## Archive-name: G-spot.Manual

From: jfriday@ada.stat.uga.edu (Paul Stacy)

Subject: ARCHIVE: G-spot manual

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Path: athena.cs.uga.edu!emory!swrinde!cs.utexas.edu!utgpu!gregh From: gregh@gpu.utcs.utoronto.ca (G. Hurtault) Newsgroups: alt.sex Subject: RE-POST: G-SPOT MANUAL Message-ID: <1991Jul22.101652.25205@gpu.utcs.utoronto.ca> Date: 22 Jul 91 10:16:52 GMT Followup-To: Many requests or it!!! Organization: University of Toronto Computing Services

Please keep in mind that this is the copy that I received, if there is another version, post it. Enjoy as it makes interesting reading!
Greg

Here is a collectin of what I have on this topic. i think it includes the In article <1991Mar16.003405.1@happy.colorado.edu> sesharp@happy.colorado.edu wr >Due to mailer difficulties, I have been unable to respond to an email >question about G-spot stimulation. While I am sure the subject has been >discussed here before, I thought it wouldn't hurt to do so again for >the benefit of newcomers. > >I personally maintain some skepticism about some of the G-spot research, >but since there is certainly some sensitivity in the general area in >many women, it is worth trying.

Try it, try it! Trust me, it's there in some of us, at least...:-)

>I'll leave out the scientific theories and just give some prac- tical >information. The female urethra runs along the front/top side of the >vagina, between it and the pubic bone. In many women it is sensitive to >firm strokes from inside the vagina which press it up against the pubic >bone. The G-spot is supposed to be tissue surrounding the urethra, >about 1 1/2 to 2 inches inside.

I think my G-spot is past the urethra by at least an inch... (could be wrong...) about 2 or 2-1/2 inches or so from the entrance to my vagina.

>It is about the size of a button and may swell enough under >stimulation or after orgasm to be noticable to the fingers.

My SO says it is very definite. I only know that it is incredi- ble...

>The same kind of firm caresses described above are used >to stimulate it. If she finds that this makes her feel like she >needs to urinate, lighten up the pressure. It may not work very well >unless the woman is near orgasm already.

Well, it can work, but it might not be as *obvious* to the person who is trying to locate it. If you wait until the woman is at least "on her way", it will be much easier for you to find, and for her to know that you've found it, and whether she likes it. Supposedly, once you've found it, it is pretty obvious to you (on that woman, anyway); but until you have, there is a lot of hunt- ing ("Feel anything?"

"Well, it feels good, but then it all feels good..." [later on...] "Um, yeah, uh...uh...ohmygod, *Yeah*, keep doing *THAT*..." etc.) that goes on. Don't give up the hunt! :-)

>If her clitoris becomes hypersensitive after orgasms so that you >can't stimulate it further, you may find that this kind of internal >stimulation still works and can produce further orgasms. Many women >apparently find that G-spot stimulation produces a more powerful kind >of orgasm than other types of stimulation. ^^^^ ^^^^^^^^

Uh, that would be "yes". Like, such that one can not support oneself on one's legs for some time afterward, like that one wants to scream during the event, like that one is unable to think clearly during and afterward, etc. I'd say this is a positive vote. :-)^20

I've found that it is the best when combined with clitoral stimulation, or when we alternate between the two. Sometimes I will masturbate while my SO works the g-spot...incredible.

>Some supposedly produce a thin clear fluid that is emitted from the >urethra. I have seen supporting evidence for some of this. >Intercourse positions that produce a high angle of penetration that >presses the penis against the urethra are another way of stimu- lating >this area. The variant on missionary with the woman's heels on the >man's shoulders is an example.

Yes, this sort of position (with manual stimulation, anyway; haven't tried this in intercourse...) is rather effective for all parties involved...I think basically (comments?) because it provides a better angle for the one doing the stimulating.

>I am relatively new to the newsgroup and there have apparently been >discussions of the G-spot in the past. I suspect that some people claim to >have found it while others haven't. If anyone has seen such a discussion >and would care to post a summary, it would be helpful.

