Subject: Safe Sex FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
Story Codes: nosex
Updated: November 20, 2013
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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This topic is one of the ones most frequently asked about and at the same
time, the one least understood. Mostly likely because I think it appeals
to the fantasies of so many people (making it popular) yet it also is
just that - people’s fantasies thus making it totally misunderstood by
most people. Hence I decided to publish this to address the topic once
and for all. Essentially this is about the group sex “club” that my
husband and I are members. There are two distinct “factions” or whatever
you want to call the groups. One is for married couples looking to swap
with other married couples. The other is for couples with children
looking for other couples who want to swap kids. You don't have to
belong to both groups and most people don't as the family side is much
more restrictive and difficult to join as you might imagine. The group
is for married couples only to promote healthy marriages and not for
people who want to have “swinger” sex or just plain old orgies without a
committed relationship. That said, here’s what I get asked the most about
all this...
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - What’s This All About?
Chapter 2 - Getting Started
Chapter 3 - The Rules
Chapter 4 - Misc. Questions and Answers
Chapter 1 - What’s This All About?
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Q: So just what is this “group” you talk about so much?
A: Essentially it’s a group of married couples people brought together by
certain common sexual interests. The primary “mission” of the group is
to promote healthy, fulfilling marriages by allowing couples to engage in
sexual activities that require a high degree of privacy, security and
safety.
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Q: Why are only married couples are allowed?
A: You may as well ask why does any club or group have membership
requirements? The members join and stay based on the club meeting their
needs and expectations. There are plenty of opportunities for singles to
engage in all sorts of sexual activities. Indeed, my best friend Beth
use to take me to her parties where the requirement was that you had to
be single and not even you and your boyfriend could come at the same
time. The club is designed around the needs of married couples which
allows the various rules and events to be tailored to the needs of that
demographic.
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Q: Given the changes in culture and society in general, how do you define
“marriage”?
A: For the purposes of this group, marriage is the legal union of a man
and a woman as recognized by the State of Pennsylvania. Again, it’s back
to how you want to define your membership and the purposes behind your
group in the first place. Nobody is saying that the membership opposes
the lesbian or gay communities, legal “unions” and such. What you do
outside the group activities is entirely up to you as well. For
instance, while I certainly prefer men as a sexual partner, I also enjoy
being with women at times. The point is, I don't look to the group to
provide me with a female partner and while attending group activities, I
resist such temptations and enjoy the moment for what it is.
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Q: How do I find this group?
A: Well, when it comes to this particular one, you don’t. Actually,
that’s the whole point - you’re not supposed to be able to find it.
There’s only one way to learn about us - be recommended by a current
member who is basically risking their membership, not to mention their
personal lives (more on THAT later) by even letting you know the group
exists. As such there is no application form, no web site to
investigate, no brochures or anything at all like that. It’s pretty
simple - you get recommended and the group contacts YOU.
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Q: So just what sorts of sexual activities does the group promote?
A: While I said the central focus of the group was to promote marriage,
there are plenty of “marriage encounters” and other such organizations
that deal with communications and other aspects of marriage life. What
the group focuses on instead is what those organizations do NOT cover,
and in most cases even discourage - sex outside of marriage. That
includes sex with other married couples and their immediate families.
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Q: But aren’t you against adultery?
A: Yes and that’s an EMPHATIC yes. Adultery is an abomination and an
affront to God and your spouse. It is a violation of one of the most
sacred vows a person can make - their marriage vows. It is perhaps the
most dishonorable and horrific act any person can make as they are
breaking a promise made to God and their spouse in front of their family
and peers, often in the house of the Lord.
But then the devil is in the details - or in this case, the definition.
So just what IS adultery? To some people it’s pretty black and white -
sex with anyone but your spouse. However that brings up a number of
problems as well. Just what constitutes “sex”? Yeah, penetration of a
vagina by a penis is a pretty easy call but what about a blowjob? A hand
job? Groping? Is “lust in your heart” an act of adultery in that all it
takes is the thought and/or desire even if no action is taken?
