Subject: Common Myths and Misconceptions
Author: Kelly <pghpa_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary:
Since I started talking to people on-line and doing my web site, I’ve e-mailed,
chatted and communicated with thousands of people. Over time certain trends
appear. When I find I am getting asked the same question over and over, I add
it to my Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). I also find a number of
misconceptions and myths seem to come up time after time. I decided to add this
article to address some of the ones I hear the most.
Did I miss anything? Please write me if you have any suggestions for myths to
be added here.
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MYTH: All girls love to suck cock.
TRUTH: Key word... “all”. I would hope that most guys realize that outside of
porn movies and stories, a lot of girls actually don't like to suck a guy’s
dick. Many that DO suck cock aren’t really into it so much as they do it just
to please their guy. (Hence all the jokes about how blowjobs stop after
marriage.) Personally, I don’t understand why anyone would NOT want to suck
cock, at least in general. Sure there are guys whose hygiene sucks and such but
then that’s no different than deciding to have sex with them and really nothing
to do with sucking dick. My only comment is that guys should find out the truth
about their girl’s REAL preference and decide to either live with it or not –
and NOT think they are going to change her mind later.
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MYTH: I know my flirty teen daughter wants me to fuck her but she’s just too
shy to say so.
TRUTH: I’ve discussed incest in a number of articles so without repeating it all
here again, I'll just summarize it by saying that while a number of girls I’ve
know have expressed a desire to have a sexual relationship with their fathers,
almost none of them ever acted on those desires. That said, almost ALL the
girls I’ve known want a “relationship” with their dad which does NOT involve sex
but her actions can easily be misunderstood by a horny father. If your daughter
is flirting and teasing, it’s almost certain that she is doing it because she
trusts you NOT to react like her boyfriends or the pervert neighbor next door.
While I believe that incest can lead to a wonderful and fulfilling bond between
a father and daughter, in 99.99% of families the infrastructure and support
system necessary for incest to be successful simply isn’t there. My general
rule is simple: If you have to ask if your daughter wants sex with you, she
doesn’t.
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MYTH: Guys are just as good at girls when it comes to giving me oral sex.
TRUTH: Sorry but the average guy simply doesn’t have the same oral skills as the
average woman. Granted, there are some pretty good guys out there that would
beat most girls, but even they don't get first prize. Face it, not all girls
give good oral either but at least when they try, they have some idea of what I
want. Sex for me is 80% emotional so there HAVE been times when I’ve truly
enjoyed a guy eating me out but it wasn't necessarily because of his physical
expertise. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE a guy to lick my pussy. I’m just
referring to who physically does it best on average and there’s nothing that
beats another girl when it comes to someone eating my pussy!
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MYTH: Size doesn’t really matter.
TRUTH: Obviously coined by some guy with a small dick. Well duh, of course it
does but just not the way people usually mean it when they refer to the
implications of a the size of a guy’s dick. First, there’s nothing great about
an extremely little dick, sorry for you 3-4 inchers out there. Heck, those are
barely long enough to get in me and they’re constantly slipping out as soon as
things get going. Even oral sex isn’t all that thrilling when the whole
thing fits in my mouth so easily that I barely feel like I have a mouthful. At
the other end of the spectrum are the so called “wonder cocks”, those I would
generally classify as longer than 7-8 inches. A girl’s pussy is NOT and
unending tunnel. While some girls may get off feeling a dick pressing against
their cervix, most that I know (including me) find it uncomfortable to say the
least. When it comes to sucking, deep-throating is fun but not when it feels
like he’s down to your stomach. Worst of all, I find most extra-long cocks just
don't get as hard, more like firm sausages than steel pipes. Personally, I like
dicks to be HARD when they’re inside of me. Overall, give me a 5-7 inch dick
any day and I’m happy. Make it a FAT one at the same time and I’m in heaven. So
yes, size matters but not in the way most guys think.
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MYTH: A girl will eventually enjoy it when she is being raped.
