Subject: Ethical Dilemmas
Author: Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary:
Over the years that I published my web site, I received tons of letters and
chatted with literally thousands of people. Often it was fun and at times even
quite erotic but then there was a small number of people that disturbed me. In
the vast majority of the cases, I just wrote them off as being someone’s
fantasy, although it made me wonder sometimes what kind of people are out there
that can even THINK about some of these things!
There is a basic principle of mine is that fantasies should have no limits so
long as they STAY fantasies. While I may disagree with someone’s fantasies, I
don’t condemn people for their beliefs or thoughts, no matter how “out there”,
disgusting, maybe even illegal they may be IF they were true. Basically, so
long as there was no proof that they are anything but someone’s flight of the
imagination, I didn’t worry about them.
The situations presented are a different story. In each case there was enough
information via webcams, photos, phone numbers and such that I was pretty
convinced that these were not just lonely, horny guys getting off by telling me
their fantasies, trying to make me believe they really do these things. It’s
this small minority of people who made me wonder about the state of the world,
not to mention whether I was doing the right thing by enabling them and in some
cases, providing them with a public forum.
All of these situations actually happened although I have changed details as
needed to maintain everyone’s privacy. My intent is not to make each a novel
out of each situation so I’ve shortened the details and such but I didn’t dream
up any of this stuff. As I once heard a comedian say, I couldn't make this
stuff up!
I’d love to hear back from people as to what they think about how I handled the
situation as well as what they would have done had they been me.
Table of Contents:
Chapter 1 - Dad and His 3 year-old Daughter
Chapter 2 - Dad and 11 year-old Daughter
Chapter 3 - Dad and 3 year-old Son
Chapter 4 - Cheating Fiancé and School Teacher
Chapter 5 - Naughty Cross-Dressing Husband
Chapter 6 - Horny Husband
Chapter 7 - Naughty Dad
Chapter 8 - Incest Family
Chapter 9 - Horny Wife and Mother
Chapter 10 - E-Mail Privacy
Chapter 11 - Husband’s Tributes
Chapter 12 - Unfaithful Husband
Chapter 13 - How Far to Go For a Job?
Chapter 14 - Dad Wants His Daughter & Her Friends
Chapter 15 - Postlude
Chapter 1 - Dad and His 3 year-old Daughter
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This guy was chatting with me from the UK, claiming to be married with a sixteen
year-old daughter. Thankfully he didn’t try to tell me he was molesting her but
he claimed to be considering it for someday in the future.
OK, so lots of guys tell me crazy stuff like that about their daughters, nieces,
friend’s daughters, etc. so I took it with my usual grain of salt. Then he said
he was jerking off on the couch while she was watching TV in the same room.
Again, not something I haven’t heard in one form or another many times before so
no big deal. Then he said he had her up on the couch next to him with his dick
out while he masturbated during our chat. I had to hand it to him for his vivid
imagination but I wasn't buying it as being real.
Next thing I knew my email sounded off and I saw he had sent me a pic. Sure
enough, there he was with his cock standing upright and in the background was a
girl who looked to be watching TV or something. The only thing was instead of
being sixteen, this girl looked to be more like she was around three years old!
My first reaction was that he had stolen it some web site as that is what most
guys do who send me this type of crap.
As I do with most guys who try to get me to believe their fake pics, I teased
him that he should bring her closer and put his dick up against her bottom. I
figured that since he wasn’t taking the photos his response would be he couldn’t
do it for some reason or another, probably making up some issue with his camera.
I get that kind of excuse all the time – “my hard drive crashed and all my
photos are gone”, “they’re on my other computer”, I can’t find the CD with our
photos” and so forth. When I hear these types of lame excuses it just confirms
that they are fake and he has just ran out of whatever he stole from some web
site.
Well, to my surprise a new photo appeared and sure enough, there was that same
hard cock but now it was pressed against the backside of the little girl. She
still her cotton pajamas on but now her top had been pulled up enough in back
such that his cock was rubbing up against her bare skin.