Here is MY definition of adultery which addresses these points. Please
don't even try to debate this with me as I full recognize that many
people will disagree with me and frankly, I don't care. Who’s to say
who is right and who is wrong anyway? Adultery is the act of sex outside
of your marriage family without the consent of your spouse where sex
solely limited to the penetration of a vagina by a penis and your
marriage family is everyone in your immediate family out to and including
first cousins whether by blood OR marriage. OK, so that’s pretty wordy
but as I said before, the devil is in the details. The one essential
point to bring out is that it has to be without the consent of your
spouse to be adultery. After all, if my husband is OK with it then why
would it be wrong? Another important point to make is that incest under
any circumstances is never adultery (of course so long as your spouse is
OK with it).
Only married couples are allowed to join our group and both parties must
be agreement so the issue of spousal approval is addressed from the
start. Thus nothing that happens within the auspices of the group
constitutes adultery which is just fine with me. As for what might
happen OUTSIDE the sphere of influence of the group... who knows and
frankly, who cares?
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Q: You said “and their immediate families”. Does that include underage
children?
A: Yes, after all isn’t that what families are - parents and children?
If anything, isn’t the phrase “underage children” a bit redundant anyway?
Remember, the whole point for even having the club is to promote marriage
and what stresses a marriage more than having children? A healthy
marriage needs to include a positive family environment. if there’s one
thing I’ve seen hurt a marriage more than anything, it’s not dealing with
the issues their children’s sexuality not to mention the needs of the
parents, especially the fathers, when it comes to their sexual desires
and fantasies.
Just to be clear about this issue though. While supportive of youth
sexuality, the group does NOT promote incest not does it discourage it
either. For the purposes of group activities it is simply ignored. What
families do in the privacy of their homes or with other families outside
the group activities is strictly their business.
Also, child abuse is NEVER tolerated. Thus for the purposes of group
activities children must be at least eleven years old for girls and
preferably twelve or thirteen for boys. Anything younger than that is
considered too young to be involved in group activities. Again, what
people do in their privacy of their home is considered their own
business. The group was using “don't ask, don't tell” years before it
became part of the social lexicon!
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Q: Does everyone in the group get the same privileges?
A: There are no “levels” of membership or anything tied to seniority and
such, at least not officially. Sure more senior members tend to be on
the board and have more of a say over things but that’s natural in any
social situation.
The primary division is between couples and families. The group
basically has two factions - one for couples that either have no children
or don't wish to involve their children, and the other for those with
children that wish to include them. You can be a member of either or
both depending on your interests however the security and background
checks for the family faction are much stricter as you might imagine. Of
course to be a member of the family faction you have to have kids of your
own who must be included.
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Q: If you have to have your own kids involved, then how did you join the
family faction?
A: I mentioned that there were no seniority benefits but still, as you
can imagine people who have been members a long time tend to have more
say than newbies. My Aunt Linda joined the group back in its infancy
about 25 years ago and today is the leader of the Board of Directors. As
such she was able to pull a few strings and get us admitted into the
family faction. There were a few bent noses at first but people have
been pretty supportive of us overall.
Chapter 2 - Getting Started
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Q: How does the process work to join?
A: Once a couple is recommended (they MUST be married to join, NOT JUST
FRIENDS) and it’s agreed that they’re potential candidate for the
appropriate membership level, the process starts...
To qualify for the couples faction generally requires only that you are
married, pass the interviews and a simple background checks, and submit
your security video.
The requirements to apply for the family faction are much more stringent.
First, EVERYONE in the family actively must participate - no lurkers.
Since the acceptable age range for kids is generally eleven to seventeen,
this puts a rather severe restraint on larger families with their kids’
ages spread out. By the time the youngest meets the minimum cut-off age,
the oldest is already pushing the top end. Thus the more kids they have,
the fewer years they are likely to be “in the window”.
Everyone, regardless of which faction to which they are hoping to join,
must do the following:
Step 1 - Questionnaires For Each Person
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As simple as this step may be, from what I hear people have dropped out
the moment they see how detailed and in-depth it is, not to mention
personal - especially the family version. Plus, it’s not just a bunch
of multiple choice boxes but instead is almost entirely essay. The
expectation is that the applicants will be forthcoming and detailed in
their responses. At the top of the questionnaire is a bold-faced warning
that there will be no follow-up questions or opportunities to revise your
answers once submitted. EVERY question must be answered satisfactorily
the first time or both applicants are rejected with no chance to reapply
ever again.
