Subject: Sex With Boys versus Girls (MF)
Author: Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary:
Who do I enjoy having sex with more – boys or girls? I get asked this question
a lot so, like I’ve done before when the same question keeps popping up, I
decided to write up this article to answer it once and for all!
Table of COntents:
Foreword
Chapter 1 – Quantity (do the numbers tell the real story?)
Chapter 2 - What Gets Me Off
Chapter 3 – Physical Considerations
Chapter 4 – Emotional Considerations
Chapter 5 – Conclusion
Foreword
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Wow, having to choose between sex with a man or a woman is like being asked to
choose between chocolate and strawberry ice cream! They are both delicious,
each with its own unique taste, and both can satisfy me. So how do you choose?
Well, I decided to look at several different aspects and then try to come to a
conclusion that makes sense – if that’s even possible.
Apologies ahead of time if this seems to ramble on, be confusing, or even a bit
contradictory. This isn’t an easy topic and definitely one where
generalizations ALL have exceptions so I just have to go with the most typical,
if not the most accurate, statements at times.
Chapter 1 – Quantity (do the numbers tell the real story?)
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It would seem that the most simple and direct method, at least at first glance,
would be to just look at how many men I have had sex with compared o the number
of women. Simple... right? WRONG!
If you simply look at my “career” track record, it would seem the obvious
“winners” are the boys. My first sexual encounter was with a boy a couple of
years older than me (masturbating with my friends is not what I would call a
“sexual encounter” so I don't count that as a “first”). Then for a couple of
years afterwards I only had sex with boys. Overall, in the ten years or so that
I’ve been “sexually active”, I’ve had sex with at least ten times as many goys
as girls. So using simple math, does that mean I prefer guys?
Well, before jumping to any conclusions, consider whether or not “quantity”
really tells the whole story. Like most “statistics” people love to throw out
to rationalize their position, there are other factors that come into play as
well that have to be considered.
First, remember that I was raised in heterosexual family and social
environments. Don’t get me wrong - homosexuality wasn’t portrayed negatively,
it just wasn't part of my upbringing. In fact, other than perhaps a comment on
a political situation, I don't ever really recall discussing the topic in any
earnest while growing up. My parents never expressed any interest in it
themselves, so I never “learned” that sort of thing from them. My friends were
all straight (setting aside Nancy and her dog) so it’s not like I was exposed to
rampant lesbianism.
Next, there is always the “availability factor”. Face it, since I was fourteen
I could get laid within thirty minutes of any situation, day or night. I’m not
being egotistical or bragging. Heck, ANY girl, no matter what she looks like or
where she lives, can do the same if she REALLY wants to get fucked bad enough
and doesn’t put any restrictions on who she does it with. In comparison,
finding a female partner is not nearly so easy. As I mentioned earlier, in my
teen years my friends were straight and I didn’t hang around the lesbian scene
so it is no mystery that with a LOT more guys available than girls, I had sex
with more guys.
Conclusion? I wouldn’t want to draw any conclusions based solely on “quantity”,
at least with regards to me. Now say I’d NEVER had sex with a girl, then it
would have been a much easier call. As it stands, call it a draw at this point.
Chapter 2 - What Gets Me Off
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This is another question I get asked a lot and since it has a direct
relationship with the main question at hand, I think it bears addressing. When
it comes to having an orgasm, there are a LOT of variables and it would be
impossible to make any general statements that hold true ALL the time so for
anything I say, remember that there may be an exception to the “rule”. So
bearing that in mind...
I’ve often said that so far as I am concerned (and most girls I know), getting
off while having sex with a guy is at LEAST 80% emotional and 20% physical. The
“problem” is that for guys, the numbers are probably reversed which is why it’s
so difficult for some guys to understand what really gets a girl off, No wonder
so many girls have to fake her orgasm and wait to masturbate later to finish
themselves when the guy thinks it’s the best fuck he’s had in ages.
In terms of the classic, WHO, WHEN, WHERE , WHY and WHAT (HOW), four of those
affect emotions and only one is based on the pure physical act. Is it any
mystery that emotions play such a large role for women? When I say “emotions”,
I mean the mixture of:
WHO....is fucking me (age, marital status, relationship, looks, etc.)
WHEN...I’m getting laid (time of day, time of year, relevance to the people,
e.g. during a church service, etc.)
WHERE..he is doing me (location, relevance to the people involved – e.g. a
husband’s bedroom, a public place, a church, etc.)
WHY....is he is fucking me (just a casual fuck, adultery, incest, sex party,
etc.)
So as you can see, there are a tremendous number of combinations and
permutations when it comes addressing the emotional aspect when compared to just
the physical. Is it any wonder that it’s so complicated to determine what gets
me off the best?
