| Rate | |
| Kneeling The act of kneeling to denote submission. |
5 |
| Serving - Housework Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, performing household chores. |
5 |
| Serving - Maid Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid. For example, serving tea while wearing a uniform. |
5 |
| Shaving - Genital Removing all traces of hair from the genitals. |
5 |
| Collars - Private Wearing a "slave" collar in private. |
5 |
| Food - Chosen For Having your food choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal. |
5 |
| Food - From Bowl Eating food directly from a bowl, like an animal such as a cat or dog. |
5 |
| Food - From Hand Eating food directly from another person's hand. |
5 |
| Lecturing An exposition of a given subject for the purpose of instruction or reprimand. |
5 |
| Roleplay - Education Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on a scholastic teacher/student setting. |
5 |
| Serving (General) Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own. For example, a maid or a sexual servant. |
5 |
| Shaving - Body Removing all traces of hair below the neck. |
5 |
| Collars - Public Wearing a "slave" collar in public. |
5 |
| Nipple Play Acts that focus on the nipples. |
5 |
| Orgasm - On Command Having to orgasm on the command of another person. |
5 |
| Blindfolds Acts in which blindfolds are placed over one partner's eyes to remove that sense (and often heighten others). |
5 |
| Clothing - Chosen For Having your clothing choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal. |
5 |
| Clothing - Lingerie Wearing women's lingerie. |
5 |
| Examination - Physical Having your body physically examined and, often, appraised. Sometimes this includes medical examination roleplays though, here, that is listed as Roleplay - Medical. |
5 |
| Hand Jobs Pleasuring someone else's genitals with your hand. |
5 |
| Masturbation - Forced Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, nominally against your will. |
5 |
| Blow Jobs Pleasuring someone else's genitals with your mouth |
5 |
| Exhibitionism - Forced Exposing your body to others, nominally against your will, at the will of another. |
5 |
| Leashes Wearing a leash, attached to a collar (or other convenient point). |
4 |
| Massage Rubbing another person's body for their relaxation. |
4 |
| Nudity - Forced Periods of time spent without clothing, nominally against you will. |
4 |
| Serving - Dancer Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a dancer. For example, a belly dancer or stripper. |
4 |
| Shaving - Genital, Styling Shaving or trimming pubic hair, removing some but not all of it in a given style. |
4 |
| Crawling The act of crawling on all fours to denote submission. |
4 |
| Orgasm Control Giving control of when and how orgasms are experienced - and when they are not - to another person. |
4 |
| Humiliation - Private Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in a private setting. |
4 |
| Orgasm Denial Losing the right to have orgasms for an [often protracted] period of time. |
4 |
| Roleplay (General) Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles. |
4 |
| Roleplay - Medical Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles such as Doctor/Patient. |
4 |
| Roleplay - Puppy Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a puppy or adult dog. |
4 |
| Sensation Play - Ice Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using ice or other cold items on the body. |
4 |
| Bondage (General) Binding or restricting some or all of the body. |
4 |
| Clothing - Harnesses Wearing clothing that harnesses the body without necessarily covering it. |
4 |
| Clothing - Masks Wearing masks that cover the face. |
4 |
| Clothing - Uniforms (General) Wearing uniforms that have a given significance. |
4 |
| Clothing - Uniforms, School Wearing schoolgirl/schoolboy uniforms. |
4 |
| Discipline Submitting to, or receiving, the [often corporal] discipline of another. |
4 |
| Gags (General) Devices used to limit, or prevent, verbal communication. |
4 |
| Humiliation - Public Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in front of others. |
4 |
| Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Private Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. |
4 |
| Sensation Play - Teasing Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by teasing the body. |
4 |
| Given Away (General) Being given, at a partner's whim, to another person, usually temporarily. |
4 |
| Worship - Foot Worshiping the feet of another person. |
4 |
| Clothing - High Heels Wearing high-heeled shoes. |
4 |
| Licking Using your tongue on another person's body [or, often, anything they require]. |
4 |
| Face Slapping Slapping the face, usually with an open hand, to cause pain or denote position. |
3 |
| Humiliation - Verbal Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, through either the words of someone else (such as name calling) or your own words. |
3 |
| Sensation Play - Hair Pulling Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hair pulled. |
3 |
| Serving - Furniture Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as an immobile piece of furniture. For example, on all fours as a table or a footstool. |
3 |
| Clothing - Uniforms, Military Wearing military uniforms. |
3 |
| Nipple Clamps Placing clamps on the nipples to cause pain. |
3 |
