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Subject: Re: {ASSD} Group sex and planning
From: "Elf M. Sternberg" <elf@speakeasy.net>
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Date: Fri, 02 May 2008 11:37:17 -0700
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Jordan Shelbourne <jordanshelbourne@gmail.com> writes:
> I haven't tried a threesome or moresome, but it seems to me that
> there's a lot of planning, or at least a seamless way to say, "Sure,
> I'll fuck the ass if you'll just move a bit."
Planning is not the problem. *Intent* is what must be settled
for any threesome to be effective. A working threesome is always
two-on-one, not "every one for him/herself!" Someone there is the
focus of the event, and the other two are there to fulfill something
he/she wants. If it's as simple as "as much cock / pussy as I can
handle," that's straightforward and really doesn't require that much
planning. If it's "I want one of each," more or less the same deal.
Be sober, have your emotional baggage figured out before you
dive in, and have an intent for the evening, and it'll all work out
fine. (Obviously, if you're doing something kinky and need a spare
hand to work the ropes and pullies, some prior planning is probably
warrented.)
Elf
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