Someone... I want to say the name was Lindsay/Lindsey something- or-other...posted a very long, good article on G-spot location/locating, a few months back. If anyone has it saved, it might be a nice gesture to repost it (I didn't save it in my files; sorry I can't recall the name!)...had a diagram, various specific info, and all that. Very helpful. There have been other helpful articles at various points (I haven't read all the articles yet, tonight, so I'm guessing that some of them have been posted by now?).

Basic summary: It is there, in some of us; it is worth looking for; it can produce *amazing* results; etc. Go for it...:-) :-)

>Steven Sharp >sesharp@happy.colorado.edu

Later...

melissa@gargoyle.uchicago.edu "Well, I don't even *work* here!!"
"Every five years or so I look back on my life, and I have a good laugh..."
_Watershed_ , by Emily Saliers, 1/2 of Indigo Girls :-)

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>>If she finds that this makes her feel like she needs to uri- nate, lighten >>up the pressure.

Actually, if she can empty her bladder ahead of time, her feel- ing the need to urinate if a good indication that you are on the right spot. So if it's ok with her, you may not want to lighten up the pressure.

>>Some supposedly produce a thin clear fluid that is emitted from the urethra.

That's called female ejaculation. It can be the result of either clitoral or G-spot stimulation, or both.

For many women, the G-spot is asleep. So it can take stimulation over a period of time (by that I mean multiple sessions, not hours of stimulation in one session) to produce pleasurable sensations.

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usc!ucselx!bionet!snorkelwacker.mit.edu!stanford.edu!medisg.stanford.edu!buckar From: buckaroo@medisg.Stanford.EDU (Matthew N. Petach) Newsgroups: alt.sex Subject: Re: G-spot stimulation Message-ID: <1991Mar20.113300.9679@medisg.Stanford.EDU> Date: 20 Mar 91 11:33:00 GMT References: <1991Mar16.003405.1@happy.colorado.edu> <1366@gar- goyle.uchicago.edu> Distribution: na Organization: Stanford University School of Medicine Lines: 640

In article <1366@gargoyle.uchicago.edu> melissa@gargoyle.uchica- go.edu (Melissa W >In article <1991Mar16.003405.1@happy.colorado.edu> sesharp@happy.colorado.edu w >>I am relatively new to the newsgroup and there have apparently been >>discussions of the G-spot in the past. I suspect that some people claim to >>have found it while others haven't. If anyone has seen such a discussion >>and would care to post a summary, it would be helpful. > >Someone...I want to say the name was Lindsay/Lindsey something- or- >other...posted a very long, good article on G-spot >location/locating, a few months back. If anyone has it saved, it >might be a nice gesture to repost it (I didn't save it in my files; >sorry I can't recall the name!)...had a diagram, various specif- ic >info, and all that. Very helpful. There have been other help- ful >articles at various points (I haven't read all the articles yet, >tonight, so I'm guessing that some of them have been posted by now?). > >Basic summary: It is there, in some of us; it is worth looking for; >it can produce *amazing* results; etc. Go for it...:-) :-) > >>Steven Sharp >>sesharp@happy.colorado.edu > >Later... > >-- >melissa@gargoyle.uchicago.edu "Well, I don't even *work* h > "Every five years or so I look back on my life, and I have a good laugh..." > _Watershed_ , by Emily Saliers, 1/2 of Indigo Girls :-)

First off, a personal testimony to the existence of the g-spot; it _does_ exist, and BOY, does it get results! I still have scars on my legs from my SO's fingernails when I started pressing on it with my finger, using a firm, rocking motion, almost a finger-kneading motion last month. She apologized afterwards, but by then the wounds had dried and begun healing...(o.k., so maybe she could speak a *little* sooner than that, but not by much!)

And now on to the references in question....I just hope 50 mil- lion other people haven't already posted this to make me look like a fool!