Step 2 - Financial/Criminal Record Review
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Next are thorough reviews of financial and criminal records. It’s
amazing at how much information about you is available on-line to anyone
willing to fork out a few dollars. The idea is to make sure that
applicants don’t have any financial issues that might lead to discovery
of their group activities.
Step 3 - References
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Assuming the questionnaire and financial/criminal reviews are OK, then
several personal references are required. These can be anyone, even
your local pastor as nothing of a sexual nature is asked and no hint is
made of the true purpose of the reference. The idea is to see if the
applicants are decent citizens in the eyes of their neighbors and
friends. Above all, people joining need to be recognized by their
community a having high moral and ethical values. If someone runs into
problems due to things they are involved in then that could lead others
to delve into private areas of their life - such as the group.
Step 4 - Interview
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Provided everything to this point has cleared then a personal interview
with a senior member (such as my Aunt Linda) is arranged. Everything has
to go smoothly without a hitch. Like the written questions, ANY
perceived attempt to hold back information is cause for immediate
rejection of an application. It’s all up to the opinion of the
interviewer and I know my Aunt Linda is ruthless. Even the slightest
hesitation or conflicting response is enough to end the interview on the
spot. It’s little wonder that less than 25% of the original applicants
make it past this point!
Step 5 - The Security Video
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The security of the group is one thing that makes it so popular with its
members. Sure there’s the vague hints about retribution, including
physical harm, if anyone ever breaks their word about secrecy. Still,
someone’s purpose in joining is to expose the group then threats of that
kind wouldn't matter anyway. Thus one final step is required before
membership is bestowed - the security video (otherwise known as the
“blackmail video” by most members).
Theoretically even with all the barriers that had to be overcome so far,
someone could still infiltrate the group if they worked hard enough
beforehand to work up a good enough background story. For example, an
undercover cop may have a cover story all worked out with fake references
and even financial records. However, if the people trying to join ARE
really undercover cops then they may talk a good game but they won’t
actually DO anything, especially if it’s illegal, and especially if it’s
all recorded on video. All through the process the questionnaires and
interviews are geared at the one of the two groups you’re asking to join.
The same goes with the video. Thus if you want to join the couples
faction of the group, then you have to be willing to swap with another
couple while everything is recorded on video. You have the option of
either bringing in another couple that you know (although if not already
members they won’t be told anything about the group) or the group can
supply you with a couple.
There are a number of couples that regularly volunteer for such “duty”.
Steve and I have actually done it ourselves a couple of times when my
aunt needed someone at the last minute. Another, maybe less obvious but
just as important reason for the video is it demonstrates that you aren’t
intimidated by having your sexual activities recorded. All family
parties are recorded by several cameras located discretely but such that
everything that goes on is duly recorded. Given the nature of what is
going on the reasons for this should be readily obvious.
Speaking of which, if you want to join the family faction, essentially
meaning you want to have sex with other couples’ underage children, then
you have to prove a few additional things. Basically you have to
demonstrate that you already have had sex with young kids as no “first
timers” are allowed. This is critical as anyone trying to infiltrate the
group for less than honorable purposes could say they hadn't done it yet
but want to and then never actually really do it before exposing
everyone.
One of the quirks of the video process is that while incest is not
allowed during the family parties, for purposes of the application video
you have to demonstrate that you are willing to have sex with your own
kids. It’s not incest that’s the concern but rather it goes back to the
issues of security again. Nobody in their right mind is going to allow a
newcomer to have sex with their kids unless they know the newcomers have
already done it. At least, nobody that is a member of a group like this
one. Well, then that leaves just your own kids unless you already know a
family in the group but even if you do, it’s not allowed so as to treat
everyone the same.