| Roleplay - Interrogation Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on interrogations where one person is the interrogator and the other the subject. |
3 |
| Food - From Body Eating food from another person's body. Either eating it directly from them or using them as a platter. |
3 |
| Including Others Acts in which other people, from outside your immediate relationship, are included. |
3 |
| Pain - Light Acts involving some physical pain, yet without too great an intensity - being more symbolic than serious. |
3 |
| Recorded Scenes - Video, Private Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. |
3 |
| Sensation Play - Hot Wax Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hot candle wax dripped on to or applied to the body. |
3 |
| Worship - Genital Worshiping the genitals of another person. |
3 |
| Clothing - Full Head Hoods Wearing hoods that cover the entire head, leaving only small holes for vision, breathing, etc. (if even them). |
3 |
| Sex Toys - Public (Under Clothes) Going out in public with a sex toy (such as a butt plug) in your body, under your clothing. |
3 |
| Sex Toys - Vibrators Using and/or being penetrated with a vibrating toy, usually an artificial phallus. |
3 |
| Drinking - Semen Drinking semen. |
3 |
| Body Modification - Piercing, Permanent Putting an object through a part of the body for permanent adornment. |
3 |
| Sensation Play - Tickling Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling the body. |
2 |
| Beating - Hand Acts in which one partner is beaten with hands. |
2 |
| Beating Location - Legs Beating based acts that focus on the legs as a target. |
2 |
| Pain (General) Acts involving physical pain. |
2 |
| Roleplay - Kidnapping Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on one partner being kidnapped. |
2 |
| Beating - Floggers Acts in which one partner is beaten with a flogger. |
2 |
| Beating - Hairbrushes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hairbrush. |
2 |
| Beating Location - Chest Beating based acts that focus on the chest or breasts as a target. |
2 |
| Beating Location - Feet Beating based acts that focus on the feet (usually the soles) as a target. |
2 |
| Sex Toys - Beads Having a string of connected beads (or balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina and then pulled out. |
2 |
| Sex Toys - Dildos Using and/or being penetrated with a non-vibrating artificial phallus. |
2 |
| Sex Toys - Eggs Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls, Love Eggs, etc. Two balls made to be vaginally inserted which vibrate when you move or are battery powered to vibrate. |
2 |
| Rape - Fantasy Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by another person. |
2 |
| Rape - Fantasy, Gang Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by more than one other person. |
2 |
| Phone Sex Having sexually explicit phone conversations, usually involving performing sexual acts at the same time. |
1 |
| Roleplay - Pig Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pig. |
1 |
| Roleplay - Pony Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pony. |
1 |
| Roleplay - Prison Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the prison world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable Inmate |
1 |
| Roleplay - Religious Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the religious world such as confessionals or Bishop/Nun. |
1 |
| Roleplay - Whore Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a male or female prostitute, selling themselves to another person for sex. |
1 |
| Enemas Applying liquid (traditionally warm water) in to the lower intestine, via a tube. Often to induce uncontrolled, or hard to control, excretion. |
1 |
| Sex - Group Sexual intercourse with more than one partner. |
1 |
| Showers - Golden Urinating by another person. |
1 |
| Beating Location - Genitals Beating based acts that focus on the genitals as a target. |
1 |
| Sex Toys - Butt Plugs Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus. |
1 |
| Sex - Rimming Sexually stimulating the anus with a mouth/tongue. |
1 |
| Beating (General) Acts in which one partner is beaten. |
0 |
| Beating - Canes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a cane. |
0 |
| Beating - Crops Acts in which one partner is beaten with a crop. |
0 |
| Sex - Anal Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your anus. |
0 |
| Anal Play Acts in which the anus is involved. Includes insertion of objects |
0 |
| Cutting Deliberately cutting the skin. |
0 |
| Fisting - Anal Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the anus. |
0 |
| Electricity Using electricity for sensation or pain. |
0 |
| Fisting - Vaginal Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the vagina. |
0 |
| Drinking - Urine Drinking urine. |
0 |
| Sex - Vaginal Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your vagina. |
0 |
| Vaginal Play Acts in which the vagina is involved. Includes insertion of objects |
0 |
| Pain - Heavy Acts involving a very large degree of physical pain. |
0 |
| Shaving - Head Removing all traces of hair from the head. |
0 |
| Body Modification - Branding Burning the body, often with a specific design, to leave a permanent mark or scar. |
0 |
| Body Modification - Tattooing Adorning the body by permanently applying ink under the skin. |
0 |
| Dilation - Vaginal Deliberately stretching the vagina open. |
0 |