Well, it was undoubtedly just a coincidence that he had one like that available
as it wasn't exactly a unique photo. So I made another suggestion which was
soon followed by a pic of her on his lap, facing away, with his erect cock
pushing against her now bare bottom, just as I had suggested. Her bottoms were
still on but had been pulled down enough so he could line up his erection along
the crack of her butt.
One thing led to another... Next he set her on the floor between his legs and
took a pic of her with his erect cock rubbing against the side of her head, her
hair falling over it. In the next one he was his dick poking into her ear and
in the last one he was pressing his incestuous cock against the side of her face
from behind, causing a distinct indentation in her cheek under the head of his
cock.
In all fairness, at no time did his daughter seem the least bit aware of what
her dad was doing and so far as I know he never went any further than touching
her from behind with his dick. Still, it was shocking to say the least that
anyone would do that to a girl that age AND take photos of it AND send them to
someone on the Internet! I felt a twinge of guilt as each was posed just I had
suggested. Of course, when I did so I was assuming it would result in the
exposure of how he was faking what he was doing with his so-called “daughter”.
I never believed for a moment that he would actually DO it when I made those
suggestions!
Seeing his dick against her face was enough for me. Suddenly I felt a chill
down my spine and I wanted nothing more to do with him. Either he was for real
and a very sick man or he had a collection of child porn that was pretty
extensive. In either case I wanted nothing to do with it so I closed the chat
window and immediately added him to my Ignore list. Needless to say, I also
deleted everything he sent me immediately – including the pics.
So what would you have done if you had been me? Would you have answered him in
the first place when he admitted his incestual interests in his daughter? How
would you have felt upon learning she wasn’t sixteen as he first described but
only three years old? How would you have responded when he asked what sort of
naughty pic he should take next? What if he had gone further than just some
innocent poses - THEN what you have done?
Chapter 2 - Dad and 11 year-old Daughter
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This started out as yet another guy telling me about his incestual fantasies
about his eleven year-old daughter. What made it unique was apparently he had
legal issues in the past with that had something to do with Internet child
pornography. His lawyer was able to get him off on a technicality but as you
might imagine, he claimed that his wife was still pretty upset about everything.
You would think a close call like that would keep a guy on the straight and
narrow but all he wanted to talk about was his lust for his preteen daughter and
her friends. He sent me tons of family pics, enough to where I was able to
identify who he really was and where they lived. For instance, he took pics of
her at a Girl Scout picnic and outside a store selling Girl Scout cookies where
the troop number was visible as well as their name tags. He didn't really
believe I knew all that much until I sent him a Google map photo of his house!
Once he got started, he sent more “private” ones that he’d taken of his daughter
in the shower and while she was asleep. She was never nude, or at least nothing
private showed in the pics, but they were highly suggestive. In a few of the
later ones he had his dick out in the foreground of the pic with her in the
background, sleeping or otherwise oblivious to what her dad was secretly doing.
Things continued to escalate when he sent me a couple where she was sound asleep
and he was pulling down her bottoms so he could touch her bare butt with his
hard cock. That went to him holding his cock up to her sleeping face, all but
touching it to her cheek and lips.
Then came pics of him laying naked on her bed, playing with her stuffed toys and
underwear, rubbing them against his erection and finally covering them with cum
as he masturbated about having sex with her. He was pretty creative took more
of him cumming on her Winnie-the-Pooh panties, her toothbrush, and even into her
mouthwash bottle which supposedly he left for her to rinse with later.
Thankfully he never sent me nudes of her and as best as I could tell, he was
just fantasizing about doing anything for real with her. Otherwise I would have
had to cut him off like I did with other guys who crossed the line. Over time
he sent me literally hundreds of pics of her taken at family gatherings, soccer
games, girl scout activities, etc. Some of them were obviously taken without
his wife’s knowledge based on what part of her anatomy was the center of
attention of the photo! A lot of them included his wife as well so you can
imagine what she would have said had she known what he was doing. I have to
admit that it was sort of fun to see what he would do next.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned chatting with guys it’s that if they do it
long enough then eventually the wife or girlfriend always finds out. Did his
wife became suspicious of his on-line activities? All I know is that one day he
suddenly disappeared and never contacted me again so I have no idea what
happened to him.
