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The True Story of a Couple
Who Enjoys 'Naughty Activities'
Originally from India, this couple now lives in the Middle East, but do their
playing mainly while on vacations in Europe. This is basically a diary of how
this one couple progressed into enjoying extra sex partners (mainly for her)…
from their first experience through her 36th such extra partner.
The Joan mentioned throughout the article is the woman who is also known on the
Internet as "The Dear Abby of Threesome Fun". More details about Joan at
"!Introduction" and story file "L-104" at the free web site shown at the end of
each part of the story.
The entire story is 112 pages long, presented in eight (8) parts.
Part A - 10 Pages. Three letters from her and one from him, giving their
background
as they entered their new "lifestyle."
Part B - 13 Pages. She tells about their first time having experiences with
other guys
in their shared sex life… all non-penetrative experiences.
Part C - 11 Pages. One letter each from him and her, telling more details
about their
experiences in Amsterdam, with single guys, and then with a couple.
Part D - 8 Pages. He tells their reactions to their first two experiences,
and details
their third experience.
Part E - 26 Pages. He tells about their vacation in Phuket, a 45 minute air
trip south
of Bankok, Thailand. Here they met Martin, with whom India shared her first
full-penetration threeway sex… all weekend long.
Part F - 20 Pages. He tells about his fantasies of having sex with his
wife's sister, and
eventually it happens. And, her reactions to learning about Raj and her
sister.
Part G - 14 Pages. Their first FMF threesome - with her sister.
Part H - 10 Pages. A Summary of the Special Sexual Adventures of India and
Raj,
and their thoughts on various aspects of "extra guy" adventures.
Part A - India's First Letter to Joan
Early May, 2000
Dear Joan,
My husband and I accidentally stumbled onto a site which had some of your
stories, while web-surfing. My husband and I also read your advice to wives
on how to go about taking on an extra sex partner.
We are very interested in getting all accounts of the "true" adventures of
other couples in having MFM threesomes. What also interests us is the manner
in which all couples (especially the wives) took that "first step".
We are a couple in our early/mid 40's. We are of Indian origin, now settled in
Abu Dhabi (United Arab Emirates), in the Middle East. My friends call me
India, in honor of the country in which I was born. I am considered attractive
and good looking (5'5", 36-28-35, 55kgs). My husband is Raj, also good looking
and trim, and averagely hung at 6 1/2".
We have now been married for about 20 years, and ventured into extra partner
sex about 3 years ago. We started doing this at my husband's suggestion. We
started with a "soft" swap with a couple, and then went on to a "soft"
threesome with another man.
I had requested that we have non-penetrative fun, until I was ready to go all
the way. It was in fact our 4th sexual adventure before I went all the way, in
a threesome with another man. In fact, except the first time, which was with a
couple, the other three were all MFM threesomes.
This was for two reasons. Firstly, Raj likes to watch me with another man.
Secondly, I have realized that I too enjoyed being with another man -- double
pleasure etc -- and I get a thrill out of doing it while my husband is watching
me, while participating. Both of us are "open minded," and are mildly BI.
Raj does not have any qualms about touching or sucking the cocks of guys who
join us. I guess we have been lucky that all our male partners (so far) have
been game to do it, and to reciprocate. I like this as it makes for a "no
hang-ups" sort of a session.
We restrict our "naughty activities" to our vacations in Europe, as we feel
comfortable with the anonymity and confidentiality of having sex with either
strangers or new friends there. In fact some of the people with whom we had
sex (men as well as a couple now) have become friends after we first had sex
with them as strangers. As readers might guess, we dare not be "naughty" here
in our home community.
Some of the following stories of our adventures are written by my husband, and
some by me.
Let me tell you, that as we are both considered to be very attractive, we like
to meet attractive people. We can afford to be selective. My reasoning is
that if I am going to have sex with another man (even if we swap with a
couple), I'd like him to be slim and athletic... and where ever possible, I'd
like the man to be well hung.