The problem is that I find it interesting that a considerable number of
people want to have sex with OTHER people’s kids but have no interest in
doing their own. However, rules are rules and if they want to enjoy the
benefits of membership then they have to do it at least once - and be
recorded doing it. I’m told that there have been quite a few parents who
have maintained that incest is just wrong and dropped out of
consideration rather than do a video. Really, like is one time going to
kill them? Besides, it’s not like they didn’t know from the start what
would be expected if they got this far in the application process but
some people just seem to think when it comes to their turn that somehow
they deserve special treatment.
Bottom line, there’s no better way to ensure that people keep quiet than
to have proof on file that they’ve had incestuous sex with their own
kids, even if it only was the one time. As I mentioned earlier, the
theory behind the videos is that no undercover cop is going to allow
themselves to be recorded having sex with their own daughter and trust
me, after all the background checks they KNOW if it’s really your
daughter or not as well as her real age. The same for an undercover
journalist. It’s sort of hard to publish an exposé on a sex ring if
you’re an active participant of the ring. As I said, trust me, they KNOW
if they’re your kids or not thanks to DNA testing so nobody can try and
pull a fast one.
Step 6 - Final Review
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Even if you do everything required and pass with flying colors, that
still doesn’t mean you’re accepted as a member. All of the videos are
kept locked away except for a final review by senior group members who
look for any signs of reluctance or coercion. Shyness is to be expected
of course but ANY sign that someone is doing something against their will
(adult or child) is cause for rejection of their application, no matter
what actually happened. This is especially true for the kids. Nobody
wants to bring harm to anyone, especially young kids, so if there is any
indication that they might not be enjoying themselves and that they don’t
WANT to do want they’re doing then the application is rejected.
So say what you want about such an exhaustive application process but
apparently it works. The group has been in operation for over thirty
years with never a single incident or run-in with legal authorities.
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Q: How are swaps arranged?
A: First, the key word here is “swap”. These are not “swinging” parties
or orgies but rather one couple trading partners with another. Once
again I iterate that the intent of the group is to PROMOTE marriage - not
marginalize it or pretend it doesn’t exist. Yes, I may be with another
man for the night but he is still another woman’s although for that one
evening he may be acting as though he is my husband. That level of
intense intimacy simply doesn’t exist in a group atmosphere.
Although not nearly as complicated and exhaustive as the initial
application process, arranging a swap still has its rules that must be
followed to the letter:
Step 1 - Level 1 Profile Search
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When we want to meet with someone Steve first looks through the web site
pages of “public” profiles. They are public only in the manner that
everyone in the group can see them at any time. Using a customized
search feature he finds another couple with the characteristics and
interests we’re looking for. The public profile is pretty vague - no
photos, addresses, phone numbers or anything that could be used to
identify someone.
Step 2 - The Invitation
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Once a potential couple if found, Steve sends them a message through the
site. All this is kept within the site - no external e-mails or other
potential security threats.
Step 3 - Level 2 Profiles
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Provided the couple we invite agrees to move on after viewing our public
profile, we then give them access to the next level of our profile which
shows photos and provides an on-line secure chat window. Typically the
photos are clothed although bikini shots and sexy lingerie are encouraged
but nothing that FaceBook would censor. If they like what they see, then
they can open their next level to us as well.
Step 4 - Contact
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If we make it this far, the next step is to make contact by phone or
webcam. We keep one of those anonymous phones you get from Wal-Mart for
such things. An option at this point is to open your profile further to
allow them to see nude photos and videos of yourself to “encourage” them
to meet with you. Some couple get quite revealing at this stage while
others prefer to keep that in reserve until the first meeting.
Step 5 - Meet
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Finally, if everything works out then you arrange a time and place to
meet - usually someplace public to start like a restaurant. You can have
all the security in place but it still never hurts to be careful!
Typically this process takes at least a week or two, sometimes even
longer depending on how busy each couple is and how long it takes for
them to respond to each phase. However, it IS possible to short-circuit
the process in special circumstances.
Chapter 3 - The Rules
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Q: Do you have to be a family to join the family group?