The WHAT (HOW) side of it is all about the physical which makes it pretty self-
explanatory I would think. I mean, the PHYSICAL act of sex isn’t all that
complicated and I would assume that anyone reading this has experienced it.
Even if you’re a virgin you’ve masturbated – admit it!
So what gets me off....?
Assume for the moment the only consideration is to orgasm. Forget “quality”,
number of times, etc., just consider what does it take to get me off. Despite
all the talk of emotions versus physical, in the end sex is a physical act and
thus it comes down to what is it that makes my body react in such as way as to
allow me to experience the best feeling in the world – my orgasm?
So..... If I was forced to narrow it all down to the ONE thing that stands out
above all others when it comes to driving to me to a climax, it would be having
a man fucking me in my pussy, feeling his hard dick filling my pussy while I
play with my pussy. This is usually easiest to do either in standard missionary
or spooning positions. A “bonus” would be to have him cumming inside of me at
the same time my orgasm erupts. It may not be the “best” orgasm or the most
memorable, but in terms of just having one, this is practically a guarantee and
works every time.
So does the fact I can just about always reach an orgasm when a guy is fucking
me while I play with myself mean that I prefer guys? Don't confuse physical
reactions that I can’t fully control with preference...
Getting myself off is just one aspect of sex and face it, I can get myself off
without a man OR a woman – as in masturbating. It’s HOW I get off, the
intensity of my orgasm, the overall experience that counts in the end. Thus if
you want to know who I prefer, I need to talk more about the two sides of the
equation – physical versus emotional, and not just who gives me an orgasm the
easiest and most guaranteed
Chapter 3 – Physical Considerations
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Is having sex with a girl more emotional than being with a guy or more physical?
This may surprise some people, but when comparing sex with a guy and a girl, I
find that sex with girls is more dominated by the physical side of things. I
guess in part that’s because I don't really see how two girls can have “sex” in
the first place. My definition of sex is pretty straightforward – it’s the
physical penetration of a woman’s vagina by a male penis. Thus while I may talk
about “oral sex’ and “sex with girls”, that is more me using phrases that people
are accustomed to and understand than being worried about using technically
accurate terms. If you really think about it, sucking a guy’s dick is no more
“sex” than sucking on his finger – it’s just a different part of his anatomy.
Licking a girl’s pussy is no different than kissing her – just a different set
of lips is involved. When two girls play together, it can be a wonderful – a
physically and mentally enthralling experience, but it’s not really “sex”.
All that said, in the end guys have one thing that overrides every other
consideration – a dick. What more can I say? I LOVE DICKS! I love to look at
them. I love to touch them. I love to suck on them. I love to feel them
inside of me. I love watching them grow as he gets turned on by me. I love
feeling them get so stiff and hard as I suck on them and he fucks me. I
especially love it when they erupt and shoot their wonderful cum into my mouth
and pussy.
Did I mention I love dicks?
I love ALL dicks, no matter what size or type. Circumcised or not, what’s the
big deal? Fat or thin, long or short, they each have their own “personality”
and best of all, dicks never lie. A girl can fake her orgasm pretty easily but
a man can’t fake his. When a guy cums, I know it’s because he is turned on by
me. It’s like a validation of my sensuality, of my sexiness. When a man looks
at me and gets an erection, I KNOW what he’s thinking about me and that makes me
feel good inside. Nothing boosts my self-confidence and ego than seeing a hard
dick and knowing it’s that way because of ME.
A lot of creative people have working diligently to develop dildos other toys to
try and substitute for a real dick. While I must applaud their efforts, no
artificial device can truly replace the real thing – a fleshy warm dick. Sure
a dildo can get me off, that’s not the point. A dildo isn’t turned on by ME, a
dildo doesn’t respond to me because I’m sexy, a dildo doesn’t grow in my mouth,
a dildo can’t fill me with warm cum like a man’s dick.
The only problem with a man’s dick being so dominating is that if you take the
guy’s dick out of the picture, then what’s the point of being with a man, at
least physically? Putting aside the guy’s dick, being with a girl is a thousand
times better than a guy, at least in terms of the physical side of the
relationship. Like, how can you even compare the feel of a silky smooth, warm,
soft female body with the hairy, often smelly, bulky male? OK, that may be
taking it to the extreme, but you get the essence of what I’m trying to say.
Feeling myself up against another woman, our firm boobs against one another’s,
soft legs intertwined, pussy’s pressed up against each other’s, the feel of her
soft hair in my face, the touch of her full lips, the caress of her gentle
hands.... oh my god, how can a guy possibly compete? Despite what they may
think, most guys simply don't have a clue how to really touch a woman – they
grope and fondle, more like explorers seeking out new territory whereas a girl
is more like a museum curator, treating me like some rare artifact that has to
be caressed and lovingly touched.