Yes, I am cock-oriented... and I like large ones. I reason that if we are
doing this for variety and kicks, I might as well get guys who are better hung
than Raj (shades of "why not experience what I cannot get at home"). We
believe in the "sharing" aspect, and we love each other very much. In fact
after we started our more open lifestyle, our marital sex life became much
better, and this has spread to all other areas of our marriage.
Take care.
Love, India (and Raj)
India's Second Letter
Her and Raj's Misc. Thoughts on 'Extra Lover' Sex
5/6/00
Dear Joan,
Hi this is India. Thanks for your note.
I think that it is impossible to get bored with cocks, considering that they
come in such an infinite variety of shapes, sizes and colours. You think that
you prefer an 8" or 9" cock, and then you come across one that may be just 7"
but may be very thick or may have heavy veins on it, and may be an upturned
one. I must admit I like upturned ones, and thick ones. If, it is
proportionately long, so much the better.
General Thoughts from India, Before We Start Our Story...
Joan, there is no substitute for a naked cock. Raj and I have never used a
condom during sex between us. I have used a condom with other men for reasons
of STD/AIDS, not conception. After our only child, I had a problem, and could
not have another. So, fear of pregnancy was never there.
A naked cock feels so hot and real inside me. Condoms seem to stifle/muffle
the throbbing of a cock. I love to feel a man ejaculate inside me. Raj has a
great time fucking me after my cunt has been filled with another man's cum.
When that happens, he is so mentally charged, that he then ejaculates very
quickly. Yes, he has eaten my cunt when it is filled with cum deposited by
other guys.
To date, I have fucked four men without condoms. The first person to fuck me
without a condom was Martin (see my first penetrative adventure below), when he
visited us in our hometown. Then when we went to Amsterdam for our third
vacation, I fucked Calvin (of Calvin and Susan) and their friend Jerry without
condoms. By then we knew Calvin and Susan well, as we had swapped with them on
our second vacation. They are a careful and responsible couple.
I was a bit leery of Jerry, but they assured me that he was 'safe' as he was a
married man and had outside sex only with them. In fact, Jerry showed us his
recent test, so I was satisfied. The other person, who I fuck regularly
without a condom is Trent (details later in this story). As he is a 'resident'
visa holder here, he is checked before his visa is granted.
When another man is fucking me, I particularly enjoy having Raj hold me in his
arms as my lover thrusts into me. I also enjoy Raj's "loving" caresses on my
breasts, and the small kisses that Raj showers on my face as I'm being fucked
missionary style.
Besides these reasons, Raj is attentive to my physical needs, as he knows my
body well. He is able to read my responses, and will either touch me at the
right places at the right time, or make a suggestion to my lover to either
'fuck hard' or lick hard, when I am about to cum.
If it is after I have cum, he may take over and suck my cunt, if he realizes
that my lover is being too hard on my sensitive clit. This combination gives
me TOTAL SATISFACTION OF COMBINING RAW SEX AND LOVEMAKING.
On my part, I like to stroke my husband's cock with one hand while being fucked
by another man. I have to be careful to limit this to very light
squeezing/stroking, as a couple of times Raj has cum in my hand. What Raj and
I both enjoy most, is Raj guiding the other man's cock into my cunt. It gives
us both so much mental pleasure.
Joan, opening our bed to 'other men' has rejuvenated our sex life. It has also
made us come closer to each other. We are now more 'in love' with each
other... like we were when we were newlyweds. This tenderness and show of
affection has spread to all aspects of our married life.
There has been another gain... my communicative skills have improved. I am no
longer shy about sharing my thoughts or secrets with my husband. I feel that I
can tell Raj all of my thoughts, my wishes, what really turns me on.
At first I was scared that when we fought, he would fling my enthusiasm for
sucking/fucking another cock at me. But this is something we never bring up
when we have a fight.
For my part, I enjoy seeing Raj fuck another woman. When we were with Don and
Martina (details later in our story), I kept peeking at what Raj and Martina
were doing, in spite of the fact that Don was the first man (other than Raj)
I'd ever had sex with, and I was super aroused. Then for a while, we
concentrated solely on MFM threesomes, as Raj wanted to see me being fucked,
and did not want to be distracted by his partner.
