Subject: Fucking vs. Making Love
Story Codes: MF inc father mother daughter
Updated: November 20, 2013
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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"Fuck me."
Only two words, one syllable apiece, simple and direct; yet I can't think
of any other two words I can say to a guy that have more impact than
these!
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - General Purpose Sex
Chapter 2 - Incest
Chapter 3 - Submission
Chapter 1 - General Purpose Sex
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It seems odd to me that many people consider "fuck" to be an offensive
word in "normal" conversation but erotic if it's used during sex. While
I don't normally use it as a curse word, I DO use the word "fuck" a LOT
when talking about sex which seems to disturb some people who view it as
the proverbial "four letter word". Because of the stigma associated with
using the word "fuck", many people use euphemisms like "having sex",
"making love", "doing it", etc. which just seems sort of silly to me. As
George Carlin once said, "Shoot is shit with two O's."
In the Bible, there are three words for what we call "love": Agape -
charity or caring for someone else as yourself, phileo - brotherly love,
and eros - sexual love. Just as people confuse the single English
translation where "love" is used for all three, so it is when it comes to
the word "sex" for me. Just as "love" has very distinct yet different
connotations, so too for me there are two very distinct categories when
describing sex. namely "fucking" and "making love".
In my vocabulary, when I use the word "fuck" it means having sex for the
purpose of personal gratification. Thus "fucking" is how I would
describe my sexual relationship with almost every person I've been with
starting with my first boyfriend. For example, when I go out on a date
and have sex with someone, I'm not doing it specifically to please them
or satisfy THEIR needs. After all, I'm not some kind of charity sex
whore! The reason I like to be "fucked" is because it satisfies MY needs
- period. Naturally I usually get fucked better when my partner's needs
and feelings are satisfied as well and so there is a selfish motive for
fulfilling their needs as well. Fucking doesn't require love or personal
commitments, it's all about personal enjoyment.
Before I forget, while it may seem to be a minor point to some people, I
prefer to make a distinction between fucking someone and being fucked BY
someone. The difference lies in who is the aggressor and/or being
dominant. By definition, fucking is NEVER something that is shared
equally - someone is always dominate to some degree. Thus when I say, "I
fucked so-and-so", it means I was the one who either initiated it or was
the dominate person. If I say, "I was fucked by so-and-so", then it
means I allowed the other person to take the lead.
Notice I said "allowed"... Anyone who knows anything about me knows that
I always need to be in control when involved in a sexual situation.
There may be times when I will let the other person THINK that they're in
control but in reality, that's never the case or at least it isn't if I
have anything to say about it. I guess that's why I don't get into
bondage or other fetishes like that.
On the opposite side of the sexual spectrum from fucking is "making
love". Whereas "fucking" is all about personal self-satisfaction,
"making love" is all about sharing and pleasing the other person. It may
surprise some people when I say this, but I've NEVER made love with
ANYONE to date, not even my father (although that is a more complicated
scenario). In fact, I don't expect that I will until I meet the man who
will be my husband. Thus my description of making love is based on how I
perceive it to be, not how I've experienced it.
Making love is when two people are truly in love with each other as equal
partners, willing to share themselves with each other and commit their
lives to one another.
Hmmm, sounds like marriage!.
When I say "love", I'm speaking of the emotional feelings between two
lovers which is vastly different from two people loving each other (such
as in the case of a father loving his daughter and she loving him - they
love each other but not as lovers). Of course when making love there is
an element of personal gratification, but at the same time your partner's
needs are of at least EQUAL concern. Neither partner is "in control"
which follows the natural order of life where a wife should submit to her
husband as described in the Bible - an often misquoted verse from the
Book of Ephesians which was intended to describe a loving relationship,
not a submissive or dominating one when taken in the context of today's
perceptions and definitions.
Chapter 2 - Incest
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For the vast majority of people, "fucking" or "making love" are the only
two phrases needed to categorize their sexual relationships. Of course
other terms can still be used for variety; but when pressed, every sexual
act for the average person can usually be pigeon-holed into one of these
two categories.
For a small minority of fortunate people, including myself, there is a
sub-category of sex known as "incest". Typically, incest is known as sex
between a parent and their child although other family member may be
involved. The reason I call incest a "sub-category is because depending
on the relationships involved, it is similar to either fucking or making
love but unique in a special way.
