Subject: Escorting FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
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Updated: April 27, 2018
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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I've worked as an escort on and off several times over the years. When
people first hear me say that I escorted, I know the first thought in
their minds is, "She's a prostitute." While that may be true for a lot
of escorting agencies, I need to set the record straight about what I
once did for a living. These are some of the more frequent questions
I've been asked about my escorting experiences and my responses.
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - Definitions
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
Chapter 1 - Definitions
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Before I go into this there a few definitions that need to be clarified
so people understand what I'm talking about. Although you may not agree
with my definitions I ask that you respect them as being my opinion:
WHORE: Someone you pay to have sex with. When you meet a whore there's
no doubt she'll suck your dick, fuck you, or whatever else you
"contracted" for. It's also prostitution and illegal. Also
known in more civil discourse as a "prostitute".
ESCORT: A girl (or guy) who goes out with you willing to do whatever she
can to make it a pleasant evening for you. Sex is totally
optional at her discretion and should not be expected. Unlike
whores, when you pay an escort agency you pay for a date, NOT
sex. Of course IF an escort wants to do it with you then a
generous "tip" is expected. Escorts are legal so long as they're
not really just whores trying to appear legit.
SLUT: A girl who enjoys sex and uses her body to get the things SHE
wants which may be just emotional and physical pleasure more so
than objects or money. Sluts are "paid" by the pleasure they
receive, not to mention the free meals, movies, etc.
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
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Q: You tried escorting while in college and quit after you were raped.
Why did you do it again?
A: Back in college I tried out the "escort" business. Why did I do it?
Basically I was super horny and dying for some casual sex which I was
missing thanks to the strict rules imposed on me by a VERY strict
Christian college. My "career" only lasted for a few months. Oh sure at
first I had a lot of fun and it was interesting to say the least.
Unfortunately, what turned out to be my last client brought in some
unexpected friends without asking me beforehand or seeking my permission
which meant technically I was raped. Although it was my pride that was
hurt more than anything, it was a wakeup call for me and so I decided to
quit before I WAS seriously hurt.
Looking back I accept now that calling myself an "escort" under those
conditions was really a euphemism for being a prostitute. However, at
the time I rationalized that since I was making the final decision about
whether to have sex or not that I hadn't crossed that line. The truth is
that I never said no so where was the "decision"?
After graduation I was older, more mature, and understood what I was
getting myself into and what to look for in an agency. The agency I
chose screened their clients tightly and didn't accept guys who just
wanted sex. You should remember that for the most part I really did
enjoy the time I escorted while in college. If it hadn't been for that
last client who knows what may have happened? My cousin became a high-
end prostitute, maybe I would've joined her!
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Q: Why choose escorting? Why not get a "real" job?
A: My goal at the time was to have my own place, an apartment I could
call my own. Needless to say without a job you can't live in your own
apartment and I wasn't about to ask my dad to pay for one even though I
knew he would do anything I asked. Good-paying tutoring opportunities
pretty much dried up once school started.
So what's an enterprising girl to do to earn money without killing
herself in some back-breaking, thankless job? Don't forget that while
growing up I never had a "real" job like most of my friends such as being
a waitress, a store clerk, etc. I stuck with babysitting long after the
rest of my friends quit. The hours were good, the work was usually easy,
and the pay kept getting better as parents wanted an older girl to watch
their kids rather than some thirteen year-old kid.
While in college I did tutor and eventually that was all I did during the
summer. Believe it or not the only job prior to teaching where I had
taxes withheld was when I worked for the escorting agencies!
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Q: Did you work for the same agency that your cousin did?
A: First, a brief background on Kristen. Kristen was not only the CLASS
slut during her high school days, she was the SCHOOL slut - and probably
the biggest one in school history. When I visited Kristen at her
college, she had already embarked on an entrepreneurial career that
didn't quite align with her nursing major. Posing as some sort of
drawing or lottery, she had guys (and a few girls) buying tickets to fuck
either her or her roomie. She conned me not only into going along with
it for one evening, but even to let her keep the proceeds I "earned".
Don't ask me how but somehow Kristen never got busted for her illegal
"activities" while at school. Even so it took just one look at her
grades and it was clear to both her and my aunt that academic life was
not her cup of tea. You might say my cousin's skills lay not between her
ears but her open legs. Given Kristen's aversion to anything that even
smells of "work" she did what came natural to her - sex. Thankfully she
didn't start walking the streets but after "helping" her mom close a few
real estate deals she was hooked on the concept of sex for money (no pun
intended). Although she knew of my bad experience she decided give
prostitution a whirl anyways.
Kristen kept boasting to me about all the guys she'd fucked and how much
money she was making. My aunt was certainly proud of her daughter
although my mom thought her niece was crazy. As for me I wasn't sure
exactly WHAT to say about it so I mostly just listened to her bragging
and tried to not think about it otherwise. Although it pained me to say
it at the time I knew my cousin was a whore and that's NOT the label I
wanted. Thus when I chose to work as an escort girl I didn't go anywhere
near Kristen's agency. As I just said I wasn't going to ever allow
myself to become a whore and all her agency catered to was guys who
expected the girl to put out. Oh sure the pay is incredible but I wasn't
THAT desperate for money not to mention I had a future teaching career to
think about - "whore" doesn't exactly look good on your resume.
