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A TEENAGERS GUIDE TO WOMEN (WHAT NOT TO DO)
READ CAREFULLY YOU MIGHT LEARN SOMETHING BOY!
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1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous
zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your
money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A properly passionate kiss is the
ultimate form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls
love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if
you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts!
3) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin
which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns
her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a house- wife testing a melon for
ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.
5) BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp
down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly
sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently.
Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a doggie toy
isn't.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples
between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly
area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just
three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are
vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing
straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can
result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive,
just ask her to take the damn things off.
9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is the man's responsibility.
You wore it, you store it.
10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently
rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.
11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left
off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell
she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will
look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like
an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her
panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and
yanking it back and forth is not.
14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris
without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner
is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a
chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so
don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the
exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if
she likes it.
15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing
massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees
are not.
16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at
least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a
couple of buttons.
17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. A man in socks and underpants is at his
worst. Lose the socks first.
18) GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in- vagina situation, the worst
thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel
like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly,
with clean, straight, alternating thrusts.
19) GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh
or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into
a few short moments.
20) COMING TOO SOON. Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you
see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her
pleasure too. Or you might find yourself alone with your hand the next time
you're feeling amorous.
21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour
without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark
of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has
something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man.
22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women
make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask.
23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of
milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or
flicking your tongue on her clitoris. Lap like a cat, just don't act like one.
24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. Men persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-
penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate
this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If
you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her. Or
even better, do her first, you'll be surprised what a woman will do after a man
has had his face between her legs.
25) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with
egg white. Not everybody likes that taste. When she's performing oral sex,
warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary.
26) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving
during fellatio. You just lie there and enjoy it. And don't grab her head.
Women don't like that!
27) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES. In X-rated movies, women seem to
love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry
to do. So don't do it, unless asked.
28) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying
there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so
that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her
have a rest. Top is a fine place for women to control their own orgasm, just
don't make it into work.
29) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men
earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put
it there, ask her first. And don't think that being drunk is an excuse.
30) TAKING PICTURES. When a man says, "Can I take a photo of you?" she'll hear
the words, "__to show my buddies." At least let her have custody of them.
31) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH. Imagination is anything from drawing
patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit,
vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent
dye are a no no. Whip cream is best for giving head, so you might want to have
some near by.
32) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It's as
sexy as a belching contest.
33) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed,
fine, but unless she's a Romanian gymnast, don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself
if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
34) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good
for men because they have a prostate. Women don't.
35) GIVING LOVE BITES. It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the
sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear
turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
36) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS. Don't shout encouragement like a coach with a
megaphone. It's not a big turn-on.
37) TALKING DIRTY. It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a
1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she'll let you know.
38) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying
until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you. Real me take
pro- per care of their woman's needs.
39) SQUASHING HER. Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a
bit too heavily, she will turn blue. Use your elbows to support your weight -
all the time!
40) THANKING HER. Never thank a woman for having sex with you. Your bedroom
is not a soup kitchen.