Alaric Morgan Kestrel |buckaroo@med, mpetach@portia, m.mpetach@macbeth only four lines? ouch! | (all of the above are at .stanford.edu)

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The G-spot was the subject of many posts a month or two ago. I got some good info about this phenom, so I'll repost it here (in an attempt to avoid the consumption of bandwidth that will cer- tainly occur now that g-spots have been mentioned...). I have two good articles on the gspot. I have removed the names of the authors/posters.

Disclaimer: My employer is not responsible for the fact that I'm doing my best to spread pleasure in the world. At least, they may not approve of this subject matter.

Subject: Re: G wiz (aka g-spot aka Grafenberg spot)

G wiz aka g-spot aka Grafenberg spot If you believe this need posting, feel free.

Summary:
1) The g-spot exists in all women.
2) sensitivity varies.
3) Reaction/interpretation/openess varies.

G-spot IS female analog to prostate. It really does exist.

The road map (can by used by a man/woman with a woman partner or a woman on herself).

Start from the pubic bone, it is the bone running across the lower end of the abdominal region -- between the thighs and a little above the clitoris and labia. The g-spot is behind this bone -- so you need to find a way around to the other side. Fortunately, there is an alternate approach in women -- up the vagina. The walls of the vagina are somewhat wrinkly, a testimo- ny to how much the vagina can stretch (say to the size of a babies head). On the forward surface there is a smoother patch in about two knuckles (1.5-3 inches, 3.5-7 cm.). If a woman was to lay her palm on to of her clitoris and curl a finger (or fingers) in to the vagina in to a loose clench, the tips would be in the right region. The g-spot is buried under some layers of tissue so it may take some pressure to stimulate this area.

Repeating some general hints.

Arousal of the g-spot is usually more effective if the
woman is already sexully arroused.

Sharp or long nails are probably a no-no.
Some pressure may be necessary. Two fingers are usually
employeed -- esp. since few people use mechanical
typewriters (which would give fingers strength and endurance).

Initial sensations in thewoman may be a) discomfort, an urge
to urinate (the urethra from the bladder is being stimulated),
or a pleasurable sensation.

As stimulation contintues (few minutes), the g-spot will begin
to swell. "Continued stimulation of the area _may_ result in
an orgasm that is often quite intense." [see above regarding
being sexually aroused -- first. No arrousal -- no orgasm].

Ejaculation is possible, but the fluid is different from
vaginal secretions and from urine.

This does not work for all women. Discuss with your inti- mates.
Compare notes.

For some women, this area may receive stimulus in penile-vaginal intercourse given the right angles. Rear entry ("doggie style") may facilitate penile pressure in this region.

If the partner you are playing with is a man, you can try for a similar effect on his prostate entering through his anus -- Long or sharp nails are a big NO-NO. You might want to use glove or condom over fingers. I should not need to say: DO NOT allow fecal material on or around woman's vagina.

Note this can actually cause an ejaculation from a man without orgasm or an intense orgasm or something in between or nothing at all.

Practice safe sex. No exchange of bodily fluids -- blood, feces (which may contain blood), semen, or female ejaculum; unless you both have been monogamous....

Subject: g-spot manual requests

ok, I got a copy of this thing from two different people, and it was the same manual, so I guess this is the authentic one after all.

I also received an interesting letter from a girl in California that claimed she had written the g-spot manual. I would leave her address, but she probably wouldn't like that so if you want it, drop me a note and I'll give it to ya.

Well, good luck finding it! I know I'll be having some fun to- night!

Okay, I've found G-spots in three women of my acquaintance. Two of them were completely delighted with the discovery, and the other one wasn't real crazy about it no matter what. Chacun a son gou. It took some time and patience for one of the delighted ones, but the other delighted one reckoned that she'd hit it by accident a few times and just not known what happened. She re- sponded immediately, and with gusto.

Now I guess it's time for sex-ed 101, so listen up all of you who have a sexual interest in female anatomy. The rest of you proba- bly ought to hit 'n' now.