When we met Calvin and Susan we had a foursome with them, as Raj really liked
Susan. Raj talked to Susan about this aspect, and she suggested that we could
solve the problem. She suggested that while Calvin and I fucked, she and Raj
would just cuddle and lend us a helping hand, and vice versa. This worked
well. In fact, later on I even held Raj's cock and guided it into Susan's
cunt.
Raj's Pre-Story Reflections on Their New Lifestyle...
There is no sight more sex-charged than seeing my wife's sexy naked body
being fucked by a well-endowed man. When another man fucks her, I love the
slippery feeling inside my wife's cunt when he has screwed her without a
condom, and cums inside her
I wish India had agreed to (opening our sex life) earlier, and not wasted
precious years. I get turned-on when another man kisses India on her lips. I
feel it is a compliment to me, that other men find my wife so sexy that to want
to fuck her.
I feel there have been hidden benefits to my wife taking extra men as lovers.
She is in better physical shape today than she ever was, as she takes extra
care of her body. India notes, "As other men will be seeing me naked, I am
in a constant state of 'preparedness.' Joan, I now swim and do aerobics
three or four times a week, and feel that my body is now more compact and
tighter than it ever was."
When I write about Vacation 2 (when I screwed Vance), I will also write in
short about Calvin and Susan and Jerry. Then I will write about (Vacation 3 -
Part II) when I seduced Wayne. And then about my times with our regular lover
Trent.
Love,
India (and Raj).
India's Third Letter
5/17/00
Dear Joan,
Thanks for your e-mail. The possibility of sharing our experiences with other
couples excites us. In fact we will welcome couples comments too. Abu Dhabi
(our home) is in the Middle East. We are Indians, and we came here to better
our prospects.
We read your suggestions on "how to go about finding a third partner," but we
had already "been naughty" before we read your advice. We did not want to do
it with any existing friends or acquaintances, so we chose to do it with
strangers, on a vacation. It has turned out quite well.
It was easier to have sex first, and then become friends rather than vice
versa. When we have shared such intimate moments, we had already crossed the
threshold most friendships can never dream of crossing. Maybe our closest
friends do what we do too, but we don't know about it... and we cannot take a
chance to ask them or show our hand. For that reason, we will never do it with
people where we have any chances of being discovered. Things are not so open
here as in Europe.
For this reason, we like swing clubs in Europe. When we go to Europe, we meet
our existing recreational sex friends of previous years too, but the
"unexpectedness" of encounters at clubs is very exciting.
Besides, at the clubs we get to meet "new" men. Raj generally does not care
for couple swaps as he says that I am his partner, even when we have an MFM
threesome. I agree, as I have found that a couple of times a "swap" has turned
out to be a less enjoyable "one-on-one" sex experience. So we have limited
swaps and had more MFM threesomes.
As we don't do any "naughty stuff" at home (for security reasons), we always
reserve about 10 days of our annual holiday for enjoying our new recreational
sex lifestyle. During that time, we go wild and make up for what we miss the
whole year.
The general pattern is that we meet existing men and couple-friends for daytime
lunch screwing, or on days when the clubs are closed. In the evenings we go to
clubs. Most evenings we have two encounters at the club we visit.
Maybe one out of every four encounters is a swap with a couple. But we make
sure it is a same bed swap. So... two "new" men every day for 10 days is a lot
of screwing. This is in addition to a lunch time screw with a previously met
man or couple-friends. You can imagine that I really need a "normal
vacation" after that, and those memories keep us "hot" all year, until the
next vacation.
Bye,
India (and Raj)
India and Raj's Personal Story
5/26/2000
Dear Joan,
I am starting at the very beginning, and will tell you all, until my first new
partner "Fuck." There is a difference, as my first sex with another man was
not a fuck. In fact, as I have told you earlier, in our case I actually first
fucked another man, on our 4th encounter. You will realize from reading about
our background, even the non-penetrative encounters that I had, were a very
bold step for me.
We would love to hear comments from other readers. As for us both,
psychological factors and the mental progression has been very important. We
are always interested in knowing how other couples progressed, and who
suggested it, who initiated the action, how the couple went about finding the
right partner, etc.