What would you have done? Would you have encouraged a known pedophile to
fantasize about having sex with his pre-teen daughter? What would you have done
knowing he was tainting her toothbrush and mouthwash with his cum? How would
you feel about a father who lays on his daughter’s bed naked, masturbating with
her stuffed toys and panties and using them to soak up his cum? What do you
think happened to him at the end?
Chapter 3 - Dad and 3 year-old Son
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This guy was one of the most disturbing characters I’ve ever encountered. He
was yet another one of those guys who enjoyed masturbated on cam for me and he
was doing a pretty good job of stroking himself one day when to my complete
surprise his three year-old son came into view. The fact that the dad kept his
erect dick out and didn't stop stroking it while his son watched was disturbing
enough but then he took his son’s hand and had HIM hold his dad’s hard dick.
I’m sure at that age the boy had no real idea of what was going on but still,
what kind of father let’s a boy that young play with ANY adult hard cock, even
if it’s his dad’s?
Just when I was about to close the cam window and add him to my “Ignore” list,
he moved the boy between his legs and pulled his head down to his lap. The cam
was too grainy and dark for me to be able to tell exactly what was happening so
I will never know whether or not he actually had his son suck his dick.
However, he said that was what was happening and he claimed that he loved having
his son suck his cock. He also said that he liked to suck his son’s dick but he
didn't do anything like that on cam.
It was at this point that I closed the cam window and I never talked to him ever
again. This was going WAY too far for me and I didn’t want to be involved with
it in any way, shape or form. It made me shudder to think that he might
actually have his son suck his dick at such a young age. That was horrible
enough but then to do it on cam for a total stranger????
SO what would you have done had this happened to you? Would you have waited to
close the cam window until you were sure what was going on, one way or the
other? Sometimes I wish I had just to be sure if he was scamming me or not.
Chapter 4 - Cheating Fiancé and School Teacher
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This was one of those many guys who seem utterly clueless when it comes to the
Internet. Why do people assume that just because they chat and e-mail at home
in private that what they do is going to remain private? This guy was a
elementary school teacher – a fact I was able to confirm on the school’s web
site, but his dream was to be an entertainer. He even worked at Disney World as
did his fiancé, something else I was able to confirm looking at photos on the
Disney web site.
Like many men, this guy wasn’t happy with having a nice girl who loved him – a
hot looking one at that. He loved to chat and cam for me, masturbating a little
at first and then adding in her panties (they lived together). Things escalated
over time as he started to bring out her lingerie and bikinis, using them to
jerk of with and then cumming on them. It was sort of wild that he was doing
all this even BEFORE he got married as most guys wait to start fantasizing about
women outside of marriage AFTER they were married for a while.
Even with all this, so far it wasn't anything all that different from what a
number of guys have done for me but then he upped the ante by actually wearing
her panties and bra. Then he would jerk off while wearing them and shoot his
cum on a pile of her underwear he laid out on the bed. I can’t say he looked
very sexy in girl’s underwear but I doubt his fiancé would have been pleased and
that’s what made it fun to watch, imagining what she would say if she could only
see him now! Then one day he surprised me when he wore her bikini and jerked
off, but this time cumming INSIDE the bottoms by pulling them out and shooting
his cum into the crotch while still wearing the bikini bottom!
Well, as happens with so many guys that do stupid things on the Internet,
somehow along the way he slipped up and his fiancé found out what he was doing.
She actually contacted me and at first things were a little tense but she kept
her emotions in check so she could find out more about what her fiancé had been
doing with me – not to mention what my intentions were regarding him.
Needless to say, I assured her I had NO intentions whatsoever of ever actually
meeting him and I even shared some of the web cams that he had done for me while
wearing her bikini and lingerie. When I finally got to the one of him cumming
while still wearing them, I think that was the last straw for her. I got the
idea that up to that point she wasn’t all that upset with him chatting and
masturbating, but when she realized what else he was doing that was end of
everything and I never heard from either of them again.
