Subject: Married Guy FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
Story Codes: nosex
Updated: April 25, 2018
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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So many people have asked me why I love having sex with married men that
I decided to write a special FAQ about it. Please remember that these
are MY personal views and not intended to dictate or judge other people's
lifestyle or conduct. What people do within their marriages is their
choice and if they feel differently than I do about these issues and
their marriage is working, more power to them!
Another point... Nothing in this article has anything to do with my
father. I do NOT view him as a "married man" in the context of this
discussion. He is my father which means what we share is incest which is
an entirely different subject than what I'm discussing in this article.
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - Definitions
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
Chapter 1 - Definitions
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When discussing these sort of topics I find a lot of people have
different understandings of certain phrases or words so before discussing
this topic any further a few definitions are in order. Remember that
these are MY definitions which dictate how I lead MY life so if yours are
different that's fine with me. All I ask is you also respect my point of
view as well.
Sex: The penetration, however slight, of a female vagina by a male
penis. Once ANY part of a penis is in, even if it's just the very
tip, it's as good as ALL in so far as the act is concerned. Even
if the hymen remains intact it's still sex.
Virgin: Someone who has never engaged in sex. For a girl this has
nothing to do with the status of her hymen as many girls break
their hymen through sports or other activities such as
masturbation yet they are still virgins until they have sex. It
doesn't matter if the penis doesn't go in far enough to break the
hymen - virginity is lost the moment the tip of the penis
penetrates her vagina. This means men who get off pushing the
tip of their dick into little girls so they can cum in them
are also taking her virginity. In the end there's no true "test"
for a girl's virginity which is no different than for boys.
Family: The members of your immediate family out to and including aunts,
uncles and first cousins whether by blood OR marriage. DNA
doesn't makes a family - it's the relationships that count. For
instance if someone is adopted then they become part of the
family. When two people marry their families are merged into one
based on the marital relationship and all are treated as members
of the same family.
Incest: The act of sex between members of the same family. Based on my
definition of family sex between in-laws is also incest. If two
people marry and each has kids from a former marriage then sex
between their step-children would now become incestual whereas it
wasn't before they got married. Incest is all about the family
regardless of how that family is created.
Adultery: When a married person has sex with someone not in their family
(as defined above) with the intent of cheating on their spouse.
Three important points to consider, ALL of which must be met to
Be charged with committing adultery...
1) It's the INTENT that determines whether sex becomes adultery.
2) You can't commit adultery unless you're married. If you're
single and have sex with a married person without the consent
of their spouse, THEY are committing adultery, not you.
3) Incestual sex does not constitute adultery as by definition,
sex is already "approved" between family members.
Oral "Sex": At its core, sex is fundamentally a reproductive act even
though most of the time that's not the intended purpose. Thus by
definition "oral sex" is NOT sex. Because it's NOT sex engaging
in "oral sex" cannot be considered adultery OR incest. Using the
same logic means that "anal sex" is not sex either.
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
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Q: What is your view on marriage and adultery?
A: I firmly believe that marriage is a sacred institution blessed by God.
A man and woman pledge their lives to one another "until death do you
part" (don't even get me started on some of the new wedding vows that
omit this!). I believe this establishes a promise to be faithful to your
spouse for the rest of your life.
The key here is to define precisely what is meant by marriage and
adultery. According to my definition of "family" I believe when you
marry someone you also "marry" their family. Family is EXTREMELY
important to me and is reflected in my definitions.
Let me make this clear - adultery is a sinful act which defiles marriage.
I don't condone it nor do I ever intend to commit adultery. If my
husband commits adultery I'll neuter him first and then divorce him.
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Q: What do you mean by "someone outside your family"?
A: Marriage is more than just a relationship between a man and a woman.
Just as a husband and wife vow to be faithful to one another their entire
lives, in a healthy family the members support and love one another in
the same way. Admittedly this may be unfair in some people's eyes as
they had no choice about the matter, e.g. "I didn't marry my brother-in-
law", but that's the way I believe God intended it to work. Unfortunately
because of the self-will granted to us by God not everyone follows God's
plans for us and so in many families this closeness and fidelity is
missing.