For those who never had a close look before and are a bit wor- ried, I ought to say that, except when quite sincerely aroused, female genitals are usually not this clearly set out. The clito- ris likes to hide under it's own little hood, the lips stick pretty close to one another, and it is quite likely that if the owner of the genitals is standing up and unaroused you won't really see more than some enticing tufts of hair and maybe the outer lips. Folks whose knowledge of these matters derives mainly from Playboy pictorials may be quite surprised that there's more here than 'just a hole'.

Traditionally it was thought that all of the sensation available from the female genitals derived from the lips, entrance to the vagina, and especially the clitoris. In other words, what you see above. It was thought that the interior of the vagina was practi- cally numb to sexual sensation.

Now one of those old coots who spent the seventies sticking their noses into other people's intimate businesses was a guy called Grafenberg, if memory serves. Dr G. had this theory that there was an area within the vagina, which was called the Grafenberg spot or G spot, which not only was sexually sensitive but which could trigger bigger and better female orgasms than the clit and the exterior bits could by themselves.

Now the trouble with Dr G.'s claim was that not everyone seemed to be able to find this spot, which he reckoned was analogous with the male prostate gland, and those that did find it didn't necessarily like it much, and so there was some controversy, especially in the popular press. A number of folks who did find it and did like it eventually sussed out the mechanics of the spot, and over the last few years there've been a number of quite good books about it.

The story is basically this: The G-spot is a flat area about as big as a one or two cent piece, about two inches inside the vagina. It's just behind the pubic bone, on the vaginal wall that is closest to the belly-button. You can reach it with your index finger. If the genitals you're playing with are not very aroused then you might have difficulty finding it, or it might not feel very interesting or nice to the owner.

The trick is to make those genitals very aroused, and then have a go at the G-spot. The best way is probably cunnilingus, which is latin for having a lick, but any technique that provides good stimulation of the clitoris will do for starters.

Now bear in mind that I'm skipping over a lot here. I strongly recommend a good deal of foreplay before diving into a woman's muff, like at least half an hour, and longer if you like. If you can manage dinner and a good bath beforehand, even better. Actu- ally, I reckon that a bath or a shower before sex is a reasonably good idea anyway, because we're dealing with equipment that can be quite off-putting if it's on the nose when it's on the nose, if you take my meaning. Besides, bathing is fun.

So, presuming that your woman is content with the preliminaries and you're going hunting, you're going to have to begin by relax- ing. Softly Softly Catchee Monkey. If you're so pent up that slamming your dick in the door has a pleasurable side to it (sorry feminists, I'm not certain what the female equivalent to that state is) then forget all this until you've had a bloody good rogering or two.

Once you've acheived a state of patient interest, slowly start to stimulate the clitoris. You've got to be really careful here, because clitori are damned sensitive little beggars, and too much of a good thing is not really a good thing at all. Also, differ- ent clitori like different things. Some like quite direct stimu- lation, some prefer one side or the other, others are so sensi- tive that they like you to mainly stick to the clitoral hood or the labia. Some like a circular motion, and others like to be lightly flicked back and forth. The best way to find out what your clitoris likes is to ask it's owner, and if she doesn't know then do some experimentation. That's fun too, so don't get pissed off if it takes a little while to figure out what's good for you.

As I said, my preferred method is cunnilingus, but if the owner of your clitoris doesn't like that for some reason ("no, my dear, it's not germy and it does taste rather nice") then you'll have to use your fingers. I find that the best thing for clitori is a nice regular stroke, with regular exotic interludes. Basically it's the same thing as for penises - you don't want all sorts of unpredictable jerking around, and you don't want to feel like it's caught in a vise, and you don't want it to feel like it's attached to a reciprocating engine going at 5000 revs. Take it easy. If the owner of your clitoris wants more stimulation you'll notice her writhing around and pushing it at you. If she wants less then she'll draw away. If it's just right then she'll sit where she is and enjoy it. Pay attention to what she does.