TRUTH: OMG, if there is one thing that infuriates me more than anything, it’s
the idea that somehow a girl WANTS to be raped. OK, I'll admit that sometimes I
an enjoy a well-written “non-consensual” story, but I know the difference
between fantasy and reality. I’ve known women that have been raped and not a
single one has told me they were the least bit sexually excited at any time
during their ordeal. If anything, it was just the opposite and many women
suffer long-term effects to where they can’t even enjoy normal sex afterwards
due to the lingering memories of their rape. PLEASE remember when you read such
stories or watch porn that in real life, this NEVER happens and rapists should
have the book thrown at them.
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MYTH: Girls who dress slutty are asking for it.
TRUTH: Why can’t guys just enjoy the view and get over it? Would you rather a
hot chick dress up in Amish clothes and hide everything from you? Why not thank
her for at least letting you get a good view of what Mother Nature (and maybe
her plastic surgeon) gave her? Girls dress slutty because they look good and
they know it (at least in most cases they look good) and they like to show off.
It’s no different than a guy who spends his life working out in a gym and then
shows off his body wearing muscle shirts. Nobody says these guys are out asking
for sex (at least no more than every other guy) so why say such things about
girls who dress provocatively? If only men knew how much work went into some of
those bodies they might appreciate them all the more!
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MYTH: Masturbation is for people who don't get enough sex.
TRUTH: Anyone who knows me at all knows I LOVE to masturbate and there is
absolutely no correlation between how often I have sex versus how much I
masturbate other than perhaps scheduling conflicts. One activity simply has
nothing to do with the other! I do both because I love to do both, not because
I prefer one over the other. Maybe it’s different for guys since they can’t
have sex and then masturbate right away, I don't know. As for me, it’s not
uncommon at all for me to masturbate immediately after sex, especially if it’s
been with one of those guys who conk out after cumming. Guys, stop worrying
about how much a girl masturbates as if it’s some reflection on your
masculinity. It has nothing to do with you!
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MYTH: All girls like to have sex with other girls.
TRUTH: Another male fantasy. Do I really have to even address this one? A lot
of girls simply are more than happy being with just men so having sex with
another woman is simply not for them, and may even repulse them. Don’t think
because most girls like to dance together or have sleepovers and play silly
Truth or Dare games that it means they want to have sex with each other – quite
the opposite in my experience. Of course, when you hang around with some of the
crowds I do a lot of the girls to be bi or even lesbian, but that’s not exactly
a fair sample of the female population.
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MYTH: Girls in bars are looking to be picked up.
TRUTH: Unless you’re talking about the single girl at the bar who’s more than
likely either a prostitute or a policewoman, I would disagree strongly with this
premise. In fact, I would go so far as to claim just the opposite was true.
When I go to a bar with some friends, it’s usually to have a good time with
THEM, not to get picked up by some horny guy. OK, so maybe you’ll get lucky now
and then but think about it from a girl’s perspective – would YOU date most of
the guys who hang out in bars molesting the women? Personally, I recommend that
guys get involved in their local church if they really want to meet women. It’s
also one of the best places to meet guys as well if that’s your goal –
especially married ones!
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MYTH: Hot guys attract hot girls.
TRUTH: First, forget all about high school with the jocks and cheerleaders.
Also, let’s not consider the Hollywood crowd or supermodels. In all of these
cases ego is the driving force more than anything else. For these type of
people, it’s more about who sees them with someone else than who they are with.
As for the rest of the world, it’s just common sense if you think about it.
Ever see a good looking girl with some old guy or nerd and wonder what in the
world she see in him? And don't say it’s because he has a huge dick either.
All I can say it treat a girl nice if you want to fuck her. Once your naked, a
dick’s pretty much a dick 90% of the time so it’s the guy wielding it that
matters – and I’m not talking about his pecs or six pack. Make her feel pretty,
loved, and secure. Remember that for most women, 80% of sex is all in the mind.
If you’re only a five out of ten in looks, you’re still way ahead of the self-
absorbed guy who ranks low on the emotional scale!