What would you have done? Knowing his school e-mail address and the address of
the principal, would you have shared his e-mails and webcams with the school?
Would you want a guy like that teaching your kids? Was I right to share
everything with his fiancé, things he had done with the assumption they would
remain private? Was I wrong to encourage him along the way?
Chapter 5 - Naughty Cross-Dressing Husband
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This started out as yet another guy unhappy with his marriage, especially his
wife’s lack of sexual interest. This may have been due to her gaining a lot of
weight but then I learned of another reason that was probably creating issues
between them – he loved to dress as a woman! He had even gone so far as to buy
fake breasts which he would wear under dresses. He didn’t use his wife’s
clothing – they would have been far too large for him anyway, and he had quite a
collections of dresses, skirts and bikinis. I had to wonder how his wife felt
about his “alternative wardrobe”!
In addition to the usual family photo album stuff, he had taken a number of pics
of her recently while they were having sex plus nudes of her in the shower and
bathtub. It was one thing for him to share them with me but it seemed he was so
turned on in doing it that he went another step and started to post them to a
website where amateurs could post pictures of their wives and girlfriends.
Meanwhile, he’d given me enough personal information that I was able to track
down his wife’s e-mail address and even found a websites where she posted
comments about dieting and one where she was a member of an arts and crafts
group. I joined both groups and traded e-mails and comments with her. It was
rather funny to me to talk to he like just another girl when she had no idea
about my on-line relationship was with her husband.
As happens so often, the wife found out what her husband was doing. She even
learned about the site where he’d posted her nude photos. Boy, talk about some
scathing e-mails after that! Even worse for him, he was in the military and she
said she would be turning him in to his superiors. After that, I never heard
from either of them again.
What would you have done? Was I right to encourage him to share their personal
photos? Was I somewhat responsible for his posting nudes of his wife on another
website? Sure he was the one who did it but would he have even gotten the idea
without me? Was it wrong of me to contact her privately and pretend to be her
friend, not telling her who I really was?
Chapter 6 - Horny Husband
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What can I say, I get a lot of husbands contacting me! This guy had a wife and
young son and was basically nothing all that unusual or special except his
complaint was that his wife didn’t do ENOUGH for him. They had good sex and she
even sucked his dick (sparingly) but he wanted it more often than she did. It’s
funny how here was a married guy who was actually GETTING laid by his wife and
STILL, he wasn’t satisfied.
After sharing tons of family pics, he started sending me ones she had knowingly
posed for in lingerie, some of it quite sheer. Eventually he sent the “good
ones” where she removed the lingerie as well. He even sent some nudes she had
him take when she was pregnant! He claimed that when he took the more recent
ones that he was thinking of me while he shot the nude pics of his wife.
Actually, compared to many husbands he was quite tame and overall was a really
nice guy to chat and e-mail with. He never went crazy with talk about anything
perverted.
In this case he quit before his wife ever found out what he shared with me about
her, at least so far as I know. Instead, it seemed to be a case of a guilty
conscious that ended our “relationship”. He asked me to delete everything he
sent me and was very nice about our break-up, it was just he felt he was not
being fair to his wife.
What would you have done? Was it right to encourage a man who obviously loved
his wife and had a good sex life with her to share the private photos she had
assumed were just for her husband’s pleasure? Would you have deleted the sexy
photos of her that he sent?
Chapter 7 - Naughty Dad
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This one goes way back to when I was a freshman in college and first started
chatting with guys on-line about sex. I was pretty naïve back then and so when
he started telling me about his incestual lust for his thirteen year-old
daughter I was shocked. It was the first time a guy had told me something like
that on-line and then I was even more surprised when he started sharing pics of
him and her.
