Growing up I knew that my father had always been interested in young
girls based on his porn collection which was heavily biased towards
tweens and preteens yet at the same time I knew it was all just his
fantasy life in that he never ACTED on his desires. My mother knew
better than to try and totally shut him down knowing that would just
force him to have to hide what he did. So as long as my dad kept things
limited to porn and fantasy, my mom was OK.
To be fair, like most men my father's lack of action versus fantasy was
more likely driven by lack of opportunity than any willpower on his part.
The problems started when my mom's sister began to enable him by inviting
him to family sex parties she where he was able to actually act out his
deepest desires. Realizing there was no way to stop him short of
neutering him, my mom eventually has to face reality and was left with no
choice but to divorce him. It wasn't because she didn't love him but
because she couldn't compromise her own principles and stand by while her
husband engaged in such activities.
While engaged to my husband Steve I learned that he was consumed by the
same desires and interests that most men have when it comes to young
girls. Fortunately, like my dad (at least at that time) and the vast
majority of men Steve's desires were restricted to fantasies and porn.
I've always said that there are no limits to fantasies - it's what
someone DOES that counts so I had no issue with any of this.
Once we got married my new husband started to take advantage of his
"privileges" of being part of my family by having sex regularly with my
Mom's sister - my Aunt Linda. Of course I has no issues with it as it
was incest. However it didn't take long before he learned that she could
provide him with the same opportunities that she did for my dad when it
came to having sex with underage girls. Really, how could I blame him
for doing exactly the same thing that just about all normal men would
under the same circumstances?
Just as my mom had done with my dad when he became involved in such
activities, I initially stayed away from my husband's new exploits as
much as possible. Again, just as things were with my dad it proved
impossible for me to remain completely isolated. As a result I attended
several "family" parties with my husband and so for the first time I
engaged in non-incestual sex with a number of young boys, some as young
as twelve and thirteen although I really preferred the older boys like
fifteen or sixteen. One of the rules at the parties is that the kids
choose their partners and adults aren't allowed to refuse without a
really good reason so I was stuck.
What surprised me was that it wasn't like these young girls and boys were
being lured into some sort of perverted sex ring or anything like that.
Everything was done consensually with their parents' full permission,
encouragement and observation. What really astonished me was how much
more mature the kids seemed overall to those I knew from my classroom.
Their self-confidence and acceptance of their budding sexuality was a
testimony to the positive impact this type of thing could have when
properly done. Of course, they also were obviously enjoying themselves
immensely!
Seeing all this made me feel a lot better as if there is one crime even
more contemptible than rape it would be child molestation. To take
advantage of the innocence of a child to satisfy someone's own perverted
desires is a heinous and horrific crime. Psychologists claim that
pedophilia is NOT treatable so anyone engaging in child molestation
should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law and then kept isolated
from children for the rest of their miserable slimy lives.
One good thing about the family parties was they only allowed kids ages
ten and older (and only THAT young if they were a very mature ten).
Nobody can ever convince me that an infant or child has the ability to
CONSENT to having SEX. By "consent" I'm referring to a mature
understanding of the concept and ramifications, not agreeing to the act
itself. A child will "consent" to many things a more mature person
wouldn't, especially if they think it would please their parents.
AGREEING to do something is not the same as CONSENTING to it. It's why
most of our laws define the legal age of consent as being eighteen - to
ensure the person is mature enough to make an informed decision.
Because they cannot consent I do NOT believe that any child or infant
should engage in sex under ANY circumstance (remember my definition of
sex!) Regardless of whether they "agree" to it or not, sex with an infant
or child is molestation. Even though they might enjoy it or find it
pleasurable, especially at the upper end of the age range, they should
NOT be involved with sex because of the potential negative implications
for their future health - mental and physical. I would also say that
most preteens are not old enough to be involved with sex although
exceptions certainly exist depending on the family situations and the
maturity of the child.
