I have had as much as of this paranoia about STDs as I can handle. People need to get the press, out of your minds and think on their own. In the last 5 days, I have heard STDs and HIV about 5000 times. Are people press controlled robots? They need to get their risks
and priorities straight. I find it odd I am continually warned about STDs but not a single person has asked me how I get to these shoots I have sex at. I drive my car to the airport, take a commercial airliner to the most violent city in the world, then rent a car and drive to the set of my sex scene. On the scale of risk to my health, just getting to the scene is 10000000000 times riskier then doing then scene, but, people get so focused on the SEX, they forget that. They have bypassed the most dangerous thing I do, by thousands of times over, to focus on the area the risk is so trivial, its barely worth mentioning. I have always found that odd.

You need to keep paranoia and STDs in a more reasonable area of risk. I was telling a new girl in porn, last year, that the most risky thing about doing porn, was being on the LA highways. She could not get the STDs out of her mind and was not sure she wanted to do porn. Ultimately, she decided to go for it. On the way to the set, a drunk plowed through a red light and t-boned the suburban we were driving and practically cut it in half. Laci was in the back seat and spent most of the next month, in the hospital. So, to this date, I know ZERO people who have acquired any STD whatsoever, and two killed and one severely injured in car accidents. Yet, the focus is on the STDs, still. Its very sad.

Please do keep in mind, that an STD is merely a communicable disease and being an STD does not make it worse then any other disease you can get. A few years ago, I was banging this chick that I really liked. We were sharing a dildo and masturbating one another with it. Later, as it turns out, she had chlamydia and the flu. I ended up with both. Now, the clamydia is so minor, I barely knew I had it. It took ONE pill to completely get rid of it. Now, the flu, kept me down for nearly two weeks. I was sick as a dog, puking, fever, could not eat, could not sleep, ect. Of course, the flu being deadly under the right circumstances and powerful enough to keep me down for two weeks, was forgotten about and people only focused on the part that took one pill to get rid of and never showed any signs that I had it. To this day, no one asks me if I ever got the flu during sex. No one asks because the press has not made the flu sound sexually transmitted, though, it definitely is. I have not beeen warned in this forum one time, that I should be wary, its flu season. Think about it. You have all asked if I use condoms, but none have asked if I have had my flu shot or wear my seatbelt.

A girl from 20/20 Primetime asked me once, why I took such risks and did condomless porno. While asking this question, she forget that she has flown in from NYC and driven 45 miles across LA to ask me that question. When I turned the question on her, and pointed out who had really taken the risk that day, and asked her why she felt it so necessary to take such risks in her job, simply to ask me that question, when she simply could have called me and asked. She was so stunned by the logic of it, she could barely stammer out her reply, "because its my job." No one would ever ask why an electrician takes the risks he does or why a cop takes the risk he does. Both jobs are INFINITELY more risky then doing porn, and they get paid a FRACTION of what I get paid. A job is a job and some are more risky then others. In the end, its all a cost analysis: Risk VS. reward. I take very little risk in the grand scheme of things, and the reward is fantastic. Being that the risk is sexual, people
simply have tendency to pay more attention to it, then they should.

I was hanging out at a swing club a few months ago. A new couple, I had met online showed up to see me and take a tour. After touring the place and watching people have sex, they sat around for an hour talking about whether swinging was a good idea. Now, they had already navigated their 3000 pound gasoline bomb, across rush hour traffic, to be there. And During their hour long chat, they both smoked cigarettes and had a drink or two. Ultimately, they came up to me and said they had kids and swinging was simply too risky a venture for them. They proceeded to finish their drinks, light another cigarette and hop back into their 3000 pound gasoline bomb (that claims 75,000 American's a year) and drive back home. All the while, calling SWINGING the event that was too risky for them. Further forgetting, that 10 years of active fighting in Vietnam only claimed half the fatalities that cars cause EVERY YEAR.

Have you ever noticed that condom adds always say, "may stop some forms of STDs." Stop and think one day, before you roll on a condom and think your safe from anything, about this: A virus is 1000 times smaller than the pores in latex. If you blew them up a trillion
times, a virus going through a pore in a condom would be very much akin to throwing a golf ball through a square that is 20'x20'. The golf ball never even knew it was slipping through a space so large and neither does a virus. A condom is likely to stop some of the
bacterial born diseases, but they offer ZERO defense to viruses. My rule of thumb is this: If I think the person is risky enough that I believe I should have him wear a condom, he is risky enough to be avoided, COMPLETELY.

In conclusion, am I saying sex and STDs are not risky? Of course not. They are real and they do happen. Am I saying people do not die from AIDS? Of course not, we all know thousands do. I am simply saying that we need to make sure we keep our attention on the things that are harmful to us, in the appropriate order. Assess all risk, appropriately, for everything you do. Always remember that you take far greater risk driving your car to the market to get a loaf of bread then you take swinging. Keeping that comment in mind, I have
yet to hear anyone say, "I am not going to get bread, its too risky and I have kids to worry about."

I rarely, if ever, hear people ask cops/firefighters why they take the risks they take. No one asks, because it is their job. A job they do well and with pride. My job is no different. It has risks, far LESS then a cops, and it has rewards, far MORE then a cops. Make sure you keep the press and government out of your mind while making these decisions. Weigh all risks simply and by the true threat they pose you. Do not focus on any risky action, 100 actions
down the list of risk, forgoing the first 99, blindly. Think about things objectively and do not simply parrot something your friend's mom's, brother's friend heard on church TV 3 months ago.

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