So, you've got a nice regular stroke going - say, seven strokes and then something exotic, and then another seven strokes and another something exotic. Of course the G spot is in the vagina, and you're going to have to know what's going on in there if you're going to find it and do something with it. Slowly insert a finger or two. Don't grab, because that can be rude and distract- ing.

Now hopefully the vagina that you're dealing with is well lubri- cated, but that won't necessarily be the case. If you spend a long time at this even the juiciest woman can start to dry out, so it never hurts to have a little lubricant handy, just in case. I'd recommend K-Y jelly, which you should be able to find at any chemist, but there are lots of alternatives. One that I wouldn't recommend is vaseline - too thick. Another is baby oil - too thin, and besides we should conserve the babies :-)

You can entertain yourself by running your finger around the inside of the vagina, trying to discern its shape. Unless your female is coming (having an orgasm), you should probably find that the vagina is reasonably form-fitting, although some are tighter than others. If your female is not coming or consciously causing contractions you'll probably find that the vagina isn't doing anything in particular, just sitting there and producing lubricant. If you bring your finger to the front wall of the vagina then you'll find it less yielding than the rest, because there is a bone in front of it called the pubic bone, part of the pelvis. If you feel along this unyielding section or just beyond you may find a slightly raised area. This is the G spot. It might not be raised, but it will engorge once your female starts to come.

Don't poke this spot yet. Don't do anything with it, yet. At best you won't have any effect, and at worst you'll be distracting. You've got to wait for your female to start to come. Now this might happen in thirty seconds, or it might take an hour, and you've just got to be patient and keep things regular and smooth. You'll be able to tell your woman is coming when:

- she tells you - she moans one hell of a lot and her breathing changes - she flushes, over her face, neck and/or chest - her vagina begins to flutter rhythmically around your finger

You may see all of these things, or you may see none of them. If you miss an orgasm, don't stop unless you or she wants to. Women have startling recuperative powers, particularly when they're receiving the right level of attention, and generosity is its own reward. Multiple orgasms are not mythical.

Once you believe that your woman is coming you should shift your attention from the clitoris to the G spot. Keep up the same rhythm, but use more pressure. You may want to keep some sort of contact with the clitoris, but just as a penis becomes supersen- sitive during orgasm, to the point of discomfort, so can a clit.

As with the clitoris, you should pay attention to whether the woman pushes towards you, draws away from you or just sits there to gauge the amount of pressure you're giving. You probably won't need to vary your speed much, but pay attention to what she says she wants.

Now as you go at the G spot you'll find that your woman keeps coming for longer than you've seen before. You may even experi- ence that most startling of sexual phenomena, a female ejacula- tion. I've seen three of these (actually I got a mouthful), but I can't say whether the fluid comes from the vagina or the urethra. It's quite nice, sort of like salad dressing. It's definitely not urine, and it is probably polite and hopefully reciprocal to swallow it.

Keep going at that G spot. Eventually you will feel the vagina draw away from your finger - it becomes bigger and the walls get taut, and not form-fitting, sort of like a little cave. When it does this it's time to switch back to the clitoris. Keep up the same rhythm. When the vagina begins to contract on your finger again, go back to the G spot.

If you keep this up for a while (and if the owner of your female genitals wants to stop, then stop - this isn't a competition), you'll find that the nature of the vaginal contractions changes. The cave effect becomes less and less frequent and you can spend more and more time with the G spot. Also, the contractions in the vagina become less simple squeezing and fluttering, and more a sort of reverse swallowing - a contraction that starts deep within the vagina and travels to its entrance. It feels a bit like the vagina is trying to push your finger out. Eventually (may take hours and patience and many tries) you've got nothing but these push-out contractions, and you can go on as long as the owner of the genitals wants to, and your tongue and fingers don't wear out. If you go on this long you're almost certainly going to need some extra lubricant, so be prepared.