While I can't speak authoritatively for boys, I CAN say that even if a
young girl can be physically stimulated and enjoys being touched in a
sexual manner, it doesn't mean she likes SEX per se. All it really means
is she likes to be touched that way. For a young girl, touching her
chest and crotch is no different than touching her back or legs in that
she simply enjoys the feelings she gets when those place are touched.
As an example my father use to scratch my back at night when I was young
and I loved it. Often it would help me to fall sleep on those nights
when I was restless. He could just as easily have fondled my pussy and
flat chest with the same results and I would've never have known the
difference. A girl needs to learn to respect her body and to expect
others to respect it as well if she is ever going to be comfortable with
herself later in life.
Frankly, I don't believe 99.9% of the things people tell me on-line that
they do with kids but often I'll play along with them if they're at least
interesting to talk with. Over the years there have been a few
situations where I worried that things might actually be getting out of
hand for real at the other end. In those cases I immediately cut off all
contact with that person. Maybe I should've turned them over to the
authorities as well but I just didn't want to be associated with them any
further.
If any of this seems odd to hear from me it's probably because you've
been reading my chats and e-mails without paying attention to my REAL
thoughts and opinions. While I've chatted with people, exchanged e-mail,
and even written fantasies about preteen and child sex, they have NEVER
been anything more than just fantasies and role-playing for me (as I
believe it is for them as well).
Because of the chats, e-mails, and stories I've posted I know people
often get the wrong impression of me. Even though I say over and over
again how I really feel, people continue to ignore me and then write to
accuse me of being a pedophile or just plain perverted. Thus through
this article I'm trying to put this issue to rest once and for all.
Chapter 5 - Incestual Sex
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This is a touchy subject as people have been using incest to rationalize
child molestation for centuries - probably one of the major reasons why
incest is illegal in every state. Assuming (and I realize this is a HUGE
assumption), that the family is practicing PROPER incest and not just
taking advantage of their children for the parents' self-gratification, I
believe underage sex is appropriate so long as it's done with the proper
family support, respect and love.
I personally feel that if a father wants to use sex as a means to form an
intimate relationship with his daughter, demonstrating his fatherly love
for her and showing his respect for her as a woman, then what could
possibly be wrong with doing so? On the other hand, if sex between a
father and daughter is nothing more than a forty year-old man wanting to
fuck a fourteen year-old girl and he's using his daughter only to fulfill
his perverted lust, then that's clearly wrong. Of course it's impossible
to keep lust totally out of the equation, nor should it be, but it
shouldn't be the driving factor.
Even with incest I believe it's best if a girl is at least twelve before
she has sex with her father and thirteen before she has sex with the
other adult men in her family such as her uncle or grandfather. If I
REALLY had my druthers, she might start having sex at fourteen with
someone more her age like a brother or cousin and wait a couple more
years before even considering doing any of the adults in her family
(although I would make an exception in allowing her dad to have her
virginity). Basically, the older a girl is before she starts having sex,
the better from every emotional and physical perspective. Then again, if
a girl is truly ready (as I feel I was when I was fourteen), then why
hold her back because of some arbitrary age limit?
So what about younger brothers and sisters having sex? As teens, I would
apply basically the same rules as for teenagers in general. Just think
about how it would be if they were just a boy and girl and school and
apply the same rules. Being brother and sister doesn't really make any
difference so far was whether they SHOULD do it or not. Whether or not
they WANT to should be entirely up to them and not as a result of any
pressure applied by the family. Face it, most brother and sisters don't
even get along well enough to want to sit next to each other in the car,
let alone have sex.
When it comes to younger siblings, it's about the same as for when
discussing either one of them in isolation. If a boy is old enough to
get an erection and can feel sexual pleasure from a hand-job or blowjob,
then why not let his sister do it? Brothers, like fathers, should leave
their sister's sexual areas alone until she is ready to have real sex
with them. Again though, why apply arbitrary age limits to a brother and
sister? When they're ready, they're ready no matter what age they may
be.
There is a fine line between incest and child abuse so when there is ANY
question at all, I believe the more conservative response is always best.