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MYTH: If she says no, it just means she wants you to work harder for it.
TRUTH: I hate to even give this question the respect of a decent answer. Guys,
“no” means ”NO”. Period. End of story. No excuses. And it doesn’t matter how
she dresses or acts. No means no - got it?
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MYTH: Young girls and boys love sex.
TRUTH: When I say “young”, I am referring to someone whose age is a single
digit. Even if a young girl can be physically stimulated, it doesn't mean she
likes SEX, it only means she likes to be touched. For a young girl, touching
her chest and crotch is no different than touching her back in that she probably
enjoys the feeling of being touched all of those places. My parents use to
scratch my back at night when I was little and I loved it, often putting me
asleep on those nights when I was having problems getting to sleep. They could
probably have fondled my pussy and chest with the same results but that wouldn't
have been proper. A girl needs to learn to respect her body and to expect
others to respect it as well if she is ever going to be comfortable with herself
later in life. If there is one crime I place even more depraved than rape, it
would be child molestation and nobody can tell me that a young girl or boy can
truly consent to have sex. Sex with a young boy or girl is molestation –
period. What they do when get a little older is a totally different issue which
I won’t address here other than to say that sex under between a minor and an
adult is almost always wrong. The only exception I would make would be in
situations involving incest and even then it has to be carefully considered. I
have written a number of other articles about incest and underage sex so I'll
finish by just saying in general, do NOT have sex with underage kids.
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MYTH: Slut or whore? It doesn’t matter what you call her, it’s the same thing.
TRUTH: This one I take very personally. I am NOT a whore, never have been,
never will be. If you want to offend me and make me furious, call me whore. I
don’t even care for it in jest or role-playing although I'll put up with it if
I’m horny enough. Am I a slut? Absolutely – and proud of it. So what’s the
difference? Well, a whore sells her body for money to any man willing to pay up
for the sole purpose of earning money. In comparison, a slut uses her “assets”
to get the things she wants from the guys she wants them from under the
circumstances she dictates. Another way to look at it more simply is a whore
lets men use her body to make money while a slut uses her body to make men give
her what she wants – which is almost always something other than money. So feel
free to call me a slut – I'll take it as a compliment, but NEVER call me whore.
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MYTH: Guys like porn more than girls
TRUTH: Semantics comes into play here. If you mean guys like the most common
porn more than girls, then this is true and not a myth. Face it, most porn is
designed with the male market in line. No matter what the guy looks like or how
he acts, the most beautiful babes are there to do his bidding and fling
themselves at him. However, if you compare porn that appeals to girls with porn
that appeals to men, I think girls like their porn just as much as the guys do.
If by “like”, you mean “masturbate”, then it’s probably true that guys jerk off
a LOT more than girls do when they watch porn. For girls, it’s more they think
about it later when they are in bed alone and masturbate. It’s not so much the
porn alone but the ideas and thoughts that come from having watched it that turn
a girl on. So maybe this is true overall but I just wanted to bring it up to be
able to say that girls enjoy porn too – it just has to be written for them and
give them time to digest it afterwards if you want them to be all hot and
bothered because of it.
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MYTH: Dildos make good substitutes for dicks.
TRUTH: I suppose for someone starving on a deserted island a can of Spam
floating ashore would seem to taste better than a steak dinner. However, seat
yourself in an expensive steak house and put Spam on the menu next to the surf
and turf and do you think anyone would want the Spam? Well, dildos are like
Spam – in lieu of the real thing they can be great but given the choice between
being fucked by a dildo or a hard dick, I can’t see many girls opting for the
dildo!
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MYTH: Girls love it when men cum all over them.
TRUTH: Well, I suppose if the only place you got your information from was porn
sites, then you’d probably be convinced this had to be true. After all, don’t
99% of the whores on the web beg for men to cum on their faces and boobs? Now
let’s ask the guys in the real world how many women beg them to cum on their
face and boobs – I bet hardly any would claim it happens. Like anything else,
I’m sure there are a limited number of women who get off from it, just as there
are women who like to eat shit and who knows what else. I don't mean to compare
the two but just to make the point, there are people who will say they like
about anything but that doesn’t mean it’s predominantly that way.
