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Archive name: mast.txt (MF, mast)
Authors name: Dr. Andy (contact: see bottom of this file)
Story title : Male Masturbation Techniques for Teenagers 
              to Octogenarians

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Male Masturbation Techniques
for Teenagers to Octogenarians
By Dr. Andy (c) 2003

***

Written especially for the "Kristen Archives: Sexual 
Learning Center."

This is a 2003-update to the 1998 article written for 
the Sex-Addict's Journal - Cactus State.

***

OVERVIEW:
---------

Any male reading the above title would initially think, 
"What a stupid subject, it doesn't take a manual to 
know how to masturbate." They would be correct in that 
assumption of course. But it does take time and life 
experience to receive the full joys of self-
manipulation.

As an example, the average boy when first discovering 
this new-found past time, will masturbate many times 
each day. Just the feeling of orgasmic release is 
enough to satisfy his needs. This state goes on for 
many years. But as the boy grows into a man and begins 
to have sexual relations with women, the tendency is to 
search for technique and quality of experience rather 
than just to achieve orgasm.

The following article will outline some of the more 
popular ways to masturbate that will enhance the 
experience and increase the pleasure derived from 
masturbation. Review these techniques carefully; they 
can be used in combination.

But first...

WHAT IS AN ORGASM?
------------------

A male orgasm involves involuntary spasms of the 
prostate gland, vas deferens and seminal vesicles, 
which will cause the ejaculation of semen. Throughout 
the whole body there will be an increase in muscle 
tension and relaxation at the moment of orgasm, 
especially around the pelvis area.

Having an orgasm can feel a bit like being a balloon: 
your body fills up with pressure and then releases that 
pressure (through the groin area) when it achieves an 
orgasmic response, much like a balloon does when it 
expels air.

There are many different orgasmic responses, from a 
feeling of bodily hiccupping, to a trickling feeling, 
all the way up the scale to a body rush centered in the 
groin area and the a racing out to the extremities.

In most cases a male orgasm is a rushing feeling that 
involves the cardiovascular system and gives a huge 
feeling of release that causes euphoria. The average 
orgasmic spasms last no more than 5 - 8 seconds and 
produce approximately 1/10 of a dram of milky white 
sperm.

As a point of interest the average amount of pre-
orgasmic seminal fluids excreted during masturbation 
can be as much as final ejaculation.

After ejaculation, (Called the resolution stage) a 
relaxation of the muscles as well as a psychological 
relaxation and sense of well-being will follow. All the 
blood that has been pooling in the genitals and other 
sensitive body parts will drain out slowly, causing men 
to lose their erections and return to their normal 
state.


PREPARATION TIPS: 
-----------------

It is suggested as a preparation for increased 
satisfaction during masturbation, for the practitioner 
to follow these simple tips:

TIP 1: Obtain external stimuli. The most popular forms 
of external stimuli are pornography in either written 
or visual-audio formats. Watching or reading about 
other people's sexual situations during masturbation 
greatly heightens sexual tension, thus creating an 
orgasm ten-fold more intense than non-stimulated 
masturbation.

A young man may feel that external stimuli is 
unnecessary, but if used properly it will greatly 
increase the satisfaction of even the young 
practitioner's orgasmic responce.

TIP 2: Take your time. To receive the full enjoyment 
from your experience find a time and place where you 
can masturbate without fear of interruption. Also have 
the materials easily at hand for clean up afterward. 
This may sound obvious to everyone, but I mention it, 
only because you need to remove any outside concerns. 

An orgasm is as much a mental experience as it is a 
physical one, and to fully enjoy your coming orgasm, it 
is best to turn your thoughts inward, with as little 
external distraction as possible. (As an example, if 
you have to worry about obtaining clean up materials at 
the moment of orgasm, your pleasure will suffer because 
of the lack of preparation.)

TIP 3: Lay completely unclothed on your bed. Begin to 
read or watch your choice of pornography, if available. 
To heighten the experience, do not touch yourself until 
you feel the first drops of "pre-cum" drip onto your 
skin. At that time you are fully prepared (both 
mentally and physically) to begin manual manipulation 
and experience a very satisfying orgasm.

NOTE: Obviously there are many different ways to enjoy 
the masturbatory experience, and the afore-mentioned 
tips are just a few, but my suggestion is to try these 
out. In my experience with patients, these tips have 
been the most effective steps to achieve the best 
results.


VOTED THE THREE TOP MASTURBATION TECHNIQUES:
-----------------------------------------------

TECHNIQUE ONE: (Slip N' Slide) Once the male's pre-cum 
has begun to flow, (Without manual manipulation if 
possible) the male should slowly spread his seminal 
fluids all over the head of his erect penis with thumb 
and fingers. Relax and enjoy the sensations this 
causes.

Then taking the erect penis loosely between fingers and 
thumb as if writing a letter. Let the penis head gently 
nestle in the valley between thumb and forefinger. Then 
slowly begin to move your hand up and down, allowing 
your erect penis to slide in and out of the valley 
formed by thumb and fingers.

The combination of the slickness of the distributed 
pre-seminal fluids and the external stimuli of reading 
or watching pornography will give the practitioner an 
experience that closely simulates making love to a 
woman's vagina.

It is important not to hurry. Concentrate on the 
external visual stimuli and not on the physical act at 
hand. If the male performs the Slip N' Slide technique 
correctly, his orgasm should 'sneak up' on him. There 
should be the thought in the back of the man's mind; 
something like, "Wow, I'm going to cum at any second, 
and I couldn't stop myself from doing so, no matter how 
hard I tried."