Face it, this isn't something you can just say, "Never mind," if things
don't work out.
So here's my "Top Ten" list of basic rules for incest
1. When considering incest, you MUST be 100% sure about it. If there's
ANY doubt whatsoever - DON'T DO IT!
2. If your daughter (or ANY girl for that matter) says "no" that means
"NO". It doesn't matter if "she asked for it" or you think "she
really wants it" - DON'T DO IT!
3. If you have to rationalize what you want to do - DON'T DO IT!
4. If the idea of sex with your daughter doesn't feel OK - IT'S NOT.
5. If you can't tell your wife about your feelings - don't tell your
daughter and certainly don't act them out.
6. Don't have sex with your daughter behind your wife's back. If your
wife doesn't approve - DON'T DO IT!
7. If you think your daughter might be too young for sex - SHE IS.
8. If you're not sure your daughter's ready for sex - SHE ISN'T.
9. Just because your daughter flirts with you, in all likelihood it does
NOT mean that she wants to have sex with you. In fact, odds are she'd
be appalled if she knew you thought that she did. Don't confuse
innocent trust with lust.
10. Porn movies, erotic stories and "adult" Internet sites DO NOT
reflect reality. Don't expect the same reaction from your daughter as
from the so-called "daughters" on the Internet. They are whores
having sex with paid actors.
Chapter 6 - Guidelines for Ages 1-10, "Sexual Ignorance"
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YES: gradual familiarization with casual nudity with emphasis on modesty
information limited to that needed for protection from predators
NO: sexual activity - including oral sex and fondling of sex organs
direct involvement in sexual activities including observation
detailed discussions about sex beyond that needed for protection
exposure to pornographic materials
This was the easiest chapter to write. No child this age should be
directly involved in sex in ANY way! What SHOULD be done at this age is
help them to learn about nudity and modesty. They need to understand
when it's appropriate - and when it's not. It's a hard thing for a child
that age to understand fully but at least they're getting a head start on
most other kids.
You can teach your kids to be confident and understand that their bodies
are not something to be without mixing in any sexual connotations.
However in our culture nudity is typically associated with sex so this
can be confusing to a child as they get older unless their parents ensure
they are groomed properly. Thus I'm opposed to any direct sexual
involvement at this age including observation. While I think it's good
for children to see their parents expressing their love for one another,
they don't have to see them make love in the process.
Observing sex is easy to address while masturbation a little less so. If
dad wants to masturbate when watching a hot girl is on TV, what's wrong
with it so long as he doesn't ask his kids to "help" him? This is one of
those areas where it would be better to deal with at the upper end of the
age range so that when they start to have those urges themselves they
aren't embarrassed to deal with them openly.
Before I get bombarded from people who claim their kids enjoy sex and
that their toddler has orgasms and the like, let me say this. If that's
your thing then I'm not going to judge you. All I ask is that you don't
judge me for having different beliefs. There are times I talk to people
about such subjects out of curiosity, but that's as far as it goes for
me.
All children should be taught enough as early as possible such they
understand how to identify and protect themselves from molesters. This
should be done through dolls and use of non-sexual vocabulary. Only a
child molester would say that they need to use the real thing as a
"teaching aid".
Finally, I realize that many people get sexually excited by young
children so I feel I need to address those folks. My advice is to find a
means to get yourself off without your kids knowing it. That means take
advantage of events like bath time when it's natural to "fondle" them.
Letting your daughter sit on your lap without panties on while your pants
are off could get you quite excited without her being aware of it. If
you feel the uncontrollable urge to cum on her, do so on her butt or
somewhere where she won't notice it. Even better, do it while she's
sleeping so she isn't aware at all. I'm not condoning such actions, just
recognizing that such needs and urges exist and offering my suggestions
on how to best deal with them.