Love
India
MY BACKGROUND - by India
I was a product of typically conservative Indian moral values and Catholic
schooling. I was not only sexually conservative, I was a downright PRUDE.
Before I married, I had no sexual experience with any man except my husband,
Raj.
I had just dated one guy 3-4 times, and our "playing" was limited to
dancing close at a couple of parties, and then necking in parked cars. There
was no nudity or sex beyond that. Then I met Raj. We fell in love with each
other, and I started to date him, until we got married.
I was conditioned to believe the following moral values: That sex was for
reproduction only… That a lady should not enjoy sex… That, even if she is
enjoying it, a lady should never let her partner know it, and… That sex and
love is one and the same thing.
This conservative attitude of mine was all the more surprising, when you
understand that I was in a "glamorous" profession. I was a much
sought-after model... and I flew for an airline, traveling alone all over the
world.
So I was not only a virgin when I met Raj (though he was not), I was totally
inexperienced. He had fucked around a lot (girls/women, some married among
them). It was love at first sight for both of us. We started to smooch and
neck in parked cars. I was a very conservative woman and I did not let him
screw me, though he wanted to.
Occasionally he was able to unbutton my blouse (in a car) and feel/fondle my
naked breasts. I liked it. I noticed that even during those days, I was very
cock-oriented. When we petted in parked cars, I used to hold Raj's cock,
like it was a new toy for me. A few times I stroked him (he showed me how)
until he ejaculated in my hands. I agreed to let him fuck me ONLY AFTER WE HAD
FINALIZED OUR WEDDING DATE.
I knew about "erections," but I thought that men were "perpetually
erect." I got a surprise when I first saw Raj's cock soft. This was when
we showered together after our first fuck. Before that, whenever we necked and
petted, it was always in a dark car and while necking. Whenever I had touched
his cock, it was erect. Yes, he had ejaculated in my hands a few times, but we
used to immediately reach for tissues to clean up, and were so busy zipping up
and buttoning up, that I never noticed him going soft.
When I saw his soft cock in the shower, I pointed out to it saying, "what
happened? It was so big." I wondered how it had gone soft!!! He had to
explain to me that "It" always went down after a man ejaculated. I mention
this to show readers how naïve I was. It is a different matter that as we
soaped each other, Raj became hard again and we fucked a second time.
After that, I gradually started to enjoy sex. On our honeymoon we fucked all
the time, I just could not get enough of it. Raj was always "up" to it and
I was a surprisingly willing partner, considering that I had been such a prude.
It was a time for learning for me, as I had no previous experience. I enjoyed
Raj going down on me, and I also enjoyed sucking his cock. He said that I was a
fast learner and that I gave great blowjobs. I guess that was because I really
love a cock.
Of course I enjoyed the feeling of a cock sliding in and out of my cunt. I
initially thought oral sex was "dirty," and was very reluctant to let Raj
go down on me. But once he licked my cunt and I had a series of great orgasms,
I was hooked on it. I really enjoyed it, and have always loved it since. Even
today, our sex sessions consist of me sucking Raj, and him going down on me,
before we fuck.
In our experiments we did try to have anal intercourse. The very "first
inch" pained me, so my husband did not persist, and we tried it again
(unsuccessfully) a few years later, and gave up the idea, as it was so painful
for me. So I am still a virgin there and will remain so, as neither of us
fancies anal sex.
Raj enjoyed looking at my naked body. He said that I had a 'compact and tight
body, and great legs.' I realized that being nude for him turned me on. On
our honeymoon, we were always naked when in our hotel room. Raj had his
Polaroid camera and he took lots of pictures of me nude. I was shy at first,
but I am a vain person, and had an exhibitionistic streak in me. I got into the
groove of being photographed.
He also took pictures of me nude on the beach. It was not a nude beach, and
whenever we found no people in sight, my husband would suggest we take our
costumes off and frolic or sunbathe nude. I realized that I was an
exhibitionist, as I secretly hoped that some people would see me naked.