OK, so in the end – sexually that is, physically a man wins hands down because
he holds the ultimate trump card – his wonderful cock. Forced to choose between
a man and a woman, I would pick a man EVERY time simply because I LOVE that
thing between his legs. However, in terms of overall enjoyment and physical
pleasure a woman would be my choice.
Chapter 4 – Emotional Considerations
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Here the man has the advantage again thanks to the fact that it’s impossible for
me to have real “sex” with a woman. When a man fucks me, his wonderful dick is
buried deep inside of me which actually bonds us together for that moment, a
physical coupling where our two bodies literally become one. It’s an act that
is simultaneously intimate yet at the same time the ultimate demonstration of
our most basic lustful instincts and desires. What drives the emotional factor
is which of those two acts is dominate. BOTH can be extremely fulfilling from
an emotional perspective - under the right circumstances of course.
For instance, pure, raw, uninhibited sex can be extremely emotional as the man
is literally takes me for his own selfish pleasure and lust, using me as a
sexual object to satisfy the primeval needs that have evolved in men over the
eons, needs that reside deep inside EVERY man. It’s much the same as when I’m
gangbanged at a party. In such cases it’s all about lust with virtually zero
intimacy, yet by being SO one-sided it becomes emotionally fulfilling as I
become the ultimate slut, the woman of their most nasty and perverted desires.
They are using me to realize the most base wants and desires within themselves,
feelings that they possibly hadn’t dared to express before, let alone act out –
and may never again.
The other end of the spectrum minimizes the lust factor with intimacy being the
primary motive. I say “minimizes” because lust can never be completely
eliminated – it’s just a part of every man no matter who he is. This would be
like when I have sex with my father. As much as my dad may want to be my loving
father, to be intimate with his daughter in a way only sex allows, he is a man
and thus I know that there is still that feeling of lust within him. I love to
please my father so it excites me that even as he tries to be a good father to
me, there is still this underlying sexual desire within him to fuck me as a
woman more than his daughter.
Before anyone gets the wrong idea, when my dad fucks me I know it’s primarily
his desire for intimacy with his daughter that is driving him. He would never
abuse his position as my father solely to take advantage of me for his own
sexual pleasure. When his dick first enters me I love to hear him moan as I
know it is the feeling of closeness with me that is making him feel good as much
as the feel of my warm pussy surrounding his erect dick. When he finally cums
in me, I get this wonderful feeling inside of me from knowing it’s my own
father’s sperm that is being spewed inside of me even more than the actual feel
of his ejaculation. When my dad lays with me after he cums, leaving his dick
buried inside of me as it throbs with a warm heat, it is the bursting of my
heart with love for him as my father that makes me feel the best, even more so
than the actual feel of his dick staying within me.
The WHY factor is perhaps the biggest driver of the emotional part of sex for me
when I am with a man. Is he betraying his wife to have sex with me, maybe a
girlfriend if he’s not married? Is it incest - my father, an uncle, or maybe a
cousin? Is it a younger man having sex with the first experienced girl he’s
ever been with? Is it an older man trying to recapture the exaggerated memories
of his youth? You take the exact same person, time, location, and actions and
have completely different emotional reactions based solely on WHY he is fucking
me.
With a woman, it is shard to reach that same level of emotional fulfillment as I
get from a man. Because it is not true sex, a woman cannot cheat on someone
with me, she cannot betray someone else’s trust in her simply because she can’t
resist having me. Without a dick, we can’t physically bond together and thus
our bodies are always separate, always apart. Perhaps if it was her first time
then that would be different but those girls are few and far between, at least
in my experience. Indeed, usually it has been ME that was the “first timer”.
So in the end, unlike the other considerations this one has a pretty definite
‘winner”. When it comes to creating an emotionally fulfilling sexual event, a
man wins hands-down.
Chapter 5 – Conclusion
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Looking at it JUST from the sexual perspective, I would have to say I prefer men
over women. Physically, NOTHING is better than a man’s dick when it comes to
sex but even without that in mind (how can I really do that though?), a man
still has many advantages. Emotionally a guy can drive me to an orgasmic peak
based simply on WHY he is fucking me, let alone take into consideration the
other factors of WHEN, WHERE and WHO.
Bottom line – I prefer sex with a man!
Just to be fair, if I was asked who I would rather cuddle with and spend an
evening of non-sexual togetherness, who I would prefer to sleep with at night,
then a woman would win out EVERY time!
THE END
Sex With Boys vs Girls