In retrospect, I think that what he REALLY wanted was to meet me and that
somehow he thought that telling me about his daughter and doing naughty things
regarding her might somehow turn me on enough to want to meet him. He even gave
me his phone number and address which turned out to be in the same town where I
was going to school. Out of curiosity, one day I drove by the house day and
sure enough, it was the same one in the photos he’d sent.. Once there was a
parade in town and he told me that his daughter was going to be in it so I
watched the parade and sure enough, there she was! It seemed rather surreal to
actual see her after everything her dad had said about her.
When I balked at meeting him, he tried using his daughter even more for bait,
sending me pics of him masturbating using her bikini top (the same one she was
wearing in earlier pics he had sent me). Then it was pics of him cumming on her
training bra laid out on her bed. Imagine how I felt when he sent pics of him
shooting cum on her photos! (BTW – that was the first time anyone sent me a
“tribute”) The final set was of her sleeping in bed topless.
When that didn't entice me to meet him, he told me about this swinger group that
he was involved in, supposedly without his wife knowing. He sent me pics of him
having group sex and indeed, it was the same guy in the father-daughter pics he
was sending me from the start so they were obviously him. They weren’t exactly
the sexiest looking people but it was the idea that he would share such things
with me that made them interesting.
Things eventually ended when he realized I was never going to meet him (even
though I had told him that from the beginning). Then I found his daughter’s
MySpace page and became her “friend”. She was a little surprised at some of the
things I knew about her. I never told her about her father’s thoughts and
actions but I did hint just a bit that she might want to talk to him sometime.
When he found out what I was doing, I think it scared him silly and we never
made contact again. Oh, his daughter’s MySpace page was deleted as well!
What would you have done? Would you have driven by his house to confirm who he
was? Would you have watched his daughter in the parade? Would you have become
her friend on MySpace? Would you have met him being he was only a few miles
away from where I was going to school at the time?
Chapter 8 - Incest Family
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This one is a bit different from the rest so far since I don’t think the person
was real but it still brings up an interesting ethical dilemma. You can read
more about this in the Friends section of my website under the Robertson Family.
Here is what you might say is the story behind the story.
I was contacted by a person claiming to be a mother interested in having sex
with her teenage son and daughter. We never did anything but trade e-mails – no
pics, cams, or anything personal. Over time, her daughter e-mailed me. I won’t
repeat everything that is already posted so to make a long story short, over
time the father got involved and the parents and kids had sex.
From the very beginning I had my doubts. The daughter was suppose to be
fourteen but wrote with the same style and syntax as her mother – even the same
common spelling and grammar errors. Over time she supposedly had sex with her
brother at school after talking about it with me and was caught. That ended my
so-called relationship with the family.
So what was the ethical dilemma? Well, I have a firm rule against chatting with
underage kids. It’s not that I don't like kids – I AM an elementary school
teacher after all. It’s just that there’s a HUGE difference between a teacher-
student relationship and discussing incestual sex. I simply have no interest in
talk with kids about sexual subjects and in any case, it’s a huge legal
liability. So why was I chatting with fourteen year-old “Lisa”? Simply put, I
never believed she was real at the time and to this day, I am convinced all of
the character who wrote me from that “family” were from one person – probably
some guy judging from the nature of the discussions. I don't believe for an
instant anything happened in school but rather that it was a way for whoever was
writing me to extricate themselves from the conversation without having to admit
who he really was.
So what would you have done? Even if you didn’t believe the person was an
underage kid, would you have ended the conversation when they claimed they were?
How do you feel about discussing incest with someone who is pretending to be a
mother of two teens?
Chapter 9 - Horny Wife and Mother
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“Shannon” was an interesting case. Like the “Robertson Family” mentioned above,
she is also in my Friends section of my website so I won’t go into a lot of
detail here about what we did but instead focus on WHY.
Shannon was an overweight wife and mother of two preteen kids. She wasn’t
interested in incest and was actually quite protective of her kids so there was
never anything untoward about her and them. She was actually the opposite of
most people who contact me. In his case it was the WIFE who was unhappy with
sex with her husband.
What made Shannon especially different is she wasn’t just interested in spicing
up her sex life with some guy she knew back in high school, but she also got
involved with a sixteen year-old boy she met ion the Internet – Billy Cluderay.