There you have it. At least in my experience, women can have orgasms that last orders of magitude longer and seem to be much better than those that men can have. I guess I better add a disclaimer that all of this is only one man's experience, and I could be completely wrong about the female genitals that you have. I'm not certain there is such a thing as device independ- ance where sexual equipment is concerned. I don't think that any of the things I've advocated can do you any harm, but see your doctor if you've doubts. The main thing is to have fun. Happy fucking.

Enjoy.

Lindsey Durway durway@dg-rtp.dg.com -or-...!mcnc!rti!xyzzy!durway Data General Corp., Research Triangle Park, NC; (919) 248-6166.

>From med!shelby!apple!rutgers!ub!acsu.buffalo.edu Sun Sep 30

Article: 19792 of alt.sex Path: med!shelby!apple!rutgers!ub!acsu.buffalo.edu From: kjn@acsu.buffalo.edu (kevin j nicolellis) Newsgroups: alt.sex Subject: I need Feedback for research Message-ID: <38297@eerie.acsu.Buffalo.EDU> Date: 30 Sep 90 01:03:14 GMT Sender: news@acsu.Buffalo.EDU Organization: SUNY Buffalo Lines: 22 Nntp-Posting-Host: autarch.acsu.buffalo.edu

Women,
Have you ever had an orgasm?

Do you have a sensitive pleasurable area located on the anterior
wall of your vagina (G-spot)?

Have you ever experience ejaculation of fluid from your urethra
after stimulation of your G-spot?

Have you ever experienced ejaculation from stimulation other than
your G-spot?

I need this information for a term paper I am writing due October 1st.
(Human Sexuality Research class)
SO if it is after October 1st please do no reply to this message
I would like to hear from women only, stories about your girlfriends
wont really cut it...
Send to me through MAIL only (Usually the command is R)
All information will be STRICTLY CONFIDENTIAL and I will delete
your message as soon as I record your 4 answers above.
Thanks for your Help!
Kevin

>From med!shelby!agate!ucbvax!ucsd!usc!samsung!uunet!futures!asylum!sharon Sat
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In article <9011020140.AA14720@cwns16.INS.CWRU.Edu> ad094@cleve- land.Freenet.Edu > >Can any females out there confirm the existence of >the G-spot?

Yes.

>Where is it?

Depends on the woman. Inside, toward the front. The part that feels like the roof of the mouth.

>How do you like it stimulated?

Gently.

>What does it feel like?

Uh, good. :-)

>From
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ad094@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Alex Lai) asks:

>Can any females out there confirm the existence of >the G-spot? Where is it? How do you like it stimulated? >What does it feel like?

At the beginning of this year there was some discussion on the net about this famous, but elusive, so called G-spot. I should add that before that discussion I had no idea about the G-spot. After...Well, let me put this way: I AM a believer (and my then- girlfriend is one too). I am going to repost (without permission, of course) some of the articles I saved at that time. Just follow the instructions. Hope it works for you too. It sure did work for me!

Article 8357 of alt.sex: Path: helios.physics.utoronto.ca!jarvis.csri.toronto.edu!rutgers!usc!brutus.cs.u From: gamble@rice.edu (Ben Gamble) Newsgroups: alt.sex Subject: Re: G-Spots Keywords: orgasm, G-spot Message-ID: <5472@brazos.Rice.edu> All right, the G spot. (Named after Dr. Grafenberg, for you trivia buffs.)

So you got doctors which say it is, and doctors which say it ain't...Lemme tell ya, folks: I'm a believer. What follows is my recently-tested (last week) method for spectacular orgasms for her through the G spot.

1. Make sure she's "well on her way" first. I recommend giving her head.

2. Insert index finger all the way into her vagina. Crook it as if beckoning and run your fingertip fairly firmly down the front wall of her vagina.

3. When your finger is out to about the second knuckle, you should come up against what feels like the back of her pubic bone. Massage this area, softly at first, then more firmly. The area will probably require somewhat firmer stimulation than does the clitoris. Something close to here should be swelling up slightly about now. Ta-daah. The G Spot.