A: Yes. Let’s call it what it is and be honest... essentially this group
is intended to allow married couples the opportunity to have sex with
young kids in a controlled and safe environment. Yes, the kids are
having a good time but that’s more a side benefit than the goal. It
really wouldn't be fair to ask people to bring their children for the
enjoyment of others while keeping their own at home. It also ensures
that those involved have more of a “share” in the responsibility for what
goes on by having to have their own kids involved, even if they aren't
involved sexually with them at home. All in all, it just makes sense.
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Q: Does the whole family need to participate?
A: Yes. It just wouldn't be right to leave one kid at home, especially
if they were within the proper age range. Even if outside the range, how
would you explain to them why they couldn't come along with the rest of
the family. If you’re going to promote marriage, then you have to
promote family values as well and splitting a family apart for such an
important event wouldn't be promoting proper values. Also, if the one
left home was within the age limits then it it would also raise the
concern as to WHY that kid wasn't there. This could be a major concern,
especially if they were somehow oppose to the whole idea in which case
who knows who they might tell about what the rest of their family is
doing and leaving them behind?
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Q: What are the age restrictions?
A: For couples - none. You can be as old or young just so long as you’re
legally married. For kids, seventeen is the absolute upper cutoff and
even then it can be hard sometimes to distinguish a girl that age from
some of the younger mothers. Girls must be at least eleven years old and
while technically the same lower age limit applies to boys, in most cases
bringing in boys under the age of twelve or some even thirteen is
discouraged due to the lagging maturity levels of most boys when compared
to girls.
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Q: Is incest allowed?
A: Not at the parties where multiple families are involved. Families
meeting with other families on their own can do whatever they want but
whenever the event is sponsored by the group and multiple families are
involved, incest is not allowed. By incest, I mean full sex between
family members where sex is defined as penetration of a vagina by a
penis. Innocent groping and such is to be expected in any family where
sex is openly displayed so it would be detrimental if anything to
discourage such behavior. I mean if a girl does another father well and
runs to her dad for approval, what’s he suppose to do, just shake her
hand?
People often ask me why such a rule is in place. Well, there are
actually several good reasons. First and foremost, it might surprise
people as to how many couples do NOT practice incest yet want come to
such events to have sex with other couples’ kids. It actually goes right
along with my own experiences chatting with men on-line over the years.
It’s amazing how many men will tell me they lust for their daughter’s
friends but even if their own daughter turns them on they’ll often
adamantly deny any desire to have sex with her. Another reason for not
allowing incest is to discourage favoritism. I mean like what father
wouldn’t want to do his own daughter more than any other girl? On the
flip side, why create a situation where a young impressionable girl is
left to wonder why her daddy wants to fuck the other girl more than her,
even if that’s not his intentions at all? Thus to keep the environment
neutral and feeling safe for everyone involved, open acts of incest are
not allowed at multiple family parties.
Q: Can adults do it together?
A: Not at the family parties. If you want to do another adult, then do a
swap with another couple or meet another family on your own. The parties
have primarily one purpose - to allow married couples the opportunity to
act out their sexual needs and fantasies regarding young boys and girls
with the intention of solidifying their own marriage relationships in the
process.
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Q: Can kids do it together?
A: As with the adults, not at the family parties. Again, if that’s what
they want then they need to convince their parents to arrange something
in a different venue. While it’s certainly intended that the kids enjoy
themselves, when you come down to it they’re only there for the benefit
of the adults.
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Q: What about birth control?
A: Birth control is the responsibility of each individual which is as it
should be. While you can request that a condom is used, typically this
is considered rather poor etiquette. Everyone’s tested regularly so
STD’s shouldn’t be a concern. So far as I know, most girls and women use
birth control pills while others rely on a variety of other means. As a
rule, it’s not mentioned or discussed so bare sex is pretty much
expected.
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Q: How are partners chosen?
A: As I mentioned from the start, the purpose of this group is to promote
marriage by allowing the couple to engage in the sort of activities that
they desire in a safe and welcoming environment. Thus it’s the parents’
prerogative as to who they have sex with and the kids really don't have
much say in it although of course they are free to try and influence such
decisions. Over time it’s only natural that certain favoritism forms and
there are indeed pairs that form quickly at the start as old favorites
get together. Still, with the number of families that are members the
makeup of each party varies so it’s inevitable that people meet that
haven’t been together before.