********
Q: What did your parents think about you being an escort again?
A: Do you even need to ask? My parents were pretty predictable in such
matters. Neither of them was all that surprised knowing about Kristen's
new "career". My mom was just happy I didn't get roped into it going
with her agency and instead signed up with one that is a lot more
legitimate. As for my dad, his first reaction was to ask where he
could sign up and pretend to be a client although I convinced him it
was stupid to pay for what he can get for free whenever he wants it!
********
Q: Did you enjoy being an escort?
A: YES! I was able to visit interesting places and meet some pretty
unique guys who in general were usually pretty well-off. Face it, they
HAD to be or they wouldn't have been able to afford me! Besides the fun
part it was an easy way to make some good money and I didn't want to have
to be a waitress to get my own apartment. Since my teaching plans had
been postponed I needed to make my own money and this just seemed to be
the best and easiest way.
For the most part my clients were looking for an escort just for a day or
evening to attend events where they wanted to appear with a "date". A
number of these involved office parties or dinners. One I particularly
remember was for a family reunion where the guy was sick and tired of
being pestered by his relatives about not having a girlfriend.
Personally I thought he was gay but they didn't seem to have a clue. I
think the best time I had was at a wedding, another case where a guy was
trying to avoid questions about lack of a girlfriend and trust me, he was
NOT gay!
OK, so maybe I didn't earn as much as I could've on my back but I usually
went home having enjoyed a pleasant evening.
********
Q: How much does an escort make?
A: In terms of what shows up on my W2 (yes, I paid taxes), not much. The
agency made their deal with the client which they didn't discuss with me.
All I know is that I only was paid $50-100 for a typical evening. If
someone wanted me all day (say to go to a sporting event with them and
dinner or a party later), then it may have gone as high as $200 or $250.
I didn't do overnights - EVER, or out of town trips. For those of you
familiar with escorting charges you can see that most of what you pay the
agency stays in their pockets so remember to tip your girl generously!
By the way, don't think I was running some sort of charity operation. My
tips almost always several time more than my salary and they were cash.
Sorry IRS!
********
Q: What do you wish men knew about escorts?
A: First, these girls are REAL people, not blow-up dolls for you to use
and abuse so give her some respect. Escorts are hurt by bad comments
just like any other girl. Treat her like your daughter (well, maybe the
way you WISH you could treat your daughter).
Second, remember these girls essentially work for tips so be generous!
Finally, remember you only hired her to be your date, not your whore.
Anything beyond the services you paid for are at HER discretion so don't
feel you're "entitled" to anything more than maybe a LITTLE fondling or
groping when it comes to sex. If you want something more then go to an
agency like my cousin worked for where you can have about anything you
want - for a price of course!
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Q: Aren't you afraid of getting some sort of disease as an escort?
A: Before I answer this remember that I did NOT have sex with 95% or
more of the men so wasn't really a major issue in the first place.
That said I wasn't stupid. As a general rule I practiced safe sex which
was one reason I had a preference for married men who hadn't hired an
escort before. Besides the obvious excitement of having him cheat on his
wife for me I figured it also greatly reduced the odds of him having
anything so I didn't make them wear a condom. If I didn't trust the guy
then he had to wear a condom even though I hate them. Odds were that if
I didn't trust them I didn't have sex with them anyway.
********
Q: What were your limits as an escort?
A: No different than my limits for any date:
1. I didn't allow myself to be hurt, humiliated, or grossed out (e.g. no
bondage, scat, etc.).
2. NO anal. My ass is strictly a one-way street. I love it to be played
with but nothing goes IN.
3. I refuse to be used to hurt someone else (e.g. a husband wanting his
wife to see him cheating on her to "punish" her for something or
another). Nothing with anyone underage, e.g. none of this "teach my
adolescent son" crap you see in porn fantasies.
4. Nothing illegal, whatever THAT might be.
********
Q: Weren't you concerned that by doing this locally you might be
recognized?
A: Of course I was concerned which is why I was pretty picky about who I
accepted as a client, even more so than with my last agency. That's
another reason I chose the one I did as they allowed me to be really
choosey without making a fuss about it. First, they had to be from out
of town - no compromises on that one. I also preferred guys who weren't
"veterans" but that's hard to verify ahead of time. Age wasn't all that
critical. Older guys tend to want more intimacy and fantasy whereas
younger guys are more into something fun so it all balances out in the
end. Also, I NEVER did repeats. Once per guy was all I'd ever do.
********
Q: Did you ever said no to a request by a client?
A: So far as the dating aspect goes I was lucky that nobody was that
rude to me. I DID refuse advances towards sex many times. This was a
job to me and I just didn't get off as much from guys paying for me, at
least not like a whore.
********
Q: Which agency did you work for?
A: Sorry, nothing on this web site or in my diary will give any
information that can be used to identify me. Besides, I don't need to
Advertise as it's not my agency.
********
Q: Which agency did you cousin Kristen work for?
A: When her agency pays for me to advertise for them I'll tell you.
THE END