Incest involving a parent and child is about as close to "making love" as
sex can be without actually being that. No child should ever be
considered a "lover" with their parent. The intimacy of "making love"
can never be fully achieved between family members but at the same time,
this is why incest is so special as it as close as they CAN be, an
intimacy that could never be achieved without sex.
Incest between family members such as an uncle and niece is still
intimate but closer to fucking than making love. Just as sex between a
parent and child brings them close to making love, so too does sex
between family members elevate sex above simple "fucking".
This to make things easier, I always refer to incestual sex as "fucking"
but keep in mind what I really mean when you read my diary stories.
Chapter 3 - Submission
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Note that there is one thing that does NOT come into play in either
fucking or making love - submission. Again, I need to emphasize that
this applies to me as there are people out there who are into all sorts
of kinky stuff but I am not talking about weird or kinky perversions
here. I NEVER submit myself to anyone when I'm being fucked. There are
times when I may PRETEND to be submissive and in many cases the guy may
not even realize that I'm faking it, but there is no way I would ever
actually submit myself to anyone who just fucks me. I'm not into
anything that kinky so I wouldn't give myself to someone I'm having sex
when I'm seeking only my own personal satisfaction! I value myself as a
person too much and have enough self-esteem that I never feel the need to
lower myself to that level just to get fucked.
On the other hand, making love has nothing to do with submission as each
person is an equal partner in the relationship. One may take the lead
but that does mean the other has submitted in any way. I will submit to
my husband's biblical AUTHORITY but I will never submit myself to HIM.
Besides, if my husband truly loves me then he would never want me to
submit myself to him in the first place. My intention is to be his
caring and loving wife, not his slut, his whore, nor his slave.
Now that you understand how I feel about submission, this sets the stage
for a deeper discussion of parent-child incest. I can’t emphasize this
enough. Despite all the male fantasies and porn crap that is out there
regarding father- daughter relationships, I am NOT my father's lover nor
would I ever want to be. I can never be his equal in a relationship and
thus I can never "make love" with him. At the same time, I do not let
him fuck me for my own personal satisfaction. In this ONE special and
unique case, I submit myself to him for his gratification.
Now to be sure, my father IS a man and when he fucks me I enjoy it just
as I would being fucked by any other man. The key factor is that I am
NOT the one in control, but instead I give myself totally to my dad
which, in my opinion at least, is what ANY daughter should do for her
father if she truly loves him. Since it is HIS pleasure and needs I am
concerned about, not mine, although I still refer sex with my father as
"fucking", the key word in this one special case is "submission". My
father understands that I am his whenever he wants me and that I trust
and respect him enough to surrender myself completely to him.
Obviously, it's physically impossible for me to submit myself to my
mother in the same manner that I do to my dad. When I feel my dad's cock
slip inside of me and then later when he cums in me, in addition to the
feelings of love and security resulting from having my own father
literally "mating" me, there is also an element of domination and
submission that only a male can have over me - that only my father can do
to me.
A quick word about sex with my mother. I don't talk about sex with her
nearly as much as with my dad in large part because we do it so much
less. As any girl who has tried it will attest, there is something about
sex between women that is special beyond what words can describe. When
those women are mother and daughter, it elevates their emotions to an
even higher plane of sexuality that defies any description.
Even though it lacks the physical bond I have with my dad, sex with my
mom is as close to "making love" as I can imagine sex being without
actually being a husband and wife. With my father, I'm ALWAYS his
daughter and there is NEVER any blurring of those lines. A number of
people have asked me if I had ever wanted to bear my father's child.
Well, the very concept totally repulses me. Ugh, how sickening and
perverted would THAT be? With my mom though, it is so different and all I
can only leave it to your imagination at this point to try and understand
what it is like when we're together. All I can say is while I'm still
her daughter, somehow I feel like her lover as well. I probably get
fucked by my dad twenty times or more for every time I'm with my mom but
somehow it manages to equal out emotionally
So there you have it - all forms of sex for me fall into the categories
of either self-satisfaction, sharing, or submission. Because I'm never
been married, I can't write about sex with my husband so in all my
stories (including those involving my parents and relatives) I usually
refer to sex as "fucking". I hope this makes it easier for you to
understand what I mean when I say it and not be offended that I am saying
something "potty mouthed".
THE END