That said, I did find it interesting in that it was readily apparent that
the fathers tend to choose their partners more than the mothers who seem
to be happy allowing their sons to select their “MILF”. Nonetheless, the
parents always have veto power whereas the kids are not allowed to
decline any “invitations”. Personally I approve of this as I am a
strong believer in the submittal of children to their parents will - even
if in this case it’s to other parents.
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Q: Does everyone have to actually participate?
A: This was one of the questions I asked when I learned that my father
and husband wanted me to accompany them. The answer was a quick and
adamant “YES”. It’s not like you have to be having sex every minute but
at the same time voyeurism alone is not permitted. This is especially
true for new families. True, they’ve had to demonstrate their
willingness to engage in such activities and there was a record of that
demonstration kept on file, but people still look upon newcomers with a
bit of trepidation until they’ve proven themselves.
One of the biggest selling points of the group is security so you can
understand why everyone feels more comfortable once the new folks are
actively involved. After all, there’s not a cop or other law enforcement
person who would actually engage in such sex. Once you’re established
then some people prefer to watch more than actively participate. So long
as they have at least one partner during the party then nothing gets
said. However, anyone trying to just watch the entire time is warned
that a repeat performance will result in expulsion from the group.
Chapter 4 - Misc. Questions and Answers
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Q: Who do you have sex with at the family gatherings - adults or kids?
A: This may sound like a silly question at first but in reality it was a
bit of a debate at the beginning. Because Steve and I are sort of
bending the rules as it is given we don't bring our own kids, it’s not
like the answer is black and white. It ended up being decided based on
WHY were wanted to be there. To be perfectly frank, given a choice I’d
just be part of the swapping faction and be perfectly happy. It’s my
husband who wants sex with young girls that caused my Aunt Linda to
invite us in the first place. Not that THAT should be any surprise.
Like, what healthy male doesn’t? I’d bet 99% of the men who don't have
sex with young girls do so only because of lack of opportunity, not
desire.
So if Steve is going to have sex with the girls, then what about me?
Well, we might not have kids but we ARE married and thus it was decide
that we would act as a married couple and so we would both have sex with
the kids and not the other adults. I have to say that sort of
disappointed me as there are a number of VERY doable fathers I’d love to
drop down on one of those delicious looking erections that they’re
nursing while waiting for their next pretty little young thing!
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Q: Do you usually swap with the same couples?
A: Actually quite the opposite - we tend to make it a point NOT to ever
swap with the same couple twice. Oh there has been an exception here and
there but for the most part we’ve held to that position. The whole idea
is to strengthen OUR marriage so I really have no desire to develop any
sort of feelings or attachments to another man. When I spend the night
with someone else’s husband, for that night he becomes MY husband as well
and I try to please him just as I would if it was Steve. Needless to
say that creates a VERY intimate and emotional experience and it would be
easy to fall into the trap and developing true feelings for another man
if those conditions were allowed to continue over time. Instead, I find
that afterwards I go home to my own husband and find that I love him more
than ever, especially when I see how badly he desires me even after
spending a night with another woman.
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Q: Do you prefer older or younger couples when swapping?
A: Anyone who knows me knows at all knows that my favorite sexual partner
- outside my husband and father of course, is a married father,
especially one with a teenage daughter. Thus it shouldn’t be any
surprise that I love swapping with couples where the husband meets this
criteria.
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Q: Do you prefer older or younger boys at the parties?
A: That’s like asking someone if they have stopped beating their wife -
no right answer! While I might say I’d be just as happy to never have
sex with a young boy, at the same time it would be pretty hypocritical to
say I don’t enjoy it when I do. So I guess if I am going to have to do
it so my husband can indulge himself, then I’d say give me a cute little
guy around fifteen or sixteen. That’s old enough to be physically mature
enough to have a decent dick and in most cases, he’s as tall me or taller
so it’s not like I am some sort of naughty babysitter. At the same time,
any older and it sort of loses the taboo nature that makes it as hot as
it is.