4. Rub this, generally harder and harder as she approaches or- gasm.

Tips: Don't forget to watch her face to gauge her reactions. Though we have not tried it, some say that it might be a bit easier/more effective if she lies on her stomach. If you have [room|suite|house]mates who might hear her screaming, keep a pillow or something handy for her to bite down on. Even if she is normally quiet. I mean it. Vary the stimulation: circles, long strokes in and out... Another good one is to press down on it and release, rapidly and repeatedly. Your hand turns into a sort of vibrator...In the advanced stages of this, I actually used the other hand to hold and jerk my wrist as my shoulder was getting really sore. And I got *devastatingly* effective results with this one: Put your finger in far enough that the very tip is at the upstream end of the G spot, i.e. your finger from tip to about second knuckle covers the entire area. Then, without moving your finger in or out, slowly ROCK it so that you are pressing very firmly with first the very tip, then off that onto the first pad, then the first knuckle, then the second pad, and back in again. Think about being fingerprinted if they rocked your finger from end to end rather than side to side and you've got it. This sent her through the ROOF. And finally, try giving her head with a vibrator fully inserted. Did this most recently a few days ago and she said it was the best orgasm she ever had. By orders of magnitude.

The only thing I worry about now is this: All this discovery has taken place in less than a month (the vibrator was a Valentine's Day present). What if she expects it to keep improving at this rate?!?!? 0.5 * (-:

personally I've noticed that if you enter from behind it tends to hit the same spot and it does give great reactions...the only problem that I notice is when they come, they tend to bounce all over the place...sorta is frustrating because you almost always end up coming out of them but is very enjoyable to watch as they bounce off of the walls and make lots of noise...(fuck the neigh- bors...*grin*)

Well, the only advice I would have is to try multiple fingers. Apart from that: My education seems to have been lacking. I didn't know there were any other ways to do that. Is it just me, or were the steps you described, like, totally obvious?

But seriously: Try more than one finger. If you can get a good rhythm going, and you remember not to stop after the first or- gasm, you will make a friend for life ;-)

I broadcast this widely, please forgive but it may interest many. Please use follow-up or reply to me: ral@hydra.jpl.nasa.gov

In article <78992@aerospace.AERO.ORG> robert@aero.UUCP (Bob Statsinger) writes: >I've just been looking back through a bunch of postings on the >G-spot, but have yet to see an anatomically correct term.

>robert@itro5s.aero.org

G-spot is the nickname for the Grafenberg spot, named after the gyn who noted its erotic significance in the 50's. The g-spot in women is analogous to the prostate in men (which seems to play a more direct role in sex and procreation).

The g-spot is a gland located behind the pubic bone and around the urethra. It can be massaged or stimulated by reaching up about two finger joints distance on the upper surface of the vagina. The area may be located by "sytematic palpitation of the entire anterior wall of the vagina between the posterior side of the pubic bone and the cervix. Two fingers are usually em- ployed, and it is often necnssary to press deeply into the spot to reach the spot" (Perry and Whipple, Journal of Sex Research, 1981, p 29). If already aroused, some women will find that stimulation of this area leads to an intense orgasm which may be qualitatively different from a clitorially centered orgasm. Stimulation of the spot produces a variety of initial feelings: discomfort, 'feeling need' to urinate, or a pleasurable feeling. With additional stroking the areamay begin to swell and the sensations may become more pleasureable. Continuing may produce an intese orgasm. Like the prostate, the g-spot can produce an fluid like semen (but not as viscous) which may be released on orgasm -- even known to "squirt" a couple of centimeters.

For comparison, the prostate in men is also located behind the pubic bone and around the urethra. The two ejaculatory ducts also end here (bringing sperm from testis via vas deferens). The prostate can be reached via the anus (as in Doctors performing a prostate exam). Continued stimulation of the prostate may pro- duce intense orgasms in men. The prostate is the glad which produces semen (other than the sperm in the semen).

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Alex

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