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MY THOUGHTS ABOUT INCEST
By Kelly
pghpa_girl@yahoo.com
http://www.pghpagirl.com
This is more of an editorial than story about a past experience.
Hopefully I can explain a different side to incest than what most
people know and at the same time help people to realize how
wonderful incest can be - under the right circumstances.
Of all the subjects I discuss, this is the one that gets the most responses. People
tend to have strong feelings about the subject and usually the are either turned
on or totally disgusted without much in between. I have found that most people
really don't understand incest other than what they were taught as children,
heard preached in church, read in the newspapers or have discussed with their
friends.
Historically incest has been taboo on most cultures for one very good reason –
genetics. Even though our ancestors knew nothing about DNA, they did know
that kids born out of incest were often not quite right and there was something
inherently wrong with the practice. Like many good practices, such as avoiding
certain foods, etc., these became engrained in laws and religion to provide the
authority for society to enforce the taboo. Today with the many options we have
for birth control in addition to options to end an unwanted pregnancy (please, no
debates on abortion), the foundation for the case against incest has disappeared.
However, the ancient taboos have become so engrained in society and religion
that most people cannot see beyond the brainwashing and look at incest from a
new perspective.
I wrote this article primarily for those people who think I am perverted, that my
parents are child molesters, that I have been abused, and so forth. None of
these accusations or those similar to them could be farther from the truth. This is
not intended to be a sexy story or to fulfill anyone's fantasy so if that is what you
want you are looking for this would be a good one to skip over.
Chatting with people here is generally a fun experience although I have had to
ignore more than few blatant perverts and jerks. Most people claim they are
open-minded and have no problems with casual sex, especially if it was with me!
Some say they want to cheat on their spouse, others want me to join them with
their spouse, still others want me be to be with just their hubby or wife while they
watch. Many couples claim to be looking for someone to make a 3some
although I have found that most of these "couples" are fakes. I get quite a few
people who are really into the kinky stuff including children and animals. The
point I am trying to make is that I try to respect other people's feelings and
desires, even if I am not especially turned on by them or even offended. For the
most part everyone else claims to feel the same way yet amazingly they draw the
line at incest.
So let's see……fucking dogs and kids is good, having a loving sexual
relationship with my mom and dad is bad. What am I missing here?
I can't begin to say how many people have told I am perverted and/or twisted
because I enjoy sex with my parents. Even worse, some say my parents have
abused me as if somehow they have been hurt me or forced me to doing things I
didn't want to. Those that finally acknowledge it is something I truly want to do
claim I have been brainwashed by my parents for their sexual satisfaction. I
chatted with someone with an attitude like that recently and his closed-minded
responses are what motivated me to write this article.
There are many things in life that are fulfilling and pleasurable when handled
properly yet can be easily abused and be extremely harmful. Alcohol, gambling
and sex come to mind immediately. Let me say right from the start that incest is
no different and it is definitely NOT for everyone. I know from personal
experience that when handled properly incest can be the foundation of a
wonderful and incredibly loving relationship between a child and his/her parents
and immediate family. I believe just as firmly that the vast majority of families are
NOT emotionally or otherwise equipped to handle incest. There are a number of
reasons why……
First, because about the only time anyone hears about incest is when it is
abused, society has developed its own rules and regulations which makes incest
taboo. People are raised in this atmosphere and so naturally grow up thinking
incest is inherently bad. As a result incest is not something to share with the
neighborhood and most people have no idea that the neighbors next door are
sleeping with their kids. Keeping such an intimate and emotionally charged
subject from escaping can be extremely tasking and is realistically beyond the
capabilities of most families. If such information was released it would ruin the
lives and reputations of the parents and stigmatize the children.
Second, there are also the age and personal image factors. Let's face it, not
every mom and dad is sexually appealing to their kid - in fact I would say that
most are most not! I am fortunate that my parents had me while they were young
and they have kept themselves in good shape such that they are still a pretty hot
couple only 39 and 40 years old. One guy I chatted with said his parents were in
their 60's - well duh, I guess that most likely rules out any sexual appeal! In other
cases one or both parents have let themselves go and are frankly unappealing -
especially naked! Why would a girl want anything to do sexually with her beer-
gut father covered in hair and smelling like cigarettes and beer?
Third, most families have more than one child, a situation which needs to be
considered. I am an only child so there were no issues of older or younger
children for my parents to deal with. The variations here are endless - wait for the
youngest to grow up but then do you tell the oldest, especially if they have moved
out? Have sex with the oldest when ready and hide it from the youngest? Yea
right, I bet that could really be kept secret for long! Although I won't say incest
should be limited to single-child families, it certainly makes it easier unless the
children are close in age.