As for the really young ones, I have to admit that being fucked by a
twelve year-old IS quite an experience but it’s more erotic than sexual
if you get my meaning. After all, I spend most of my life teaching boys
at around that age so if I allowed myself to get TOO carried away with
boys this age then imagine the issues I’d be facing when I’m back in the
classroom!
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Q: Have you ever met a family outside the arranged parties?
A: A few. Personally, I’ve always found it somewhat confusing as to why
parents would do this in the first place. I mean it would be one thing
if Steve and I had our kids to swap but to just meet with us so they can
watch their kids have sex with us... what’s the point in THAT? Well,
obviously it’s a turn-on for more than a few people so who am I to argue.
In all but once case, it was just a girl so essentially I watched along
with her parents while my husband enjoyed himself - and oh my god did he!
Then again, as I said before, what normal male wouldn't given the
opportunity so it’s not like it’s saying anything good or bad about my
wonderful husband, just an observation.
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Q: As a general rule, how do you feel about underage sex?
A: That’s a VERY complicated subject and one I’ve addressed in another
FAQ so if you’re interested, read “My Thoughts About Underage Sex”.
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Q: What if one of the kids doesn’t want to do it?
A: I would be the first to say that child abuse is one of the worst
crimes imaginable and rape would of course be an extreme form of child
abuse so nobody should ever be forced to have sex with someone they don’t
want to have it with. I asked my Aunt Linda this question and she agreed
totally, saying that if such a situation arose the entire family would be
asked to leave immediately and their membership revoked permanently.
There would be no coercion, negotiating, or anything that might convince
a kid to have sex that really doesn’t want to do it as later that would
only come back to haunt everyone. It’s quite simple - just say no and
that’s that. The membership revocation is permanent because nobody wants
a situation where the child is pressured back home into doing or saying
anything later that they really aren't comfortable with just so the
family can rejoin later.
Fortunately thanks to the burdensome vetting process my aunt tells me
that this sort of thing has only happened a few times over the years. In
most every case, by the time the family gets through all the requirements
to become members, it’s well established that everyone is comfortable
with what will be happening.
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Q: Why don’t you like to go to these parties with your husband?
A: That’s a complicated question but I’ll try to answer at the risk of
oversimplifying things. My husband Steve LOVES them (what man wouldn’t
given such an opportunity?) and I know he’d like me to come with him
every time because he really gets off watching a young boy fucking me,
even more so than older men. What it is about men watching their wives
having sex with other men has always been a bit of a mystery to me but
one I’ve used to my advantage over the years. personally I don’t get
much watching my husband fucking other women - or girls for that matter.
I’m not jealous or anything silly like that, I just don't find anything
all that erotic about it.
OK, so I’d be lying if I said I didn't enjoy myself at them but that’s
not the point. I’m a strong advocate in incest (in the right family
circumstances of course) because I believe that nothing allows for a
parent and child to express their feelings for one another more than
through sex. As a daughter, I feel it’s my duty and honor to submit
myself to my father’s will and I feel great pride in knowing I can
satisfy some of his most intimate and oldest fantasies. However, the
parties expressly forbid incest which means they’re no more than a
mechanism enabling married men and women to carry out some of their
deepest fantasies and desires by using the children of other married
couples for their own pleasure. While I’ve seen no indication that the
children are being harmed - quite the opposite if anything, it seems
selfish to me and unnecessary. Why not just keep it at home and enjoy
sex with the children who mean the most to you - your own and those in
your immediate family?
Anything to say to people who find all this a little too much to believe?
It’s no different than I would respond to people who say the same about
my diary. If you don't want to believe it, then don’t. It really
doesn’t matter to me as I get nothing from it one way or the other. I
publish all this because I have found that I enjoy writing about my
experiences and it also gives me a forum for expressing my views and
thoughts about topics that I really can't bring up anywhere else. Just
because YOU don't know of such a group, don’t make the mistake of
believing one doesn’t exist in your part of the world. remember, what
makes them successful is that you do NOT hear about them! It’s sort of
like incest. If you hear about an actual case of incest then the odds
are it’s something bad because the “good” incestual families keep it to
themselves and even their closest friends and neighbors are often
unaware.
THE END