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Date: Sat, 19 Jul 2008 03:35:29 +0000
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Stan's Story
I'm 51 years old now and have been lurking at this site for bout year
reading with interest all the stories and suggestions. Well I can no
longer stand to just read and would like to share my experiences.
I wrote one of the stories that appeared in this forum several months
ago and submitted several to the newsgroups over 5 yrs ago. They are
about my very incestuous upbringing and I thought by writing and
recounting, I would get thses images out of my system or at least
somewhat subdued. Well it doesn't work that way.
My incestuous experiences began with my mother and then passed on to
my 4 yr older sister. They were wonderful experiences and indelibly
imprinted on my very sexual mind. However, I have talked with others
whose experiences were forced and rough they remember only the
humiliation and pain involved. It is a very fine line to draw.
Those parents here who want to have this experience with their
children...be extremely careful and gentle or you will wound them for
life and remove all sense of pleasure from the sexual act no matter
who they are with or marry. The same goes for brothers and sisters,
but I would guess not to nearly the same degree as parents.
Brothers and sister are almost expected to experiment and there are
many who do, especially in an open household where sex is discussed
openly and seeing each other nude, bathing each other, helping each
other dress, is a commonplace. This atmosphere must be created with
trust and respect. An older brother cannot just expect a younger
sister to feel the same about him as his hormones dictate. If an
older sibling insists upon sexual relations with a young one, it is
simply rape...no different.
Parents relationship is even more important because they set the
standard for openness in the family. To all of a sudden see your
daughter at age 12 blooming little tits and sparse pubic hair, and
then decide to "have" her is a huge mistake. The nurturing has to
begin when the family is very young. Same for the mother watching her
young son develope those spontaneous erections, seeing the cum stains
on his underwear and bed sheets. She cannot just present herself as a
sexual object and expect him to submit.
Wihout the early preparation and opennes, you will just remain
parents, ordinary and not sexual. If you force youself upon your
children, it will be humiliating and devastating to their furure
sexual responses. I would venture to say that if your child is over
the age of 10, then forget about sexual intimacy, especially with
relations to a daughter. Just my opinion.
I came from a family of an older sister by 4 yrs and a younger sister
by 2 yrs. I cannot remember a time we actually ran about the house in
the morning fully dressed, except my father. More about him later. I
was raised with breasts, legs, pussies, menstruation, spontaneous (and
not so spontaneous) erections, giggles, playing, discovery. My best
memories are the bathtub where my older sister would make sure my
younger sister and I were thoroughly bathed. Before that, my mother
was the matriarch of the tub and again, all of us were washed, every
nook and cranny. As we got older, the tub seemed to get smaller and
we installed a large shower in the newly remodeled basement.
The touches, washings, and discoveries soon led to playfulness and
outright sexual pleasure as we grew older. The shower room soon
became our favorite meeting place in the evenings and mornings when we
would run into each other. Each of us was curious as to how the
others were changing. Which developed into watching each other become
aroused. Watching the intense look as we climaxed. My sisters were
fascinated by how my cum came squirting out and how incontrolled I
was. They knew that all they had to do was strip and sit and ask me
questions and I would sport a raging erection in minutes.
However, I was perplexed by their hidden treasures, not knowing
exactly how aroused they were and what to do to excite them. My
mother was helpful for all of us and from time to time...about four
times a year...would strip us all and review our anatomies and the
places of arousal. It was required attendance and done when my dad
was away.
Mom also went at length to warn us about the opinions of the outside
world. She was not at all judgemental, just explained how many people
and families view themselves as private and would be uncomfortable
exposing their bodies let alone allow touching and caressing. She
made her point one time when I had a friend over. I was about 12 and
we were in the shower getting ready for bed and my mother came in
stark naked. I wasn't surprised, but my friend almost fell on his
face trying to quickly pull his pants on. He was very embarrassed,
red faced, and told me later he never saw a naked woman before
(remember this was the early 60s). My mother called his and explained
the unfortunate situation so as not to alert any suspicions. Then she
called us together and my mom and I described the whole scene to my
sisters.
Another time, I was told to walk in my older sister's room when she
had two friends with her. I just wore my briefs and they tittered and
laughed at me and told my sister she should get some privacy. Again,
mom used that situation to point out other people's preferences.
Well this is long and I need to get back to work. I have tons of
stories and of course, advise. I'll just wait and see what kind of
responses I get to this epistle. Be kind and understanding.
Remember, we're dealing with people's sexual futures and how they need
to be responsive and sensitive.
END
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