First a word about the Cluderay family (also in my Friend’s section). This was
another case where a mother contacted me about wanting to have sex with her
kids. To this day I have no idea if anything she told me was true, or even if
she was who she claimed to be. I haven’t heard from her now in ages so I guess
it will just be one of those things that I am left to wonder about.
The point is that Shannon started to chat and e-mail the sixteen year-old son
without knowing for sure he even existed, let alone be who he said he was. I
was copied in on most of it by the mother (supposedly) which always seems a
little strange to me. It was a bit voyeuristic for me to follow along as
Shannon and I also communicated at the same time. While she sent me some family
photos, I was shocked when she started to send “Billy” more and more revealing
photos of her, until eventually she was nude and fingering herself for him.
Everything got quite complicated so I'll just sum it up by saying I haven’t
heard from Shannon (or the Cluderay family members) in ages. I think she got a
divorce from her husband and ended up losing weight and having a number of
liaisons with old boyfriends and even a few teenage boys (but never “Billy”).
As for the Cluderay’s, I think they are another version of the Robertson Family,
a series of figures that are really all one person. I DO admit to being curious
who it is and why they do it.
This was interesting in that I believe Shannon is really the person she claimed
to be. I was able to verify a lot about her in ways I won’t mention here but it
was enough to convince me that SHE existed. The question I will always have is
was her STORY real? Did any of the things she said happened to her really
happen? I know she took those photos for Billy but that didn't mean she was
doing the things she said she was. I have to admit I’m curious and would love
to know what the full story was.
So what would you have done? Would you have shared your doubts about Billy and
his family with her before she started sending photos of herself that could
someday come back to haunt her? Would you have tried to stay in touch with her?
Would you have believed her stories? Was it right for me to post everything on
my website? Initially I had her permission but she has since asked for it to be
removed. I keep it up as all the revealing personal information was deleted so
it may as well be fiction so far as she goes.
Chapter 10 - E-Mail Privacy
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I can’t say how many places on my website that I warn people about my privacy
policy. Anyone reading my site has got to see where I post the things people
send me. NONE of the people who send me things were solicited by me and first
contact was ALWAYS initiated by them.
Why do I post personal information? Because I believe people should be
responsible for what they do on the Internet. If they send something to me,
someone they really have no idea who I really am or anything about me, then they
shouldn’t complain that it appears on my website. It’s not like I am their ex-
girlfriend seeking revenge. I just hate people who want to be outrageous but
stay anonymous.
All someone has to do is sign up for one of a multitude of free e-mail services
and get an address to use for when they play on-line. Suing your personal or
work e-mail address is stupid and if nothing else, I hope they learn that lesson
from me rather than something that could hurt them.
So what would you do? Would you strip the personal information from everything
you post? Would you removed things from your website if the person asked you to
later? Do you think people should be responsible for what they do on-line?
Chapter 11 - Husband’s Tributes
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It never ceases to amaze me how many men out there are married and gripe about
their wife’s lack of sex drive or otherwise unhappiness with his sex life. In
this case, he was interested in the “tributes”: I use to post on my web site
where guys would take a picture of someone and then masturbate to it, covering
it with cum and then sending me a photo of the results – preferably with their
erect dick in the pic as well. Usually these guys used a pic of me or someone
in my family but some of them would do it to photos of their wives or even their
daughters.
This particular husband decided that doing tributes using photos of his wife was
somehow “revenge” for her gaining weight and not taking care of his sexual
needs. Lots of guys actually have done that for me but he went another step
beyond by cumming on her clothes, jewelry, even her shoes. Sometimes he would
send me a pic of her wearing an outfit or jewelry and then send me another photo
of him covering that blouse, dress or necklace in his cum!
Had it been once or twice it would have been erotic but nothing all that
unusual. However, this guys went on for months, covering her lingerie, dresses,
photos and just about anything I could think of to suggest to him.
Eventually I think it sank into him what he was doing and he quit and I never
heard from him again. Still, was it right for me to encourage him to do these
things to his wife’s personal things?
