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Subject: Cuckolding 101
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The word cuckold means "the husband of an unfaithful wife". Broader
implications in "our" world mean something different and so much more.
Unfaithful? Yes. But that seems to imply cheating behind his back.
While this does occur, I can not condone it. I believe that what makes
cuckolding special is the very fact that the husband does know, does
approve (or not) and often is either willing or ordered to assist his
wife in her dating other men. While she is not faithful to him in the
biblical sense, she is in that he is fully aware of it, and either
approves or tolerates it, or he would obviously divorce her and go on
his way.
Within the cuckold world you have those that range in activity from
the dalliance with no husband participation, to those where the
husband helps to arrange the frequent dates, helps her prepare for her
date and assists in every aspect before, during and after. I would
fall somewhere in between. First off no one can avoid the unpleasant
but very important topic of STDs. Everyone must go to great lengths to
protect themselves and their partners. I have found the best way is to
take one very carefully screened lover at a time. A guy who is
intelligent enough to be able to recognize the pros of being in a
relationship where his only responsibility is to make love to another
mans wife. No child support, no spouse support, no nagging wife, no
screaming kids, no pressure to get married. He comes, he cums, he
goes. For many men this is the ultimate arrangement for them and the
wise ones take great care to maintain it.
It's no great secret that the male species likes to have sex. The man
that provides this, commonly known as the "bull" as in a reproducing
stud, has a simple job. To have sex with the wife. the cuckolded
husband, commonly known as a "wimp" has an enormous job before him. He
may be responsible for setting dates, helping his wife bathe, dress
and prepare for her date. he may be required to serve food or drinks
to the couple. He may be required to watch them having sex, he may be
required to participate. For many cuckold couple the defining moment
may be after the bull has ejaculated inside the wife. The common tern
for this is a 'cream pie". It is a signal of power for the bull, he
has just come inside another mans wife. It is a great sign of
humiliation for the husband, another man just had sex with his wife
and the evidence is leaking out of her. It is a pleasurable moment for
the wife, she has just been royally fucked, and in front of her
husband. Quite often at this point the husband is either ordered, or
expected to eat his wife's creampie. For her, the oral stimulations of
her post coital activities can be very pleasing and may allow her to
achieve additional orgasms. For the husband the truth of the moment,
the overwhelming blatant reality of having to lick and suck another
mans come out of his freshly fucked wife can be both repulsive and
humiliating and extremely erotic at the same time. Many submissive
husbands view this as the ultimate in proving submission and devotion
to his wife. It also is perhaps the single most horrific thing a
straight heterosexual man can be ordered to do. A very odd love/hate
dynamic can develop within the husbands mind. He is degraded and
disgusted with what he does for his wife, and strangely aroused by it
and eagerly awaits the next time he is ordered or allowed to repeat
the performance.
One aspect of cuckolding that seems to have been blown out of
proportion on the internet is the issue of penis size. According to
the common opinions, all bulls have a huge 12 inch penis, and all
wimps have a thin 4 inch penis. I can say this is very far from true.
First off to settle the debate over average penis size, let me say
this, it is 5 inches. A very recent study was performed by a team of
scientists (they could have just asked me) using a laser "ruler" for
measurements determined that 5 inches was the average. End of story.
Some would want to go into the "mean" versus the average, and take
into account millions of other pieces of information, genetics, body
mass index, level of arousal, age etc, but in my mind they jury is in.
In truth, none of this matters as the average cuckolding wife wants
something considerably larger than the average. At the same time, not
all wimps have 4 inches, nor do all bulls have 10. In some cases the
wimp might actually have a penis of equal or even greater proportion
than that of the bull. The basic instinct of a person determines more
what role they would prefer to play or are destined to be in than
penis size alone. Having erectile dis-function, being a premature
ejaculator, having bad technique, or just being of an overwhelming
submissive nature could compel a man to be in the wimp role. The
opposite, a very dominant guy with great confidence and stamina could
fulfill the role of bull with just an average size penis. The mental
and emotional aspects of this outweigh the physical attributes but
most people tend to focus on the physical alone as being the reason.
Darlene MacComb
http://www.punishedcuckoldhusbands.com