Fourth, it helps a LOT if one or more of the parents were involved in an incestual
relationship when they were a child. For instance, my mom's father had a sexual
relationship with both of his daughters started when they were barely teens and
continuing even after they were married. Thus the concept was nothing new to
them and both were anxious for their own daughters to grow up enough to have
the same experience. My father had fucked my mom and aunt since they dated
in high school so he and my mom were accustomed to him having sex with the
both of them. Thus in my family it was almost natural for incest to become part of
our lives. Most families do not have this history making it all new territory to be
learned and thus the potential for problems is significantly increased. Not that a
family can't start it's own traditions, it's just that doing so is much more
dangerous and should be carefully considered as to whether the potential
benefits outweigh the risks.
Finally there is the legal side. Most religions forbid incest - note I say religions
and not God (read the Old Testament!) and many of our laws were made to
conform to perceived religious requirements. As the law makes it illegal to have
sex with a minor, even if everyone in the family is happy with the situation, if
some do-gooder found out and turned them in the parents are punished.
The mere fact that two people share DNA does not disqualify them from having a
sexual relationship nor does it mean they should have one either. The same
principles that govern whether a person has sex with someone outside the family
should apply inside the family as well. I guess to me it is pretty simple - if
someone is not mature enough to have sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend then
they should not have it with their parents either.
What saddens me is that unfortunately there are far too many sadistic and
perverted people who rationalize incest as an excuse to satisfy their own selfish
desires at the expense of their children. I am firmly against child abuse of any
kind including sex before puberty and ANY form of non-consensual sex. Because
of the often well-publicized actions of these horrible people, most people
associate incest with 8 year old children and leering adults who manipulate
innocent kids into doing things they don't understand - all of which is clearly
wrong.
Incest also requires a certain attitude toward sex, one where sex is accepted and
handled responsibly. I first had sex when I was 14 with the 16 year old brother of
one of my best friends and I have been sexually active ever since. While I didn't
fuck every guy in school, almost all of my relationships included sex to some
degree - anything from playful petting to full intercourse. I ended up fucking 9
boys by the time I graduated and frankly I lost count of the number of cocks I
sucked. I was active in my community and church so most adults thought of me
as the conservative, religious girl-next door rather than the class slut (which was
probably closer to the truth and how most of the teenage boys thought of me).
My parents were well aware of my activities as I always shared everything with
my mother. Mom has always been very supportive - she even saw to it that I had
birth control once I started having sex. When I was young my parents never
approached me directly in a sexual way but they were always very open about
sex in general with me. Nudity was not something to be ashamed of and it was
not unusual for all of us to be in the hot tub together naked from the time I was
just a little girl. Masturbation was personal but not hidden or forbidden. I saw my
parents masturbate many times and my mom even helped me to learn when I
was young. I slept in the nude from the time I was 12 – because it was more
comfortable, not to be erotic. I was taught the birds and bees before puberty so
although my parents never had sex in front of me, I knew they loved each other
very much and that they made love frequently.
Looking back, I realize that while mom and dad were very open about sex in
general, just as importantly they taught me to be respectful and careful in my
sexual relationships. I was taught the difference between porn and
nude/suggestive art, between eroticism and vulgarity, between making love and
fucking. They absolutely never forced or even asked me to do anything I didn't
want to do. They allowed me to form my own opinions and make my own
decisions. I know today that my mom had sex with her father when she was a
young teenager and that she was hoping for my sake that I would do the same
with my father, but it wasn't until I made the first move and eventually joined them
in bed that they revealed the things they were involved in. For instance, while I
always knew that my mom and her sister were very close, I didn't know that they
had a sexual relationship that started when they were barely 12 and 13 nor did I
know my dad's involvement with his sister-in-law until after I had sex with them
both individually.
If I was making the rules, anyone considering incest would have to ensure ALL of
the following conditions were met first:
First, incest can't be the first time sex is discussed openly in the family. If there is
not a history of openness where sex is considered something to be treated with
respect and dignity and involves personal responsibility, then jumping into incest
is something that shouldn't even be considered. If a family can't shower or dress
in front of one another without embarrassment or as something considered
erotic, they certainly aren't ready to have sex with one another!