Kids in the upper end of this range are usually old enough to discuss sex
in basic terms but by no means ready to engage in it. Thus sex (again,
remember my definition) for boys and girls should not be allowed at this
age with anyone. The basics of sex MAY begin to be discussed, but that
doesn't mean they need a "demonstration". A girl's sexuality is a very
personal and emotional issue which takes time to develop. This is why I
say she's not ready at this age for sex, not to mention the physical
limitations of her immature pussy. No matter what the circumstances,
most girls this age could be physically hurt having sex.
However, all this doesn't mean a girl shouldn't begin to understand the
male anatomy, particularly the penis. Allowing a girl at this age to
fondle a man's cock shouldn't be something viewed as perverted or
obscene but really, what would be the benefit? Some might say that if a
daughter can rub her dad's back then why not his dick? Give me a break!
The point to keep in mind is that just because the father will
undoubtedly become sexually aroused doesn't mean SHE will. MAYBE if it
helps his daughter to gain confidence and promotes her self-image as a
result of the accolades she receives as a result, then you might think
about it.
Chapter 7 - Guidelines for Ages 11-13, "Sexual Awareness"
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YES: masturbation
oral sex
sex with an similar age partner (preferable brother/sister)
incestual sex with a parent
incestual sex with another family member under parental supervision
NO: unsupervised non-incestual sex with an adult
Yeah I know, thirteen is technically a "teen" year but I'm thinking more
the age range, not strict definitions.
OK, so quite a step change from the earlier age group. Keep in mind that
doesn't mean everything magically changes when the candles get blown out
on their 11th birthday cake. It's more that these sort of things may
start to occur within this age range. For instance, I would think it
best to wait to have sex until at least the upper end of this age group,
even better if older.
While I am not totally against sex in general at this age, at the same
time I would also say that most girls in this age group are simply not
mature enough to make such a life-changing decision and thus careful
consideration should be taken before fucking her. It's an age when girls
are already struggling to deal with the onset of puberty and are
anxiously trying desperately to "grow up". All this makes them easy to
influence, even when it's not in their best interest. For an adult to
take advantage of a preteen's natural instincts and curiosity for their
own pleasure is simply wrong.
This is a time where kids start to explore themselves and others.
"Playing doctor" is just one common means most of us have done ourselves.
It's also an impressionable age where attitudes towards sex are developed
which can follow us for the rest of our lives. Oral sex is a great way
to allow natural urges to be addressed while masturbation should be
actively encouraged with none of the stigma and ridiculous taboo
attitudes. If this leads to real sex with a friend or sibling, then
rather than trying to thwart their natural desires, this should be used
as an opportunity to teach respect as well as proper attention to the
prevention of STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
Condoning sex with this age with an adult is something that I've only
considered in recent years after having personally witnessed such
activity. Of course I know what the adults REALLY want in such
situations - I'm not THAT naive. Even so, seeing for myself the
reactions of the kids and the positive effect it has on their self-
confidence and maturity was an eye-opener for me. The catch for me is
that regardless of all of this, I still feel it must be supervised by
their parents unless it's incestual. After all, if you can't trust your
own family then who can you?
Given many girls start masturbating in this age range, it's not like a
parent can just hope to ignore the issue of sex at this age either.
Thus parents should actively encourage masturbation, encouraging their
kids to freely do it when they feel the need without having to run to
their rooms and hide. Kids should learn that their budding sexuality is
a gift, not a curse or something shameful. Of course, the best way to
teach this is to set an example by doing the same yourself!
These years are also the time for parents to give the detailed version of
the "birds and bees" talk. Some parents find that allowing their kids to
watch them having sex is easier than trying to explain it so if they
haven't been allowing their kids to watch before now they should start
thinking about opening the bedroom door. The advantage I see in letting
them watch is that if they want to try anything themselves then they can
do so immediately and under the watchful eye of their parents.
I also believe that as kids approach their teen years that mutual
masturbation should also be encouraged. There's no reason why boys and
girls shouldn't masturbate together and learn about each other's
sexuality although it should be supervised to ensure they don't get too
carried away before they're ready.