If a woman is having unprotected sex, she may ask for him to cum on her more to
keep from getting pregnant than because that’s what she wants. Some girls hate
the taste of cum so they have to “volunteer’ for a facial of avoid the guy
cumming in their mouth. Just because a girl has to pick the better of two evils
doesn't make the act positive. Assuming it is safe, most women I know prefer
cum in the place it was meant to be – in their pussies. After that, cumming in
their mouths although I know a lot of women who won’t swallow it.
I let men cum on my face and body only because I want to please THEM, not
because that’s what I want for ME. It’s like wearing heels – who in their
right mind would wear them if nobody was looking at you? Girls do lots of
things for men, and letting them cum on their faces and bodies is just one of
many. It doesn’t mean they love it though!
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MYTH: A girl can always feel when a man is cumming in her pussy.
TRUTH: The key word was “always”. In my experience I would say that I know at
least 90% of the time when man is cumming but maybe half of those times it’s
not because I feel his cum, per se, it’s all the other signals he’s given me.
At the top of the list, of course, is him announcing it. Then there is the
rhythm and force of his strokes that almost always changes dramatically when he
starts to cum. Most men will stop stroking and plunge deep into me and hold
themselves there while they cum. Sometimes, especially when I am sucking cock,
I can actually feel the shaft swell a little just as he is about to cum but
that’s hard to feel in your pussy but it happens now and then. To actually FEEL
his cum in me depends on a lot of things – how horny I am, how much he cums,
where he releases inside of me (near the entrance, deep in me, and so forth).
It seems the times when I most enjoy sex are also the times when I can feel the
subtle warmth of his sperm in me so maybe there’s a correlation somewhere there.
Sometimes the most obvious evidence is when he pulls out and it spills out of me
and drains down to my ass or on the bed or on my thighs or even my feet.
Overall, I guess you could say I can almost tell when he cums, even if I don't
actually FEEL the cum itself in me at that moment
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MYTH: Don’t worry, I'll keep your cam/e-mail/pics private.
TRUTH: First of all, NOTHING you do on the Internet is private. As much as I
work to maintain my privacy, I am fully aware that if the authorities wanted to
know who I am, they could track me down to the addresses of the computers I use
in minutes. EVERYTHING posted on the Internet is stored somewhere, you just
have to know where to find it. I have seen websites where even my old web pages
from years past when I charged for access are archived – quite a shock and one
of the reasons I closed that site and now am more careful about what I post.
Cams can be copied with a few simple key strokes. I mentioned this to a guy who
was masturbating for me on night on his cam. He didn't believe me until I
mailed him a copy of his dick as he stroked it. The cam suddenly turned off and
I never heard from him again! If I ever cammed for someone, who is to say my
pics wouldn't be scattered on the Internet that very night – permanently! Oh
sure, everyone says they would never do such a thing. Yeah right, and this
won’t hurt... maybe 99% of them are honorable but it only takes one!
I use to laugh when people complained that I posted their emails. Not because
they complained but because they were so naïve. Like their mail wasn’t already
being stored on umpteen mail servers around the globe. Trust me, someone
somewhere has a copy of every e-mail you’ve ever sent. Probably nobody will
ever look at them but still, someone has them “just in case”...
Am I being paranoid? Hell yes! And for good reason. As I once heard, “I
wouldn't be paranoid if everyone wasn’t out to get me.”
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MYTH: “I’m sure she’s real.”
TRUTH: Just because someone says they are somebody doesn’t mean they are. Even
if you talk to them on the phone, exchange photos with personal messages, or see
them on their web cam, it only confirms they are WHAT they are, not WHO. Anyone
who plans to meet someone without doing all three of these things as a START is
not only naïve, but downright stupid.
