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Subject: Re: Sex with a condom - wrong impression of impotence?
Date: Thu, 21 Aug 2003 12:13:39 -0400
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Hi
i can't feel a damn thing with a condom either. as i get older i've noticed
my penis is less sensitive probably due to the damn circumcision at birth.
the glans (head) has very little feeling.
when you want to cum why not just pull out, take the condom off and have her
finish you orally or with her hand.
other than that get the thinnest condom available and lubricate your penis
with ky gel or astroglide before putting the condom on.
there's also condoms made with extra room at the end that gives more
friction. i forget the brand name though.
"Diet Rich" <dietrichirteid@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:17dfb18.0308210121.14c98ba8@posting.google.com...
> Sorry for my imperfect English but I hope you'll understand me and
> reply.
>
> Recently I've started having sex with a girl. She uses contraceptive
> tablets and I use a condom because we want to minimize the risk of
> pregnancy.
> I have normal erection in seconds beside her, no problems putting the
> condom on.
> I feel great when "petting" (sp?) with her, ie making love without
> penetration,
> I feel big pleasure from oral sex and have no ejaculation
> problems then.
>
> However, I can't feel almost a thing when inside her. When I first
> entered into her, it was mild warm sensation but nothing really
> pleasant, nothing even close
> to oral sex or even when she's using her hands to turn me on.
> I was extremely disappointed because I couldn't ejaculate during that
> first time. She is very sexy, I love her, I'm getting dizzy even
> kissing her, but sex with a condom is something unexplainable - I can
> move inside her for 15 minutes
> or so and I simply get tired. From some 15 times we have had sex so
> far,
> I ejaculated only 5 or so times and that was after 10 minutes of
> monotonic "work" :(
>
> Could you tell your stories of your first condom sex? What is the main
> problem in my case, what do you think? I have 3 ideas only, could you
> comment whether
> they're possible:
> 1) no one gets real pleasure in condom sex (I can't compare myself,
> because
> I haven't had condom-less sex ever)
> 2) her vagina is not tight enough
> 3) I have spoilt my ability to ejaculate normally by masturbation
> earlier
>
> I'd be very grateful for any ideas because people offline usually
> don't want to speak frankly on such topics and I need to do something
> because the girl is wonderful, we are best friends and only that
> ejaculation problem is really frightening...
>
> Thank you, please be frank, the internet is anonymous after all...