Even when people stared at me, when I was wearing my bikini or one-piece suit,
I got excited. We also fucked on the beach, whenever we found the beach
"deserted," and sometimes we went to the beach after sunset, purely to
enjoy wading nude in the sea and to have the experience of fucking outdoors.
This used to give me a "kick" and got me hot.
After our honeymoon we settled into a normal life, though we used to have sex
every day (two or three times on weekends). But in due course of time, the
frequency dropped. Our sex became mechanical. About 7 or 8 years after our
marriage, Raj started to fantasize about swinging and group sex. He used to
read Penthouse, Forum and other magazines, and he used to show me the letters
that excited him.
He used to get very turned-on by letters that dealt with couples swapping, or
inviting another man to have a threesome, or by a married woman fucking another
guy. When he shared his fantasies with me, it used to turn me on, and we would
have a hot fuck. But I seldom had many fantasies of my own (to be honest, I was
scared of sharing what fantasies I had with Raj). Raj had a jealous streak, and
I was scared that sharing my erotic thoughts with him might create problems if
I was 'totally honest' with him.
About that time, one day at a party we again met a guy who I had dated a few
times, before I met Raj. I will call him Bert. He had also gotten married, and
his wife was with him. It was a nice pleasant evening with the four of us
spending quite a bit of time together. Sometime during that evening Bert asked
me to dance. We danced a couple of fast ones and a couple of slow ones. I
really love dancing (even today). Raj has never into dancing.
That night when we got home, Raj and I made love-- and Raj was like a wild man.
He fucked like he was in a frenzy, and his fucking was very "rough"
Afterward as we lay in each other's arms, I asked him what had got him so
"hot." He admitted that he had gotten turned-on seeing me dance with Bert.
He said that his mind had done a "flashback," and he imagined how Bert must
have kissed and embraced me when I was dating him.
Raj said, that he had imagined me naked with Bert, and that Bert was fucking
me. I reminded him that I had only kissed and cuddled with Bert, and that we
had never gone beyond that. He then asked me if I would enjoy fucking Bert or
another man. I told him that fucking Bert was out of the question, as Bert was
married and too close to our common friends, and it may create complications.
When he asked, "how about any other man?" I admitted, that I was only
human-- and I guessed that I would enjoy it. This talk got us both aroused and
we fucked again.
From then onward, Raj started to tell me his fantasies when we were in bed. He
used to tell me that he was imagining we were together in bed with another
couple. I used to get excited when he told me what he was imagining, during our
lovemaking. During those times I used to get wetter than usual, and I reached
orgasms very quickly, and my orgasms were quite intense.
Then one day, he proposed that we find a couple to swap with, to live out our
fantasies. I was aghast! Actually, after we had our first "MFM threesome"
Raj confessed to me that he had always wanted to see me with another man, but
he had tried to "soften" the impact by suggesting a swap with another
couple.
I asked him, "You mean you actually want me to go to bed with another man?"
He said, "Yes." I thought he had gone mad. I was totally against it, and we
had a few fights over it. But he kept on suggesting, and years later I finally
agreed to "try it for his sake."
It seemed OK as a fantasy, to turn us on, but now I was getting cold feet when
he started to bring home "Swingers" contact magazines, to search for
suitable people. I then suggested to him that I was very scared of "being
found out," if things should leak out. I suggested we wait, and "try it"
on a vacation in Europe where we would have absolute confidentiality.
I did not want to risk our friends and acquaintances "finding out" about us
if someone "talked." He too thought that it was best to do it on vacations,
with strangers, people we may never meet again and people who would not know
our friends. We could, amongst them, try to find a couple with whom we could
become long-term friends and lovers.
So this was the background before we went on our first "naughty" vacation
to Europe. The main thing on our mind was to "Swing" when we selected
Amsterdam for the first half our vacation. Those were "pre-Internet days"
for us, and we did not know a soul there. We had read a book, which gave
details about the clubs there.
You have just read Part A of India and Raj's story. The entire story, Story
#3-050,
Parts A-H, and many more true threesome stories are available free at
http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories.
If you wish to share your personal experiences in threeway sexual fun, or seek
advice on the subject, write to Joan at: JJJ3313260@AOL.COM.