Of all the people I’ve been in contact over the years, I would estimate NONE of
the ones who claim to be underage are really kids, maybe 10% of the people who
claim to be women are even female, maybe 20% of the so-called couples are
actually two people, and probably none of the people who claim to engage in
incest actually do. So if you think that hot girl who claims she wants to meet
you and fuck you is really who she says she is, you deserve to lose your wallet
when you meet them! OK, I’ve heard of a few case where people have met through
the Internet and CLAIM to have had a good relationship, including sex, but I
discount a lot of those stories too.
Maybe I’ve become too cynical but these days I assume by default that anyone
who contacts me is not telling the truth. It may be a small fib or a complete
lie but whatever it is I just don't worry about it. Like who cares? It’s not
like I’m looking for people to meet. Now if someone wants to get more personal
with me, then I start looking closer to see whether or not they’re real. Of
course, I could demand a phone call or other positive means of identification
but then people would say to me, “But Kelly, YOU don’t do any of these things
yourself so how do we know YOU are real?” The answer to that one is simple, you
don’t and you never will know for sure whether or not I am who I say I am. All
I can say is look at my record and history and what does it tell you? However,
given my attitude about my own privacy I can’t expect others to treat me any
different so for me it becomes a bit of a detective game.
Given the limitations I have to work under, my determination of who is real
versus fake depends more on analyzing everything I can get from them and look at
the big picture. Over time you get to recognize patterns. “Girls” who chat and
the first words are “Do you have any pics” are almost always guys. When I had a
bunch of so-called underage girls all writing me e-mails with the same typos,
the same grammar style, the same punctuation errors, and the same overall
writing style that was years ahead of their ages, I sort of got the idea they
weren’t who they say they were! When people want to exchange pics with me and
they have maybe two or three photos and all of them are nudes, they are fake.
Just one family pic? – fake. Nothing BUT nude pics? – fake. You can also tell
a lot from a photo that the person may not have intended if you look close.
Someone claiming to be from California with an electric socket in the background
from Europe is an obvious fake. I had someone claim to be from Europe but the
pics of her “kids” were from a school in the US and the photos of them at school
matched some of the buildings on the school web site – a dumb fake. People also
forget that many photos have the camera and date information stored with them
which often conflict with what they say they are and when the pic was taken.
Overall, I would say that there have been less than a dozen people that I’ve met
since getting on-line over six years ago that I believe have been honest with
me. Some of them might be surprised to know how much I really know about them!
It’s not that I’m stalking them and I would never expose them to their spouses,
churches or schools. What would be the point as it’s just a game for me? I
guess you could say I get my satisfaction from the hunt, not from killing my
“prey” once I’ve identified them. Besides, I don't need people coming back for
revenge on me after I’ve ruined their lives!
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MYTH: Girls love sexy clothes.
TRUTH: If this had read, “Girls love TO BE SEEN WEARING sexy clothes,” then I
would agree but as written, it’s pretty much a myth. In general, the sexier the
lingerie, the more irritating and annoying it becomes to wear. Something as
simple as pantyhose, the bane of almost every woman in America, would be banned
if it didn't make their legs look better. Just ask your wife or girlfriend if
she would wear pantyhose if she knew for 100% certainty that nobody would see
her. If she says she would wear them to keep warm, then ask why she wouldn’t be
wearing pants if nobody was going to see her.
Thongs are like running around with a permanent wedgie up your ass yet we all
wear them because they show off our asses! Push up bras make your boobs hurt
but we wear them because they make our busts look bigger. High heels make it
hard to walk and kill your feet but we love them because they make us taller but
mostly because they tighten our legs and asses. Ever try to sit down in a tight
short skirt? It’s a pain but we put up with it because we want men to see our
legs.
Next time your girlfriend or wife wears something sexy, don't think you are
doing her any favors by making her wear it any longer than necessary. Trust me,
odds are she wants it off as badly as you want her to take it off!
THE END
Common Myths and Misconceptions