Second, the girl or boy must be old enough to make a an informed and
consensual decision. This will vary between kids and in extreme cases may be
as young as 12 or 13. I would say though for most families in our culture, 16 is
the youngest even if they are sexually active outside the family.
Third, while I hate to sound like a narcissist, there has to be some physical
attraction between the family members. This probably knocks out 95% of all
families but what is the sense in even trying if nobody is getting sexually excited?
If mom and dad let themselves go that is their business but they shouldn't expect
their teenagers to look at them with any lust!
Fourth, both parents must be involved. For instance, a dad should never fuck his
daughter unless the mom is ok with it. In talking with others like me, it seems
almost all incest starts with a daughter. For some reason dads seem to have a
harder time accepting their wife being fucked by their son. I think this is because
the odds that the father and son would ever have sex are extremely low whereas
a mother and daughter relationship is more easily established once dad wants to
fuck them both.
Finally, if there are multiple kids then they must all be involved. If their ages are
widely spread then either forget it or wait until the youngest can join in. The odds
also drop with multiple kids since all may not want to be involved in the first
place. Even the slightest resistance must be interpreted as being unwilling since
most kids want to please their parents so an outright "no" may never come.
Using the criteria above, probably 99.9% of families should NOT be involved in
incest. Even if incest is not part of their lives, I firmly believe families should treat
sex more openly and honestly. After all, isn't it better to act responsibly and deal
with the issues of sex directly than to create perverts who go out and rape
women and abuse children because sex was such a tightly controlled thing in his
life that when he was finally "freed" he couldn't control himself?
Incest does not necessarily have to involve parents and their children. I know of
several relationships just between a brother and sister where the parents are not
involved and in fact do not even know it is happening. Some of the most erotic
nights in my life were when I helped a brother and sister to fuck for the first time.
A couple of these times were with teenagers but it's never too late. I helped my
freshman roomie to be with her older brother for the first time and he was married
with two kids at the time. In some ways it's easier for brothers and sisters to
practice incest with each other than with their parents because it avoids the age
difference issue (which may also include age of consent problems). Being an
only child has its advantages but sometimes I wish I had a brother to fuck me at
home.
For those situations that DO meet the conditions AND there is an interest in it,
incest can be the greatest way to bring a family closer together. After all, how
mad can I stay with my dad when his cock is filling my pussy? How upset can he
stay with me while I am sucking his cock? It's amazing what a little spontaneous
sex can do to bring everyone back together again no matter what the cause of
the quarrel may have been. When you boil it down there are two reasons I like
incest:
First, the incredible love and passion that comes naturally with incest. I love my
parents and family and how can I possibly express it more than by giving myself
to them completely? I don't fuck my dad to show him I love him, I allow him to
fuck me because I love him and he does the same for me. Hopefully you
understand the subtle difference. Nothing compares to the joy I feel when I let my
father's hard cock penetrate deep inside of me. To allow my own father to
physically couple himself with me, to join our bodies in the most intimate manner
that a man and woman can, is how I show him how much I love him. When I feel
him in me I know we are one body, that I cannot give him anything more of me
than I am at that moment. When he explodes in me I know I have satisfied him,
that I have fulfilled the sexual lust within him using my own body, my own sex,
the most sacred thing I can give to anyone. Being in bed with my mother is more
emotionally stimulating. She kisses me like a lover, not a parent. My mother is
so passionate with me, so loving, it is almost overwhelming. To feel her warm
naked body pressed against mine, to lick her pussy where I was conceived and
born, to feel her tongue on my pussy where her husband fucks me, to have her
lick his cum from me, all these things fill my soul and complete me as a woman.
Secondly, I also have to be honest, having sex with my family simply makes me
feel incredible. I can go to my father virtually any time and ask him to fuck me or
just do whatever I want with him. If I am watching TV or chatting on the
computer and get turned on by whatever is happening, I am not embarrassed in
the slightest to masturbate while my family watches – if anything it turns me on
all the more! I love wearing just a tight t -shirt or one of my dad's shirt with
nothing on my bottom and in general, that is all I ever wear around the house.
My aunt and cousin feel free to stop over any time and do whatever they need or
want without having to sneak around or worry about being "caught". In short, sex
is an integral part of our lives, something to be enjoyed and shared openly rather
than some mysterious affair full of taboos and rituals.
In closing I hope this has helped to explain my situation better to those who have
not understood it well. Please don't judge me by the standards of a society
dominated by ancient theology and mythology. Odds are incest was never right
for you but then for some people it is so allow them to enjoy it and stop critiquing
them!
0020 My Thoughts About Incest