Family units that are truly in sync with God's plans often find the
result is not only an emotional bonding but a physical one as well. By
this I mean not just hugging and pecks on the cheek but sexual. Most
families have deviated from the path set for them and in some cases taken
a 180 degree turn. Because of man's perversions this has resulted in
cases where sexual relationships are maintained yet the love and intimacy
necessary to maintain the respect and discipline needed are missing.
Thus an imbalance is created which is why the word "incest" has come to
describe these perverted families where children are abused and lives
destroyed.
Fortunately there are families where belief in God, love, respect, and
discipline combine to form a balanced union where sexual relationships
are simply a natural result of the family dynamic. I'm fortunate to
enjoy being a part of such a family.
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Q: Why do you like to have sex with married men?
A: Marriage is a special relationship where love and respect by both
partners is vital. Personally I do NOT condone cheating. Let me say
it again in a slightly different way... I do NOT condone adultery as I
define it. Although in a perfect world men would not cheat on their
wives or vice versa, should a man choose to break the oath he took with
his wife before God then that's HIS decision and HIS responsibility. I
feel NO responsibility whatsoever for the consequences he may face as the
only way his wife would ever find out is if he told her or he did
something stupid like leave his e-mail open.
To be clear I have no desire to hurt anyone or to cause them marital
problems. My hope is when someone is cheating it merely means severe
marital problems already exist so if anything maybe getting it out of his
system with me will help. Yes, I like to think that having sex with me
can actually result in HELPING their marriage! In fact I've had several
men tell me that even just chatting with me, doing tributes, etc. has
helped renew their sexual interest in their wives. Imagine if their
wives knew the real reason why their husband has been so horny when he
gets in bed with them!
I've had many men write me and ask my opinion on how to cheat on their
wives. My initial response is usually to encourage them NOT to do so.
Many men try to rationalize their behavior by claiming their wife isn't
interested in sex. All I have to say to that is, "it takes two".
For me having sex with a married man is far more an erotic experience
than merely physically pleasurable. What I mean is that while normally I
would claim that sex is typically 80% emotional and 20% physical, when
doing it with a cheating husband those numbers move to 95% emotional and
5% or less about the physical side of sex.
The reason for the heavy emphasis on the "emotional" aspects of sex is
that when a husband is fucking me and I feel his adulterous cock buried
inside of me, knowing his clueless wife is home totally unaware her
husband is enjoying sex with me is what turns me on the most. It makes
me feel really good as a woman to know that her supposedly loving husband
lusts for me so deeply that he's willing to violate his most sacred vows
to her. Think about it... He's literally willing to sacrifice his
marriage and family just for a single fleeting opportunity to have sex
with ME for just a few hours. How can anyone blame me for feeling
incredibly sexy and desirable in this situation? I'm sure your ego would
be boosted just as much if you were in my shoes.
It's not just the sex that turns me on either. After he leaves I'll
usually masturbate while thinking about him returning home and facing his
wife with his adulterous dick still coated with my pussy cum as he kisses
her goodnight and slips into bed beside her. I wonder if he says he
loves her while thinking about what he did with me. The next time they
make love I know it's my pussy he remembers when he cums. When his wife
turns up her nose at the thought of oral sex he remembers how I was
there to suck his cock. I know he can never forget what he did with me
and I be a part of his life for the rest of his days. Knowing he will
masturbate thinking about how good it felt to fuck me is such a turn-on
for me. As you can see, it goes way beyond just the few minutes or hours
we spend together - for both of us.
One of my most memorable experiences was having sex with a husband while
he was on his cell phone talking to his wife on speakerphone. She'd
called while we were in bed at a local hotel so he had to take it or she
might wonder why he didn't answer. Just as I felt him start to shoot his
adulterous sperm inside my pussy I heard him telling his wife how much he
loved her. As you might imagine it wasn't his cheating cock ejaculating
inside of me making me cum so hard. I was imagining his wife smiling at
home, thinking that her supposedly loyal husband really loved her when
what he was really loving was the feel of my tight pussy clamping down on
his adulterous erection as he filled me with the sperm that SHOULD have
been in her pussy!!
OK, so I realize that this may all seem a bit contradictory, confusing,
and maybe even a little hypocritical. It's a difficult concept to
explain yet hopefully as you think about it more you'll understand it's
not really all that complicated. Just remember I honestly encourage
husbands to remain faithful to their wives and in a perfect world there
would be no married men running around begging to fuck me. However we
all know that's not the case so if a husband chooses to cheat on his wife
then it may as well be me as anyone else. One thing for sure though is
I would NEVER want his wife to know about it, even if she deserves it
which frankly I think is usually not the case. I would feel tremendously
guilty if I was the reason for any marriage to fail.