Chapter 12 - Unfaithful Husband
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I am always worried about my personal privacy and in many cases people get upset
with me when I don’t reveal what they want to know. What surprises me is how
many guys are willing to share their most intimate personal secrets AND their
true identity with me when in reality they know nothing about me. In some
cases it’s by accident but they should have been more careful.
This guy tried to be secret but he sent me a lot of family pics, not realizing
that some of them were from situations where people wore name tags and so I was
able to blow up the pics and get the real names. It doesn't take much when you
know a name and general location to find their address and phone number and all
sorts of other things.
Along with being upset with his wife’s lack of sexual drive, he told me about
his incestuous desires for his daughter who was living away from home now. He
often would chat with me and tell me in detail his fantasies of how he wanted to
fuck his daughter. In doing so he would express even more frustration with his
wife, claiming she was the obstacle that prevented him from realizing his dreams
with his daughter when she was younger.
In addition to his incestual desires, he also lusted for a couple of women he
worked with and went to church with, sending me photos of them together in
public situations. Again, he would often chat with me and tell me in graphic
detail his desires for them.
In another case of “revenge”, he would send me photos of his wife that he
sneaked where she was nude, one even of her touching herself when she was drunk.
Then he started sending me tributes where he would cum on her lingerie and bras
which he would drape over pics of me while he took pictures in the mirror of
what he was doing. In one case he even took a picture of her with some flowers
she received from a “secret pal” at church, followed later by him masturbating
and cumming on those same flowers along with a photo of one of the women he
lusted for behind them.
Besides al the personal information I knew about him and his family, what made
him unique was that he had a FaceBook page with his daughter as friend. I
invited her to be my friend and in doing so learned even more about her. One of
those things I learned was the identify of the neighbor women who lived across
the street from him. I added her as a friend and we started to have
“interesting” conversations. As it turned out, she was cheating on her husband!
The guy I was chatting with lusted for her but never knew the details that I
shared with him. I sent some photos of her from her FaceBook page which he
returned with him cumming all over her, with his wife’s bra draped around the
neighbor’s photo!
Was I right to encourage his incestuous and adulterous fantasies? In some ways
I felt guilty yet in other ways I felt it was his problem, not mine. There were
times I was tempted to send that tribute of him cumming on his neighbor with his
wife’s bra acting as a “frame”. What would she have said? Of course I never
did but the idea was pretty erotic! What would his daughter have said if I e-
mailed her the transcript of my chats with her dad where he went on in the
greatest of detail about what he wanted to do to her? What would his wife have
said had she opened the mail one day to find photos of herself naked and
masturbating, along with photos of her husband cumming on her clothing and on
photos of other women, including a women from their church? Did he “deserve”
any of this for being so foolish?
Chapter 13 - How Far to Go For a Job?
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I would be the first to admit that I have often used sex to manipulate people,
particularly men, to get the things I want. Before saying about me though, what
girl doesn’t? From the time her boobs start to grow and her legs and hips start
to fill out, every girls knows that all it takes is a sly smile and an innocent
flash to get about anything she wants Some girls take more advantage of this
“gift” than others and I’ve always had a tendency to lean towards the far end of
the “use what your momma gave you” spectrum. The key thing from my point of
view is that it is ME determining what I want and how far I’m willing to go to
get it. All this said, there are also those times when I like to be able to do
something without relying on sex. It’s sort of a pride/ego thing to be able to
accomplish something without relying on sex as a crutch.
When it comes to NOT using sex as an aid, one area that stands out for me is my
career as a teacher. I’ve earned my way thus far based on hard work and
intelligence, not by showing off my ass. I graduated from a tough college with
an outstanding GPA and never once blew a teacher or even flirted with one. OK,
so I had a few guys who help me study in exchange for a BJ or whatever, but I
enjoyed it just as much as they did. The day I received my diploma was one of
the proudest days of my life. My goal is that my teaching career will continue
to follow this path. In honor of full-disclosure, here was also an element of
not wanting to have anything hanging over my head that can come back to haunt me
years later in my career.