As his sensations begin, the practitioner should slow 
his manipulation and let the sensations build slowly. 
He should have a very slick erection by this time with 
fingers rubbing penis shaft effortlessly, like gliding 
on an oiled surface. 

As the orgasm begins to overtake his senses -- at the 
moment of ejaculation -- he should raise his legs from 
the hips, while continuing to lie flat on his back. His 
legs should be just a few inches off the bed, or 
pointing toward the ceiling. (Each male will find his 
preferred position) The added strain on the stomach 
muscles will greatly intensify his orgasmic spasms 
causing a more satisfying orgasm. 

*

TECHNIQUE TWO: (The Dual Orgasm) When a man stands 
while masturbating his cardiovascular system is at a 
heightened level. This position will change the overall 
dynamics of his experience. 

External stimuli as outlined above can still be used 
for the Dual Orgasm technique, but since the bathroom 
is usually the place of choice for the this technique, 
(The advantages are obvious, privacy, mirrors, and easy 
clean up.) it isn't as important.

The male should begin the Dual Orgasm technique by 
viewing himself in the mirror and watching his body 
react to his manipulation. Fantasizing about a female 
partner will raise the pressure and if he has followed 
the initial steps on technique one and has a good flow 
of pre-seminal fluids, holding the erect penis in a 
similar fashion, his sensations will be equally as 
pleasurable.

As the male reaches his orgasmic state, he will begin 
to feel tightness in his legs, most markedly in the 
thighs. Just as his orgasm is almost upon him, he 
should stop manual manipulation altogether, but 
continue to hold his erect penis in the valley formed 
by thumb and fingers. (The right moment for this pause 
is just as he feels the spasms being forced from the 
prostate gland.) 

If the he has done everything correctly, he should, at 
the final moment before ejaculation, see crystal clear 
seminal fluid spurt out several times. The feeling at 
this moment should be extremely pleasurable. This is 
called 'Pre-orgasmic' and feels as good as a full blown 
orgasm. 

After several spurts of clear semen fluids the full 
orgasm should begin. At this stage he will begin to 
spurt milky-white sperm, bringing on another even more 
powerful set of orgasmic spasms. The Dual Orgasm 
technique, if performed correctly will give him for all 
intents and purposes a double orgasm, lasting almost 
twice as long with much more intense spasms than normal 
manipulation would allow.

*

TECHNIQUE THREE: (Chinese Position) Called "Chinese" 
only because in the 19th century when this position 
first became popular in the opium dens of China, 
English sailors would say, "Giving a little life to 
China," when they orgasmed this way. This all may sound 
rather obscure, but let me explain.

The Chinese Position is basically where the man lays on 
his stomach while masturbating. This position takes a 
little imagination on the man's part, because he must 
find the props to allow him to lay face down and still 
reach his erect penis to masturbate.

In the nineteenth century English sailors who visited 
the opium dens of China had a choice, they could have a 
private pallet to enjoy a pipe of opium, or they could 
pay a little more and have "the Chinese Position" which 
was the option of having a Chinese woman under their 
specially constructed pallet, who would masturbate them 
as they lay there in an opium induced stupor, or even 
receive oral stimulation for an extra charge.

The best way to situate ones self in this position is 
to use a couple of chairs, or if twin beds are 
available (such as in a motel room) to move them close 
enough together to allow the male to lay over the 
'crack'. The hand should act as a vagina, held steady 
while performing humping motions.

The advantage to this position is that the male can 
'hump' and more closely imitate the actual sex act with 
a woman. His cardiovascular system will respond 
differently when laying face down and as in real sex he 
will experience a more satisfying release. Also, (after 
placing a towel on the floor) the male can reach orgasm 
and release, without having to worry about aim or clean 
up.

This position gives the male a sense of freedom and 
release very similar to that of the orgasmic release 
that a woman's vagina would offer.

*

DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS:
--------------------------------------

There are many different manners in which to 
masturbate. A few such examples are; 'phone 
masturbating' while talking on the phone to a friend. 
Or what is generally known as 'exhibitionist 
masturbating', which is not really exhibitionism which 
would be illegal, but where a man masturbates while 
looking over a fence or out a window at people or 
activities while his upper body is fully clothed and 
his lower body isn't. In this manner he looks 'normal' 
but all the while he's masturbating and fantasizing.

Both of the above manners of masturbation add 
substantial excitement to the act, which will increase 
the ultimate orgasmic sensations.

Mutual masturbation with either an opposite or same sex 
partner is another variation that has its obvious 
advantages and will increase the pleasure of the 
experience.

Public masturbation will add a quick charge, but 
discretion is a must or problems will insue. The best 
way to perform this act is with friends who know what 
to expect.

Video masturbation - Filming oneself can add spice to 
the process of self manipulation and might even be a 
catalyst for a future orgasm when watched by the 
performer or if presented to a friend for use.

In the late 80's there was distribution in alternative 
theaters of a film showing a pretty young co-ed 
masturbating to orgasm. That film was for its time one 
of the most erotic films ever. I believe that it sold 
over a million copies and that young lady probably 
never had a problem getting dates.

The point of describing the above situations is simply 
to point out that there are many variations to 
masturbation that one can try. Imagination is unending 
if applied to the process with vigor and will guarantee 
increased pleasure even for celibates.

***

If you have questions, please contact the author 
through webber78@hotmail.com

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Please keep this, and all erotic subject matter out of
the hands of children. They should be outside playing
in the sunshine, not thinking about adult situations.

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