These years are a great age for girls to learn how to give oral sex. It
allows her to express her burgeoning sexuality in a non-sexual, non-
threatening manner. It also provides a man to have the opportunity to
satisfy his "needs" with girl this age without engaging in actual sex.
Basically I see it as a great compromise where a girl can express her
sexuality while still maintaining boundaries until she's ready for more.
Similarly, at this age boys are becoming more curious about sex so by
allowing them to lick a girl's pussy and receive oral sex this can allow
them to satisfy their urges while also keeping the proper boundaries
about sex in place until they're ready to move on.
As a last word, I HAVE witnessed girls as young as eleven and twelve
having sex with adults - including my own father and husband. However,
those were under VERY rigidly controlled circumstances and both parents
were there at all times. As a general rule, I wouldn't condone such sex
under any other conditions.
Chapter 8 - Guidelines for Ages 14-17, "Sexually Active"
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YES: sex with a partner of any age
NO: anything against their personal convictions (anal, etc.)
So in other words, go for it! Of course they are still minors and as
such need to should be closely monitored and in some cases still
supervised by their parents depending on their maturity level.
First, this is NOT intended to start a debate regarding premarital sex or
the morality of teenage sex. It's a simple fact that sex between
consenting teens has been and always will be with us and nothing we say
or do is going to change that. Personally, I believe if we taught our
kids proper methods of birth control, how to avoid the risk of STDs, and
perhaps even a bit about HOW to do it, that we'd have a lot less problems
with sexually transmitted disease and teen pregnancies. Some of this
should be taught in school, some in church, and some at home. It doesn't
matter to me WHERE kids learn it so long as it's not at the playground or
the backseat of a car!
Teenage sex is probably the most pure and unadulterated form of sex.
Teens may think they're in love but it's really all just raging hormones
and lust. I think if we were cavemen that this would be the age when
procreation would be at its peak as our bodies are youthful and strong.
How do you tell two teenagers NOT to have sex when everything in them is
driving them to do it? Why are we trying to thwart the natural laws of
nature? Why don't we instead HELP them by making it easier to have SAFE
sex?
Thus I see nothing wrong with two teenagers having sex - of course
assuming it's consensual. In fact, I think parents should actively
encourage their teens to be open about sex and provide them with a safe
environment where they can practice safe sex without the fear of "being
caught". It's not like they need to "perform" for their parents or
anything ridiculous like that. Rather mom and dad should respect their
kid's privacy by allowing the bedroom door to be closed and then not say
anything afterwards about it which would embarrass either of them.
My parents did just this with me when I was dating although I don't
think most of the boys I brought home realized it. Mom and dad would
stay downstairs in the family room and so far as the boy was concerned,
were totally oblivious to what we were doing in my bedroom. It was
certainly a lot better than trying to get laid in the backseat of a car
plus I felt a whole lot more secure having sex at home which allowed me
to enjoy myself knowing my super-protective father wasn't far away should
anything get out of hand.
When it comes to sex between adults and underage teens, that's a lot more
complicated. First of all, it's illegal in every state although the age
of consent varies considerably (which is insane when you think about it).
While I've learned to enjoy it, sex with younger boys isn't my biggest
fantasy but because it IS illegal that I avoid having sex with underage
kids except in very controlled and secure circumstances. Having such
things made public would not only jeopardize my family, as a teacher it
would end my career so it's just not worth the risk for me. There have
been many opportunities for me to be with a younger boy over the years as
a babysitter and teacher but I have ALWAYS turned them down.
In summary, as a general rule I would advise that sex between adults and
underage teens be avoided. Then again, although this is NOT something I
recommend or promote, if it IS done then the girl should be at least
fourteen and the boy sixteen at a minimum if you really want to play it
safe.
SUMMARY
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If there's one thing I could say to sum up everything in this article, as
an adult deep down you KNOW what's right and wrong. You KNOW when a boy
or girl is ready for the next step in their sexual development. Just do
the right thing for THEM and all these supposedly difficult decisions
become pretty simple.
THE END