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Q: Doesn't assisting a man to commit adultery make you feel guilty?
A: In a word... NO. in two words... absolutely NO. If a man chooses to
cheat on his wife then it's 100% HIS decision and HIS responsibility. I
don't put a gun to his head nor force him to do anything. I feel no
responsibility whatsoever for whatever consequences he may face since the
only way his wife would know about anything is if he told her or
otherwise screwed up as I certainly never would. Finally, it takes two
to make a marriage work so maybe if the wife was satisfying her husband
then he wouldn't be out looking for someone who can.
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Q: Do you want their wives to know?
A: No! I'm not at all interested in married threesomes unless there's
something special about it. Besides, if the wife knows and is OK with it
then what's the point? In those situations I may as well get laid by a
single guy!
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Q: Do you condone adultery?
A: Absolutely NOT! I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage and I
sincerely wish that every marriage was strong and faithful. For better
or worse the simple fact is that most aren't. I have NO desire to do any
harm to a healthy marriage but when a man makes the decision to betray
his wife then obviously there are deep-rooted issues that didn't start
with me. So husbands please stay true to your wives! But if you can't
for some reason then look me up!
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Q: How do you feel about the husbands you have sex with?
A: Frankly any man who cheats on his wife has deep character flaws that
most likely extend beyond his willingness to break his word. While I
don't have to respect the man to enjoy being fucked by him I could never
have anything to do long-term with a man who cheats on his wife with me.
This is one of the main reasons I never go out with a married man twice,
not to mention I have no desire to be someone's mistress. There may be
excellent reasons rationalizing his behavior but none that forgive it.
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Q: What would you do if your husband had sex behind your back?
A: Easiest question of them all! I'd neuter him, kick him out of the
house, and then divorce him taking every cent he has! Fortunately I love
my husband and submit to his sexual needs. He knows that he's free to
have sex with anyone he wants so long as he doesn't cheat on me. Thus
I'd like to think there's no reason he would ever feel the need to cheat.
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Q: What do you NOT like about having sex with married men?
A: The only negative thing is that I can't respect a liar and adulterer.
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Q: Once a man cheats, is he branded forever in your eyes?
A: Everyone makes mistakes and just because a man made a wrong decision
in the past doesn't mean he can't see the error in his ways, repent and
be forgiven. My goodness, isn't forgiveness the very core of
Christianity? I have no issues with a man who tells me that he once
cheated on his wife no matter many times he did so long as now he
realizes that he was wrong to do so and has sought forgiveness from his
wife and God.
Of course that all goes out the window the moment he fucks me. Once a
guy has fucked me I really don't want anything to do with him again at
least from a purely sexual perspective. In most cases these are men I
know, usually when from church, so I still have to interact with them
socially.
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Q: Would you be willing to have sex with a married man more than once?
A: Thinking it over, the only way I could see this happening would be if
two conditions were met:
1. He would have to be a really good friend. I mean more than an on-
line chat buddy. We wouldn't necessarily have to date although
that would be best. Maybe we could just know each other in a
platonic relationship such as co-workers at church or something
like that. The point is that I would have to like being with him
WITHOUT having sex first.
2. His wife would have to consent. I don't mean join in and for goodness
sakes the LAST thing I want is a couple looking for a three-some. OK,
maybe one time but that's all. When I say consent I don't mean that
HE tells me she's OK with it. I mean SHE tells me she is and does so
face to face so I'm positive that she understands her husband is
going to be fucking me. In this type of situation I'd rather she not
be there when we have sex but I want her to know what her husband is
doing and agree with it.
As I said, both conditions would have to be satisfied and I imagine it's
the second one that would prove to be the major obstacle. As such, I
wouldn't start meeting a guy just in HOPES that the second condition
might someday miraculously happen. Even if both conditions are met I
would still have to really think it over and feel assured it was
something he wanted to do out of respect for me, not just to fuck a girl
half his age. Odds are it wouldn't happen anyways.
Granted, the odds of both conditions being met are pretty astronomical,
which is why I usually make the general statement that I only fuck
married guys once. However who knows what might happen in the future!!
THE END