Last year I was thrilled when I got my first teaching position. It was a low-
paying, temporary position at a small Christian school but I was a REAL teacher
and that’s what was important. Imagine how crushed I was when I was forced to
resign when someone revealed things about my personal life to the school
administrator that I would have preferred he never know about. In this case it
wasn’t sex that GOT me the job, but rather it was sex that LOST me the job.
When the administrator had to retire for medical reasons, I was thrilled to find
out that the new one was willing to hire me back. Naturally I assumed he hadn’t
been informed as to the real reason I had to resign the previous year.
As it turned out, he knew everything but instead of using it to not hire me, he
used it to satisfy his needs by making sex with him a prerequisite for the job.
I could have said no and walked out, but getting another position without a good
reference from my previous position would be difficult at best. So I agreed to
his demands, assuming it would end once the “interview” process was over.
Events afterwards have me concerned that I may have been wrong in my
assumptions. Now I am worried that he may make this an on-going requirement for
me to keep my job. Of course I could easily ruin his career and marriage by
turning him in, but that would be like mutual assured destruction, crippling my
career and possibly leading to even more widespread problems for my family.
So what would you have done – and what would you do in the future? Would you
have let him fuck you if you thought that was all you had to do to get your
dream job? Would you stand up for yourself now and say no, even if it meant you
would lose your teaching career? Would you expose him for what he was doing,
assuring that your own career would be ruined for life as well?
Chapter 14 - Dad Wants His Daughter & Her Friends
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Maybe one of the most controversial guys that I posted on my now defunct website
was Craig. Once again, I was amazed at hw someone could divulge so much
personal information about themselves and their families to a total stranger.
He didn't intend to at tee start, but over time he made slips and sent me photos
that told more than he realized. For instance, I asked him to take photos of
his daughter’s bedroom and personal things for me. She had just graduated from
8th grade and he claimed to want to have sex with her as well as several of her
hot friends. Some of those pics had books and personal belongings with her name
on them, including the school she went to! It didn't take much research to find
out their identities and once he realized I knew who he was he opened up with
everything.
Perhaps what surprised me the most was him giving me access to her FaceBook and
e-mail accounts. I had her user names and passwords! I knew it was her actual
accounts because there was simply too much stuff there to be faked. I even had
access to her cell phone bills and thus her phone records! I would send him e-
mails from her account, posing as her and asking him for sex. It turned him on
but the idiot once replied to the wrong address! Fortunately for him I caught
it and deleted it from her inbox before she saw it. Even after that close call
he continued though.
Craig was a prolific photo taker and tribute maker. He would spread out his
daughter’s bras and panties all over her bed and then take photos of them and
then with him laying her bed masturbating with the underwear. He took pics of
her around the house in poses and clothes that I doubt she would have
appreciated knowing he was sending them to another girl he’d never met. She
would have undoubtedly been grossed out of she knew her dad had even shot cum
all over her computer keyboard while a photo of her and her friends in their
bikinis was up on the screen.
Over time he sent me dozens of tributes to his daughter and her friends along
with a number of detailed stories about how her felt about them and what he
wanted to do with them. Like most guys, he eventually must have realized how
stupid he was being and how this could all backfire on him so he went away and I
never heard from him again.
Was I right to encourage him to do these things with his daughter’s personal
clothing and belongings? With my access to her FaceBook page, what would have
happened if I had posted her dad’s tributes to her and her bras in an album for
all her friends to see? What if her email had a copy of the stories he would
write to me telling me his incestuous desires for her? What if I had sent an
email to one of her friends using her email account, with a copy of her dad’s
dick cumming on her friend’s photo attached?
Chapter 15 - Postlude
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So that’s it for now. These are just a few of the many ethical dilemmas I have
had to face over the years. So please write me and tell me how you would have
handled them if you had been me at the time. Not that it will change the past,
but I would be interested to know how people feel I have handled these
situations and perhaps learn better how to deal with them in the future.
THE END
Ethical Dilemmas